DISAPPEAR & JUST OUT HUSTLE THEM. BECOME UNRECOGNISABLE. - Motivational Speech Compilation

for 2022 and for life think strategic know why you are doing what you are doing and then get out there every day and win those small tactical short-term battles so you can win the strategic long-term victory that puts you where you want to be and it's not going to be easy the fight the daily fight is a challenge you will not always want to do what you need to do you will not always feel like doing something you need to do you may not want to fight that battle but you need to those times when you get up early and you work hard those times when you stay up late and you work hard those times when you don't feel like working you're too tired you don't want to push yourself but you do it anyway that is actually the dream that's the dream you're strong enough and your life is worth whatever you have to go through whatever you have to do this dream you got whatever you want to do will it be easy to just run out there and do it no will it happen overnight no would it be a struggle yes will there be times when you can't make ends meet yes that's a part of it will there be times you won't know what to do yes that's a part of it see unforgettable has everything to do with serving at a level so high so big so massive that people feel like they have to change their lives because they crossed your path and you have to be willing to use every experience that's ever happened in your life not as a fortress holding you from using your voice but as the fuel on why you will use your voice you got to be willing to not stand in your story but stand on your story the only belief that you need to have that thing that is going to allow you to take that first step burn the following statement into your soul humans are the ultimate adaptation machine [Music] ask yourself this question what i am doing what i am about to do is it going to help me get where i am going is this action going to make me stronger or weaker your brain is the only thing you have when you're going through depression when you're going through hard times you're going through death real life you're alone but there's 24 hours in the day where you're alone in this brain and your brain is talking to you in all kinds of ways and it wants to control you and pull you in these different pockets if you can't control your own brain and your brain controls you [Music] see when you begin to understand and acknowledge your fear and you go forth anyhow you go forth in a spirit and a knowing that there's a way that you can begin to handle this there's a way out here somewhere there's a solution what it is that you're seeking that you have the capacity to whatever comes up to handle it to face it [Music] and rather than feeling powerless you begin to feel powerful always something you can do differently and once you understand that you can always make a different choice and get a different reaction and that's the power in your life that's the power that you have [Music] that's why people never achieve their strategic goals they lose the little tactical battles the death of a thousand cuts all adds up why because we don't think about the big picture one degree at a time one degree closer to death one degree closer to failure you have a why you can survive almost anyhow that living your dream changing your behaviors overcoming negative habits it's challenging it's hard that living alone is just very difficult and once we begin to come to grips with the fact that living is difficult life is very challenging you are the star of your show you are the director you're writing the script and you will determine whether your life is a smash office hit or flop [Music] [Music] discipline is rooted in the truth we tell ourselves and discipline delivers long-term strategic success [Music] single most important thing in your life is your dream it's your dream it's what you dream about if you see it you can achieve it you if you don't have visions you can't make it in this world you need something to sustain yourself through that it's not optional because the the price of existence is so high that without that sustaining meaning it it corrupts you it embitters you and and once you're embittered things go downhill rapidly you get vengeful and and you get angry and and you get destructive and then there's really no limit to that and i've been suggesting to people that the sustaining meaning that they can find in their life isn't to be found through happiness let's say because happiness doesn't work when you're not happy when when when things have gone badly for you for for even for accidental reasons but you can find sustaining meaning and responsibility because god sent you here and no human being came to this planet empty no matter what you've done if it didn't kill you there's more left turn your wounds into wisdom you will be wounded many times in your life you'll make mistakes some people will call them failures but i have learned that failure is really god's way of saying excuse me you're moving in the wrong direction a fixed mindset is when you believe your talent and intelligence are fixed traits a growth mindset is when you believe your talent and intelligence are malleable traits that you can actually change them you can improve them you can get better over time smarter over time more competent over time and to do that you just need to reframe the failure as a learning experience so that's one of the big ones people that can really fail without losing their enthusiasm [Music] you've got to stop asking how little you can get away with and start asking one of the most powerful questions in the universe which is how much can you bear you came here loaded and you came here to make a deposit and deposit you will make and if you don't make you are a generational thief because you stole from the next generation the next generation supposed to benefit from what you came to deliver and if you settle down on what you've done and not do what you could do then you robbed them of what you came to leave for them to enjoy and that is why you should never allow what you've done to stop you from doing what you could do take responsibility for yourself and that works and then if you do that properly you can take responsibility for your family and then if you do that properly you can take responsibility for your community and you can continue to burden yourself voluntarily let's say with with a greater and greater range of existential challenges and all that that does is make more and more and more of you and that works as an antidote to the catastrophe of life [Music] create the highest grandest vision possible for your life because you become what you believe when you wake up in the morning and your life means something to somebody other than you that you have a purpose if you don't go do the things that you're going to do people's lives will suffer and i think that that kind of purpose that like to live in service not to you but to live in service to humanity to live in service to your family to live in service to your church to your city to your country to the world living in service is that i feel like that is the purest form of joy [Music] woe is me it's not my fault it was so and so they did it to me i want you to stop that immediately remind yourself that you own your life remind yourself of cause and effect remind yourself that you are in control you could make a different decision and you could get a different outcome because you can't control the world you can't control other people you can only control yourself between that stimulus and that response is your ability to make a different choice [Music] if you can be still long enough in in all of your endeavors the good times the hard times to connect yourself to the source i call it god you can call it whatever you want to the force nature allah the power if you can connect yourself to the source and allow the energy that is your personality your life force to be connected to the greater force anything is possible for you i'm talking about being honest with yourself about what you're doing about how you've performed about whether or not you're being weak in something because if you're being weak the only problem with that is ignoring it is pretending like it's okay is not holding yourself to a standard it's going to happen from time to time but if you're not honest with yourself about where you are if you're not having that hard direct talk then you're never going to make progress [Music] you got to make a decision listen to me you got to make a decision what's the decision what's the thing you came here for now we're at the moment the clock is ticking people say all the time hey life is short let me tell you something life can be long you bury your dreams you quit this life gets long see time's relative two minutes of you being with your sweetie doing whatever you like to do with them that can go by quick right what about the last two minutes on a treadmill does that not seem like it goes by for like four hours right so if you're enjoying it it's short if it's painful it's long life can be long when you lose your job when someone you thought you'd be with for the rest of your life say no we can't do this no more that's when you have to stand that's when you have to begin to live this faith and that's not on you that's when you got to call on something how do you let that mind be in you you got to be out of your mind to believe in spite of these numbers you can still make it in spite of the pain you're feeling you can still come back again i believe it my life is not everything i wanted to be and perhaps it's not everything that i need it to be and you ask yourself you sit on the bed and say okay man i'm ready to learn something like what what's one thing i'm doing wrong that i know i'm doing wrong that i could fix that i would fix it's like you meditate on that you'll get an answer and it won't be one you want but it'll be the necessary one every single thought we have or every sentence we speak is an affirmation and it's either positive or negative and it's going out from us and it's creating our experiences however when we talk about doing affirmations what we're talking about is making definite positive statements to create something in our life or to remove something in our life i call don't die with your music still in you [Music] all of you have some music playing and all of you have a heroic mission there's no accidents in this universe we all show up here with a purpose there's an intelligence that is a part of everything and everyone and all of us are connected to it and too many of us are afraid to listen to that music and march to it [Music] there is no more effective way of operating in the world than to conceptualize the highest good that you can and then strive to attain it there's no more practical pathway to the kind of success that you could have if you actually knew what success was the world shifts itself around your aim because you're you're a creature that has a name you have to have a name in order to do something you're an aiming creature you look at a point and you move towards it it's built right into you and so you have a name well let's say your aim is the highest possible aim well then so that sets up the world around you it organizes all of your perceptions it organizes what you see and you don't see it organizes your emotions and your motivations after all you've been through in this day alone and the many days and years passed [Music] how you got here to this the choices you've made that have brought you to this day open your heart and quietly to yourself say the only prayer that's ever needed thank you [Music] you're still here and you get another chance this day to do better and be better another chance to become more of who you were created [Music] and what you were created to fulfill [Music] maybe you want to go into a relationship with someone but you've been afraid to but your heart says it's the right thing to do whoever you are whatever that music is however distant it may sound however strange however weird others may interpret it to be don't get to the end of your life and know that you're going to leave and not have it played yet don't die with your music still [Music] your time is limited so don't waste it living someone else's life don't be trapped by dogma which is living with the results of other people's thinking don't let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice [Music] don't underestimate the whole your absence would leave each of us we're remarkable creatures and we have something to offer to the world to our people we love to the world at large it's our responsibility to make that manifest and we move a little farther away from paradise every time that doesn't happen and most important have the courage to follow your heart and intuition they somehow already know what you truly want to become [Music] everything else is secondary [Music] you are ready and able to do beautiful things in this world you will only ever have two choices love or fear choose love and don't ever let fear turn you against your playful heart [Music] when you're in that place where you're acting in the proper manner and you're facing things courageously and you're speaking the truth you're imbued with a sense of fundamental meaning and that meaning is the antidote to the catastrophe of life and it's it's the antidote psychologically because you have to have that meaning because otherwise your life is too dark and too dreadful and it will corrupt you we're not nothing as human beings no they say that we're made in the image of god it means at least in part to participate in the process of bringing the good into being and we can all do that and the opposite and if we accept our responsibility to ourselves and to other people and to our communities and we lift that load up then we live lives that are meaningful failure is a part of the process you have to fail to win you have to lose your fear of failure failure is part of the process people who don't don't who never fail never try you have to fail you got to get it wrong to get it right you learn nothing from winning you only learn from your failures [Music] i tell you passion is not something you were born with everybody thinks they're going to turn inside like an archaeologist and find that thing their deepest passion the thing they always love hiding inside is as soon as you say it i hope it sounds ridiculous that you would love something that much and yet somehow be blind to it it doesn't work like that but if you really want a passion got to go through the process of gaining mastery [Music] it was about changing my identity because at the end of the day identity and values drive behavior willpower is built through voluntary acts of quote-unquote suffering to do hard work is to grow to push yourself on a project to places that frighten you is to expand your creative capabilities pleasure seekers don't create monuments any creative person has to face the arrows and slings of their critics so you get to world class through the doorway of discomfort you do it by walking into the metaphorical hard winters of growth that's how you train if you live properly history will not be able to ignore that you lived and that's the way you were born to live you were born to make a mark in life that leaves fertilizer for the seed of the next generation to take root i believe god has a dream and a vision for your life that's supposed to carry you right out into eternity because that's what's pulling it and that when you die you're supposed to leave this earth not on pension but on purpose [Music] that it should not be untied but it should be unfinished most people actually leave the earth tired [Music] not completed and we need to make sure that we can say at the end of our lives it is finished not i am retired [Music] people have an idea or dream and they give up on it no no don't do that work your dream until it get hard see most things don't happen as soon as we think they should happen the messenger misery might drop in on you and say hello murphy's law might come by and thump you on the head any number of things can happen to interrupt your flow it's okay don't take it personal just acknowledge what's going on it's called life and keep on working on your dream continue to keep on knocking keep on knocking because this is your life this is what you love this is your passion during the process of gaining mastery you'll find out whether you actually like that thing enough to become great at it it is my belief whatever it is you set out to do there should be one litmus test you should be able to ask and affirmatively answer the following question do i want to know more about this than anyone else in the world don't get into something unless you plan to be the best that's my piece of advice but if you want to have the passion to make something big to make big change it's got to be something that you believe in beyond reasonable doubt it's got to be something you've just got to make happen so ask yourself do i want to know more about this than anyone else because you're going to have to get better at it than anyone else it's about facing your fears it takes discipline to face your fears so you can conquer them [Music] and that's what discipline is discipline means taking hard road the uphill road to do what's right for yourself and for other people but the discipline will not allow that the discipline calls for strength and fortitude and will it won't accept weakness it won't tolerate another breakdown the discipline can seem like it's your worst enemy but the reality is discipline is your best friend it will take care of you like nothing else can and it'll put you on that path the path to strength and health and intelligence and happiness [Music] i'm saying this is a time more than ever that you want to begin to inoculate yourself with positive words coming to conventions showing up in meetings being on the calls to make yourself unstoppable to get out of your mind the polluting negative thoughts that's causing most people to go through life being stuck because of volunteer victims somebody said that many people die at age 25 and don't get buried until they're 65 because they've got so much garbage in their minds you are here because you've got a clear vision of what you want and where you're going the only way to build your ego that is truly anti-fragile that i have found is to be the learner to be willing to admit when you're wrong to look at your goal and work backwards and say is what i'm doing actually moving me towards my goal or not not does it make me feel good about myself not am i right not am i smart is it moving me towards my goal and if it is then you do it and if it doesn't then you don't where do you start you start right here and when do you start you start right now because you might ask yourself like if for 10 years if you didn't avoid doing what you knew you needed to do by the depth by your own definitions right within the value structure that you've created to the degree that you've done that what would you be like hard thing to accept but in our lives we are getting out of our life right now exactly what we believe we're worthy of exactly what we think we deserve our life is a direct reflection of our identity which is the thoughts concepts beliefs values and worth we hold true to be about ourselves we're getting out of life right now what we believe we're worth and we believe we're worth it because of these patterns and our identity and our lack of choosing to have what we want not just the material things not just the body weight not just the amount of money not just having the relationship but choosing the emotion we want [Music] well you know there are remarkable people who come into the world from time to time and there are people who do find out over decades-long periods what they could be like if they were who they were if they said if they spoke their being forward and they'd get stronger and stronger and stronger and we don't know the limits to that we do not know the limits to that and you know i find that so many of us think that our dreams are unreachable or unrealistic and it's just so sad i mean people think that their dreams disappear and if that's what you think congratulations you're officially stuck and the truth is that our dreams are always there and they don't ever give up on us we give up on them what i learned along the way everything that's happening to you is god is processing every difficult moment you're having he just processes it that's all he doing everything you're going through is preparing you for what you ask god for and if you need to be tough when you get to where you're going then he going to toughen you [Music] if you got to be more caring along the way he gonna let you have some trials come your way that's gonna have to produce that in you [Music] and so if your life isn't everything it could be you could ask yourself well what would happen if you just stopped wasting the opportunities that are in front of you you'd be who knows how much more efficient 10 times more efficient 20 times more efficient you have no idea how efficient efficient people get it's completely it's off the charts see there's a book being written about your life isn't there someone somewhere has taken inventory of your life don't compare your chapter 1 to someone's chapter 10. you write your own book and at any moment in your life you can decide that you want to make this the new chapter you're tr literally in your life you can turn the page and those previous chapters are your old book it's like old testament new testament old story news story they're connected they're related but you can flip the page and you can have a whole new story if you decide right now i am literally turning my breakthrough is i turn the page and in this second i start to write the best chapters of my life [Music] that's the life to live that's the life like to say i care about this it matters it gives me purpose i'm going to fight for this this is a group of people i want to serve and i'm going to go all the way out every day and look you're not going to hit it every day there's going to be days where you're off there's going to be days where you're weak weak but if that day instead of bullshitting yourself instead of saying i wasn't weak today what are you talking about if that day you own it and you say yeah it was week today and i'm not going to be weak tomorrow but i'm not afraid to face that i'm not afraid to accept that i'm not perfect i'm not afraid to look in the mirror and say today was a bad day that i didn't make myself proud today they know they should adopt it isn't merely that your fate depends on whether or not you get your act together and to what degree you decide that you're going to live out your own genuine being it isn't only your fate it's the fate of everyone that you're networked with but that shouldn't diminish who you are it shouldn't diminish your view of yourself why because i wouldn't serve you because if you beat yourself up today you make it harder for you to be rad tomorrow it's a game that has to be seen in total it's not a game where you can take a snapshot and so that's how you're connected and the things you do they're like dropping a stone in a pond the ripples move outward and they affect things in ways that you can't fully comprehend comprehended it means that the things that you do and that you don't do are far more important than you think but i mean if you really asked yourself wouldn't you be so sure if you had the choice i can live with no responsibility whatsoever the price i pay is that nothing matters or i can reverse it and everything matters but i have to take the responsibility that's associated with that it's not so obvious to me that people would take the meaningful path when you have doubt when your faith becomes weak your reasons will fortify your faith when you have an inner conversation say no don't do that your reasons will become your rod and your staff to comfort you to take you through those challenging moments so write down your reasons and what you will find that when you decide to act when you decide to take life on and let me warn you it can be painful it will be uncomfortable and that's where the growth is when you're uncomfortable when you're stretching out when you're taking life by the collar you're gonna get thrown to the ground again and again and again but when you have determination and you know that what you're doing is right it gives you your life it gives a special meaning and power to you you will have some power from on heart you will discover some things about yourself that will begin to electrify your personality [Music] like there's no excuse whatsoever for not getting at what it is that you should be doing [Music]