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Hi. Hi. And praise the Lord. Amen. Welcome back to Marriage Talks with Emonzia. It's a long story. If I start telling you where we've been, well, it will take a whole episode. And we don't want to do that right now. But what we'll tell you, we've been around, maybe through some seasons. But we are okay. We are doing okay. And God has been faithful. Amen. So we are in our kitchen. We are broadcasting from our kitchen. Oh, yes. The chef is doing his thing. What are you doing today? A bit of marination and some fish. Yeah, he's marinating fish for us. Because we are strictly on a diet. And so this is how we do our food. So maybe soon he can bring out the food and show you, you know, how he makes it. He can bring out those recipes, what you think about. A few lessons, yes. Yeah, we also cook. We love cooking, especially him. I love eating his food. So, today, we are going to be discussing about what it will be just him talking about. He has his word ready. There's the word of God here. And it is what God has, you know, stored on him today. And he wants to unleash that on the dear viewers. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, guys. Asante. Thanks. Thanks. Thanks. She looks lovely, huh? Young every single day. Anyway, guys, one thing I've come to realize and it's very important is marriage is so simple. Marriage is so nice. Yes. The reason why there is so much divorce rate. Yes, it's because the divorce rate is so high. It's because people don't have the formula on how to go about it. You see in Ephesians chapter 25, the Bible is so clear that husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church. This is Unconditional kind of love. Yes. Okay. In most cases you see Kumbuka sees him a husband. We are the head. Yes. Okay So things have to flow from the husband So sometimes our expectations we expect our wives to really be the ones to Nini, but yeah, like lead to lead there, but it should be us. Yes. Yeah. Yeah, and sometimes you expect a lot of perfectionist Perfection from the wife. Yeah And yet that is not the case. Yeah, but you as the man once you do you a bit of the love Trust me the rest will flow Yeah, the rest will flow because and then we you another Understanding we men need to and together very clearly There's no way It's the you get the understanding that your wife is yourself you are one body Yeah, so anytime you think of How can you separate yourself you you separate from yourself how It does it can't work that way No, so guys you need to understand that You need to have a clear understanding that your wife is yourself And that's why in ephesians 25 it says you cannot hate yourself Meaning you're incomplete without each other. You're incomplete without each other. Yeah So there's the you need to get that. That is why You see the the manual of instruction Was given to man in genesis And that is why when when god came to the garden of eden when the Woman was the one who adequate the genesis of the whole problem, but god never asked the woman God asked the man. What have you done? Because the manual of instruction Is with the man And that is why we as men when we get the manual we are supposed to love Our wife It is unconditional. Yeah, it is unconditional so guys um The moment you get the understanding that I feel it's like a formula. It's a formula once you get the formula Yes, once you get that formula and that formula is based on god's word. Yeah, once you get it at a Will not come anywhere No So how can you just like i've said you cannot divorce you you cannot separate yourself From part of your bodies. It can't happen. Yeah and In conclusion kumbuka one thing at the end of it when you read Ephesians chapter 25 at the end of it you realize As you love your wife that way Learn to have a reference For your husbands You need to google the word reverence for your husband it means deep respect It's not just respect it's deep respect it's deep it's deep it's bowing down Deep respect. Yeah, it's deep respect. It means it's honor. I get it Just give him that respect that respect that respect yes Yeah It is there in Ephesians. It's it's actually the last verse it is in verse 25 I mean chapters chapter 5 verse Chapter 5 verse 33. So read the entire yeah Ephesians chapter 5. Yeah You will get everything from there There is the manual there is the manual you have the formula guys Never give up on your marriage. Yes. You the solution is right here. Yeah, the solution is right here On god's word from the creator himself from the creator himself of marriage. Yes initiator of marriage. Exactly Because you see it happening around you it doesn't mean that it has to happen Even before you think of divorcing your wife guys, listen, yeah, you cannot separate part of your bodies from yourself True She is yourself He is yourself Exactly. He is you she is you she is you he is you you are one you are one So unless you don't get that understanding. Yeah that concept that concept. I mean, yeah So don't allow divorce to come in Just go to the word of god Do you love your wife? So much that you can sacrifice anything for her that you can lay down her life your life for her That is a kind of love the bible is talking about in ephesians chapter 5 That kind of love But I can die for her I can sacrifice anything for her Because that is kind of love that you will understand that you are one body. You are one. Yeah A very deep Guys, man, we are to give up on our marriages. No way. We're not going to give the devil any room And and what if for those guys who are saying yes, I get it it's written in the word That I should love my wife unconditionally What about saying I I don't know how to love How do I get it how will I do it just look at it this way You were wicked we were wicked and in that wickedness Still yet imagine christ In that wickedness So that will give you a glimpse of how you're supposed to love your wife lovely and I have another answer yeah Which connects with yours? Yeah If you don't know how to love Seek it from the creator. Exactly because god is love. He will show you how to love He is love. Yeah god is love because because because for us for example My husband I mean, he didn't come with a manual even an idea of how to love a wife. Exactly Another thing is, uh, you know, you're going to marriage like us and we have no idea But who teaches you? How to even love how to respect how it is god when you ask the lord Teach me how Show me how So it really connects with what you're saying if you connect with the love of god It will if you connect with the love that you had for us. It will be automatic You know, like you you you take that love of god. I know we can't we can't reach that level. Yes But can you just try and tap into that love that he died for us? It's the same love that he's telling you guys to love your wives And when that is there and then the respect now comes when that is there That aspect of divorce Will never ever arise. True, by the way, you said never forever till death Yeah, and maybe even the coming of christ And you'll notice once you realize this formula Uh, it will be so easy. Yeah, it will be so easy. I don't notice quarrels in the house So as long as you're saying as long as I you keep loving me Yes, and I keep respecting you that is it it will work out it will work out It will work out. Yeah, there'll be understanding. Yeah. Yeah So guys, never never give up on your marriage Never never that was great. Yeah, I love that. Thank you, baby a lot. You're such a teacher Uh-huh, he turned 50 Wow, yes on tuesday When was that was last tuesday and I did not only turn 50. You did what we are also grandparents Oh, yes. Yes while you are away when you are we became Grandparents while you are away. Yes. Yeah things happen things happen and now we are grandma and grandpa to one baby girl Baby, yes God is awesome. Yeah, I can't explain that feeling Yeah, but god is awesome So imagine I knew her when she was 17 years old and he was 22. I was 22 And here we are i've turned 50 years And she's 45 and we're grandparents now. Oh Glory to jesus It can only be the hand of god Not any man So guys remember don't give up on your marriage Go read ephesians chapter 5 the entire Read it from verse 25 read it with your spouse. Yes, read it with your spouse ask god for revelation Get an understanding on how to love your wife as christ loved. Yes The church just tell god Give give give me a revelation of that so that I may love my wife the way you love the church Me love to my wife We cannot allow the devil to mess this generation And divorce is out not anymore guys Even if it happened to your dad, even if it happened to your uncles and yes people that you've seen It it is not necessarily You know, it's not necessary for it to happen to you. It is never and will never be your portion You can change that story exactly you can change that narrative. Yeah. Yeah, and it starts today Yes, it's time. We raise a godly generation today Be role models for your children work out our our salvation as we work out our marriages. Thank you because they must stand so guys with that Few remarks Teachings Yeah word teaching words teaching encouragement conversations From us. Yeah, it's bye. Bye Till the next time yeah, just meet here. Maybe we can cook. Yeah next time I think we'll cook I think next time we're going to as we have another yeah I'm a man i'll give you teachings for cooking Okay guys, it's it's bye bye from us. Thank you. God bless you. May god keep you. Okay. Bye