ISOLATION WILL STRENGTHEN YOUR MIND - Best Motivational Speech Video

a big part of finding out what's right for you is stop confining yourself to a path that you've been convinced is the path you are purpose as a person that's what I've been saying that when I said that it kind of changed my life so I say I am purpose your if you're looking for a miracle you're that miracle there are invisible forces that shape our life shape our destiny we believe loosen ation that the physical reality is all there is every time something's extraordinary every time it's extraordinary I don't know where we are you know when we are we know why we are you know we always learn about the blocks of success two steps to success the principles of success you know the actions of success the words of successful I know more about failure and this is much to learn from failures there is no success all the things you can control and then the things you can't control if you try to start controlling things that you can't you're gonna you're just going to get frustrated and angry and anxious right but the only things you can control are your thoughts and your actions and that is it that is it so you have this choice you try and control all this other stuff or you could just decide that it's fine but everything else is fine and our feelings of the most real thing we have and we push them down we found all this stuff to buy or eat or drink or take to keep us like John Lennon said comfortably numb' but then the feelings regroup and come back because they've always got a job to do look you've got to feel the feeling until it no longer requires to be felt very much so go to school and get married and have kids and that's a success and really stepping outside of that and exploring whether that's in school and taking classes that you might not take at first glance whether it's going and experiencing different types of arts meeting different types of people making new friends I think there's so much out there that you don't even know exists you know if I ever feel like in any moment life is not going the way that I think it should be going it's because I'm resisting what is I always say like if fear was a door and behind this door was all this negativity things that I'm saying like I'm gonna lose I'm gonna suck I'm never gonna walk through that door so in order for me to walk through the door even though the door is super scary I have to make empowering things on this side of the door right I'm gonna learn I'm gonna grow being if I don't win it's gonna be some valuable in it so let me walk through this door right even though it might not be perfect I'm still gonna find growth inside of it unless you claim extraordinary ordinary claims you if you wake up tomorrow morning and blame the government the environment the weather you know Joe Blow if you blame anything or anyone else you have no reason to change but if you blame yourself you're not gonna like it so what happens that morning in the Mary do you look at the mirror and do you blame something else what do you blame yourself every single moment is an opportunity for us to check ourselves before we wreck or selves and so I just try and play the game if I'm miserable if I'm upset if I'm angry if I'm cranky it is my responsibility because it's based on what I'm thinking or believing in that moment people out there that are going through fear for moments it's kind of like this you will never step into the ring if you're already telling yourself that you're gonna lose before the fight you would never do that like why would you write so tell yourself you're gonna need to get knocked down guess what you're never knocked out in life until you actually tap out to your last day got to convince them that your fears shouldn't hold them back that you know using the excuse of scarcity or consequence or ego or any of these things holds us back from our future so for me the first step is just opening yourself up to new experiences and new role models because most of us can't see ourselves in people so then we try and fit ourselves into the boxes that we do see fear is creating a known result from a situation you have experienced as we are wired to like what is familiar and to resist what's unfamiliar so we have this wiring that says run towards what's familiar and run away from what's unfamiliar and the most importantly to make familiar is praising yourself that's if you could just do that that in itself would change your entire life so we live in this perception of a perception of ourselves hence my identity is made by what my parents think I should be my identity is made up by what my college or university thinks I should achieve while you're living in that bubble and that echo chamber getting to what you really want to do is impossible 150,000 people die every day tomorrow is not promised so if I'm not going after it then I'm gonna die incomplete I'm gonna die being a person that I wasn't created to be like I want to meet the greatest meet I want to meet my full potential the relationship between my essential nature the nature of Who I am in my authentic nature and the energy and environment environment alloys trying to break you down and if you're comfortable and you become an agent of what your parents told you the culture told you and everything else and your stories are protected and even if you get successful you're gonna drop it out or you can lose it out because you want to make sure nothing really changes one idea of that there is a version of you that's out there somewhere that you want to clear everyone out of the way so you can just you know focus on that and then there's the other completely conflicting impulse which is well maybe the best version of myself running out there somewhere which I'm never gonna reach is actually yeah maybe the self is something that extends and instead of active and fluid and extends out into the relationship I'm scared of failure where I'm scared to do it in the first place so I'm scared and scared I'm worried and fearful but if we stop and think about it somebody else has been in the same position as you have left thousands of people and they got past the fear every word you say is a blueprint that your mind body inside here working to make your reality so we make our thoughts and our thoughts make ours let me go out into the world and we justify our thoughts every day greatest power is to be self controlled to be able to train the mind and energy to focus it exactly where you want it and when you want it to be you are completely detached and undeterred from external ups and downs you're able to navigate anything that seems tough challenging fun excitement without being too excited in pleasure or being too depressed in pain gang leverage right in your life like what's something that's gonna make you move that's all you have to do is move take that first step that's the most important step in the journey and listen you're gonna fall in your place you're gonna be embarrassed but everybody who's experienced greatness has been through that I define pain as any uncomfortable experience or circumstance that interrupts your building to be present in the magic of the moment when it comes to gifts think about it like this like when someone gives you a physical gift like Christmas in your birthday what do you do you're unwrapping you show it to the world you put on Instagram you've got that same gift inside you that the world needs and you're doing the world a disservice by leaving your gift wrapped up fear but I understand what the emotion of fear is it's a subconscious trigger that causes this feeling that I don't like and it's a ghost signal for me not a stop signal for me but when you say I'm enough its strength is its simplicity and it's honesty because you are enough you're not your weight your shape your size your bank account your childhood and the thing is when you say it and really say it speak it and let it in people pick up you're enough today I'm not what I think I am I'm not what you think I am I am what I think you think I am [Music] [Music] [Music] you