WATCH THIS To Completely CHANGE YOUR LIFE In 6 Months! | Rob Dial

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If it's really important to you, you'll figure it out.
But if you're stopping yourself immediately right now going,
oh yeah, but what if?
You've already taken yourself out of the game.
Today, we're going to talk about how to completely change your life
in just six months.
And this is for anybody who wants to change their life drastically.
And this could be if you are unemployed
and you want to be able to figure out a way to finally start making money
and to be able to change your life.
This could be if you are employed and you've been at a job for a while
and you're just ready to create your own job,
do whatever it is that you want with your own life.
No matter which situation that you're in, this is for you.
I'm going to talk to you about how you can change your life in six months.
If you have a family, if you don't have a family,
if you have a job, if you don't have a job,
this relates to every single person if you want to make massive changes in your life.
And the reason why I say this is because someone that I'm close to,
their father actually just got fired from a job that he was at for 20 years.
He was at a job for 20 years and they had to let him go for budget reasons.
And one of the things that drives me the most crazy
is that people think that working for somebody else and getting a salary
is secure work.
For those of you guys that are just listening to the podcast,
you can't see me, I'm air quoting secure
because there's nothing secure about working for somebody else.
The only time it's secure is when you are your own boss.
You can't fire yourself.
Whenever you're at the mercy of someone else, there's no security there.
So today, we're going to be talking about
how to completely change your life in six months.
And step number one is to disappear.
That's correct.
Disappear completely.
Go off the map.
Lock yourself in your house whenever you're not at work
or whenever you're awake if you don't have a job.
Disappear.
Don't see anybody that you've seen consistently
throughout the days, throughout the weeks, whatever it is.
Disappear for six months.
And I'm going to give you the steps of what this is going to look like.
But the most important part of it is to disappear
because you can do anything for six months.
And we're talking about a full life reset.
So let's talk about what this is going to look like.
The first thing I want you to do is I want you to get very clear
on what it is that you want in this life.
One of the main issues that I see with people,
I've coached tens of thousands of people.
Tens of thousands of people have sent me emails or Facebook messages
or Instagram messages or they've gone through my courses
or they've gone through one-on-one with me, whatever it is.
One of the biggest things that I see it's a problem of holding people back
is that they just don't know what they want.
So when I say you've got to become very, very, very, very, very clear
on what it is that you want, what do you want?
If you were to look into your future five years from today,
10 years from today, what do you want?
What do you want your life to be?
What do you want your family to look like?
What do you want your bank account to look like?
What kind of business do you want to be running?
You've got to become very clear.
I've told you this story before on the podcast,
but when I first had my coaching business,
I also had an Amazon business that was making way more money
than my coaching business was.
But I asked myself, if I fast forward five years from today,
do I want to be known as the guy who's teaching,
you know, who's selling stuff on Amazon?
Or do I want to be known as the guy who's coaching people
and helping them improve their lives?
That became very clear for me.
I want to be the one that's coaching people,
helping people change their lives.
That was just what I was passionate about.
Selling on Amazon, there's nothing wrong with it.
It just wasn't my passion.
So I fast forwarded my life and then I said,
okay, what do I want from here?
Here's a really easy way to do this.
It's called future pacing, okay?
So if it's 2021 right now,
and let's say that you look and you say,
I want $10 million in my bank account
and I want to have this, this, this, this, this
five years from today.
Then you're going to go, it is 2026.
I have $10 million in my bank account.
I do, and I have all of these things,
all the things that you list out that you want
and life and the happiness and the joy.
This is what I did to do it.
And I want you to write a story
as if it's already happened.
It's called future pacing.
You go into this future that you want
and you actually write the future out
and how you created that future.
And the thing that you have to do
is you have to become very clear
because the more clear that you are,
the easier it is to visualize this future
that you want to create.
And you're going to visualize it
and you're going to look at your goals
every single day, every single morning,
and you're going to visualize them.
You're going to look at them.
You're going to read them.
You're going to write them down
and you're going to get more clear
every single morning of these six months.
And then what I want you to do in these six months
is I want you to learn one high income skill.
I want you to learn one high income skill.
I'm going to give you a bunch of examples
of high income skills that I see
that are on the internet.
But if you want to work in person,
you want to become really good at landscaping
and you want to create a massive landscaping business,
obviously that's not going to be on this list.
But I'm going to give you some ideas of things
that I've seen people making lots of money on on the internet.
You could do woodworking, you could do painting,
whatever it is for you.
It's up to you.
First thing that I think of,
you can learn how to run Facebook ads.
I know people that make millions of dollars a year
running Facebook ads for other people.
You can write articles and make money writing articles.
You can get good at SEO, search engine optimization,
and do that for people.
You can do it for yourself.
You can make YouTube videos
and figure out ways to make money on YouTube.
You can decide that you want to be a coach
and you can coach people and make a lot of money doing that.
You can set up a Shopify store and start doing e-commerce.
You can set up an Etsy store and start selling jewelry
or whatever it is that you want to sell on Etsy.
There's millions of different products on Etsy
you could start doing.
You could get Facebook ad revenue.
That means if you start making videos
and the videos start going semi-viral,
they'll actually pay you for the views that you get
based off of the ads that are there.
You can get sponsorships.
If you start growing your following,
you get sponsorships on Instagram, on Facebook, on YouTube.
You can run a brand new clothing company.
If you want to start a clothing company,
then you go, okay, I need to figure out
how to create the products, how to design them,
how to get them onto Shopify, how to put Facebook ads up.
You can sell courses for whatever it is
that you might have a skill set on.
You can do affiliate marketing.
You can do podcasting.
You can do freelance work.
For whatever you're good at freelance, at upwork.com.
You can do it at fiverr.com.
You can do social media management.
You can learn to master social media
and you can teach that to other people
or you can run their own.
You could write Kindle books if you wanted to.
E-books and start selling those.
You can do consulting for whatever you might have an idea of.
If you're a sales manager
and you're just tired of working for someone else,
you could consult other companies
on how to actually make their sales better.
You can do consulting.
You can do freelance writing.
Take six months to master one skill.
And obviously you're not gonna master it in the six months,
but you're gonna be on your road to mastery
because most people don't take six months to learn.
So you're gonna sit there and you're gonna go,
I got six months to master this.
And then what you're gonna do as you're mastering it,
as you're forcing yourself to learn,
get better, learn, get better, learn, get better,
mess up a lot, mess up a lot, mess up a lot,
is then what you're going to do
is you're going to figure out a way to take that skill,
take that very niche knowledge skill
and turn it into a business.
And depending on what it is that you wanna do,
there's tons of people that have courses
to teach you how to run a Shopify store,
to run an Amazon business or to get better at Etsy.
There's tons of free stuff out there on YouTube.
If you wanna learn any of these things,
there's a ton of free stuff out there on YouTube as well.
Give yourself six months to learn one high income skill
and completely change your life with it.
The second thing that you're gonna do,
now that you know what you want,
now that you figured out
what high income skill you're going to get,
now you gotta make a plan of how you're going to get there.
So if you say, okay, in five years,
I wanna be worth this amount of money.
10 years, I wanna be worth this amount of money.
I wanna do it by opening a luxury Shopify store
and Etsy store for faux leather jackets.
I don't know, something like that.
Well, then now I figured out what it is.
I need to create a plan.
Okay, I'm probably gonna have to learn from somebody.
Either I'm gonna have to pay them to coach me
or I'm gonna have to get some sort of course.
I'm gonna have to go onto YouTube and figure it out.
And what you do is you figure out
what it is that you need to do.
Now, if you have a full time job,
then you know when you go home, this is what you're doing.
You're gonna lock it down.
You're not gonna go out and party.
You're not gonna see your friends and that's fine.
And I'm gonna tell you how to work with your friends
and work with your family and work with everybody.
If you have children,
obviously you've got to take care of your children,
but we're talking about taking time
to actually really lock down whatever that means for you.
And people can always use their family as an excuse,
but literally I had somebody who just joined
for me and just learned how to grow a coaching business.
She grew a coaching business.
She's got four, she's a single mother of four.
She made $16,000 last week.
You can use your family as an excuse if you want to,
or you can use them as the reason why you succeed.
People like to use their family and their children
as reasons why they're not succeeding.
In reality, you need to flip that
and make them the reason why you are going to succeed.
So you've got to figure out a very clear plan
of exactly what you're gonna do,
exactly what you're gonna create,
and the business, the money that you want,
the happiness, the joy,
whatever it is you're trying to create
in the next five to 10 years.
Get very clear on what it is that you want,
and then get very clear on the roadmap
and the plan to get there.
Here's what messes a lot of people up.
They expect that they need to come up
with the perfect plan that will never change.
Your plan is gonna change 500 times in the next 10 years.
That's okay.
It's the same way as if you're gonna take
a really long road trip,
there's gonna be some detours.
There's no way that the original plan to get there
is just gonna be perfect.
There's gonna be detours no matter what.
You can figure it out.
You can figure out what it is that you need to do.
The thing about it is that you know what you need to do
to create the life that you want.
You know what you need to do to be successful,
be happy, to whatever it is that you're trying to create.
You know.
The problem is you're just not doing it.
Everybody knows what they need to do
to become wealthier, happier, successful, or more peaceful.
We know what we need to do.
We're just not doing it.
That's the problem.
So stop acting like you don't know.
You've just got to start doing it.
Come up with a plan and realize that that plan
is going to shift and move along the way.
That's what's gonna happen.
It's gonna shift and move along the way.
So that's step number two is come up with a plan.
Step number three is what I told you in the very beginning.
Disappear, you're gone, poof.
Never to be seen again for the next six months.
That's what you're going to do.
Why?
Because this is your time to completely rewire
and to change your life.
And the people who really love you
will be fine with you doing this.
One of the main resistance of people doing this
is they think, oh my gosh, my mom's gonna be so mad.
You know, my friends are gonna be so mad.
Usually we hang out, we watch football on Sundays.
If it's really important to you, you'll figure it out.
If it's not important to you,
you make some excuses as to why you're not doing it.
That's the truth of the matter.
Tell everyone that you know
that you're going on a money-making vacation.
You're disappearing.
That's just the way it's gonna go.
You're gonna disappear for six months.
Just let them know.
If they get mad about it,
they were never a true friend in the first place.
Couple weeks ago, I did an episode
on Kobe Bryant and Michael Jordan.
What it takes to be great.
Now, I remember watching the video on Kobe Bryant
talking about how when he first got into the NBA,
he was only 18 years old.
Went straight from high school, straight to the NBA.
And he told all of his friends and all of his family,
I'm not gonna hang out with you for the next year.
And the person that was interviewing him was like,
well, didn't they get mad?
He's like, some of them got mad,
but those aren't my true,
that's not the true people who love me.
If you love me, you know how important basketball is to me.
You know how important it is for me
to bring out my true potential
in this very first year, how important it is.
We can hang out after year one.
But year one, I've gotta lock in.
I've gotta change myself.
I've gotta improve my skills
because this is the most important year of my life.
He said everyone that loved him was okay with it.
So you've gotta be up front and be like,
hey, I can't hang out.
I can't go to parties.
I can't watch football on Sundays.
Stop doing anything
that doesn't get you closer to your goal.
Stop doing anything that doesn't get you closer to your goal.
I promise you that everything will be exactly the same
six months from today as it is today,
besides your own life.
Everyone's gonna be acting the same.
They're gonna be talking the same.
They're gonna be thinking the same.
I remember when I left in 2012,
I went on a backpacking trip for three months by myself.
And then in 2017,
I went on a six-month trip with my girlfriend.
What was so funny is that you leave
and you're like, I've been gone for so long.
I bet everything's gonna be so different.
You come back, your friends are still exactly the same.
They're still working the same job.
They're still acting the same.
Your family's still the same.
Nothing has changed.
Everything is exactly the same.
Now, for those of you guys that have families,
you still gotta take care of your kids.
You still gotta feed them.
We get it.
But can you lock yourself outside of anything
that isn't the family, the kids,
everything that needs to be done?
Can you lock yourself outside of it?
Because your life is gonna improve dramatically
and their life is gonna improve dramatically as well.
You can do anything for six months.
Disappearing for six months is not that big of a deal.
And you've gotta ask yourself this question
as you're going through these six months.
If you're really serious about this,
this is something that you wanna do.
You've gotta constantly ask yourself this question
every single day, multiple times a day.
Is what I'm doing right now
getting me closer to or further from my goal?
Is what I'm doing right now
getting me closer to having a million dollar a year
Shopify and Etsy faux leather jacket company
that makes me profiting $300,000 a year from that million?
Okay, it's not.
I'm gonna stop doing it.
Is what I'm doing right now
getting me closer to or further from my goals?
And you start working at this and you develop,
what we're talking about is developing the foundation
of a brand new life,
developing the foundation of a brand new skillset,
developing the foundation of a brand new business.
And you're not gonna be amazing at the beginning,
but you're gonna get better and you're gonna get better
and you're gonna get better.
And what you're doing is you're basically
pouring the foundation for this brand new life,
this brand new business.
You're pouring the foundation.
And then after these six months,
you're basically, you're in the six months,
you're starting to build the bricks
and you're putting the bricks down.
But then what you're also gonna be doing
is continuing to build it after the six months.
After the six months,
you can go back and watch football
with your boys on Sundays.
You can watch Saturday NCAA football if you want to.
You can do all of those things.
But what I'm telling you is if it's truly important to you,
you'll lock it down for a little while.
You'll figure out how to make it work.
You'll figure out how to make it work with your business.
You'll figure out how to make it work with your family.
Figure out how to make it work with your friends.
You'll figure out how to make it work
with every single aspect of your business.
But if you're stopping yourself immediately right now
going, oh yeah, but what if?
You've already taken yourself out of the game.
So if you fully want to change your life,
disappear for six months.
Completely rewire yourself, rewire your mindset,
rewire your business, rewire your bank account,
rewire your happiness, your joy, your peace,
all of those things.
And in six months, you'll come back a different person
and inspire all of the people around you
to start changing themselves as well.
That is how you change your life,
is by disappearing for six months.
Hey, thanks so much for watching this video.
If you want to learn even more about mastering your mind,
click right here and watch this video as well.
Do I believe in the law of attraction?
Absolutely.
Do I believe that the universe is conspiring
to make my life amazing?
Absolutely.
Do I have proof that I can physically show
empirical data that it exists?
