WHEN LIFE BECOMES UNBEARABLE! - Powerful Motivational Speech Video (you have to keep going) HD

[Music] people that are hungry are willing to do the things the day others won't do in order to have the things tomorrow others won't have you have to discover what your values are it's part of the reason why i think that you need to tell the truth because you're forced to negotiate with yourself to operate properly in the world and if you've warped yourself let's say or some elements of yourself by engaging in self-deception and lies and and you're not now because of that you're not who you could be and you don't live in the world as you should live in it then when you discuss with yourself what your value should be it will be as if you're discussing it with someone that you can't trust you learn more in the middle of a crisis or when your life has that moment of a down trot there is more wisdom and knowledge instincts intuitions discernment and instincts that are developed in the middle of a crisis the truth is that you are going to suffer but the way to deal with suffering is accepting that suffering and then recognizing that it is suffering accepting it and then letting it sort of have it saved and then moving on [Music] all of the power that you have and all the strength that you have and all the ideas that you have are in are born in your uniqueness what makes you unique is what makes you special you spend your whole life trying to conform trying to be whatever somebody else thinks you should be or fit into a mold or fit into a system and you dull down your specialness then you're dulling down all of your ability to change the world so i think that it's very very important that people have an opportunity to be the best of themselves that they can be actually we should play like champions and train like underdogs why because the underdog works in a way not worrying about what anybody else thinks or believes that gives you an edge it gives you a phenomenal advantage when you're actually worried about what will people say when you're not concerned by am i going to fail am i going to look worse see when we become successful even as underdogs if we've risen to success the biggest enemy of that success is not reconnecting to that feeling of an underdog so no matter how much success you've achieved always remind yourself the mindset of an underdog is the mindset that nurtures talent that nurtures success that harnesses your true potential if you value yourself for being a master if your confidence comes from i know this stuff then you're going to be in trouble because i think that the reality is that being a master feeling like you're an expert that stuff is a trap and you need to keep your beliefs nimble so the more you learn the more you need to be checking yourself to make sure that that stuff isn't calcifying into dogma meaning that it becomes like i do it this way and that's the way i do it that's the way i've always done it that's what my success is based on so i'm going to keep doing it that becomes incredibly dangerous especially now in a world that changes and evolves so quickly what worked yesterday may not keep working tomorrow so you've got to constantly be willing to check your assumptions the things that you're feeling clenching up feeling like you're not good enough feeling like you're not ready doubting yourself kind of spending too much time thinking about how much time you've wasted you cannot overcome those thoughts because they keep rising up and they've become a habit it's sort of a pattern you are going to feel like an imposter until you push through that clenched up moment over and over and over again and then suddenly through action lately you're going to see that you're not an imposter at all you're actually the kind of person that pushes through and does what he or she says they are going to do when you get tired when you get fatigued when you get down when you're in a slump it's your habits rituals routines and your standards that carry you through if you don't have good habits you don't have good rituals you don't have good routines always in your life you will fall down in bad times and slumps and fatigue and stress you've got to know every no brings you a step closer to yes anybody can stop because someone said no but there's something in you in your heart of hearts is saying no i'm not a quitter there's something in you that says i've got the will to do it there's something in you that says i'm going to find a way [Music] you can't straighten yourself out merely as a consequence of hope let's say you lay out a vision for the future and you think about what your life would be what you'd like your life to be like and then that makes you hopeful and it motivates you because it gives you something worthwhile and higher order to work right and that's useful that's positive emotion working for you because positive emotion is experienced in relationship to goals but it's not not as useful as also being chased by something you're terrified by and if you have a good sense of how you fall apart if you stayed weak and just exactly what kind of hell that would be then when you determined to do something like to tell the truth and to say what you think and to not do things that you hate then you're going to be pulled along by the purpose that your vision has provided for you but also pushed along by your desire to avoid the worst forms of hell that you've already outlined for yourself and we want to be them we want to be someone else and in doing that you lose all the potential of who you are you mimic you be them you are them you become them and you lose you and we look up to so many people in this world who will let us down we're humans i'm gonna let you down you're gonna let somebody down and you put on a pedestal you didn't lose time when that person comes up and lets you down you must hold yourself accountable and being your hero that's what that does you make yourself so totally accountable for who you are you focus on you and only on it to become the best person you can be for others because we leave a lot on the table not searching who we are and then therefore you die not knowing your greatest potential you