LOCK IN AND DISCIPLINE YOURSELF IN 2025 - Powerful Motivational Speech

[Music] use the word destiny over and over throughout the book what what does that mean to you it it's a feeling you have that you know something about yourself nobody else does the picture you have on your mind of what you're about will come true that's kind of a thing you kind of have to keep to your own self because it's a fragile feeling and you put it out there somebody will kill it so it's best to keep that all inside revisit your dream you know it doesn't cost anything to dream Dre and our dreams need auditing as you go into this next year shouldn't just be doubling down on the same dream really take some time and evaluate your real purpose The Moody said our greatest fear should not be that we fail our greatest fear should be that we succeed at something that doesn't matter and so if you really believe what you're doing matters it gives you a peace through turmoil through difficulty through ups and downs if I fail in the attempt to do something that matters I can live with you do realize that this could be the year that you change your life if you just log in me and you both know you didn't stick to the script last year but it's okay though because this year we come for everything that we lost and more we ain't hearing the excuses no more your future is tired of that you're the only one that can make it right but you're also the only person that can mess it up lock in and change your life like your life depends on it because it do understand that 2025 is right around the corner and if you want to make the most of it this is what you're going to do work on your personal craft because it is only through a project that you are genuinely able to improve and most importantly take action because you will accomplish nothing unless you go out there and will it into existence if you're able to do all of those I guarantee that you will have the best year of your life how much did they first pay to give up on your dreams 27 Grand a year and when were you going to stop and come back and do what makes you happy good question I see guys who work at the same company for their entire lives guys exactly like you they clock in they clock out and they never have a moment of happiness you have an opportunity here Bob this is a rebirth [Music] I think having a purpose is that thing that that makes us tick that gets us up every day and gets us over the hump of opposition and adversity and the reason that I champion aters and opposition is because I think for the most part in life people pretty much know what to do when things go right right like when things go right they know how to feel they know how to act how to react but it's when that opposition and that adversity comes and it creates a level of misunderstanding right now the vision is blurred now you don't have clarity about what you're supposed to do now you question if your existence matters and I think when you have a purpose is powerful because in the midst of the opposition it makes you realize that you've been put here for a certain reason if you make yourself more than just a man if you devote yourself to an ideal and if they can't stop you then you become something else entirely which is a legend a storin this year you can't fear change in one of the beautiful passages in meditation Mark through this reminds himself that everything in life comes from change good and bad that by trying to keep things the same not only are you of course focused on something that you don't control but you are preventing yourself from all the wonderful opportunities that exist that could come your way we live in a time of disruption we live in a time of Institutions that are falling apart we live in a time of innovation new institutions that are being created so you can't fear what's going to come of that the St say all you can focus on this year is embracing those things adapting yourself to change acquiescing to that change rather than fighting it rather than fearing ing it rather than resenting it cuz it's going to happen regardless of how you feel about it so what you should focus on the Stokes would say is what you're going to do about it life is hard on the good days when you expect so much of yourself and when the bad days come around keeping the promises feels almost impossible I wish I could explain to you the pit in my stomach in those moments but I'm not sure I have the right words to be honest somehow I always see the other side of the promise kept though and the difficult part is that it doesn't provide the relief you'd hope it would my only consolation at times is that I know I did the right thing to maintain who I am because that is the one thing I cannot let myself lose one guy came over to me frustrated was M keep on failing took me four times to pass the bar I'm trying to start my business listen I keep on failing the F the whole time he was talking to me I started smiling cuz why you smiling I said cuz you missed it I don't see failure I see crit determination Drive sacrifice failure means you're trying whole bunch of people out here never failed cuz they never tried he said how do you handle failure Goggins I said see I'm look at as failure I look as my first second third attempt one thing in life that's for sure the vant mother always wins stay home the year is almost over it's been a tough year right but we're not going to talk about that right now this is for making it through this tough year there's been a lot of good and bad but I'm happy that you've made it this far and that you're still here thank you for hanging in there and I'm proud of you for staying strong if you wish to be the king of the jungle it's not enough to act like a [Music] king you must be the king there can be no doubt because doubt Causes Chaos and one's own Dem mind start something you believe in and give it everything you have not for the Applause not for the outcome but because it's yours focus on the work let it consume you take small steps every day and watch how they compound what feels impossible now becomes inevitable over time forget Perfection forget shortcuts Mastery lives in repetition and the timeline for greatness is a [Music] lifetime and you come out the other side and you realize how much you grew through that you start becoming grateful right one you become grateful for what you just went through you you become grateful for the past experiences but also you become grateful for when you are going through tough situations in the future because you understand that literally the situation and the season I'm in right now is developing me in a certain way that maybe I can't see right now but I know that if I keep showing up keep taking it day by day step by step Moment by moment I'm going to come out a better version of myself man I'm grateful for that [Music] there's a quiet kind of pain in starting over it feels like failure like all the effort all the time all the dreams you poured into something have been erased like you're back at square one staring at the wreckage of what could have been starting over isn't just hard it's humbling it forces you to face everything you thought you'd left behind your fears your doubts and the heavy weight of regret but here's the thing starting over isn't the end it's the beginning it doesn't feel like that though does it when you're in it when the dust hasn't settled and all you can see is what you've lost it's hard to imagine that this could be the start of something better something stronger something worth all the pain and yet that's exactly what it is you see life isn't linear it's not a straight path from point A to point B it's messy it's filled with detours dead ends and moments where you have to stop turn around and begin again and that's not failure that's life the people who never start over the ones who cling to what's broken because they're too afraid to Begin Again they're the ones who stay stuck they're the ones who never grow never change never find out what's waiting for them on the other side of the storm starting over is an act of Courage it's standing in the ruins of what what you thought your life would be and saying this isn't where it ends this is where it begins it's choosing to believe that no matter how many times you've Fallen no matter how many times you failed you still have something left in you something worth fighting for and here's the truth starting over doesn't mean erasing everything that came before it doesn't mean forgetting the lessons the strength the resilience you've built along the way it means taking those things those hard-earned truths and and using them as the foundation for what comes next because every time you start over you're not starting from scratch you're starting from experience and that makes all the difference think about a tree that's been cut down on the surface it looks like the end the trunk is gone the branches are gone the leaves are gone but deep beneath the soil The Roots remain and those roots they're still alive still strong still capable of growing something new that's you no matter how many times life has Cut You Down your roots are still there and from those roots you can rebuild you can grow you can rise but rebuilding takes time it takes patience and most of all it takes faith faith in yourself faith in the process faith that even though you can't see the end yet it's worth the work and it is work starting over means showing up every day even when it feels like nothing is happening even when it feels like you're getting nowhere it means planting the seeds of your future self watering them with your effort and trusting that eventually they'll grow and they will grow because that's what life does it grows even in the face of loss even in the face of failure even in the face of uncertainty life has a way of finding a a path forward of creating something new From the Ashes of what was and you are no different you are life you are growth you are the possibility of what comes next starting over also requires something else the ability to forgive yourself to let go of the mistakes you've made the opportunities you've missed the times you've fallen short you're not perfect you never will be and that's okay Perfection isn't the goal growth is progress is becoming a little bit stronger a little bit wiser a little bit more yourself every day that's the goal so if you're standing at the edge of a new beginning unsure of whether you have the strength to start again let me tell you this you do you've already survived the worst you've already faced the pain the Heartbreak the loss and you're still here that means you're stronger than you think that means you're capable of more than than you know and when you start again when you take that first step it's not going to feel Monumental it's not going to feel like a movie montage where everything suddenly falls into [Music] place it's going to feel small quiet maybe even insignificant but that first step it's everything because it's proof that you're not done yet it's proof that you're willing to try and that willingness that's where transformation begins begins starting over doesn't mean you failed it means you're brave enough to keep going it means you're willing to leave behind what no longer serves you to let go of the life you thought you wanted so you can create the life you're meant to live and that life it's out there waiting for you waiting for you to take the steps to put in the work to believe in yourself enough to try [Music]