BE PATIENT IN BECOMING THE PERSON YOU'VE NEVER BEEN BEFORE - Motivational Speech

sometimes when you're following your own path it takes a while for the world to catch up with you you might look at the journey others have been on and think that's what I should do but instead you kept moving through the dark on your own and maybe you would have gotten there a little faster if you just followed everyone else but now you can say you did it your way you aren't living someone else's life and calling it enough you stay true to yourself and that my friends is real success it's easy to look around at other people and think they have it better they struggled too at some point they stood with their head in their hands or got down on their knees or slumped to the floor not knowing exactly where to go or what to do or how things were going to work out and every single successful person I know has gone through a struggle where they didn't know the next step they had to step out in the darkness so to speak before the next step was illuminated they took the chance not knowing what the end result would be they took the step even though they were afraid that's what courage is that's what faith is about no one's coming no one no one's coming to push you no one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off no one's coming to tell you to get out the door and exercise nobody's coming to tell you to apply for that job that you've always dreamt about nobody's coming to write the business plan for you it's up to you why would you not go for it why would you not take a chance at one point in time you got take a chance on you this year you can't allow anything or anyone to get in the way of your growth your success or your inner peace you have to stay focused on developing who you are so when you look in the mirror you feel proud fail big that's right fail big today is the beginning of the rest of your life and can it's going be very frightening it's a new world out there it's a mean world out there and you only live once so do what you feel passionate about take [Music] chances got to figure it out if you really have an obsession to figure it out you will figure it out and every puzzle is constructed differently everybody has a different puzzle man you just got to figure out your own puzzle you can walk through the fire complaining along the way or you can walk through the fire and create an example for everyone else so that the the trials and tribulations of their own life seem trivial because they're comparing themselves to the way you handle things or the way you handle things with Grace and dignity and discipline can show other people that they can handle their own life this way and there's there's Beauty in that there really is and there's so there's so much so much inspiration to be gathered from other people this is why I say stay hard because when you weren't given the gifts the only thing you can do in life is stay hard there's no magic pill or a magic potion all you can do is outwork the man that God creator or woman in you the person you have to spend the most time listening to in your life is yourself try not to lose their respect self-respect and self-esteem I think largely come com from having faith in your own [Music] word you know I'm going to I'm you know I'm going to as far as I'm concerned that's all talk you know actually get in there and get yourself some results that's what you should really be focusing on you know start betting on you and become the kind of person worth betting on trust and follow your dreams and desires do what you say you're going to do and hold yourself to a higher standard living in the certainty that everything is always working out for you gives you courage and confidence to take risks to feel comfortable in the unknown sometimes you just need to focus on the small battles first ignore other people's progress and focus on yourself sometimes the small wins are the big wins the ones that build momentum and the ones that give you the confidence to fight another day the only standard you need to hold yourself to is your own just put your head down take one small step and then another and don't stop until you get there don't worry about next week next year just focus on every 24 hours that you get and that's done a lot for me is this magical thing purpose that we're all looking for but we don't take a second to realize the purpose is always there the purpose never leaves us cuz the very purpose is you you are always the purpose so if you wake up in the morning and you don't want to do something you don't care enough about yourself and that's what you need to really research is man why am I not doing this for myself because that is that is the number one purpose in life is to better oneself and are you going to be able to do everything in a day no you're not but what an opportunity you have to just take one step at a time and that's that's really where the Beauty and the treasure is in the journey it's in the steps that you get to take each and every day we become different people on the other side of change what we're capable of what we value and how we Define ourselves these things can all shift and if we can learn to pay close attention to these internal shifts we may just find that rather than limiting us change can actually expand [Music] us [Music]