NEVER COMPLAIN JUST ENJOY YOUR PAIN - One Of The Best Motivational Video Speeches Compilations EVER

everything you need is already inside of you it is you're just afraid to use it you're just afraid to use it take the first step the first step is always the hardest step because it forces you like a like a chick breaking out of an egg when it hatches the first step forces you to break out of your comfort zone and the comfort zone is so strong that probably 90% of people are held back from their full potential all their life because of this Vice like comfort zone and when you take the first step the only way you can do it is break out and suddenly you see the second step and the third step and the fourth step and then as you take the steps your self-esteem goes up and your self confidence goes up and you become more creative and you start to think of all kinds of ideas and and so this is the difference between top people is they have a big idea of what's possible and they take the first step the first hug advantage that personal growth gave me was that it gave me a head start over my peers because most people don't grow every day personally most people are not in that game so if you're in that game you begin to have what I call a decided Advantage when you do things that others do not do you begin to experience things that others do not experience and you begin to become things that others do not become wouldn't you want to know what would happen if you spent just one year just one year giving it your absolute all you gave your diet your absolute all you gave your Fitness regiment your absolute all you gave your work your absolute all how drastically would your life change in just one year one year of uninterrupted Focus I bet your life would change drastically I bet you'd be a completely different person I bet you'd be completely unrecognizable I bet you would look back and be like I can't believe I was living the way I was time is going to pass anyway the next year of your life is going to happen regardless of what you do so why don't you spend that year giving at your absolute all and just see what happens if you do that I guarantee you will look back one year from today and say that was the best decision I have ever made only you you have what you're going to bring literally nobody has it no one so there kind of a beautiful strength and confidence that comes when you realize that you're the only one that got what you got if you're truly willing to win in life you will evaluate yourself see where you're falling short see where you need to improve on and then take the necessary steps but it's very hard to have that realization of how mediocre you are of how lazy you are of how you've been lying to yourself for years it's very hard to be real with yourself but once you do become real with yourself and accept the responsibility that where you are right now is a direct result of your thoughts and your actions then you can flourish then you can really get started most people don't work hard enough for the results they want they think the world owes the something but the reality is it doesn't for most people it's a lot of talk and no action always telling people what they're going to do but never actually following through with what they say don't be like most people if you want to be the exception prove it show up work harder demand more from yourself than anyone else that's how you get to where you want to go so keep going the path of least resistance never makes you happy it's like it do you have to push yourself your life self-esteem your selfesteem esteem for yourself is earned by you doing something difficult for you so easy for us to uh get down on ourselves when we mess up and and fall into this trap of thinking that we should be doing everything perfect and all those things uh require struggle uh setback mistakes falling short uh but it's okay not getting so down on myself and feeling like I have to do everything right all the time you know cuz I don't you don't we don't so much Beauty in making mistakes and being able to learn from it and grow from it um and make the better decision next time own your decisions which means also own your mistakes there's nothing wrong with making a mistake absolutely nothing the more you make the more resilient you become resilience is the ability to endure something difficult and then if you hit a wall if you don't succeed your ability to recover and bounce back but if you spend your entire time avoiding stress avoiding conflict avoiding problems how will you build your resilience you will never build it you have nothing in this world to conquer or to challenge or to transcend apart from your mind all your neighbors live here your enemies and friends live here your gods and demons live here and yourself imagine lives here growth is very uncomfortable we all know that outside your comfort zone where growth takes place and for a lot of people they're comfortable right they're comfortable with the same habits that don't serve them they do the same things expect in a different life and I want to tell everybody this if you're trying to go to a next level in your life there's certain things you have to give up and you're going to move up certain friends you're going to have to give up maybe and sometimes the journey is lonely sometimes it gets hard you question yourself but I'll tell you this just because the path is lonely doesn't mean the path isn't perfect for your life you have to go through the fire first you have to experience the full fall and the complete self-loathing in order to come around to something like the forgiving of oneself it's when you skip responsibility when you use a substitute emotion like guilt which is of no use to anyone but if you feel the real thing which is shame hatred human creation and self-loathing that is the door and if you get through that then you can forgive yourself if you are living a comfortable life it only means you are continuously staying inside a field of what you know already every time you are expanding that border you're expanding that limit for me this means there is some growth [Music] be what it is you claim to be about be what it is you truly want to be okay if you truly want to be successful if you truly want to change your life be about about it today be about it today and then when today's over be about it [Music] tomorrow we all have fear everyone has fear fear is one of the most greatest things that you can possibly have fear is an instinct fear propels you fear makes you great fear brings you alive doesn't it what would you do if you just learned today that you only had 6 months to live what if you only had 6 months to live what would you stop doing what would you do more of who would you spend time with now the answer to that question is very interesting because what it tells you is what you really value what is really important to you number one don't run away and number two be honest to yourself those two things you should keep them in mind and then just put time effort into practice I think is the KE step by step build something up about yourself about your life about your character and personality that will give you some strong fundament in order to tackle everything that this world is going to throw at you truly believe we are all equal as human beings if we are obsessed with something and we truly pursue our passion with everything we have regardless of any anything else if you are obsessed work hard put in the time you will succeed and this is hard work this is an obsession nothing can beat hard work the most important people in your life are the people who believe in you before you even believe in yourself the people who see something in you before you can see it in yourself those people are essential to whatever it is that you want to achieve and accomplish because there's going to be a point when you've pounded your head into a wall so many times that you're Delirious that you can't see the vision for your future that you can't see that it is at all possible and having those people in your life to ground you and to Center you around the fact that you can do it that you can achieve those things that you are capable that your potential is so much more than what you're currently doing changes everything the cure for sadness isn't finding a 100 different ways to be happy it's accepting the life you're walking through for what it is and pushing through it's believing that everything has a purpose and learning to make peace with past versions of yourself that don't align with who you've become the pain is a prerequisite improve yourself as a human being there will be many things in this life that you don't have control over but your happiness is not one of them perspective is everything I don't care where you come from I don't care where you were raised I don't care what color you are I don't care what gender you are I don't care about any of that [ __ ] if you do the work consistently if you invest in yourself consistently 1 + 1 is always going to equal two 2 plus 2 is going to equal four and 10 years of [ __ ] work when everybody else is partying making excuses doing the cool thing on the weekend is going to pay off you can do this I don't care if you have to inch your way day by day even if you have to get down and it hurts and it's hard and nobody can see what you're really going through if you don't quit the pit will become your platform it's not what you get that makes you valuable it's what you become so part of the key here is to set the kind of goals that will make something of you don't set them too low so that you don't have to grow and you don't have to read and you don't have to try and you don't have to stretch don't set them too low and then don't sell out don't go for something that's going to cost you your virtue or cost you your values or sell out your principles there's a good Middle Road here to follow goals that will inspire goals that will help you grow change develop and become better than you [Music] are a creative life is simply this a creatively lived life is any life where consistently routinely habitually and constantly you choose the path of curiosity over the path of fear not once not twice not a few times but all the times all the times because you're constantly going to be in these Crossroads in your life daily almost where there's a lure of curiosity on this side and there's a kind of a roadblock of fear over here saying take this take this safer path I don't know what I don't know how that one ends um so let's just continue with this and if you keep going to the right on the fear path instead of going to the left on the Curiosity path your life gets smaller and heavier which I know is not what you want or what anybody wants the greatest version of you it's not the I can do anything version of you the greatest version of you is the disciplined version of you I'm focused I have a prize that's in front of me I know what I'm supposed to do and that ain't it I have to stay right here it's the version of you that has parameters if you guys mentally believe you can do it your body will find a way physically to make it happen if you are short up here it doesn't matter what you do with these guys it will never materialize into anything no dream will ever become reality when winners the difference between them and The Spectators is the winners have a belief that overrides the crowd's disbelief every single time their belief is so strong even though they hit failure they get knocked on the ass they're fin the intestinal for to stand back up again face that same challenge learning from the previous mistakes and make it happen but the quality is to develop the quality of being Unstoppable develop the quality of being Unstoppable say in yourself that no matter what life throws at me it'll never stop me no matter how rough it gets I will never quit and nothing will ever stop me life isn't fair we have to understand that it shouldn't be fair it's a trial ground it's a testing ground it's buil to make us harder it's bu to make us as strong as we can to test us to drive us so mentality is the only thing that gets us through life I was an underdog we are all underdogs in life even the baddest person in the world think that way so she should always have I've never arrived mentality fear is like a home that must be addressed once you located the source of it you can address it you can speak to it when fear comes up you've got a reminded that you are a history major you've majored in things all your life majored in overcoming you've majored in winning you've majored and suffering you've majored in all those things so it's a minor thing for you to have fear but fear's got to remember something the more that you go into life with it and whenn the more you'll realize you can be Fearless time is limited how many Wednesdays do you have left how many months how many weeks how many years how many minutes that clock is ticking and it's going to run out there's people with dreams incredible dreams beautiful dreams heartwarming dreams but who executes without execution those dreams are nothing without execution those goals are nothing without execution those ideas are nothing without execution you become nothing the plan the idea the thought doesn't matter if you want to win you have to execute why not you why not you with good self-esteem why not you starting to change and setting goals why not you starting to make progress toward Financial Independence uh if I can do it you can do it if we can read you can read if we can change you can change if we can figure it out you can figure it out if we can turn it around you can turn it around there isn't anything you can't accomplish and so I want to say it to you personally why not you it's not really about what you want it's about what you're willing to do to get it I and in that maybe you have to give something up that may not be a good habit to replace it with a better habit whether it's how you recover how you sleep how you dissipate everybody got to make that decision so it's not just about what you want it's about what are you willing to do to get it that's what it all comes down to guys you are creators every human being is a Creator as you think so shall you be I believe we're creators and I believe we create with every thought and every word we really do paint our world with our thoughts can almost create your entire world not almost you actually can but we can all do it as we don't realize the power we have if you can see it you can do it that's what we are we are creators we are manifestors clarify and Define your your vision for yourself in the highest possible way that you can see it be delusional even right at the Apex of which your mind believes is possible maybe push past that even a little bit and Define it and then number two is like believe it and three is work towards it do not give in to the lie that none of this matters do not give in to the lie that all you're good for is all you're good for above all resist the urge to believe in half truths someone spoke about you the logical fallacies that say you messed up this one thing so you must have messed up everything you couldn't get that last relationship right what makes you think you'll get this one right you got fired from that last job what makes you think you're any good in the workplace now if you really want Redemption for the times that you came up short then you need to keep your eyes looking forward not backward because your greatest life is ahead of you not behind you I don't need to keep addressing the fear you I dress it once if I face it then it gets out of my face I'm telling you that the greatest part of you is waiting for you to announce itself in the arena of life and say I am that man I am that woman in the arena I am not afraid of what may come through the door whatever's behind the door must come and face me in a room that I've already grown accustomed to you want to take me when I'm broke I've been there take me when I've lost something I've been there whatever it is that you've got to face let that fear die but the winds that you've accumulated because you've already faced the worst enemy you will ever have yourself you are going to suffer it is going to be hard it's going to take all of your energy it's going to kick you in the face a thousand times you're going to be demoralized you're going to be frustrated you're going to be angry you're going to be bitter sometimes this is why it's so important to build yourself into someone who can execute regardless of what your mood is regardless of what your circumstances is because if you can execute when things areed up and everybody else bails and everybody else quits what kind of Advantage does that give you over the long haul it gives you a tremendous advantage and if you could become the kind of person that cannot be stopped by outside circumstances or going through a tough time or being in a bad mood or being unmotivated how can anyone beat that it's the biggest lie in the world you may have said it to yourself today you may have heard it today and it's this I'll do it tomorrow I'll do it when I wake up I'll do it after I finish this I'll do it when I retire I'll do it when things are easier I'll do it when things go back to normal senica said the one thing all fools have in common is that they're always delaying to start they're always getting ready to start work real says you could be good today instead you choose tomorrow we choose tomorrow because we know it's not a real choice we're not actually going to do it it's just kicking the can down the road it's a lie we tell ourselves it's the biggest lie in the world we don't say we're never going to do it we say we're going to do it later but we're not I think we all struggle with something in life where we're not confident in and once we understand like I said how powerful we are how powerful our minds are then there shouldn't be nothing that we can't accomplish [Music] every day you have an opportunity to be a new person like you can just wake up tomorrow and decide I'm going to be totally different I'm going to act different I'm going to talk different I'm going to behave different don't get so caught up in the sunk-cost fallacy of being you that you never change and you never evolve don't let the amount of time that you've spent being who you are stop you from being who you could be I'm here to tell you right now you're going to make it I know it doesn't feel like it I know you look around and see nothing but Despair and defeat you look at the scoreboard and see that you're down by 25 in the last quarter but I'm telling you right now you're going to make it not because of what's on you but because of what's in you what's in you is somebody who doesn't give up what's in you is somebody who knows what the feat tastes like who knows what it's like to go through the trials and the tribulations somebody who knows that they want to leave a legacy for the people to come after them somebody who doesn't live their life inspired by ego or fame or accolades but somebody who wants to make a genuine impact who believes that leaving all people places and things better than they found it is a life worth living that's why you're going to make it so don't give in don't you quit on me see this race all the way through the end you would never know what's inside what's inside of you or what can be pulled out of you until you're tested the one thing about being tested is that it brings out the best of you you should embrace any time that people are challenging you testing you coming up against you because what it does is it forces you to grab something on the inside and pour it out in front of them there's more inside of you than you've ever imagined so welcome the test because it brings out the best the only way to become more successful than most people is to be willing to do something most people aren't willing to do you have to believe that this moment is preparing you for something amazing that hasn't happened keep going and so I repeated that over and over and over and over and over again as I wanted to throw in the towel as I would start to bash myself as I would start to feel sorry for myself and be like NOP there's just no way I'm going to believe that something amazing isn't going to happen I've worked too hard something amazing that hasn't happened is coming don't let the amount of time that you've spent being who you are stop you from from being who you could be just because you've been a certain person up to this point and people know you to be a certain way doesn't mean you can't change all of that right now it's got to be the mindset that you wake up with test me bring out the best of me every time you come through a loss use it as a lesson learned test me bring out the best in me and you'll see what I become you need to be test it welcome it embrace it and understand that everyone that comes up against you helps you pull out more within you and once you pull that out the whole world will see what greatness looks like you'll never know it you'll never have it you'll never possess it unless you're willing to be tested and that way you'll never bested when you're the absolute best you get hated on the most but never stop fighting no matter what anyone say is no matter how they try to compromise your vision if it's in your gut if it's in your soul there's nothing there's no worldly possessions that should come between you and your expression in my life I've learned that success has three components to it the first you must be diligent to get there it requires waking up every morning right on time with your alarm going to the gym reading the books hammering away at your craft day in and day out you must be diligent knocking on its door until somebody answers and second you must be consistent to stay there because it's not enough just to knock on enough doors get to the top of the mountain and look out at the view and say wow what a beautiful sight you must be consistent if you want to continue to see that Vista but third that's only one Vista there are many more Peaks for you to climb and if you want to climb more Peaks then you must be grateful don't waste time chasing butterflies mend your garden and the butterflies will come all of us have this tendency to chase to go and push for all those things that we want in life and what the quote teaches us is that the better path is to mend our garden to actually work on ourselves internally and those things that you are seeking will come to you If You Mend your garden you become the magnet that attracts the things that you want in life there is a strange feeling that one is not yet in real life for the time being one is doing this or that but there is always the fantasy that sometime in future the real thing will come about that one day life's duties will be out of the way and that you can finally start doing the thing you want and living your life fully is a myth I think it's a lie [Music] you know when you're standing at the edge of a cliff and it's most scariest to jump that's when you jump and when you leap that's when the net appears you know courage isn't the absence of fear it's doing it afraid you know that's also Faith Like if you saw the net and then you jump that's not Faith you knew that was down there faith is like okay I'm standing at this Cliff I don't see anything down there I'm incredibly scared I don't know what's going to happen and then you jump and then the net appears the power of Faith set of huge steps is continuity that one is your friend repetition is your friend not huge jumping it is the repetition of things that starts to embody something inside of you but ultimately it's repetition if you don't fail you're not even trying I'll say it again if you don't fail you're not even trying to get something you never had you have to do something you never [Music] did e