Silence Speaks Volumes | POWERFUL Motivational Speech Compilation

everybody wants to judge themselves to the lens of a moment they want to be cool right now today and they're asking themselves what's the least I need to do to feel cool what's the least I need to do to be successful once I stopped asking that question and I started thinking about really who I could become and really harnessing the human ability to adapt what people need to understand humans have become the apex predator not by being the strongest not even by being the most intelligent but rather by being the most adaptive to change and when you realize all of us are born with nothing no skills no knowledge nothing we're a lump of flesh that can hardly hold our own headed we can't take care of ourselves we [ __ ] in our own pants and our job our job isn't to be great today our job is to build ourselves brick by brick and that is what separates the truly great from everyone else they're willing to put in that work they're willing to reframe the question from what's the least I can do to what's the most I can bear and when you're looking at yourself on that long timeline and you're saying what can I accomplish over the next 10 years what Mount of suffering and back-breaking work that I'm willing to put in and endure in order to become something extraordinary that's the key is you actually have to perform it's not about convincing someone else to your pub or looking good on paper it's about actually delivering the result it's about actually becoming capable of the extraordinary but you have to understand the way the mechanisms the very anatomy of the human works and it works by building things up brick by brick it works by starting out terrible at something incapable of something and being willing to put in the work to grind it out to me calm down and when people can move beyond the words they can move beyond that [ __ ] trying stuff that people say and they can transcend that and see what it means actually what in worked actually [Music] everybody just wants to see this [ __ ] come back to them they want the [ __ ] heavy way to the ring they want the jewels they want the riches they want the house the cars ah [ __ ] all of that want the performance want to be great want to look at yourself and believe in come and even more importantly if there's no one around to look if there's no one around to impress do I still push and if at that point I'm still willing to push it and out in that circumstance I still want to be something and I still want to the potential out of myself and I want to actualize that potential I want to actuate it I want to actually do something with it even when nobody's watching then I'll be proud of myself then I know I'll accomplish something because that's real that's beyond the [ __ ] and that's where people have to get if you really want to do something stop worrying about the echo and start worrying about the shout believe in who you can become tomorrow and let every day until the day you drop be about ringing that potential out of yourself be about building something and becoming something brick-by-brick putting in that day to day work of building something of becoming capable of something today that you weren't capable of yesterday of asking yourself how far you can go of becoming obsessed with that process and no longer thinking about the end and when you understand the difference between no longer focusing on being a champion and instead of delivering a championship performance everything will change because it's the people who build themselves into someone who can give a championship performance that win [Music] certainly the most destructive vice if you like that person can have more than pride is self-pity I think self-pity is the worst possible emotion anyone can have and the most destructive it destroys everything around it except itself self-pity will destroy relationships it'll destroy anything that's good it will fulfill all the prophecies it makes and leave only itself it's so simple to imagine the one is hard done by and that things are unfair and that one is underappreciated that if only one had had a chance at this only one that had a chance of that things would have gone better you would be happier if only this that what is unlucky all those things and some of them may well even be true but to pity oneself as a result of them is to do oneself on the enormous deserves stop feeling sorry for yourself you don't have to scratch very far beneath the surface and post before you find something truly tragic the only way that change is going to take place is if you see the evidence of the collapse right in front of you I think the challenge is is that people have to wake up and the question is how uncomfortable do you have to become and as I've said in the past you know you don't try to fix this we just figure out a way to create something better you don't have to you'll necessarily 65 75 85 and none of us know when that moments going to come and I believe we don't necessarily have time all we have to make an impact is this moment right now tomorrow is not some guarantee that we have is not a right that we have it's a privilege [Music] three patterning it's a process of rewiring it's a process of reconditioning it's a process of self-reflection and awareness and changing those beliefs when you begin to realize then well I can't respond to the same conditions in my life with the same emotions in the same thoughts because if I believe that the way I feel in the way I think creates reality if I'm reacting to the same thoughts and feelings equal to the conditions in my life in the same way then I keep reaffirming the same life the attachment and the identification of this conditioned sense of self that we have learned to be based on our past based on our experiences based on our childhood we identify with these thought forms and we identify with these belief systems and then we hold tightly on to the sense of identification as a sense of me is who you are sometimes when you find your purpose the war challenge is just beginning you're alone you're alone you may have a shrink you're going to you may have the best thing you're going to but there's 24 hours in the day were you alone in this brain and your brain is talking to you in all kind of ways and it wants to control you for years zipper pockets you gotta tell your brain where you want to go and how you want to go and how you get you gotta control life begins to throw these challenges and tests life's way of rewarding you is life believing in it knows okay you're on this path so you must be ready and so to me the challenges and the hardships and the ups and the downs and the divorce and the breakups and the difficulties are just life's way of preparing your soul [Music] [Music] we're gonna DAP to overcome now [Music] [Applause] [Applause] the power to do whatever it is you say you're going to do to live with personal integrity that is a superpower [Music] most people they major in minor things they focus on stuff that does math you look at your body where you're starting without that everything else is out the door you don't want to be richest man the graveyard that's not gonna do it if there is energy if there's my cavity of their strength it's gonna show up in your relationship it's gonna show up in your business show up in your life that's it if you got a mastery can dabble it's too important emotions are everything I mean you got a ton of money got everybody loves you and your primary emotions are pissed off and frustrated with your wife's pissed off and frustrated isn't have you got a billion dollars or a million people loving you your life is my great relationships intimate relationships especially it's where the most juice in life comes from before the most pain comes to most people man it's worth mastery it's then that way you know really looking at what are you gonna do with your time and master your time instead of having a checklist you cross it all off you can mistake movement for achievement I want to leave at that time what matters that creates value to me and for everyone I care about love we have the world's information on our fingertips we don't have the excuse of not knowing what to do anymore who doesn't know basically how to lose weight who doesn't know that if you want to have better relationships with people you have to be fully present with them who doesn't know that if you want to do better at your job you have to do the work especially the hard stuff that other people don't want to do we know these so there's no excuse anymore to say well I just didn't know how those people focus on being significant we've never faced before people fake their lives the new filters make it what differ materially his tell stories that [Music] we're lacking the ability to avoid distraction getting ahead in life is not just about doing the water it's about avoiding not doing that the root cause of why we come these internal change these uncomfortable [Music] while in the psychological realm every it's gonna measure themself differently because everyone values things differently some people value success or significance some people value love warm some value just basic levels of certainty we all have a need for certainty that we can avoid pain and we can have some pleasure some comfort we all need uncertainty we need variety or we feel dead inside you're totally certain you're bored you have total variety and we freak out and it's not a balance which lead war as a person everyone who walked a different set of values that are we need for significance feel unique special for we need to grow [Music] [Music] what would happen if I turn my whole life around what would happen if all of a sudden I want to learn some things that could change it all most people's lives they fail primarily because they don't open up the possibility so they never take the actions that the change your life and because I ask how can I turn my life around now what can I do to make things work I started getting new answers you know they say asking you shall receive [Music] most important thing in businesses honesty integrity hardwork [Music] never forgetting where we came through our words yards [Music] you need somebody small minds discuss other people good Minds discuss events great minds discuss ideas there is no passion to be found playing small and settling for a life that's less than the one you're capable of living 40 years ago March 27 1975 it was 40 years ago I was flunking out of college at a 1.7 grade point average I was sitting in my mother's beauty parlor and I'm looking in the mirror and I see behind me this woman under the dryer she said somebody give me a pen give me a pen so I have a prophecy March 27 1975 she said boy you were gonna travel the world and speak to millions of people but that's not the most important thing the success that I had the most important thing is that what she taught me and what she told me that day has stayed with me since I've been protected I've been directed I've been corrected I've kept God in my life and has kept me humble I didn't always stick with him but he always stuck with me you had these dreams dreams without goals remain dreams dreams without gold nearly gold like those daily monthly close out the gold minute-by-minute gold dreams without goals are just dream and they ultimately fuel disappointment they never understood that counsel having something to fall back on if I'm going to fall I don't want to fall back on anything I want to fall forward figure at least this way I'll see what I'm going to hit goals on the road to achievement cannot be achieve without discipline and consistency you will fail at some point in your life accept it you will lose you will embarrass yourself you will suck at something every day you have to plan plan to fail we fail to plan hard work works and in this text tweet torque whirl that you've grown up in remember just because you're doing a lot more doesn't mean you're getting a lot more done don't confuse movement with progress so never give up without more importantly without consistency you'll never finish I ain't got to like mr. Wran don't give me my money come payday cause he like me he give it to me because he owe me say thank you in advance for what's already yours true desire in the heart for anything good is God's truth to you sit before hand to indicate that it's yours already now don't you go through life worrying about whether somebody like you or not you best be making sure they're doing right by you because taking risk is not just about going for a job it's also about knowing what you know and what you don't know it's about being open to people and to ideas and anything you want you can have so claim it work hard to get it when you get it reach back pull someone else up because the chances you take the people you meet the people you love the faith that you have that's what's going to define you every person minute is another chance to turn it all around [Music] we gave meanings to the experiences of our life or other people gave meanings to the experiences that we were having what you believe will dictate your thoughts on a moment-by-moment basis and then that emotion then dictates what actions you do or do not take and they're always aligned right your beliefs to take your thoughts dictate your emotions to take your actions which produce your results and your results when you look at them then just reinforce the original belief that which we tend to pay attention to is aligned with what we believe in so that's all we get so if you want you know more happiness if you want more wealth if you want deeper relationships if you want to have more joy you want to have more fun you want to achieve your full potential and really make an impact in the world then what's really important is to get clear on what that could look like for you and to make sure that what you believe is congruent with that outcome because if what you believe is not congruent with that outcome just neurophysiological you're working against yourself clarity is intimately connected to imagination so is we're getting clear on something we're beginning to see what that thing is that we're getting more clarity on if you're willing to invest time in getting clearer around something or imagining you build neural networks that represent the memory of an experience that has not happened that step away from that fear and begin to see that there's wonder and beauty and opportunity all around it begins activates are you brainless full of imagination creativity and beauty we are mean machines we not only give me to mean less things we make meaningful things meaningless but the moment your mind is under the law of generosity growth development unfolding giving compassion kindness radiance the moment that that happens you come under the right use of the law the moment you realize you're here to give us something then all thoughts but not enough this and lack limitation fear not worry and separation begin to dissolve in your premise everything life is I am and as God I am a gun at all your destiny begins to unfold because you're not here to get from the world you're gonna get you're here to live and walk in that awareness even before it manifest even before you can see [Music] life is for you you gotta find a story that's gonna empower you to act [Music] complexity is the enemy of execution more complex you make it the less likely you can execute [Music] if you're creative enough can you find the answer yes or no if you're determined enough can you find the breakthrough yes or now if you're passionate loving enough can you get someone to help you yes or no if there's no way that you're committed can you find the money even if you don't have it yes or no so I said creativity [Music] honesty sincerity love these are the older human resources these resources that [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] start small show yourself that you can give yourself one command in one fall of life [Music] hey man lately I've been in a funk I feel like everything is slipping I feel like I'm not where I should be like I'm not who I'm meant to be I'm seeing all these other people getting ahead and I'm here feeling like I'm running without ever really moving forwards I'm on this continuous conveyor belt stuck in no-man's land stuck in limbo and I'm tired this isn't where I was meant to be or who I was supposed to be and the deepest feeling that I have is why why am I still here but in all of that frustration and in the friction of that pain a deep dark part of me speaks and says is that the best you've got have you genuinely given it your all did you truly go all chips in and to be honest to be really honest with you a quiet shameful voice is whispering no no I haven't our society celebrates conquerors and shames surrender but what if I told you surrender can actually be a powerful empowering thing what if by surrendering we actually find acceptance and in that acceptance we become the conquerors that we're seeking now I'm not talking about giving up let me be clear I'm talking about the kind of surrender that is about surrendering to the process surrendering to the work the art the art of being studious Vedic philosophy talks about this that when a man sets aside his pride and he abandons his ego only then can he truly begin with earnestness the journey of self-development as spiritual growth in other words when you reach your lowest point we become opened to the greatest change I'm not surprised that I am where I am and you shouldn't be surprised you're getting the results you're getting because what works for you then it's not gonna work for you now and amongst the darkness and demons of doubt what you and I what we need to realize is that we are social machines built but also programmed to repeat patterns and in the early days these new patterns that we find or dots they bring us the excitement of new results when you do something new it gives you a new fix a new result but over time these things decay and it's your job to keep continually defining yourself to abandon and then enlighten our old selves the shedding of one shell into the next and the next and the next for lifetimes the only constant in all of this is that things are impermanent so don't hold on to what is life is like a river and the waters that are still that you're trying to hold on to are the same waters that crash and swirl around you so change change and if you want to win if you want to succeed if you want to go beyond this the choice isn't to exit it's to engage you need to sit down and have an honest conversation with yourself about the kind of life you want to the kind of human being that you want to be the sacrifice and investment that you are going to have to make in order to get there and above all else above all else what are the things that you are going to personally get fulfillment from to stay away from social media for a time if you need to focus on the gold focus on the mission focus on the vision don't chase things because you think it might mean that people rate you I want you to rate I want you to do it for you and nobody else because that's what real success is that's a real like not the kind that you get from your feed but the kind that you get from the beating of your own heart your own drum and remember it's okay not to know or to have it all figured out you don't need a grand map of your reality and your future your path it's made by walking it so take it one step at a time take it one moment at a time have micro goals sometimes in life you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel but you just gotta keep moving forward and I promise you you will come to a better place self mastery power begins from within if you're aware of who you are if you're aware of what you're good at what you're not good at if you're able to see how emotions kind of govern your life if you can learn what your weaknesses are and how to control them you can't ever get complete control but awareness is almost enough slowly through this process of knowing who you are and understanding other people and how they operate so you don't make stupid mistakes in life you can increase that little tiny margin more and more and more and you will be a person of power we're try so hard in our lives to fit in we try to fit into certain groups certain frats certain sororities you know amongst certain friends yet the people we idolize are most to stand out but when you're prepared there is no fear there is no fear of failure because even if you've walked out of something and you feel like you've failed at it your preparation is so strong that you're gonna take that failure and turn it into the outcome you desire and most people stop at failure we've all failed at things I'm gonna continue to fail at stuff it's the most powerful tool you can use but it all depends on how you use it a scalpel in the hands of an individual it can do unbelievable damage in the hands of a professional of a doctor it saves lives so it's the same thing with failure it's how you use it it's that drive inside of you it's what we talked about the dark side the dark side is filled with failure but it's the fuel that burns you like something that's never burned inside you before and on some days you gotta just listen to your soul and you gotta say I'm a leap I'm gonna get to the edge most people are at the edge and you're sitting at the edge and you're watching everyone else fly that's pit my ride watch my crib all this stuff you know watching people's lives on Facebook you're at the edge watching someone else live wondering what it's gonna be like when you jump without ever jumping and I'm just here to tell you jump because only three things can happen you're either gonna jump and fly are you gonna jump and fall on something soft or are you gonna fall down hard either way you're gonna get back up you already know you got what it takes to get back up your greatest fears not that you will fall your greatest fears that you will live a full life and never fly that you never leaked you're not afraid of dying you're afraid of dying before the world sees who you really are before they really get your fingerprint before they really get your contribution if they really fill you that's what you don't want to happen you don't want to leave this place without us knowing you were here there's a process the process begins by first knowing what you really love and believe me a lot of people have no self-awareness they don't even really know what it is that they were meant to in life they loved music when they were a kid but then they got into law or whatever because of their parents and then they don't know who they are anymore what do I really like music you got to go through that process first of figuring out what it is that really connects to you in a deep visceral way what you loved when you were a kid what still excites you once you go through that and you understand it and you've got some clarity about it okay how do I incorporate that in my life all those things that happen to you in your life all those bad things all those things that you blame other people for there now yours to own you get a figure out a way to reprogram your mind to get outside the box a lot of people will listen to this and they'll be motivated they'll be fired up they'll be so fired up tonight in funny motivations is killing it starts to fire but that kingly much fun range out hits that little Kaitlin is burnt out it has to be something that's deep down inside so motivations like this if you're married and your wife is okay and your bills are paid and the kids are good the dollars good if everything is good you can find some motivation because while your life is happy is that [ __ ] that wakes up in the sewer every [ __ ] has nothing the [ __ ] we go home to has nothing bills are paid done Odin [ __ ] next meals coming dental [ __ ] it still says [ __ ] I am gonna do what I have to do to get to where the [ __ ] I have to go that's the district motivation and drive and it soon obsession obsession makes a person makes other people like so when you Ross about that's obsessed most people will have any [ __ ] idea with the Collier so they call you crazy they call you crazy because they don't understand where you're trying to go right what the [ __ ] you're trying to do what you're trying to be so to the normal person which were all I'm warmin Rob very normal once they turn that mindset to a point where they no longer want to be so called normal that's you start to find out that motivation is none of them it's not enough you have to be that person who no matter what's going on if you're a big-time runner you don't care what temperature is like Oh a bunch of people are roaming yes they do every morning every night and look to see what the [ __ ] temperatures gonna be tomorrow right what's the temperature gonna be so I am I gonna run inside run run outside a person that's obsessed and wants to just get there they don't give a [ __ ] with temperatures in all our care they known about what's out there rather snowy it is if it's a damn chocolate the storm biggest - 20 below they're gonna run they don't care I saw no need to waste the time to look I'm just gonna go and that's how you want to get your mind I don't it doesn't matter what the [ __ ] out there what's in front of me because a motivated person is gonna look cuz that weather isn't a [ __ ] change their motivation up or down oh it's 70 is sunny I'm motivated I was 30 in the blizzard [ __ ] that I'm gonna go inside an obsessed person doesn't care did get the [ __ ] job done and I was in hell I wasn't able I wasn't able to be in hell and become hell makes you anxious hell makes you want to get out of it it's that person who has the ability to be in hell and think very calmly very rationally about what the hell is going on what's the truth what's the reality why is my dad this way why are these kids calling me [ __ ] why why why you have to be a piece people apart take it down dissect it and see what's going on so back then I had no skills I had no skills all I saw was a whole bunch of kids like me but I no longer saw that all I saw was the spray-painting on my car me being called [ __ ] so I saw my lens was this big it was very small very small [ __ ] lens we're now my lens is very is huge I see everybody for who they are and what they are so that's that's the one thing that changed in me was my reality we always paint a [ __ ] up reality as light and true it's reality what we think is true because our lives aren't what we wanted to be I realized that God wasn't gonna give me a get-out-of-jail-free card and from the time I was born into the time I was 19 years old my wife had these hurdles I constantly hit obstacles obstacle after obstacle after obstacle and IRA had to figure out how to manage suffering how to happen how to deal with it because he'd be part of my life forever please ask my thought so in order to do with it I had to be able to conquer it and overcome it and deal with it and know that in this suffering that has to be some kind of growth with every obstacle I look at it as friction now without friction there is no growth you have to have friction your life to grow so I started looking at all these different things versus the what was me mentality like oh my God look at my life my life so [ __ ] up I come from this fucked-up family I'm being beaten them I'm being abused mentally physically I started looking at as a as the perfect trial ground try to flip it upside down it's okay I'm suffering tremendously mentally use this to your advantage versus your disadvantage so that's what I did Russia's looking at it as like oh my god what was me I'd never get out of here I look down okay hang on a second hang on a second if I can overcome this if I can find some power in this some way to get through this that right there will be the fuel for and so I found great strength and suffering great strength in it because why through all of that it started to callus my mind over the victims mentality you have to recognize what you've gone through and that right there gave me pride I realized that very few people can turn upside down what I did I was able to turn upside down every negative thing in my life everything and use it for power because on the other end of suffering is greatness and now over here it's a whole bunch of us we put ourselves in this great box and in that box there's no suffering in it so what we do is reach is we should is we short to ourselves from greatness so for me for instance I was 300 damn pounds at one time Spray for cockroaches made $1,000 a month I was living in that box I was sometimes we go over the box that's all hell suffering storms avalanches tornadoes I don't go over there but I knew if I could do that [ __ ] mentally on the other side wasn't hurt 85 pound person was a Navy SEAL with you Ranger school only person to do this only person do that only person do this but that's do all that [ __ ] all that [ __ ] has to go through so you peek over the box and you go back in us all I'm okay being 300 pounds but in thousand dollars mud I don't care over here because that hurdle is suffering suffering and when you're willing to go past suffering and see that suffering is one of the best ways you can crawl that you can overcome because you can suffer for the long term you can suffer slowly or you can go through okay and then experience what Sonia to soccer now the other side when you start to really start your journey people think they start to join a desert my people have raised over 300 years your real journey starts with you outside that box and you start climbing mountains it's outside mountains you think you're topping them out you go down there inside of it think I'm here you look at the [ __ ] there's another [ __ ] mountain and it goes on [Music] yes we get ready quit you crushed that final round and it starts to make sense to you them does it make sense to you and she got outside that [ __ ] box I'll talk to so many [ __ ] people and what I say is not for everybody so many people don't have any clue on what the [ __ ] I'm saying because they're in this box and it's their brain the mind is a very powerful thing is has a tactical advantage over you and those your fears you know she has securities it knows we know where to go so it will guide you away from that and that's why the mind always went until you before him they'll always be you you [ __ ] before you [Music]