I Feel Broke All of the Time

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start budgeting for free today I can't
seem to build any kind of wealth
whatsoever what's happening tell us more
um well you know um I got I got three
boys and I got a wife that stays at home
and I'm the only
income but I think I make okay money but
every time I try to build some wealth
you know like something happens with the
kids or
yeah something on that line tell us
about your income what are you making
every
year well I'm a union electrician okay
so I
make about 1528 if I work on Saturdays
okay I usually work Saturdays so every
month if you look at your budget how
much is on that top
item um my
budgets it takes about
4,800 and some chain maybe okay but is
that what you're bringing in $4,800
income wise that's what you're bringing
in income wise I'm bringing in maybe
about six okay so 6,000 okay and then do
you guys have
debt well you know I got I got my Jeep
and my old lady has her her
van is that on
payments it I wish it wasn't but it is
yeah how much how much do you guys owe
on on
yours uh well my Jeep I got maybe maybe
eight 8,000 left and on her van we just
had to get so it's around 22 okay how
much said you just got it yeah we just
got it maybe about a week ago how much
are your car payments in on those both
of those well that's where it's eating
me because on my Jeep on my Jeep I'm
paying about
four on her van I'm paying around six oh
I bet you
okay what else so you got the Jeep the
van what else do you have are there
credit cards do you have any other
loans um no I really don't have loans I
mean I mean we got you know groceries
and we got we got rent okay so those
that's fine those are fixed expenses on
your budget but do you have any other
debt which is you know a lump sum of
money that you owe um I mean maybe when
I was a younger man let's I'll just keep
it easy I'd probably say hey about 10
grand maybe what would it be and credit
cards no it it'd probably be a little
bit of hospital and M maybe
uh uh miscellaneous I'm sorry I'm kind
of lost okay Brandon how old are your
kids I got a 10y old I got a sixy old
and I got a one about to be twoy old
okay perfect okay so here's the thing I
think you're having a hard time Building
Wealth because your biggest wealth
building tool is your income and right
now $1,000 of your income is going or
and maybe a little bit more is going
towards your debt payments every single
month and uh it sounds like I'm not sure
but it sounds like maybe you're trying
to do a little of this a little of that
a little of that over here and the
method that we teach you is going to
give you focused intensity on one area
at a time for the most part so do you
have any money
saved that's a problem I don't can't
seem to save a dollar okay so let's go
back to the the the essentials here I
think the first thing here is the budget
you told me that out of $6,000 a month
it takes 4,800 to run your household so
that means somewhere along the way
there's $1,200 left if you're doing your
budget
correct right but you just said you you
can't find a Dollar so something about
that budget isn't adding up so let's
kind of let Rachel and I give you a
quick crash course with the budget yeah
because the the thing is with the budget
Brandon is it needs to be realistic so
you keep saying you know which I get we
Jade has kids I have little kids so
stuff does come up you know when you're
a family and there's multiple people
you're keeping afloat um so either you
need to redo the budget and say okay
realistically we need a kids line item
because stuff is going to come up every
month that we have to pay school fees
like whatever it may be yep that we're
going to put in um and then there also
may be Brandon a you know a time that
you and your wife sit down and you say
okay we're going to limit this budget
and just because we feel like you know
the kids need X Y and Z we may tell them
no right now um because your goal is
going to be to get out of debt and so
that budget is really really key and
tightening up that budget uh is going to
is going to be huge so that's going to
automatically probably give you some of
that Breathing Room of that $1,200 that
we don't you know it kind of just
disappears um the next piece of this I
would do okay so Rachel's telling you
tighten up the budget yeah and you have
a lot of car yeah is that what you're
going next yeah you just bought this car
for 22,000 it's $600 payment a month
Brandon sell it sell it yeah because and
we always say not to have anything with
wheels and Motors that is more than half
of your annual income and you guys are
right over that I mean you're making 60
yeah and I mean you guys are you're
you're you're close to that you're at 30
I mean like so you're it's too much you
have too much car and I think you're
feeling that Brandon you're feeling that
and so looking to say okay what are our
options what can we do that is different
um and it's probably going to be selling
that van and yeah and that's going to
take so let's put this in the timeline
so the first thing you're doing what
Rachel said you're getting on your
budget you're getting a realistic budget
you're figuring out what can we cut so
that this $1,200 is actually a reality
and it's you and your wife agreeing to
that because you need that money so you
can save up a little bit to get out of
of this car and get into a car that you
can afford because no more car no more
car payments right so you need at least
$5 $6,000 to make this thing happen at
least right so we're getting out of this
car and then after that it's okay we
freed up $600 we can breathe a little
bit and maybe it's you picking up a side
hustle your wife she's got the
2-year-old at home but there's you know
at least it's one at home and not the
others and so what can she do to bring
an extra income and from this point on
it really is you guys deciding how
quickly you Clean Up This Mess by
deciding how much more money comes in
because the ultimate goal is Building
Wealth the debt is standing in the way
that you clear out the debt and then you
get yourself that emergency fund of
three to six months saved now you're
going to feel peace about day-to-day
life right so if an emergency hits you
you're fine and now you can actually
start Building Wealth you can start
investing into your 401k if you have it
start investing into a Roth IRA as an
option but we've got to get through baby
steps one through three one through
three first Brandon and um have you
looked into you know other small
businesses in your area and what they're
paying for electricians I just wonder
even if you switch out of the Union if
you could find a better gig that pays
more well um I mean I've I mean I've
done I did solar for seven years and you
know I I I have a little LLC with that
but um I mean and realistically until I
hit a journeyman's card you know I'm not
really there's really nothing out there
that's maybe paying more I may it may be
a dollar it may be $2 but it's nothing
like jumping up another 10 to 12,000
okay yeah yeah because I was just
curious if um you know sometimes in the
private sector there's um you know other
opportunities uh so I just didn't know
if you had explored that because because
I think the goal too Brandon is um you
know you guys make 60,000 and yes
there's a level of intensity during baby
steps 1 through three to kind of get you
out of this hole so there will be you
know extra work here or there all that
but I think the goal is eventually to be
able to live off of your income
comfortably and enjoy it be able to put
some money aside for retirement you know
do some of these things to enjoy your
life and so if that is not coming to
fruition shft yeah then that's where a
bigger conversation is um and you guys
are renting right now right so even home
ownership um to be in the picture
eventually which I know can probably
feels very overwhelming right now to
think about but um but to be able to to
get there but hey
um Brandon I want you to hold on the
line because Christian's going to pick
up and I want to gift you guys Financial
Peace University you and your wife this
is our nine lesson course and go through
this and and again it runs the gamut
everything from the budget to getting
out of debt all of it and then you know
what and hold on the line too uh and
Christian we'll throw in some M kin
Coleman's stuff he has a great career
assessment that would just be
interesting Brandon and again being an
electrician making 60 Grand that's
fabulous work and wonderful but um I
think we I think people do get to a
reality of okay how do I sustain My Life
um and if you can ever make more that's
going to help it without completely
shifting your lifestyle so just out of
curiosity maybe dig into some of that
too um and see if that kind of triggers
anything for you so thanks for the call
Brandon you guys got this just stay on
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