SMALL STEPS ARE BETTER THAN NO STEPS - Best Motivational Speech

the willingness to be disliked is a super part if you develop the willingness to be disliked you will inevitably have the courage to do the hard things that most people are not willing to do this will then imbue your life with a sense of meaning and importance it will also lead to success that others will be too intimidated to go after but I would go even further than this I would argue that until you're comfortable with the disapproval of others you are not truly a free individual yourself you must develop the ability to be disliked in order to free yourself from the prison of other people's opinions learn to do what's right even if others think it might be wrong learn to tolerate criticism and negative feedback because that's what will make you better learn to be laughed at hated on and trolled because if you can become comfortable with the hate you'll be unstoppable just like you I was filled with anxiety and and I still am filled with anxiety to this day but I I think the right thing to do is not to run away from the anxiety but to lean into it and uh Channel it into pursuing with everything you got the things you're passionate about and it may turn out in the end that your life will have unexpected chapters but as long as you're chasing dreams and goals with absolute unwavering dedication good stuff will come with it we all get to choose what hard hard are we going to have are we going to have the heart of creating and becoming and being a great example for everybody else honoring the people who came before us and setting a great example for the people coming after us or are we going to cruise or are we going to Coast or are we just going to be another poor little me another person that dies with all the hopes and dreams and amazing aming ideas that could have helped people while you were here who says at the end of their life I could have I should have I wish I had or are you going to be the person that says at the end of their life I did it the great do things when they don't always want to I think that's what separates good from great Master self discipline become the person that regardless of how you feel you can consistently go through the motions be the person that you can count on do it because you said that you would because it is what will get you closer to obtaining Legacy operate like a finely tuned highly efficient machine continuously making improvements through trial and error do this until the day comes that you can operate optimally without even having to think about about it without any effort because you were just that good that finely tuned When You Reach This level of performance the rate at which you improve skyrockets exponentially and you will be soaring past the achievements that you once believed to be impossible but you have to get over this first hump think of this as life or death because this is the difference between you continuing to be stuck in the cycle versus actually living the life that you dream of self-discovery is the path to self-mastery and true craftsmanship daily practice something you do every single day to fire up those neurons you understand this will help you realize your Edge what makes you unique and give you the confidence to not give a damn because you know who you are because let me tell you something you're going to get a lot of flowers you're going to get a lot of Praise but you're going to get hate too it's better to be hated for who you truly are then adored for who you truly aren't no amount of external approval will make up for the inevitable lack of fulfillment that comes from trying to be someone that you're not true love and connection require authenticity without it there's only dishonest attachment you should be viewing every single thing that happens in your life as a learning experience every good thing you do every bad thing you do the things you do to people the things people do to you regardless of the situation there is always something embedded in there that you can use to make you better and if you do that if you view every single interaction every single situation that you encounter as a learning experience you will never lose because most people are just coasting through life completely asleep at the wheel not paying attention to anything that goes on not looking for lessons not trying to improve and they view every single situation that they encounter as just what happens to them and those people will always blame two things before they ever blame themselves they will blame someone else or their circumstances and if you can just skip those two and look for the thing that you could do better in every single situation you will always win no matter what all the worry all the pressure and expectation that you're trying to live up to where is it taking you all the fake rules in your head that you're living by what's the end goal the imaginary milestones in your head are just that imaginary and think about it this way you've already achieved goals that you once said would make you happy so instead of predicating your happiness on these external achievements become a person who is fully committed to working towards all the things that you want in life regardless of timeline and most importantly enjoying the process chances are you're more likely to find the success that you want through the pursuit of happiness rather than happiness through the pursuit of success remember that one price to pay for everything and that includes inaction that includes not doing anything there's a consequence to pay for just sitting there in your thoughts in your feelings not running not chasing after you want not going after your dreams there's a consequence to listening to the opinions of people that don't even know what you have inside there's a consequence you better study consequences of people before you that didn't act on the things they wanted to truly act on there's a consequence so I weigh the consequences [Music]