ACCEPT WHAT YOU CAN’T CHANGE…CHANGE WHAT YOU CAN’T ACCEPT - Motivational Speech

when you're in a fight for your life everyone else is on the sidelines watching and it's easy for them to be critics because they can stand and watch you in the [Music] arena but you need not to worry about those who are in the stands because those who are on the stands don't understand what you're going through because they're not willing to put themselves in your shoes the reason why they can't step in your shoes because it wouldn't fit them the steps that you are taken are ordained they are ordered they are purposed they are given to you by God you could be a lot more than you are you could be so much more than you are that the boundaries of that are unimaginable that's a way better message to someone who's in despair as what you're okay the way you are miserable nihilistic hopeless amotivated resentful it's no time for a maternal embrace it is in a sense you know cuz there's comfort in that mostly what that's time for is the Clarion call to maturity it's like no no no no most of you has to go man but the best of you it could come forward and that best is there [Music] it isn't me it's you but it isn't me that changes you it's you you set the small goals you achieve those goals then set some more and Achieve those and set some more goals maybe a little bit bigger but not that much bigger just start start small start with changing tomorrow morning just tomorrow morning get that squared away and then move on to the next day and the next and move your life to a better place one little step one little victory at a time at some time or another have agonized over many making a decision some decisions are major decisions and also there are a lot of small decisions that we don't make that they tax our minds they drain our energy they create a lot of anxiety and nervousness and mental torment because we don't take care of it we decide not to decide which is a decision deciding to decide to at is a major major challenge for all of us at different points in different areas of our lives and there are things that happen to us along the way experiences that we have that prevent us from working through the mental block of acting if you don't have a lofty ambition then you suffer miserably and the reason for that is life is really complex short finite full of suffering and Beyond you you know people often say life is meaningless it's like no it's not that's wrong cuz if it was meaningless that' be easy you could just sit there and do nothing and it wouldn't matter when people say that life has no meaning that isn't what they mean what they mean is I'm suffering stupidly and intensely and I don't know what to do about it well the suffering is Meaningful it's just don't the kind of meaning you want so how do you get out of that you note the Baseline of suffering and then you say to yourself okay I need to do something that justifies that a eagle flies of a certain altitude and the only other bird flies at that altitude is another Eagle so if he find himself flocking with pigeons he may be flying too low Eagles ain't got time to gossip K don't gossip fool's party King celebrate they don't know the things of your background that you've had to open overcome demons you've had to slay and deal with there are some things that you haven't been able to get over but if they had gone through it neither could they but what you have been able to do is grow disciplined but now it's time for you to help [Music] yourself the the the road of greatness has potholes has detours has wck the road of greatness isn't pretty but it's purposeful and so your road isn't going to be smooth your road isn't going to be easy your road will be the road that's less traveled but just know as you traveling this road and doubt creeps up just know as you're traveling this road and you start to question yourself just know as you're traveling this road and and hard times creep up just know you were called to travel this road and at the end of the road everything that you can't even imagine is waiting for you at the end of the road they have a you there's a you waiting for you that you can't even picture right now you can't even fathom that you the journey built this and the journey wasn't pretty but the journey was purposeful the journey wasn't perfect but the journey was purposeful and as you meet struggles and as you struggle to stay on the path first of all remember you don't have to fight alone reach out to your comrades in arms we win Wars because we stick together and when we stick together we can overcome any [Music] enemy and the struggles that you face when they when they do try to flank you do what a soldier does turn into the Ambush turn toward the enemy fire and attack reasons have power your reasons will drive you when you have doubt when your faith becomes weak your reasons will fall modify your faith when you have an inner conversation say no don't do that your reasons will become your rod and your staff to comfort you to take you through those challenging moments it can be painful it will be uncomfortable and that's where the growth is when you're uncomfortable when you're stretching out when you're taking life by the [Music] color how many mistakes I've made no many how many times I've failed no many how many times I've hit the ground I got up do not be ashamed of the times you've lost use that as Lessons Learned and show the world what you're really made of [Music]