Woman reveals what pretty girls think when guys approach them

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Here's my biggest unpopular opinion.
The prettiest girls don't get guys.
Let me explain. Have you?
Yeah, so we already know this is complete coke.
The prettiest girls get whatever guy they want.
They pretty much have an infinite supply and they can pick whichever guy
pleases them at that moment and say, I want him.
And that guy will probably be around.
Now, they may not get a relationship out of them
if they pick a certain type of guy.
Right. But they can definitely get whatever guy they want.
So this is already this is already a lie.
Ever wondered why the prettiest girls are always single?
I think for women, there are different degrees of pretty.
There's like cute, pretty.
And then there's drop dead gorgeous, pretty like Nicole Scherzinger.
If you're in the drop dead gorgeous category, chances are
you're really intimidating to guys.
They either think you must already have a boyfriend
or that you wouldn't even look in their direction.
And because they fear rejection, they wouldn't dare come speak to you.
OK, just to address this real quick.
There is a reality about this, but the prettiest girls, right,
they have the ballsiest guys that go up to them.
And if you talk to girls online, they always complain about
how guys are constantly approaching them.
I'll be honest, this is blatant lies.
The main issue is that pretty girls probably have a bunch of guys
approaching them that they don't like.
That I can see being true.
But no guys at all.
And they're always single.
No girl in the modern era is always single.
There's always some guy around, even if he's just a friend.
He's a placeholder, essentially, right?
There's always some guy around.
They're never purely single.
This is just quite honestly a fantasy.
What I suspect on some level is that this girl probably single right now.
She probably wants some attention.
And she's talking about this from the position of being a very pretty girl.
At least that's what she thinks.
And to be fair, yeah, she's a pretty girl.
So she probably has some perspective on this.
What I think the issue is, is that this girl doesn't have the guys
she wants approaching her.
I'm sure if I did a deep dive on her Instagram or TikTok,
I'd probably find a massive list of guys.
And if she were to expose her DMs, probably has hundreds of guys DMing her.
All this is that she doesn't have the guys she wants approaching her.
And it's also a little bit of look at me mixed in.
Guys love to flirt with women any chance they can get,
but only with women that they think that they can easily get.
Don't get me wrong.
Really pretty girls do get approached by guys sometimes, but typically it's guys
that are way below their league and like really ugly guys
because those guys don't have an ego.
They don't really fear rejection because they get rejected all the time.
OK, well, that's actually true.
That's a good point.
So she did say the truth there.
At least she's admitting that there's tons of guys.
But it goes to what I'm saying, right?
Guys approach her all the time, but not the specific guy that she wants.
I think it's a bit of a catch 22.
This girl is pretty, so she thinks that she doesn't have to approach.
But to get the guys that she wants, she has to give them some sort of signal.
I think another thing she's missing here is that guys
that have status are attractive and successful.
They're not going to go shotgunning approaches and get rejected.
It doesn't make any sense for them to do that,
especially considering the fact that most of the time
these types of guys are very good at perceiving if a girl's into them or not.
If a girl is just standing there and she wants the guy to approach her,
he probably won't.
Keep in mind, too, that a lot of pretty girls love to bait guys
into approaches only to reject them because it makes them feel good
about themselves when you're a high status guy and you're attractive.
You really don't need that on your resume.
If I'm being honest, girls will legitimately bait a high status guy
into approaching them, reject him, and then tell everybody in the world
about how they rejected X figure.
Why would a guy with status or fame want to deal with the politics
of that situation?
It really provides him nothing.
I think this fact is overlooked quite a bit.
If you feel like guys never approach you, but you notice that they're always
staring, you're way prettier than you think.
Yeah. If you're a really pretty girl and you're wondering if you're ugly
because you never get approached by guys, just know that it's
because they're probably scared of you.
It's not that guys are scared of a girl.
I think a lot of them are just scared of the ramifications
of approaching a girl and getting blasted.
I think that's the main issue.
To be fair, this view might be a little bit controversial to a lot of people,
but I'm not a huge believer in just blitz approaching women.
It makes sense if you're a young guy, you want to do a bunch of cold approaches
just to get your feet wet.
You don't matter that much yet and no one's going to remember you.
Once you start climbing in level and let's say you get a bit of status,
it's not as simple as it used to be.
You don't create this premium image for yourself
when you're out there just blitz approaching every girl
that you find minorly attractive.
A lot of guys will say that you shouldn't care.
And sure, you can go with that approach, too.
But I do think that you do have to consider the optics
a little bit after a certain point.
For most of you guys watching this video, it's not going to matter.
Go out there, blitz approach, because you have nothing to lose.
The guys that this girl wants are very unlikely to ever approach her
because they don't need to.
Some girl that's on her level of attraction will likely enter
into the guy's orbit without them having to approach anyways.
So what's the point of him putting himself out there
and risking rejection when he genuinely doesn't need to?
Unless, of course, you make the argument that this girl is so much better looking
than any other girl that that guy has access to.
And obviously, we know that's just not the case.
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