IN THE END IT'S YOU VS YOU - One Of The Best Motivational Speeches Compilation You Will EVER Watch

the ways of a person the thoughts the Deeds the actions is all based around his heart for what is a man a man is his heart a lying cheating heart means a lying cheating man a loving merciful heart means a loving merciful man a living heart means a living man a dead heart means a dead man regardless to man's title regardless to man's wealth rank or position if the heart is not great then he cannot be great but if the heart is great that man remains great under all circumstances there is nothing that causes you to be more motivated than a feeling that you're growing every day toward becoming more and more of what you're capable of becoming stop stud after study shows that if you're not growing you're stagnating is that people who are negative and depressed and have low self-esteem are people who have sort of plateaued out in life the deeper I go the less choice I have the Freer I feel the more an ego I was the more choice I thought I had the more limited I was what I have found through my experience is when we surrender things may not go according to plan but it will often be beyond your plan and when you surrender what I have found is you will always end up always this is a promise you talk about promise you will always end up in the right place at the right time with the right people doing the right thing even though the path that you take may not be the one that you most expect I guarantee you if you learn this every single good thing you are looking for will come chasing you the law of mental transformation if you are looking for money stop looking if you are chasing success stop chasing if every other day you have a new idea on how to generate success you are on the Fool's Journey as you evolve and grow you align with the qualities that naturally draw success towards you transformation is magnetic refine your character expand your skills enhance your mind reject fear the more you become a magnet for the opportunities and achievements you seek the more success will find you it's about evolving from within allow your growth to create the conditions for success to come to you stop lying to yourself you know what needs to be done but you keep making excuses pretending you're helpless that's self-destruction second you're wasting time and you know exactly how you can't stick to anything because your mind is constantly distracted look at the people you spend the most time with are they pushing you forward or keeping you stuck surrounding yourself with people who lack ambition will inevitably pull you in the same direction if they're not helping you grow why are you hanging around them you either decide to finally realize that you need to make these changes or you decide you're happy with the outcome you know we'll meet you in the future if you don't take right [Music] now don't stress in the face of adversity make adversity something you desire for an opportunity to grow Here's To The Crazy Ones The Misfits the Rebels the troublemakers the round pegs in the square holes the ones who see things things differently they're not fond of rules and they have no respect for the status quo you can quote them disagree with them glorify or vilify them about the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things they push the human race forward while some may see them as The Crazy Ones we see genius because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do Nasim TB said they are born then put in a box they go home to live in a box they study by ticking boxes they go to what is called work in a box where they sit in their cubicle box they drive to the grocery store in a box to buy food in a box they talk about thinking outside the box and when they die they are put in a box so think outside the box break the Norms Trail Blaze ask questions remember when someone calls you crazy they are still stuck inside the box that's what defines the greatest performers from the people who haven't quite made it yet is really their ability to say oh if I should train now I will oh if I should eat like this I will oh if I should do this okay then I will it's collapsing that knowing what you should do and actually doing it and making that one and that's ultimately a choice let me tell you a secret though the most successful people in the world are also the world's biggest failures like if you look at Walt Disney he was fired from his dream job as an animator because he lacked creativity when you look at Michael Jordan he was cut from his high school basketball team because he wasn't good enough and he became the greatest basketball player ever JK rling who Harry Potter she was rejected by 12 Publishers and that book went on to sell 500 million copies and the creator of Honda said that success is 999 9% failure so when you think of failure just remember it's not the opposite of success it is actually a pivotal part of success you're a fool when you start something new and so if you're not willing to be a fool then you'll never start anything new and if you never start anything new then you won't develop and so the willingness to be a fool is the precursor to transformation and that's the same as humility and so if you're going to write your destiny you can do a bad first job you're going to get smarter As you move forward that's the thing is that so something beckons to you that's what happens here maybe the star that jetto wished on was the wrong damn star but at least it was a star and so you say in your life well something grips you and and and fills you with interest and you think well should I do that and the answer is if not that then something you know what life a is going to get you you've been doing it over and over and over and getting the same results you want something different you got to do something different it's that simple you want different you got to do different you want better you got to be better you want change you got to [Music] change the true horror of existence is not the fear of death but the fear of life it is the fear of waking up each day to face the same struggles the same disappointments the same pain it is the fear that nothing will ever change that you are trapped in a cycle of suffering that you cannot escape and in that fear there is a desperation a longing for something anything to break the monotony to bring meaning to the endless repetition of days you listen to other people to their opinions or their winess it'll beat you up and you'll never be able to to reach the goals that you want to reach in life so the answer is to become internally oriented to know what you want to know what your goals are to know what your desires are to know what makes you unique and to put your focus on that and not on other people's expectations of you and remember before you do something special just do something people say to me well I can't predict my future I'm in the unknown and I always say the best way to predict your future is to create it not from the known but from the unknown what thoughts do you want to fire and wire in your brain what behaviors do you want to demonstrate in one day the act of rehearsing them mentally closing your eyes and rehearsing the action sometimes life is asking you to stop being so worried about everything that's going to go wrong when the reality is you're the one manifesting the thing that you don't want to happen because you're choosing to believe that that's what's going to happen it's always going to feel scary to Your Ego to do something that it's never done before for that's what the fear actually is so it just draws you back to going back to thinking that I don't know if I should do this when the reality is there's an internal part of you that knows it's time for change just learn to trust it because you will come into realization after you make the decision that it was the right decision and you'll feel how it actually helped you let go of that identity that's been fing dragging you down into a reality that you've already outgrown if you're defin of success is win or lose giving everything you've got and growing or learning along the way then you're setting yourself up for success I really think the biggest cheat code in life is just going after it and not being concerned of whether or not you fail at one specific task instead understanding the big picture what your long-term goal is and knowing if you keep driving forward and never fuing quit in the end you will succeed Waldo Emerson once said to be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment so yes staying true to yourself is a powerful Act of rebellion your authenticity becomes your greatest strength in an environment that pressures you to fit in I prefer to be the kind of person who steps up and facing the challenge than the kind of person who stays below the line and avoids the challenge what kind of person do you want to be what do you want how badly do you want it how much you will it to suffer those three questions are high performance face every day don't aim for happiness aim for purpose happiness is temporary it comes and it goes like the waves of the ocean so enjoy it as it comes and smile as it fades away purpose touches your soul now pursuing it doesn't always make you happy and a lot of times it actually makes you frustrated and Confused it also sometimes brings you Joy and Adventure but it is complex like a Renaissance poem there's ups and there's Downs there's twists and turns stagnation and Chaos it is pure and that is the journey in which you will be fulfilled you only have one chance at this life you do know that right and if you are always playing that supporting role as Ed mlet says when the credits roll at the end of your movie at the end of your life it's just going to say supporting actor number three and it'll have your name don't you want to be the main star don't you want to be the key character in your life story don't you want to make the best decisions human beings have the ability unlike animals because we have the ability to create our reality and my reality is as I proceive it you have the ability to create your reality what you see here in your head is what you will see as your exterior it's always like that I walk into a party I say I don't like that guy you know what I'm right you walk in say that's a wonderful guy you're right too we're both right starting is the hardest part but you've already done that most people never even get to this point they let fear failure rejection or embarrassment hold them back but you're already ahead of the game because you took action don't waste time worrying about people who doubt you they're just projecting their own insecurities the ones who laugh at you for starting are the ones who are too afraid to start themselves keep pushing real ones will recognize your effort and the rest they don't matter so every time you show up and every time you're on point if you do that on the regular even if every day you're not even making 1% improvements you're making 0 1% improvements over time those will add up and those will add up exponentially so on a day-by-day basis I mean you're not going to expect anything crazy but you can become completely unrecognized you do whatever the hell you want just do it well that's important and don't do any damn thing that you will be ashamed of doing tomorrow isn't it what other people say doesn't matter but you should not be ashamed of what you have done isn't it so this much you must keep this much pride and freedom you must keep in your life it doesn't matter the whole world says you're wrong but you are not ashamed of what you have done that much you must always keep in your life if that one thing if you give up I'm telling you you'll live a very poor life you may have everything but you'll have nothing [Music] owe it to yourself to take it all the way see how much you can get out of life see who you can become see what you can build what are the biggest goals and dreams that you have that you've been avoiding because you've been holding on to the doubts and the ideas and the thoughts of other people you've allowed them to infiltrate your mind and to become your own you need to build your vision and chase your dreams ever single day maybe you need to hear this right now that scary thing you're afraid to do it's only scary because it's unfamiliar you don't need to attach a story to the fear that means you're incapable that you're going to fail or that people are going to judge you sure maybe those things can happen but nine times out of 10 your ego is just trying to keep you safe by keeping you Tethered to what you know so just a little reminder things are way less scary once you decide to take the leap you are too concerned with what was and what will be this a saying yesterday is history tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift forgive yourself if you're holding on to things you've done or thoughts you've had if you're Demons of one over in times that you wish you knew better because the fact is you didn't and if you had then consider it a warning to get it together but if you can't can't yet be forgiving of that too this world can twist and chain you with challenges and though that's no excuse the leaves can't help but change their colors when the space we consume gets colder but the trees don't die they still grow older their branches fall lead a little too far one way even if they do crash over a home where they let disease invade from their seeds they can start again and you can do the same so forgive yourself for the mistakes you've made because the person you embodied yesterday does not define your future what will is what you carry forward and if not for you now then for the little one you once were you had these hopes and dreams to follow without a doubt you are the cure to ease all of that Agony forgive yourself for letting it persist we don't get many chances so before you go and lose it please bro don't spend another 6 months doing the same thing you must f mind acceptance with the reality of this world change is pain but so is Comfort trying to learn is pain but so is staying ignorant working now as pain but so is being unhealthy time is our greatest enemy and it doesn't consider how you feel or your decisions SO waiting for next Monday to start off right is useless start now self-improvement is not a goal but a lifestyle it's something that you will be in the constant pursuit of every day even when you're wiser stronger and richer life is like the ch changing seasons you cannot change the seasons but you can change yourself and see that's how life gets better for you not by chance but by change I think if we could zoom out and see our lives Through The Eyes Of Heaven and the whole universe we would stop worrying so much and we would probably start celebrating more we would probably start living that perspective that Zoom that zoomed out perspective is so hard for us to find and see and so really we're stuck with our perspective the zoomed in version the daily life and it's sometimes hard to find hope within that that because we don't see what's coming and we don't understand what's coming but I think that's what faith is I think that's what hope is is hoping that maybe there's a different perspective for all of this the decisions of your past do not make you the decisions of your past do not break you you are someone that can can grow from where you're at you are someone who have learned so much from what you've been through you are someone that's armed with new knowledge on how to grow in this life on how to move in this life on how to serve in this life on how to love in this life go forward trust yourself you know what the top regret of dying people was that they didn't have the courage to be themselves and the third top regret was that they didn't have the courage to express their emotions they pretended to be happy when they were not and so on so the question for the rest of us is do we want to wait till some terminant illness wakes us up or should we just confront the fact that in so many ways we're afraid to be authentic cuz we're so afraid of being rejected and as children we didn't have much Choice as adults can we develop that freedom to be ourselves most people spend their lives busy but never actually move forward so are you growing or are you fooling yourself ask yourself these following questions when I look back am I tackling challenges I once avoided or just repeating the same routines am I saying yes to things that make me uncomfortable things that could redefine my future do I feel more resilient or am I just getting by and calling it strength is my time going to activities that build my future or do I just fill my days if these questions make you question your path that's the point true progress is uncomfortable it requires breaking the cycle so next time you doubt yourself check if you're moving forward or just moving in place Master patience as this journey is long and treacherous as the chaotic world moves around you you must remain grounded in your pursuit of Legacy distractions will come your way things won't go as planned you will experience moments of doubt and uncertainty but you must remain patient remain still disciplined and focused because the only thing that separates you from everything that you've ever wanted is time you don't get to choose your best days they don't come by command in fact your most crucial moments they're likely to show up when you feel like giving nothing when every fiber in your body screams to stay down to avoid the fight to sit it out life has a way of dropping challenges right at your feet every great opportunity every crucial moment that changes the course of your life gives you one chance to get it right life doesn't come with a rewind button or a second take sure some sometimes you get a second attempt but I guarantee you the impact of succeeding the first time is a thousand times stronger the trajectory of your life changes when you show up fully prepared the first time you won't be surrounded by failure you won't be haunted by wha ifs or the stains of inadequacy there will be no air heavy with the stench of regret every success you earn the first time adds up lifting you higher pushing you further but you only get there if you're Relentless even on your worst days to be truly Unstoppable you have to be prepared for those days when everything goes wrong yet you still come out on top that's not luck that's earned strength that's hard work and it comes from making a promise to yourself to train so hard you're unbreakable it means doing the work even when nobody's watching you train for the days when you feel like you're worth nothing because those days will come you prepare so that when it matters most you can look at yourself in the mirror and know without a shadow of a doubt that you have the strength to overcome even when every part of you wants to stay down you don't practice when you feel like it you don't train when it's convenient you do it because every rep every moment is a deposit in the bank of resilience a reserve that you'll draw from on those days when life demands more than you think you have because that's what it takes you need a tribe that holds you to the highest standard especially on the days you can barely hold yourself up there's no shortcut there's no secret transformation is about embracing the grind it's about respecting the pain that shapes you the struggle that forges you you have to learn to fall in love with the process to find satisfaction in every moment that tests you every task that pushes you to your limits the truth is the process will break you down before it builds you up it will force you to confront your weaknesses it will make you doubt yourself and it will strip away any Illusions you have about who you are but that's the point real strength isn't about comfort it's about stepping into the fire over and over and coming out sharper every single time you need to be ready not just when it's easy but when every single part of you wants to run and the only way to do that is to commit to the process day in and day out no matter how tired no matter how defeated you feel because it's the process that will shape you into someone who can stand up fight and Conquer even when every part of you is screaming to quit you'll have a strength that's earned not given a strength that comes from choosing to be better every day no matter what life throws at you when you train harder you don't just raise your standards you create an entirely new level of resilience a level that f will ever reach because they don't have the guts to push past their own Comfort but if you want to be good enough on your worst day you have to demand more from yourself on the days you feel strong every moment counts every decision to keep going counts and every time you train Beyond what's expected you're creating a version of yourself that won't back down no matter what Comfort is a lie Comfort is the enemy of greatness and if you are chasing in Comfort you'll never reach your full potential you'll never know what you're truly capable of but if you can choose greatness over Comfort if you can commit to doing what's hard even when it's the last thing you want to do you will become Unstoppable every time you choose to push harder to go further to demand more you're choosing greatness you're telling yourself that Comfort isn't enough that you refuse to be mediocre and that you're willing to sacrifice convenience to give up excuses to put in the work no matter the cost because Comfort doesn't make Champions Comfort doesn't create Legends and if you're serious about winning if you're committed to conquering every obstacle in your path you'll need to abandon any attachment to comfort you'll need to choose strength resilience and git and that choice starts with every moment every action and every single step you take even when when it's the hardest thing in the world so remember this life doesn't wait for you to feel ready it doesn't wait for you to be at your best when the moment comes you won't get to ask for a better day a better time or a second chance the only way to guarantee Victory even on your worst day is to become the person who is prepared to win regardless of the circumstances you must be that good you have to build yourself into someone who can step up when everything else tells you to stay down you train you push you surround yourself with people who refuse to let you quit you abandon comfort you choose greatness and you commit to being unbreakable on the day you face your greatest challenge when your opponent is at his best and you're at your worst you will know you are ready because you've chosen to be stronger you've chosen to be prepared and you've chosen to be unstoppable and that is how you win the power of ownership taking control of your life there's a truth that many people avoid something that's uncomfortable to face but necessary to hear your life is in your hands everything that happens to you everything you want everything you dream about it all starts and ends with you and until you accept that until you take ownership of your life nothing will change we live in a world where it's easy to point fingers to shift blame to say that the circumstances aren't right that the economy me is tough that the world is unfair and you know what sometimes it is sometimes life throws you challenges you didn't ask for things you didn't plan for but the reality is this complaining about your circumstances changes nothing wishing things were different changes nothing what changes things is action what changes things is ownership so many people are waiting for life to give them a break they're waiting for the right opportunity the right moment the right set of conditions but here's the hard truth life isn't going to hand you [Music] anything it doesn't owe you anything if you want something you have to go out and take it you have to decide that no matter what you're going to make it happen [Music] because the time you spend waiting is time you can spend building improving and moving forward think about it every day you wake up with a choice you can either take a step toward the life you want or you can stay exactly where you are it's that simple and too many people are stuck in the same place living the same day over and over because they've convinced themselves that they don't have control that life just happens to [Music] them but the truth is your life is the sum of your choices your actions and your mindset you have far more power than you [Music] realize we all face obstacles we all deal with setbacks we all have moments where it feels like the world is working against us but the people who make something of their lives the ones who build something from nothing are the ones who refuse to be victims of their circumstances they refuse to be defined by their past by their mistakes by the things that didn't go their way instead they take what they have even if it's just a small opportunity even if it's just a glimmer of hope and they run with it and here's something important motivation isn't enough you can listen to all the motivational speeches in the world you can get fired up you can get inspired but if you don't take action if you don't do something with that energy it fades motivation is a spark but it's discipline that keeps the fire burning it's action that creates change too many people are sitting on the sidelines watching their own lives go by waiting for someone to tell them it's time to start but no one's coming to tell you that there is no permission slip no approval you need if you want to make your life better if you want to build something real you have to give yourself permission you have to decide that today is the day you stop waiting and start moving here's what I believe the world world needs to hear right now stop letting your potential go to waste stop hiding behind excuses behind fear behind what ifs yes the world is tough yes the circumstances might not be perfect but life is never going to be perfect if you keep waiting for things to align you'll spend your whole life waiting and by the time you finally decide to act you'll realize that you've let too much time slip away we need to understand that every day is an opportunity every day is a chance to do one thing that brings you closer to the life you want it doesn't have to be a big step it doesn't have to be life-changing in the moment but it has to be something one workout one hour working on your dream one call to a person person who can help one decision that takes you out of your comfort zone because those small actions they add up they build momentum and before you know it you'll look back and see that every small step was part of something bigger but here's the catch you have to start now not tomorrow not next week not when the conditions are better now you have to stop waiting for everything to be perfect because Perfection is a myth you have to to be willing to fail to stumble to look foolish because that's how you grow that's how you build a life you're proud of people often ask what if I fail but what if you don't what if taking action even when you're scared even when you're uncertain is the very thing that changes everything for you what if by moving forward today you set a chain of events in motion that leads you to where you want to be and even if you do fail even if things don't go as planned you'll be stronger for it you'll have learned something you'll have moved one step closer to where you want to be because here's the truth the worst thing isn't failing the worst thing is doing nothing you felt it before haven't you that feeling of stagnation a lack of progress the feeling that no matter what you do the world continues to pass you by the reason that you aren't making progress towards your goals is because you think too much all of these negative thoughts like oh what if I fail what will they think of me what if I'm not good enough oh I can never do that that's why you need to turn your brain off if your thoughts are the thing that's holding you back the solution is to Simply stop thinking once you do you need to act get in motion execute on your ideas because the fast F you take action the faster you fail the faster you fail the faster you will be able to grow and the faster you grow the faster you will ultimately achieve success and accomplish your wildest dreams you have to understand that if you simply stop thinking and start taking action you will build a level of efficiency a level of discipline that makes it impossible for you to not achieve your goals success and people stay ready cuz they know the moment's going to come and they can't let the previous moment or the previous day or the previous thing affect the moment that's going to be there and that's why you romanticize with your future be ready for the moment because it's coming don't let the previous moment affect the next one stay present stay focused look for them you were built for this this week maybe this moment right now is the Catalyst please stay emotionally regulated don't get too high don't get too low it's okay I know the end of the story none of us are getting out of here alive I have this great quote to know that but even one life has breathed easier because you have lived that is to have succeeded Ralph Waldo Emerson that's your job this week and you got to be ready because someone needs you and you got to be on the ready at any given moment for that person who need you this week there's going to be a couple those moments I want you to crush them the Bittersweet reality is sometimes it's the things that break your heart that ultimately give you the greatest Clarity in those moments that leave you shattered the moments where you feel like nothing will ever be the same that's when you realize that some things shouldn't and can't remain the same heartbreak has a funny way of clearing out what you thought that you wanted what you knowingly or unknowingly have outgrown and revealing what you actually need what your soul actually needs so if you're hurting there's only one thing to do keep moving through it as long as you stay open stay honest and keep going the clarity will come and it'll be well worth the wait higher you fly the deeper you fall so if you want to fly high do it but if you fly high without somebody telling you before you starting the flight that there will also come The Descent then I think it's kind of blind okay then I think it can hit you too hard sometimes without knowing it's going to come so in a way just to keep it in mind that there is something in in our lifetime which is always balancing out my entire life changed when I realized you don't plan your future you plan your actions today and those actions create your future stop worrying about your 5-year plan your 10-year plan or anything like that start focusing on the actions in the present the things you can do today that will compound positive towards the future that you desire if you do that you can change your entire [Music] life everything that you do must be about your legacy it's about the what you say it's about what you do it's about how you live it's not about the idea of you it's about the reality it's about living life with and having every interaction being done with intention so that those that interact with you are impacted by your life and leave a mark on them that can never be erased you see everything that you do changes lives it can set about a ripple that will become a wave of impact a generation long after we are gone because it's not about what we do only it's about the what remains after we're gone W carries your name and if the name has a stain you can erase it like you erase every other mistake you go back and start fixing relationships Speak Life over the things that were once pronounced death over you for everyone that said you wouldn't make it prove them wrong so that you can leave something strong for those who follow you long after the days that we are gone it's about becoming a legend with what we do not living allegedly but what we've done do something to overcome something so that you can remain long long after your name is [Music] gone true confidence isn't loud it's built in the quiet in the hours you put in when no one's around to see it it's in the choices you make when nobody's watching and in the discipline you keep even when motivation Fades when you keep showing up day after day without needing validation you unlock a level of strength that no one can shake it's knowing that no matter what you're ready because when you put in the work there's nothing left to prove do you know what you think cuz if you don't know what you think somebody else owns your mind try to avoid the hard questions of self-discovery and you'll be left with a painful mystery at the end of your life this world wants you to be numb because to the people that run it your mindlessness is a money printer but I wish you wouldn't pay their salar so graciously nobody's going to come around and save you with a free p as to health and fulfillment you are your own hero in this movie so start acting like it the difference between a dream and a goal is a timeline and accountability the next year is going to go by whether you're doing something about your life or not I mean just sitting around dreaming someday you know I mean someday I'm going to get a different job someday I'm going to change this well someday ain't a day of the week the energy it requires to start doing something is way more than the energy required to continue doing the thing and that the beginning of doing anything results in the lowest amount of reward both internal and external than when you've been doing it for ages those erasing thoughts you have those sleepless nights the anxiety it's all there for a reason it's telling you something it's telling you that you need to take action all of those emotions are telling you that you're meant for more than this so don't ignore it he said I dream my painting and then I paint my dream he get the picture on the mind and then paint it on the wall or on the canvas well if we would relax and build the image in our mind of how we'd like to see ourself mhm how we'd like to see oursel acting in life relating to other people our social life see oursel in the position we holder and then take that picture and describe it write it out in the present tense I am so happy now that I see myself and write it [Music] out you will never become who you want to become so long as you are a slave to your desires if you cannot control your desires your desire for food your desire to be lazy your desire to act out of emotion they will control you we all have our short-term impulses but I'm sure that you have long-term goals and if you ever plan to achieve them then you need to learn how to take control of the situation and act differently than your impulses would like you to a lot of people's idea of freedom is just doing whatever you want but doing whatever you want actually makes you the ultimate slave because whatever impulse enters your brain whatever you feel like doing in the moment you have no control over whether or not you do that you just do it that is not Freedom that is mental slavery and that will hold you back from everything you actually want [Music] but the idea is this never Peak mindset that I will continue to evolve and become the next best greatest version of myself but for Christ's sake never be the person who says my life has peaked the best of me is behind me and you're always hand ringing and talking about the good old times that are back behind you there's something massively wrong if you're all you're doing is living in the past and never giving yourself newer better more challenging Hobbies experiences abilities traits and skills brother your fear of taking risks is killing your potential you might think that the unknown is the scariest thing out there but the real danger is playing it safe because you're not avoiding failure you're avoiding growth every time you play it safe you're burying your ambition deeper and deeper underground you're watching from the sidewalk as other pass you by in The Game of Life getting further and further you're stuck in the same place while they rise eventually you have to ask yourself what's worse taking the risk or living with the regrets of never trying because here's the truth every success is built on risk you can either face your fear and take that leap or stay where you are and never gets anywhere so feel that fear take the risk and do it anyway because fear is not your enemy it's the signal that you're about to grow don't let fear control your life because the only thing scarier than failure is never trying at all people that win long term are the people that make it so hard to lose that it becomes easy to win people are walking around brother and they're setting themselves up for failure they wake up there on their phones till 12:00 in the bed scrolling they don't study they don't learn they don't self-develop imagine you made it so hard to lose that winning was just kind of like inevitable so set up the systems in your life if you're trying to lose weight don't have junk food inside of your fridge get rid of it do you know how much energy is expended in the Battle of things that you're supposed to purge from your life just get rid of them completely and focus on making it so hard to lose that it becomes easy to [Music] win the person you have to spend the most time listening to in your life is yourself try not to lose that respect self-respect and self-esteem largely comes from having faith in your own word you don't build confidence by shouting affirmations in mirror but by giving yourself a stack of undeniable proof that you are who you say you are outw workk yourself out when people hear you speak they should think that they're listening to a champion to a leader to a world changer because the way you speak it should represent who you are and where you're headed only positive things no problems only solutions not how hard your life is but how hopeful you are for the future it's just a bad day and it's not a bad life you know even the greats feel down like this at times loss is lost man like you can't do anything about that you just have to remind yourself that you started on this path for a reason when you made that decision in the first place you weren't lost and while things may feel Bleak now the there's brighter days ahead things are going to calm back down and you just have to stay steady and keep chugging along look at you look how far you've come you faced your traa and you came out on the other side you can do anything you put your mind I promise you if you put your mind to it and you work hard and you never give up and you do not listen to the rejection you can achieve anything that life throws your way there's two ways to see the world some people see the thing that they want and some people see the thing that prevents them from getting the thing that they want your imagination you're the only one can see it you're the only one can see it the problem with your imagination though is you tell it to the wrong people how many times have you had this really incredible idea and you took it your family and your friends you shared it with them and they shot it down you know why they shot it down cuz they couldn't see it see all this stuff you've been imagining you ought to start working on it your real life is in your imagination dust off your imagination and just go for it you got to try quit waking up thinking you ain't got no say so in your life you have a choice in this matter you can't stop what happened to you but you can dog on show do something about what happened to you life is 10% of what happened to you is 90% what you do about it I said it before and I'll say it again as well the cherry on the top is action the most important thing after all of this is action you won't receive any of this until it's action ideas are just ideas until action so that's enough of action and then lastly I'll leave you at this get a piece of paper I'm getting sick of saying it but I'm going to say it all year I'm going to say as many times as possible in this 365 day series get a piece of paper and write down what you want to accomplish in your best self keep it in your pocket every single day whatever it is make sure it's in front of your mind every single day cuz then that's on your conscious and then your subconscious connect emotion to it then your emotional uh connection and Consciousness is going to be connected and your energy is going to be more motivated don't violate the conclusions of your own Philosophy by not executing and taking action taking notes rolling up your sleeves going to work commit yourself to learning so that you can get smarter for the days ahead we all have dreams and it's very scary sometimes to accept the dream that you have and it's scarier still to say Okay I want that it's scary because you're afraid that if you put your heart and soul into it and you fail then how are you going to feel about yourself right so being Fearless means putting yourself out there and going for it no matter what go for it not for anybody else but for yourself one of the things you have to understand about life is everything changes and everything ends and that kind of sounds heavy on the front end but it's a truth if everything changes and everything ends number one it should make you appreciate what you have right now and then my view is what's next is always better if I make it so it's my job to make it so I caught the dark room where you're alone no cell phones no music no TVs no computers you by yourself very few people want to be alone anymore they want to be around noise and people and they have to you can't think be alone go to that dark space in that dark space shut life off for a little bit go to a dark place in your mind and figure out what the you want to be the superpower of learning to be alone and enjoying it well I think it's critical and I do think that this this these times where you just think about things just be alone and think about things are so rare these days and I think during those rare times is when you really get to understand what you actually believe or don't [Music] believe Champions aren't found on the podium with their hand up no Champions are found in the lab studies the thousands of hours of hard work when no one's watching that's what makes the will Unstoppable when you're in here where no one else is and you're pushing yourself harder than anybody with no one around it begins right now with no one looking man and how you hold yourself how you see yourself what do you do when no one's watching our minds are morphing from minute to minute if we let them if you are not paying attention if you are on cruise control then your mind is not under your own control we can't be in cruise control you can't let your mind be in cruise control you have to be cognizant of what you're thinking you have have to be aware of how you are being influenced because in this day and age right now if you aren't careful you can slide down the path of least resistance the path to weakness and the path to a lack of control as to what is happening in our lives in your life life will happen to you instead of Life happening for you do not allow that you have to take control you've got to do something to get control of your brain you got to check yourself control the things you think about you can actually control how you feel you can control what you think and you can definitely control what you do you got to be the master of your mind it's always the quiet work that you put in with your own two hands when no one else is watching that's the one degree of separation from you and everyone else when it comes to productivity it's the quiet work you put in when no one else is watching it's it's not what you get that makes you valuable it's what you become so part of the key here is to set the kind of goals that will make something of you don't set them too low so that you don't have to grow and you don't have to read and you don't have to try and you don't have to stretch don't set them too low and then don't sell out don't go for something that's going to cost you your virtue or cost you your values or sell out your principles there's a good Middle Road here to follow goals that will inspire goals that will help you grow change names develop and become better than you are okay what's on what's through that door well the only way toing find out is to walk through it you got to take the action there's no other way it's like you can't defeat an enemy that you don't fight against it's like oh they're charging at me they're charging at me okay yeah so what do you going to do about it life is charging at you every second what are you going to do about it charge back