TRAIN YOUR MIND TO STAY CALM IN EVERY SITUATION. - Motivational Speech

a person who thinks all the time has nothing to think about except thoughts so he loses touch with reality and lives in a world of illusions [Music] we are so tied up in our minds that we've lost our senses time to wake up what is reality it isn't material that's just an idea [Music] reality is this whoever it is that you want to be no matter how many times you may have failed at attempting to become that person leading up to this point you can still become that person you're going to decide who that is you're going to hold that ideal in your mind and you're going to force yourself to act in accordance you are going to tell people what you're up to and if you really have some balls you're going to tell people that want you to fail because that believe it or not that's who's going to come to your rescue in your darkest hours of wanting to give up it's going to be remembering that out there is someone who's laughing at you who wants you to fail that's talking behind your back about how you're never going to achieve it and then imagine how rad it will be when you actually do achieve it we can't work out without purpose we need to get into our dress for the wedding summer time's coming so we want to look all good the biggest purpose in life in all it is how you respect yourself how you look at yourself that's an everyday journey so every day you should be getting after it we look at determination self-discipline we look at hard work all these terms is almost like we dread them so look in this dread and punishment look at those words as a lifestyle stay hard [Music] you can set yourself a goal that you can attain and there's not going to be much glory in it to begin with because if you're not in very good shape the goal that you could could attain tomorrow isn't very glorious but it's a hell of a lot better than nothing and it beats the hell out of bitterness and it's way better than blaming someone else it's way less dangerous and you could do it it's one step on a very long journey and so it's it and it starts to compound on you so a small step today means puts you in a position to take a slightly bigger step the next day and then that puts you in a position to take a slightly bigger step the next day you do that for two or three years man you're starting to stride be kind to yourself you are actually doing the best you can don't beat yourself up don't drive yourself crazy you are actually doing the best you can [Music] there is the darkness and the light my friends and you have to play in bold just because you've gone through it doesn't mean that you are it some of you right now you're listening to me and someone is telling you that you should just give in to that temptation that you should just give in to that problem that there's no way that you're ever going to overcome it that this has been 10 years or 12 years or 15 years or 20 years or your entire life but just because it's been your entire life up until this point doesn't mean it has to be the rest of your life going forward that the greatest rewards come not from instant gratification but from sustained effort and from hard work this is a lesson that's especially true today in a culture that prizes flash over substance that tells us that the goal in life is to be entertained that says you can be famous just for being famous [Music] but that's not going to lead to lasting sustained achievement [Music] i cannot guarantee the success i cannot guarantee ever that anyone is ever going to be successful but i can guarantee that you're going to struggle guarantee 100 nobody avoids it that's it everybody that ever tries to do anything and even most of the people that don't try to do anything are going to struggle profoundly with moving forward it's just hard like that and so if you know that the struggle is guaranteed then you can't allow yourself to waste time to be tormented by the fact that you're not where you want to be make sure you're having fun in the struggle figuring out how to struggle well that's the answer winning is not about the trophy and the accolades it's about the grind it's about the obstacles it's about the challenges it's about the pain that you endure along the way for that 30 seconds of being able to either stand on the platform be acknowledged by individuals that are close to you but when that happens your mind has to immediately shift back because now you felt and tasted something that you could only get through winning are you willing to do it again [Music] we're all looking for something we're all looking for hope hope you can't just have just because you were born with hope no we're born with pain and in our life my parents always taught me that we have a choice either to be angry for what we don't have or be thankful for what we do have but a lot of us have scars in our brains about lives bad childhoods bad adulthood really going through those scars in your brain we're going to talk about we high scarring is proof that our past is real but the one thing we do is we allow to contort our lives and we get off the log well time to get back on the log and not have those scars to find the rest of your life sometimes you gotta fight pain and pain [Music] do [Music] you