Balancing Work & Life : 9-6 Hustle , Girl what’s Tea & Surprise Date Night Weekend Vlog

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I put that on my mama, on my hood, I look fly, I look good, you can't touch my back.
Okay, why did I wake up and feed Hailey and she's like this, completely.
First of all, I'm like running three minutes late right now.
When I tell y'all, like, these smell so good.
They smell like straight out of the farm.
Like it smells so good.
So, I cannot wait to pluck these and use them, make maybe like a, what is it called?
Not a cocktail, but a mocktail.
I'm trying to get into that, but let's get to work because yeah, I'm running late and
I almost forgot my food.
After doing all that, I would have forgot my food, I would have been pissed off.
Good morning guys, hey besties, I know this intro is a little wonky because I'm driving
to work and I always sit here and contemplate on how I want my intro to be, what I need
to be doing, should I like show you guys what I do in the mornings.
I'm at the age now, in my thirties, where trying to do YouTube, it's like I'm not here
to be a part of the stereotypical like YouTubers, right?
You're gonna get the authentic me, you're gonna get the crazy me, you're gonna get the
emotional me.
It's just so many different personalities that I have and I say that with courage and
I say that with real truthfulness.
I'm so happy to be here.
It's November 1st and I'm on my way to work right now, as y'all can see, I'm in my scrubs.
When I get off of work, I'm going to, well, when I get off of work, I plan on door dashing.
I'm going back to Jersey for my mom's 51st birthday and I'm just really excited to go
home because although it's my mom's birthday, I want to see my grandma.
I haven't seen my grandma in a really long time and I miss my nana.
I talk to her every day, but you know, as you work, like for me, I work with the elderly
and I'm gonna get into everything about my life and everything like that, but for right
now, I just kind of really wanted to say hello to you guys and honestly, this beginning is
really for me.
Is it really for me?
No shade.
Is it really for me?
It's the fact that I was like, I'm going to wake up, we're going to start rolling.
It's November 1st.
You have a lot of things on your list that you want to do, a lot of things that you want
to accomplish Asia.
So you're never going to get it done if you just keep procrastinating, you're never going
to get it done.
And if you keep just saying, okay, well, I have nothing to really record.
I have no content.
I really don't know what to do.
You don't do anything.
Stop the cat.
Be outside, sis.
You be outside.
So make the content.
Okay.
I woke up and was like, girl, you were laying in his bed.
You should be up recording.
And so, you know what I did?
I got up and that's what I did.
And I'm actually proud of all.
I'm going to listen to my true crime like I do.
If you know me, you know I love true crime, y'all.
I'm actually going to my first true crime podcast live.
I'm so excited.
I have to tell you about it when I get off of work, but I'm going to let you guys know
when I get to work because I need to safely drive and pay attention to the road.
So I hope y'all have a good day and I will catch up with you when I get to work.
Okay, y'all.
So I pulled up to the gas station because I need some coffee.
I have been on a coffee splurge.
I'm not a Starbucks girl.
Honestly.
Honestly, I think the best coffee comes from a gas station.
I'm super early for work, so I can just honestly grab my coffee, sit in the parking lot and
really chop it up with you guys.
So let's go get this coffee, get to work, and then, yeah, we can talk about what I plan
for the day.
This is not the place for all this.
Is there a reason why you're saying all this?
And can we talk about it later?
I've got to right my wrongs.
With you is where I belong.
You've been down from the go.
Recognition's what you want.
And it's something that I should know.
Something that I should know.
All the things that you went through, girl, I never meant to.
But you do it twice.
Tell me how can I right my wrongs?
It's something that I should know.
All the things that we've been through, girl, I never meant to.
But it's not like I don't want to.
I just get discouraged.
That's what it is.
I don't know about getting discouraged, Asia.
Okay, then what's the word?
I think it's procrastination.
That's what I think it is.
Okay.
You know what?
You're right.
It is procrastination.
I do procrastinate.
A lot.
I was in Alaska.
I think you just had a lot of time.
Yeah.
I had a lot of time, but I wasn't doing anything.
Okay, guys.
So I made it to work.
And yeah.
I'm about to clock in and get myself together.
Walk up these stairs.
For right now.
Yeah.
Let's just go get this money.
And then I'll catch you guys when I get off.
Bye.
Let me get a little closer so y'all can see what we're talking about.
Ay.
Your girl is off.
And I'm happy.
So happy.
Oh my God.
Today was long.
Like, why was it so long?
Is it because it's November 1st?
Make it make sense.
Like, for real.
It was a long day.
And I didn't even do shit, y'all.
So, while I was at work.
Me and my friend, we made plans.
We made plans.
So, instead of door dashing tonight, guys.
We're actually gonna go out to this bar called Zodiac.
Here in Charlotte.
Many reviews on Instagram.
Basically saying how, like, the food wasn't good.
The service was alright.
The vibe.
10 out of 10.
But for me, when I go somewhere.
I know I'm trying to get in a big bag.
Big bag.
Yeah, my bag is loaded up with snacks and different foods.
So, I'm really going for the food.
Even though I'm about to go home and eat.
And y'all look.
Y'all know I went there with one tray.
Why I come back with two trays?
Why I come back with two trays, y'all?
Because I'm trying to really get a big bag.
My girl said she's gonna leave me if I don't gain some weight.
So, I got to gain the weight.
But, um, yeah.
So, I'm going out tonight.
So, we need to head on the road.
We're gonna go home.
Get dressed.
I really like a chill night tonight.
Tomorrow, I have a date.
And I'm so excited.
I'm bringing you guys along with me.
It's a surprise.
I don't know where we're going.
So, yeah.
I just have a lot to do this weekend.
Let's get on the road so we can figure out what we're doing.
Because we are pressed for time.
It's 619.
I work 40 minutes away from where I live.
So, yeah.
We have a shower.
Do all that good stuff.
Get smelling good.
Smelling good.
And I got turkey wings waiting at home.
So, baby.
Let's just go.
Let's get on the road.
I'm trying to give Haley.
She's getting a living, bro.
Daenerys, come here.
Daenerys said I am not fucking with it.
I'm about to get off the phone with my mama.
I'm about to get off the camera with y'all.
Because I really need to go get myself together.
I need to go shower.
I just got home from work.
And get ready.
Because my friend literally just texted me to talk about something.
Did you make it home yet?
Since I made it home, I just didn't tell you.
I'll see you guys when I get dressed.
That's it.
Thank you.
Shirt from Shein.
Really, really like this.
This is so cute. First time wearing this, too.
Looking good. Feeling good.
Red bag.
Love this.
Is this actually from Shein, too?
Yup. It's from Shein.
So, whole fit from Shein.
Except the jeans.
I think they came from Fashion Nova.
These are pretty old.
I'm going to have to get a really cute video
of what the fit looks like.
Shoes, bam!
Can you see?
A little cuter.
Period. It's a vibe.
I'm honestly scared to take this.
I'm sorry. Have you taken it yet?
No. Let's go.
Good morning!
Say hi, Annabelle.
Annabelle wants to say hi, guys.
Today's the day.
Yeah, girl. Got a date.
I got a date.
I don't know where I'm going.
It's a surprise.
I was just told to dress
according to the weather.
Last night, before I went to bed,
Bonnet on, bald head,
and I don't care.
Wind came off last night. Who cares?
The cold outside.
We're not doing that.
I have an idea
of what I'm going to wear.
This is my life.
Shit happens.
This shirt right here
says no hope.
Like this shirt, no hope.
New York City, period.
I think I'm going to wear this
and I kind of want to wear these brown pants.
But I was also
thinking I could just wear this black
turtleneck with these brown pants
and my converse.
I got to be dressed
and out of the house
and where I'm at by 11 o'clock.
8.42.
It takes me 20 minutes to get across
town to where I need to be.
I'm about to get myself together
and then
we're going to get dressed,
do our makeup,
and all of that.
I am so not the girly to do makeup on camera.
It depends.
Like I got to be in the mood.
And right now I'm not in the mood to do my makeup on camera.
What?
You what?
Reality is catching me on another day.
Hey you guys. Welcome or welcome back
Last time I left off
we was getting
ourselves together.
Cold water, which I don't like.
Which I do like.
I can't drink cold water.
It just makes my throat
feel like it's burning.
It's crazy.
It's cold water.
I don't know what's happening.
I know.
So guys, remember earlier
when I said I think I know where we're going?
Now I'm completely lost.
I kind of had an idea, but this is not.
Yeah, I definitely don't know.
I definitely don't know where we are.
I'm going to keep saying that.
You know what's crazy is
I just imagined that by this time
it would be a sign.
That tells you?
So you can feel confident.
Then I know where the fuck I am.
In the middle.
I'm in here though.
You are.
I see.
She's learning how to back up.
I'm getting more confident.
She's doing great too.
I'm doing amazing.
Right in there.
Yay guys!
We made it!
Don't know where we are,
but it looks like somewhere
you would propose to somebody too.
That's what it's giving.
That is not happening.
Okay.
So do you think I need the blanket?
John Card and Ivy.
Ginger and sushi
is probably the best part.
That's the best part.
I cannot wait.
I'm so glad I did not wear the shoes.
That would have been weird.
I would have been hurt.
I'm so happy.
Do what I did then.
She's gonna show me what I did.
Thank You director
Hope you use all of it in your video. I really hope you use it. I really hope you use it
Time to go to sleep pitch
So people can't have arms
You can but you standing there still dress like that
Health matters it sure does
This was such a beautiful surprise date, I'm happy you did good. Thank you
You aim to please and you please
I
First of all, you know, it's a welcome or welcome back besties.
Yeah.
Let me do it.
Okay.
Go ahead.
Welcome or welcome back besties.
What is up with this?
Is that what you did?
That's not what I did.
What'd you do?
Cause your hands were definitely like this.
I didn't mean to do that.
Then, ha!
That's what he did.
It was a great date.
You did amazing.
What?
It says Miss Amazing.
Yeah, my camera died.
So, yeah.
That's how life goes.
I'm trying Church's Texas.
Why is it Texas chicken when it's in North Carolina?
I don't understand that.
Oh, well, yeah, I guess so.
First of all, let's get into this biscuit.
I've never seen a biscuit full of honey and it looked delicious like that.
Okay.
And then, did you put these in here, baby?
Yeah.
Then, jalapeno poppers.
Hot.
They're super hot.
I'm about to watch Deja Vu season three on NowThat's TV.
My girl Diamond, the body.
Okay.
She about to get right.
So, I'm going to eat this food.
This lovely, lovely, lovely food.
And then, I'll see you guys when it's time for me to get dressed, which has been pretty much all I've been doing is I see y'all when I get dressed.
Bye-bye.
Bye.
Happy birthday.
I love you.
