Jul 31, 2024
Agnes Howard would be connected to Tudor history forever by, oddly, not being involved. As guardian to many wards, including the future queen, Katherine Howard, Agnes was less-than-hands-on. Her poor handling of Katherine's teenage urges would lead to the traumatic death of a young girl, and the devastation of the Howard family. But is this all there was to Agnes? This video looks at Agnes' life, from her years as a young bride married into the political Howard family, to her time as a wealthy widow at court, and her fateful decisions regarding her step-granddaughter, Katherine.
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Agnes Howard or Agnes til as she started
life is remembered primarily for her
part in the events surrounding Katherine
Howard's affair with Thomas C pepper but
who was the woman who supposedly
neglected her young Noble charges and
encouraged them to act immorally and how
much of this vision of Agnes is actually
true she was not born into nobility but
instead into the Lincolnshire Gentry
around
1477 her father was Sir Hugh tilney a
land owner and administrator who married
lady Ellena tailboys daughter to another
prominent gentleman nothing is really
known about Agnes's upbringing but she
was born during a lull in the wars of
the Roses during the second reign of
Edward IV regardless of whether she was
nobility or Gentry Agnes would still
have expected a comfortable and
privileged upbringing compared to most
of the population she wouldn't have been
given an education equal to her brothers
but she would have been taught how to
manage a household dancing and music
reading and writing but probably not
much Beyond this Agnes might have
expected as an older girl or teenager to
go into the household of a wealthier
relation perhaps one that had married
into the nobility the purpose of this
would be to make contacts both for a
potential position at court or in a
noble household and also for finding a
spouse this may have been how Agnes met
her husband we know that her brother
Philip was in the service of Thomas
Howard who at the time was the Earl of
su and it's not unlikely that Agnes
herself was also in the household her
cousin Elizabeth tilney was his first
wife and the Countess of su it's
probable that Agnes was a maid of some
kind to her cousin and this was where
she got to know Thomas Howard as well
when Elizabeth died on the 4th of April
1497 little time was wasted on getting a
dispensation around 4 months later so
that Agnes Thomas could marry they did
this on the 8th of November when Agnes
was 20 and she now became the next
Countess of sorry interestingly Thomas
was happy to marry Agnes despite her
Mega dowy which also suggests when
coupled with the speed of their marriage
that this was a love match of some kind
or at least this wasn't a practical
arrangement for Thomas by this point
Agnes's new husband's courtly career was
on the up back in 1483 when Richard thei
had briefly taken the throne Thomas had
been a supporter of his not surprisingly
once the throne was taken by Henry viith
this hadn't really done Sor any favors
but he continued to be a diligent member
of the nobility without causing any
further trouble and 2 years after his
second marriage in
1499 Thomas was called back to court the
following year he had proven he was a
trusted enough member of court that he
accompanied Henry on a state visit to
France and by 1501 had done enough to be
sworn into the privy chamber Agnes would
also have likely accompanied her husband
to court and this would have afforded
her opportunity to network and become
involved in politics while women were
technically barred from politics at
court they were able to make connections
with others provide patronage and
influence people through their husband's
name within that same year Henry
arranged for a marriage Mar between his
eldest son Prince Arthur and a Spanish
infanta Catherine of aragan Thomas was
one of those involved in the
negotiations with Spain and on the 14th
of November 1501 The Prince and infanta
were married at Old St Paul's Cathedral
Agnes became a lady in waiting in the
young princess's household a reasonable
position for a young Countess but this
didn't last for long on the 2nd of April
1502 the Young Prince died but but it
was a sign of how far the Earl of su had
come in that he was put in charge of
arranging the funeral the following year
the influence of the Howards only
continued to grow as they were trusted
to be part of the courtiers who escorted
Margaret chuda the king's eldest
daughter to Scotland for her wedding to
James ivth treasury accounts show that
while they were in Scotland Agnes and
one of her stepdaughters lady Muriel
gray were given a length of cloth of
gold as payment for having helped to
clip the king's beard on the 9th of
August the day after his wedding it may
sound like a strange job for a noble
woman but it was one that showed how
much the Howard family were now trusted
of course attending court and Royal
events were not the only duties Agnes
carried out over the course of her
marriage which appears to have been
happy she would have at least 11
children of these children around seven
of them survived to adulthood four
daughters and Three Sons this was on top
of the other 10 children Thomas already
had from his previous marriage to
Elizabeth so their household was a
sizable one it's also likely they had
other younger members of the Howard
family in service the same way Agnes
might have been and this would set the
tone for the household in years to come
with regards to Wards Agnes later looked
after in 1509 Henry iith died and the
kingship passed over to his remaining
son Henry VII as another show of faith
in the Howards Thomas was once again
given an important task as one of the
executiv of the late King's will both
Thomas and Agnes must have impressed
Henry VII who was now married to his
brother's widow Catherine of aragan as
in 1514 Thomas was awarded for his years
of service to the court by being
bestowed with the title of dukee of
Norfolk making Agnes a duchess now Agnes
has self Rose through the court
especially as she was no longer merely a
countess and lady in waiting to a
princess but a duchess and a lady in
waiting to the Queen of England when
Princess Mary the king and queen's first
and what would be their only surviving
child was born in
1516 Agnes stood as her godmother this
was an important position given only to
trusted female members of the Court who
had not only proven themselves but were
also quite literally thought of as good
influences on the young princess Agnes
was also present with Mary in 1520 when
the young girl impressed visitors from
France with a recital on the virginals a
type of harps Accord however by 1522
almost at the age of 80 the Duke's poor
health started to fail him and he
retreated from Court retiring to
framlingham Castle 2 years later he died
on the 21st of May
1524 and Agnes was trusted by him to be
an executor of his will not only that
but she was now an extremely wealthy
Widow with around 24 Estates under her
belt she also remained in favor at court
on her own Merit as in 1526 she was once
again given a prominent position as
first lady in waiting to Queen Catherine
only behind the King's sister Mary Tuda
however change was coming and Henry was
fast becoming disillusioned with his
wife casting his eye over one of her
ladies in waiting and berin it wasn't
long before the king put Catherine to
one side and send her from court and he
began what was at least an emotional
affair with Anne Agnes along with much
of the Howard family was against the
idea of the king separating from
Catherine but by the winter of 1532 the
king secretly married Anne Catherine had
already been dismissed from Court a year
earlier and Anne had had taken over the
Queen's Royal Chambers the reason for
the secret wedding may possibly have
been due to Anne becoming pregnant as
she may have realized that carrying the
king's child would hasten his marriage
to her and so she might have started
sleeping with him before their marriage
on the 25th of January 1533 Henry and
Anne were officially married in a much
more public ceremony and a few days
later on the 23rd of May Thomas krammer
declared the marriage to Katherine null
and void and Henry's new marriage to
Anne valid on the 28th Agnes like most
of the rest of her family did not agree
with the divorce but was in a unique
position as she was also related to Anne
who was her step granddaughter this
meant she was still in a high position
at court and was present at an's
coronation as one of those chosen to
carry her train when Princess Elizabeth
the king and queen's newborn daughter
was christened on the 10 of September
that same year Agnes carried the infant
and also acted as one of her godmothers
this shows that the Howards were now
powerful enough at court to hold their
own political views even in opposition
as their Network and connection to the
queen was strong enough to withstand
this however this wouldn't last forever
the lack of a prince being born made
Henry grow weary with Anne which wasn't
helped by her insistence on religious
reform by 1536 he was already eyeing up
wife three and in what is now thought of
as a farce of a trial Anna and her
brother George were both found guilty of
adultery incest and treason and the
queen was executed on the 19th of May
1536 at the Tower of London Henry then
married Jane Seymour a few weeks later
and after her death an of cleaves Agnes
was still at court at this time but
perhaps was a less prominent figure she
would have continued running her estate
and this included looking after several
Wards most of her young Wards lived at
Norfolk house in Lamberth or chesworth
house in the village of ham Sussex one
of Agnes's Wards who was also her
step-granddaughter was Katherine Howard
sent in 1531 to chesworth house she
would have been only around 8 to 10
years old and would have been impressed
by the Grandeur of Agnes's household as
the fourth highest ranked woman in the
country Agnes had to keep a household to
match her impressive fortunes and the
Mana house would have bustled with
activity and servants by this point
Agnes was known for her lavish lifestyle
across her 24 Estates but she also spent
a lot of time at court however she still
found time to write letters of unwanted
medical advice to Cardinal waly
patronized several poets and Agnes also
became very well known for her a serbic
and sarcastic put down of many other
courtiers she was also wealthy enough
that she kept around £800 worth of
silver handy in her main household just
in case and was a generous employer
however her many absences away at court
meant she was not around as often as she
could have been to keep a firm grip of
any situations arising in her household
Catherine nevertheless would have been
given an education befitting a member of
the Howard family part of this would
have been music lessons
around 1536 in her early teens she
started lessons with Henry manx a young
man who was probably in his early 20s
and their conversations eventually led
to a highly inappropriate relationship
this would last until 1538 and there's
debate over whether this really was two
young people who fancied each other and
took a silly risk or if this was at
worst The Grooming of a younger girl
Henry also seems to have pressured
Catherine to have sex with him although
later the pair would admit only to
sexual touching not actual Kus and the
fact he also gossiped about her to the
servants led to Catherine breaking off
their relationship in the spring of
1538 but there was more to come in the
form of one of Agnes's secretaries
Francis daram who also happened to be a
distant Kinsman of hers he was attracted
to Catherine and shortly after she broke
off the en entanglement with Henry
Maddox he began to pursue her according
to the later account both of them gave
the pair did become lovers but there
seems to have been genuine affection
between the pair they jokingly called
one another husband and wife and
Catherine even took care of some of
Durham's money when he briefly went
abroad a task that would normally be
taken care of by a wife it's even
possible they exchanged vows between
each other if not in a church but where
was Agnes while all this was happening
as she was often still away at court
Agnes did not find out about the affair
until 1539 on a rare visit to Sussex and
she immediately put an end to it when
she went to mass one morning the letters
of petition left for her were brought
forth and one in particular had a
strange message it warned that if she
went up into the bedroom of the maidens
of the house half an hour earlier than
usual she would see that which shall
displease you Catherine and several of
the other female Wards and servants
shared a large bedroom as was customary
for the period Francis had been known to
share a bed with Catherine to the extent
that one of the other servants in the
room Marjorie would later say she saw
daram removing Catherine's clothes and
had told her he knew enough about sex to
not get Catherine pregnant Agnes
apparently entered the room and found
the young couple in an embrace
she felt her punching them both before
firing off a furious tirade finally
storming off to her Chambers to calm
down she must have been horrified to
find out such relationships were going
on in the household and yet Francis
darham was able to keep his job this was
the real reflection on the duchess's
conduct not the fact that Catherine had
taken the Mickey with her relationships
which had easily gone under the radar
due to Agnes being away and leaving the
household in the hands of her Steward
but the fact she did not dismiss daram
or at least send Catherine away to
another relative however Thomas Howard
Agnes's stepson was called on to bring
Catherine to court and she first made an
appearance there by the summer of
1539 this was partly to distance her
from the Scandal but also to help
further the Ambitions of the Howard
family she became a maid of honor to an
of cleaves and this would be where she
was first seen not by the king but by
Thomas C pepper Thomas C pepper was in
the service of Henry VII a young man
with wealth looks and ambition to get as
far ahead as he could he had worked for
Vi count Lyle who was an uncle of Henry
VII helping the vi count to obtain items
for the court including a hawk for the
king himself it wasn't long before K
pepper who was described as a beautiful
youth charming and knew how to make
himself indispensable soon became a
favorite of Henry's he had some
influence over the king and was often
bribed to speak for others in their
favor eventually he was created Keeper
of the Armory working his way up to
being given the position of gentleman of
the privy chamber Henry had also given K
pepper several properties by the time
Catherine arrived at court while
Catherine was a maid of honor she
received no end of attention from many
of the men at court and Thomas was known
as someone who went through the women so
it was unsurprising that he was
eventually drawn to Catherine who was
considered Beautiful by many there and
they had something of a romance for a
short while however being known as an
irresistible ladies man was too much of
a pull for Thomas as Catherine refused
his more sexual advances and his
attention soon wavered to another
leading to Catherine ending things
between them at this point Katherine and
Henry didn't really have much
communication
as was etiquette in the 16th century
Court Catherine and Henry would flirt
whenever they met and he obviously found
her attractive but it went no further
for some time however as the king's
interest in his fourth wife an quickly
waned he increased his attention towards
Catherine there is no doubt that Agnes
as well as Thomas Howard would have
absolutely encouraged Catherine flirting
back well knowing there was a chance he
might consider her for his next wife
while Catherine wasn't old enough to
have the life experience of knowing how
to be manipulative with Henry she did
understand how to flatter men and make
herself more attractive to them she
pretended not to notice the oozing puss
from his bad leg or indeed all the other
qualities which made Henry unattractive
and allowed him to feel he was once
again the athletic handsome youth he had
once been the problem with all of this
was that cther
while she was technically free to marry
had a murky romantic past for the time
she lived in and while Thomas Howard
could be excused merely for being
ambitious Agnes was not only ambitious
but aware of Catherine's past this was
something that could have been brushed
under the carpet if her step
granddaughter was considering marrying
another Noble perhaps but this was the
king the Queen's morality had to be
without question as seen with amberin
and it could easily be discovered this
made Agnes at least complicit in the
events that would follow from this point
onwards even if she did not cause them
Henry quickly became enamored with
Catherine and throughout 1540 he
lavished her with gifts and detention
and it became clear that he was starting
to make moves on her it wasn't long
before an of cleaves was told the
Furious story of there being plague in
the city which was highly unlikely as
Henry himself was deeply afraid of being
ill and yet stayed however he did find
time to visit Katherine Howard and bring
her to dinners it wasn't long before he
began to make moves to bring her in as
his next wife on the 12th of July 1540
an amicable annulment was found between
an of cleaves and Henry VII wasting
little time Henry then married Catherine
on the 28th of July the same year at
Oakland's Palace near
as with previous Queen since amberin no
coronation was ever planned for her
although it's possible it could have
happened had Catherine given birth to a
son Agnes was once again one of the top
players at court as a relative of the
new Queen and many members of the Howard
family were moved into higher positions
Catherine was a different Queen to those
who had come before her being so young
and extroverted in personality she loved
dancing and entertainment before
anything else and this was heightened by
the fact she wasn't allowed to be
involved politically due to her young
age she was instead visited each night
by Sir Thomas henage Henry's groom of
the stool who kept her up to date with
administrative Affairs and the King's
well-being Henry himself was happy to
indulge his pretty new wife and he gave
into Katherine's every women desire
however Catherine was also a Kind and
Generous person who would often pass
many of her gifts onto her servants and
friends but it wouldn't be long before
she once again got herself into romantic
trouble Thomas Co pepper seeing a way to
get ahead decided to ingratiate himself
once more with the new queen with the
aid of Jane Bolin one of her ladies in
waiting she made it possible for him to
meet with Catherine and they began an
affair as to whether that Affair was
merely emotional or physical comes down
to later evidence but certainly over the
course of the summer of 1541 it
increased in August Henry and Catherine
went on Royal progress stopping briefly
at pontif frat Castle it was here that
Catherine and Thomas allegedly met
several more times much more brazenly
meeting in Katherine's chamber while
Jane bin sat outside and kept watch by
October Thomas cranmer had been given
information about the affair and on the
30th he slipped a letter to Henry
telling him all that had been been found
out Catherine and her ladies in Waiting
were dancing in her Chambers at the time
and they were all sent away apart from
Jane berin Catherine and Jane were
confined to her quarters and Catherine's
guilty conscience kicked in and wouldn't
let her eat for 2 days Henry arranged a
few days later to be in the chapel Royal
praying as Catherine was removed and
taken to Oakland's Palace she would
never see the King again it became clear
very quickly that Henry was now going to
have Catherine's past and movements
looked over with a fine tooth comb and
no one was to be spared in the search
Thomas Howard was the only relative who
stayed for the time being near his niece
and was with her when she was told about
Henry's decision to keep her in her
Chambers Agnes knowing she had known
about Catherine's past and allowed her
to marry the king regardless must have
been terrified she ordered all 24 of her
Estates be turned over in order to look
for incriminating evidence and she had
coffers at the places where Catherine
had stayed searched for letters from
Francis darham which were then burnt
however she also held the personal view
that Catherine could not be punished for
having sex before marriage no matter how
it was looked down upon by 16th century
Society it's clear that at this point
Agnes did not know the full extent of
what had been discovered it wasn't long
before questioning led to Catherine
being placed in cion Abbey under arrest
stripped first of her finery and Rings
symbols of her queenship the entire
Howard family now fell under suspicion
it was suspected the queen had a lover
but the council were not entirely sure
who it would be although Co pepper was
suspected with the evidence from
servants who had once worked in the
duess of norfolk's households
Catherine's sworded past was dragged up
and evidence from her ladies in Waiting
pointed to C pepper as well C pepper was
arrested and brought to the Tower of
London for questioning along with
Francis darham eventually C pepper and
darham would be executed on the 10th of
December 1541 for treason their heads
put up on Pikes on London Bridge and
Agnes was also in the firing line also
on the 10th of December the now elderly
Duchess was arrested and brought to the
tower her Estates being turned over
under the king orders she did not
immediately give into the interrogation
given to her but she was put under
immense pressure it was not legal at the
time to torture nobility so she was safe
from this but she was also around 64
years of age and it was feared The
Strain would increase the chances of her
dying from the stress eventually Agnes
relented and admitted she had along with
other members of her family encouraged
Catherine to show affection to the king
and she also gave gave up everything she
knew about Francis darham and Henry manx
and it was enough to sink the entire
Howard family completely a few days
later Agnes's son William Howard first
Baron Howard of Effingham his wife
Margaret Agnes's daughter lady Anne
Howard Countess of Oxford and Agnes's
younger daughter Katherine doony lady
Bridgewater were all arrested and
brought to the tower they along with
several of their servants were in
interrogated and charged with treason
their goods and lands were forfeit and
they were sentenced to life imprisonment
Agnes was included in this although due
to her age she was not brought to trial
for Fears she might die out of
perversity to defraud the king's
highness of the confiscation of her
Goods however she remained in the tower
under a sentence of life imprisonment
and no longer had access to her vast
Fortune the Duke of Norfolk panicked and
immediately denounced his stepmother and
other family members writing a letter to
the king dripping with dislike for what
his family had done eager to escape
their fate the entire Affair was now
publicly known the former Queen was
charged with high treason and senten to
beheading with an act of attainer which
also allowed Jane now considered to have
gone mad while imprisoned to also be
executed Catherine and Jane were both
LED out to the scaffold on the 13th of
February and and beheaded their bodies
buried with other victims of Henry VII
Fury in the tower's Chapel of St Peter
advincula Agnes however remained in the
tower for a while longer Henry wanted to
push further with her punishment as he
thought she was as complicit as darham
but his privy Council managed to
convince the king to allow her to remain
simply imprisoned not executed on the
5th of May 1542 Agnes was finally
released from the tower along with her
children children it seemed that now the
queen had paid for the event with her
life a line could be drawn under it
although the Howards would never be
trusted in Henry's court again The
Duchess withdrew from politics for the
first time in her life and retreated to
her household although she no longer had
her Estates she would live for another 3
years until May
1545 when she died aged around 68 years
old even in death Judah politics would
once again inter feere when due to the
dissolution of the monasteries her
family moved her body from Thetford
Abbey to Lambeth Church in Su near norol
house by 1546 most of her lands had been
reclaimed by the Howards through her
stepson the Duke of Norfolk Agnes Howard
was a perfect example of her age a woman
married into a political family
inextricably linked to the Royal Court
and its intimacies a woman who was a
force in her own right in an age when
women were still not legally allowed to
be actively involved in much public life
however she overstepped the boundaries
required of her age when she allowed
Catherine to have relationships that for
the 16th century were considered loose
and immoral this would stain the past of
the poor girl while Agnes was not the
instigator her poor handling of the
situation allowed it to develop far
beyond what it should have she would go
down in history as a woman who allowed
free Reign Over the teenagers under her
care when in fact she was merely an
absent Guardian who did not know how to
stop the behavior when brought to her
attention and so despite Agnes being one
of the most politically involved women
of her time this one event would color
the history of her entire
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