I AM NOT AFRAID TO BE ALONE - Motivational Speech

every man has two lives and the second starts when he realizes he has just one it's like a happy person wants ten thousand things a sick person just wants one thing it's your unlimited desires that are clouding your peace your happiness every desire you have is an access where you will suffer so just don't focus on more than one desire at a time the universe is rigged in such a way that if you just want one thing and you focus on that you'll get it but everything else you gotta let go [Music] life and ambition and the need to know what we're doing and to always have a clear delineated path and to always be 100 certain on what we're doing and why we're doing it not true and that's not necessary at all what's important is that you're present with what you've got right now what you're doing right now and you do it for the sake of doing it in this moment and you don't think about the future because there is no future and you don't know how things are going to unfold ladies and gentlemen go into action with your dream and don't avoid where the fights are get in the midst of the fight get knocked down so you can learn how to fight so you can hold your position see most people don't get out in the arena of life because they don't want to fight most people don't get out there because they don't want to get knocked down they don't want to be dropped to their knees but see you're going to be dropped whether you're on the field or whether or not you're sitting on the sidelines [Music] what you are looking for what you need is self-discipline self-discipline as the very name implies comes from the self you it comes when you make a decision to be disciplined [Music] when you make a decision to be better when you make a decision to do more and be more it's like discipline yourself in one dimension see what happens well that's exciting the best we have might not always work but it's still the best we have and the fact that it might not work doesn't mean we should throw it away it's still the best we have i mean everyone dies and so we fail in some sense [Music] the fact that the symphony ends doesn't mean that it wasn't worth listening to [Music] no one's coming back to help me so it starts with that person in that marriage you have to realize you are on your own now on earth is a very lonely journey it starts with the accountability mirror looking at saying hey my dad who beat the hell he's not coming back all these things are coming back i have to face myself and you have to own all those things that people may have done to you now it's yours you got to own it it's yours now to fix the problems that people did to you it makes no sense it's not fair i get it but if you live in that what was me mentality of guess what my dad did this to me my mom just did to me people who bullied did this to me you're gonna always live right there motivation is very ungrounded right it's very it's all up here whoa i feel good when it comes to time to bring it into practice you cannot rely on it motivation is just a feeling grounded action is what gets things done when you have built a habit it's ingrained in your nervous system in such a way that the brain doesn't even have to consider whether or not it'll get done it just gets done commit once you don't need to commit more than once you commit once to the thing that you're going to do and then you do it every single day it's not the grand visions it's the tiny actions that move towards a worthy ideal [Music] [Music] what makes it hard is your lack of belief that it can happen for you the fact of it is though it's very doable [Music] see if but you got to change though if you keep doing what you've been doing you're going to keep getting what you've been getting nobody's journey is seamless or smooth we all stumble we all have setbacks if things go wrong you hit a dead end as you will it's just life's way of saying time to change course every failure every crisis every difficult time i say what is this here to teach me and what i found is that difficulties come when you don't pay attention to life's whisper because life always whispers to you first first and if you ignore the whisper sooner or later you'll get a scream whatever you resist persists but if you ask the right question not why is this happening but what is this here to teach me what is this here to teach me [Music] it puts you in the place and space to get the lesson you need [Music] so if you had a place in your life and you ain't happy with it you have to change some things [Music] there is nothing ever good enough the only thing that's enough is at the end of the day the end hour final hour [ __ ] going for that your hand is raised victoriously that's when you know it's enough [Music] it will never go your way guys if you're saying today is good enough if you never say good enough today i promise you tomorrow will always be enough whenever good enough isn't enough you can bet tomorrow you'll have enough the way it is for you is blood sweat and tears today to create a foundation to strengthen tomorrow those days combined into whatever dream you want to be a reality [Music] you