I WILL NOT BE A LOSER ANYMORE - Motivational Speech

everybody wants to win but in order to know how to win you got to know how to lose because you're going to lose more than you're going to win but every time you lose what do you gain from the number one thing that's going to change your life the only thing that will change your life change your business change your money change your relationship because you must raise your standard now i know that sounds boring stupid basic but it's the truth it means that all of us in life have things we want we don't get what we want we get what we have to have people aren't waiting to be cut some people are moving on their own because they feel within themselves i've got what it takes to make it they're not afraid about tomorrow because of how they see themselves somebody's throwing a rock at you with the intention of hurting you you can put your defenses up you will deflect that rock never to be seen again or you can lower your defenses let it hit you in the face knowing that it will hurt but also knowing now at your feet is not a rock it's a lump of gold because they've given you an insight into where you are weak now once you know where you are weak you can begin to build yourself and that is my thesis on life you get to build yourself in any direction you want in any way to become anything you want there will be an extraordinary price to pay but you can go in any direction identify your gift and get busy with it god gave all of you a gift identify your gift it is the thing that you do the absolute best with the least amount of effort that's your guilt get busy at that remember i said earlier we all get what we tolerate in ourselves and other people but when you're no longer willing to tolerate something that's when your life changes the difference in people is their standards the difference in people is their standards period we are living in such an amazing time right now i mean if you are not being challenged in some way in your life you're not alive and all of this is an initiation [Music] if you see your life as the school as the initiation [Music] then you can no longer be a victim to your life you're going to have to meet the challenges in your life [Music] from a greater level of mind greater than the mind that created [Music] it's like we're built for struggle us human beings you're not after we're built to contend with the world we're built to contend with reality you want to challenge and the best way that you can take on a challenge [Music] because the challenge fortifies you so you don't want to be secure you want to be strong and you get strong by taking on optimal challenges and so you lay out your destiny in the world and you take the slings and arrows of fate and you make yourself stronger while you're doing so and you might fail and fortune might do you in but it's your best bet after the first time that you opt to brave the wilderness you pull away from what a group of people thinks maybe it's your maybe it's your creative community it's your critics the first time you pull away and find power and standing on your own i think your heart is marked by the wild i think you belong in into the wilderness in a different way because every time after that when you choose fitting in over belonging to yourself it's painful when there is adversity and when there are challenges in our life the question of course becomes how do we become supernatural and that means we're going to have to do what feels unnatural at first would your life be like as you look toward the future if you decided i'm not going to allow my fears to stop me what would your life be like what would your future be like if you decided to to want that which you desire so strongly that it prepares you past your fears [Music] everyone in the world has a list of things they think they should do i should lose weight i should work out i should spend more time with my kids i should work harder i should make more calls i should i should i should i should and then you know what people don't do their shits and they get mad at themselves what changes people is when your should becomes a must you get all these things that come to you that seem to be simply true i believed that the human mind couldn't change i believed that it was fixed i believed that my talent and intelligence were just what they were it all seemed true it wasn't like i knew it to be a lie it wasn't even like i knew that i had a choice to think of it a different way and one of my favorite quotes of all time is from albert einstein and he said the most important decision any human being has to make is whether they live in a friendly or a hostile universe suddenly the thing you said should happen has to happen that's when human beings change and the question is if you die today what dreams what ideas what talents what books what music what leadership what voice will die with you so you better love what you do on a day-to-day basis the only moment that's real is right now now follows you 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