Made My Wife Have Surgery? Do I Like Her New Body? + MORE | Answering Your Questions

what it do gang is she boy back with another one lips look too ready this because I actually got elegy cheeto is probably shouldn't probably shouldn't ain't no Cheetos before I did a video or say it has been telling me and getting on me to do this video and I know it's probably like I want that no more I took a long time to get it done the BB lqa from the male's perspective guys actually had the opportunity to ask me some questions on it so I'm gonna be answering you guys's questions today like hey other questions pull it up now I got it together right I get it together I do have 42 questions here probably not gonna answer my pick one specific thing out of this question and answer as far as like paying and scheduling it I guess I would have had to already get into the mindset of her getting it and or being okay with her getting it and for her scheduling it granted MRSA is her own woman I don't control her I can't make her do anything that's not the type of relationship that we had she says she wanted to get a third titty I would tell her that I doesn't like it and hoping that because she knew I didn't like it that she would probably not get that third titty added and though that would be like I got more tea in my my bad my bad she respects me enough to basically allow my opinion to affect her in her decision-making in life as far as scheduling it how does I feel about it I was cool with it why because we had already came together and agreed on her the surgery I guess when she did schedule it it did like make it legitimate versus it being like those things that women like to do on one this I want to do this I want to do that I want to do this and you know it never happened in the liposuction in general is what what we was focusing on the most and so because she already had or I would have been with her because that's what I love the most about like you know a woman's body you already had that technically to me in my eyes I'll know some other people might think otherwise but to me she did so in that case I wanted her to feel better in her skin and granted she heard from me two beautiful children and so in that case if she if she felt like she didn't feel better her skin I mean at that point I was willing to do whatever she wanted to do that to make herself feel better being that are married or in a relationship they know that after women sometimes have kids sex drive slows down why because they feel like they're not as attractive as they were previous to them having kids am I right or wrong man if that's what she wanted my life easier I was willing to help her in any way shape or form with doing did you encourage your wife to go do with the VBO procedure I didn't encourage I guess I should say because I wouldn't want her to feel as if like like she needed it I guess but one thing I did tell her is that it didn't matter to me so I'm not encouraged no I did once we talked about it or whatever and she said she wanted to get it I did tell her that if it made her happy like I said before then I'm willing to go through with the process with her 110 percent I would have been fine with who what the way she God made her after she had my two children because granted her body had to go do that to give me it's I'm in love with her and so I don't know if anybody I know this off-script again my bad I'm gonna make it quick but I don't know if you ever had sex like say you male or female you have sex with somebody that you you wouldn't technically say he was in love with it just kind of feel bland like granite oh yeah you might have had fun but then when you like madly in love with somebody or you know that you in love with somebody had sex with them and I feel like it's the best in the world it's kind of a thing for me so like sex just in general it just always felt like it was the best in the world oh you feel if another man began Julian lusting approaching your wife now that she has a new body you know just playing I've been dealing with that my whole life or our whole relationship is no different she then she's always had the ability to walk into a room and literally get him saying everybody stop it beautiful blah blah blah she always had asked even if it wasn't normally I'm gonna use the term ass you know hopefully I don't offend nobody but and if kids are watching this you might hear some explicit language he always had to ask to me and it seemed like she must have had always had to ask to other people because obviously she would still get that same attention even before she even went through with the surgery so I really don't think that it's really changed I don't even know if I would say that it changed more online like obviously being an influencer online I don't think has even changed it's the same this hasn't changed anything or being in like I've been in the club I don't know I think I kind of got even though I'm light-skinned don't let it fool you I I have a build of masculinity still have yet to have somebody you know be disrespectful or anything like that and you know me I'll be back in jail or on house arrest oh wow you think this can potentially be harmful to your marriage why or why not I can't I would say that it potentially couldn't be harmful to some people's marriage so granted say a woman it was a drastic change for them like myself I don't really see it as a drastic change from her saying I don't think that it would have changed her how she thought but say a woman had never really had that shape and she had maybe lost a lot of weight in this she got that surgery so she that that that attention I think like it wasn't the last question I think that is what changes people so some people that might have a drastic change and all day life you know they might not have been getting that kind of attention and now because of their body being oh so different that potentially could harm a marriage not this marriage I don't think so because like I said the attention that she has been getting has been the same not been long into that our journey so who knows it may potentially change it could get worse but then on the man's side it could be harmful to a marriage in a sense of like he might not have wanted her to get it and then she end up getting it anyways and so in that case now he might have more of her trust issues and then it make her feel like oh because you I did this this you know I'm saying it can is so many things that can make it be harmful with getting something like that if you don't have a strong foundation within the home or within the relationship not marriage because you can be for the girlfriend and it still happens so in their relationship if you have a strong foundation and kind of understanding of each other then yeah it's multiple things that can cause harm to it we haven't had any yet and so I'm just thankful for God he brought it to my attention I didn't be like oh you should get a B he'll like Samia might do that but I plan on being with my wife for the rest of my life so in that case I would never approach her but you should get a video because then she would probably feel less of something by me doing that and so I wouldn't even do something like that do you think there can be something that she should have kept or got rid of for her no because we kind of talked it over prior to going into it there's so it's hard to say man because I'm not saying that we're perfect by any means because we're definitely not perfect trust me I promise you we literally went over how we wanted to do it like how she wanted it how the shade like I was like they're like you know she showed me like her pictures of people that she wanted it to look like her she wanted her shape to look like I don't really think it looks that much different obviously it's a little bit bigger and her stomach is a lot more a lot smaller but like I said she had a smaller stomach at one point on her life so it's not like I never seen it hit on themselves so it's not like oh my god that's ridiculous now maybe if she went back like four more times then I would probably be like looking back at it like whoa yeah it's a big difference big gain but you know I'm saying it wasn't really like we didn't want no abnormal looking booty it wasn't nothing like that it was you know I'm saying it just it was like a little bit more than what it was but I still look natural you know I'm saying like they don't look unnatural like you know I'm saying any walk around looking like Nicki is she walking around looking like Cory no way Nikki go so I don't know if anybody know but the you're gonna ask more say she hate it but I bang on her shape is weird but her as a plate was well do you ever worry about her changing up on you now that she got this new body