Should You Become A Personal Trainer? | Mind Pump 2390

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all right Fitness changed your life you
love it it's amazing you want to share
it with the world you want to work as a
personal trainer but is it the right job
and career for you that's what we're
going to talk about in today's episode
should you become a personal trainer a
lot of people have passion they that's
it yeah that is it this so you know um I
think it's it's important that we talk
about what got us into the the FI cuz we
all we all lasted a long time
Rich wrong reason strange you chose this
industry I I actually didn't think um I
didn't think it was I didn't take it
seriously as a career not when I at
least not when I first started I
actually thought it would be a cool um
like side business or like a part-time
job while I finished my degree yeah but
your degree was what Kinesiology and so
I thought but I didn't think I was going
to use that for personal training I
wanted to be a physical therapist or you
know be a trainer for a professional
team all the I think all the things that
I think a lot of people that are moving
in the Kinesiology uh Direction think
they're going to be uh and then when I
so when I actually got the job I really
I told the the the boss at the time I
said um yeah no I'm not going to work
full-time I I'll do this parttime while
I go to school and I was totally
grateful for the opportunity it wasn't
until I got into it that I realized oh
wow like one I loved it um found myself
working crazy hours and and really
passionate about about the job and then
also realize oh wow if you are really
good at it you actually can make some
decent money doing it and that's kind of
how I fell into it yeah for me it was um
I mean I started working out at the age
of 14 and and became just super um
infatuated with with strength training
and fitness and supplements and
nutrition the whole thing and I also was
had had thought that I would go to
school for physical therapy I think all
of us uh yeah did I definitely did
because at the time you know you talking
uh the
9s as a kid right as a teenage kid uh I
didn't know that there were
careers that had to do with Fitness
aside from like physical therapy I I
don't realize it was say anything else
so that's what I was going to go to
school for and at the time I had a
membership at a gym and um I I remember
asking them like you know can I become a
personal trainer here maybe maybe it'll
get my foot in the door of of of
training people or working with people
and they said well you have to be 18 at
the time when I inquired I think was 16
so I waited and as soon as I turned 18 I
applied and it was I mean it was like
right away right away this is what I
want to do this is what I need to do and
um like you said Adam I was there crazy
hours I mean they could have they could
have not paid me and I still would have
been that was to me I would say like
when looking back right like think
trying to think back like you know what
was going through my head at the time
and especially considering like taking
the job and not really thinking that I
was going to go that direction was
I found myself there s days a week all
the time so even if I didn't have
clients and I had a shift like I was
hanging out there and that was like kind
of the real like aha moment for myself
going like wait a second like I enjoy
when in my life have I ever done any job
where when I'm not getting paid I'm not
on the clock I'm still hanging around
the place like I was like borderline bad
like to a fault right like it was I
probably every week that I worked I
probably stayed double the time just
hanging out yeah hanging out with the
trainers hanging out with members
working out twice a day playing
basketball in the basketball court I
mean it was literally that's how
obsessed I was with the gym so that's
the first time I felt like I had a job
where it wasn't a job I just showed up
uh to do um you know to train myself
then I was obviously like trying to make
it work because I came from school and I
had all this like education and I was
like what am I going to do I was kind of
in limbo meanwhile it was like wow
there's actually something here like I
can build off of this like I'm getting
clientele um and I started to think
about taking it more seriously uh but I
was already enjoying just the fact that
I was at the gym and I was like able to
get my own workouts in I was able to
help people and really like my favorite
part for me you know coming from a
sports background was the off season and
training and and uh the intentional uh
uh training that would put into season
and I I just love that period I was the
first one in the gym before everybody
else uh in the offseason cuz I was so
excited to grow now was there a a period
of time for either one of you guys or do
you
remember when you realize like oh
there's potential for to make decent
money doing this like I remember I had
been there for like I don't know like
six months or so and I and I was doing
every month I was doing better a little
bit better a little bit better so I like
each paycheck I got increased like for
six months consistently
and I remember the boss at the time the
the fitness manager trying to convince
me like you need to do this full time
you should do this full- time like
you're you're meant for you're meant for
and I'm like oh no I'm going to school
that's what I told my family that was
the whole reason why I moved here kept
telling them no no no and then he
started to kind of challenge me what do
you want to do for a living you know and
I'm like well you know I think I going
be a physical therapist I might go that
route and he's like telling me he's like
you know you can make really good money
working here I'm like well come on like
how good of money can I work and then he
like literally showed me his paycheck
that's what
and and so I saw how much he made he was
making like six figures and he's only in
his 20s and he's like and this is my
position he goes my boss is making more
than that and then his boss is making
more than that and I was like oh [ __ ]
and at that time too like that was a lot
of money for me you remember this is 20
something years ago and I'm coming from
$7 an hour and I'm looking at someone's
paycheck that was Mak I think he was
making like $98,000 a year I was like
holy this is this is way more money than
I thought and that's like one position
up for me like that was the moment I
realized like oh man this maybe this is
a career here I remember specifically
how it worked for me because I started
so 97 is when I started there my first
year there I was a trainer for four
months and then I became the fitness
manager so toward you know the back half
of the year I was a I was a manager and
I had got my pay remember this is 1997
I'm 18 years old now admittedly I really
had no concept this is kind of funny to
say of what a lot or a little bit of
money was because yeah that's how I was
I was very sheltered as a kid I I you
know I grew up in a traditional you know
family my parents are immigrants and um
so I didn't know like what's good money
what's not good money um I just threw
everything in in my saing account but
that first year I made
$74,000 and I remember the conversation
was school was supposed to start up and
I was going to go to school to be a
physical therapist and I told my manager
hey I'm going to step down because I
want to be a a PT and he and he said uh
do you have your can you show me your
paycheck said sure so I showed him
and he said um you're making as much as
a physical therapist makes when they
right around when they first start yeah
I said what they do I had no idea yeah
and I went looked it up and I was like
sure enough that's what I was doing and
he goes that's your he that's your first
year and so he actually uh went to my
house so this is my friend don don
Cardona good friend of mine first Mentor
he came he said do you mind if I talk to
your parents cuz I remember one of the
issues was like telling my parents I
wasn't going to go to college CU I was
going to try this thing out and uh he
said do you mind if I come and I said
sure So he came to my house for dinner
and basically sold my parents on why and
the whole thing was let me do this for
another year and if it doesn't work out
I'll go back to school and he showed
them his paycheck as a general manager
and he made into the six figures and so
my parents were like go for it and if it
works out great if it doesn't work out
and that was it that was that was the
rest of it but I but I had no idea that
you could do that working in a gym um
and and I loved it so much the thought
of working in a clinical setting in a
hospital in comparison into working in a
gym well that's it I mean and that was
what actually deterred me from cuz I had
worked as a uh like in an internship I I
worked um in a clinical setting and kind
of helped people through the
rehabilitation process and it was so
slow and tedious and you know and
methodical and yes there's a lot of like
cool physiology and like uh ways to kind
of troubleshoot and help people with
pain but um you know I just it was just
so much more energetic and Lively in the
gym setting and it just like you just
were so excited to go to work so it was
a completely different contrast and I
was like I don't think I'm going to go
back to school man I think I'm good here
well when people hire a
trainer uh they want to show up often
times with rehab and stuff like that
people treat it like they have to yeah
well I mean their insurance is paying
for it many times and so they're they're
doing it just because or just I mean I
can't wait till I'm done with this then
I can get back to my real life or when
people hire you as a trainer they want
to be there it's a different
um energy it's a different attitude and
so comparing the clinical setting to by
by the way no you know I'm not saying
anything bad about the clinical setting
and I've worked with physical therapists
yeah and people in the clinical setting
and they are they are the Geniuses of
the correctional exercise world and I've
learned a lot by working with physical
therapists the best out there yeah it's
amazing for movement uh but the I just
loved the music in the background of the
gym the clinging of the weights and just
the whole deal um and it was uh I mean
it it's to this day it's one of the
favorite things I've ever done yeah I
know I know we've talked about this uh a
long time ago on the podcast but it is
wild when you think like the way we all
came together and how similar our story
is to everything from being sheltered
around the money to thinking that we
were all going to be pts to like oh I'm
just going to do this thing on a
part-time while I go finish my school
never going back to Junior both you and
I were starting Junior College never
went back to it and I I I made the same
exact I made 68,000 in my first year and
uh and that's when they were trying to
get me to get promoted and and become a
fitness manager and make even more and I
remember like going like w at that time
I'm only 20 years old I'm young um and
I'm like okay one year if I if
everyone's telling me I'm I'm for this
and I love doing it and I really
wrestled with that because in in in my
family nobody had their degree yet and
so I was going to be the kid that go
went off and did that first and I moved
away from my hometown at to two commit
to that I moved in with my grandmother
where I knew nobody in a city I knew
nobody so I could focus just on school
and then here I am 6 months to a year
later going like hey I'm going to drop
out which is not my personality to
commit to something and then drop out so
I really wrestled with that a lot and
also telling my family but then I was
like okay I'm still young I have some
school already that I've knocked out at
Junior College I'm going to um I'm going
to give it one year and in one year I'm
going to give it everything I got and if
it is what everybody says it is then
it'll reveal itself and if it's not now
I'm 21 I'm still not old I can go back
and and finish school and and the rest
is kind of History like in that in that
year's time um I continued to fall more
in love with it and and realized that
wow I didn't know this field existed
that fit my personality so
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well I got some stats on it so the
personal training industry in the US is
a12 billion industry um there's over six
million personal trainers uh in the
United States and here's the thing about
the personal training industry and
business there's there's times where
growth is slower there's times when
growth is faster but since the '90s
since I started paying attention to the
statistics on fitness personal
training's grown every year it is one
segment of the fitness industry that
year over year over year over year has
continued to grow just to give a simple
example in my own little bubble the
first gym I I worked in as a personal
trainer and I I can tell you the gym
it's still there they just they moved
next door but it's still there Club 504
Hillsdale 24 Fitness the club's goal for
personal training was I believe around
$177,000 for the month okay uh fast
forward I don't know a year or two later
maybe three years later and that club
was producing close to $100,000 a month
in personal training in the 2000s it to
show you the potential and the growth
that was there now uh the market didn't
change much but the fitness industry
identified the value of personal
trainers and they still see the value
there's a lot of gyms that uh will
downplay to charge a cheap membership
type of deal but when it comes to
results when it comes to why people
start in Fitness in the first place they
want to get fit and healthy and then
stay fit and healthy the statistics on
working with a trainer versus anything
else crushes it crushes them all um so
it is a a growing industry it is an
industry that continues to grow and
present opportunities now don't confuse
what I'm saying with it being easy or
super lucrative or anything like that
because if you don't fit you will quit
training is not going to be something
you're going to want to do it's one of
those jobs where uh if if it's not for
you and you go in there um you'll get
your ass um handed to you and that's why
you tend to see this turnover in the
industry um like the first thing is and
you hear all of us talk about this we
talked about getting in the gym how we
loved it we loved it we loved being in
there I would have been in there for
free you have to have a deep passion for
fitness and health that sounds obvious
but there's a lot of people there's a
lot of jobs or a lot of careers that
people get into that aren't necessarily
passion driven like there's a lot like
like being an accountant like it's a
great job you make good money but I bet
you Most accountants aren't like oh my
God this is like a total passion right
it's almost like uh being an artist I
don't know very many artists who got
into it because I thought it' be a good
career it's more like no I have to do
this because I love it so much so having
a passion for fitness and health
definitely makes uh the odds that you'll
succeed as a trainer much higher not
having a passion for those will make it
very difficult I mean I think this is I
think this is across the board like I
don't think that this is uh just Fitness
I do believe that I mean I was just
giving this advice to my cousin who's at
this you know Crossroads in his in his
own career of like you know I've done
all these things and you know I've
watched everything that you've done and
I just I want to find something like
that and I said well then you got to ask
yourself cuz you had all these like
these businesses and things that he's
been working on I said which one of them
do you on a Saturday night when you're
not doing anything and you're sitting on
the couch you're by yourself and you
pick up your phone or you pick up which
one are you reading about yeah which one
are you reading about or which one do
you find yourself just because you're
interested about it yes consuming
content and stuff around because you
love it anyways that is like the secret
to this and that and of course this is
me 40something years old looking back at
19 20y old me and like I didn't
understand that I obviously see it
clearly now like it was so obvious like
look how much I was spending in the gym
like I just be done with the work shift
and then I'd spent an extra two hours
with three other trainers talking
programming and and supplements and like
it's like obviously I was very
passionate about it and obviously if I
leaned into that there was a huge career
opportunity there so and I do think that
this this this translates across all the
boards like and you're right maybe it's
harder to find accountants that are
really passionate about their job but I
would still make that argument that you
know you if you're going to be really
successful at anything you probably need
to be willing to do that and not get
paid this is one of those careers I'll
say though that if you don't have a deep
passion um you might not survive is my
point yeah you might not survive because
if you're not passionate about fitness
and health you're just in a loud gym
with a with a bunch of you know people
coming in complaining about their
problems and it's hard to get in results
they don't want to listen to you working
in this this this hustle bustle chaotic
environment your hours are weird because
trainers tend to work in the mornings
and in the evenings in the middle of the
day is off type of deal like if you
don't have a passion for Fitness then
this job sucks is my point my point is
it's G be very difficult continue doing
this training you know in terms of you
dealing with personalities and and uh
having to be on and having to present
yourself in a very energetic kind of uh
helpful fashion um but you know again
that that passion is really what comes
through I think to the clients that
makes you successful as well because if
you have that passion and you have that
attitude like you're going to help
change this person's life and you're
going to help steer them in the right
direction you have the tools and
everything to to really make a
difference um that's your backbone
that's going to guide you versus you
know any other job where you're just
trying to kind of watch the clock and
manage things as they come like you
really have to be like on top of it well
the other reason why it's so important
to be about passionate Health uh aside
from all the points that we're making
right now too is a big part of being a
successful trainer is also looking and
living the brand right like looking and
living the part like if you don't care
and not if you're not passionate about
fitness and health enough to take care
of yourself it's going to be really
difficult yes to do that and that
doesn't mean you look ripped that's
right that's not what I mean by that
right you just need to be passionate
about health and taking care of yourself
right that doesn't mean you like being
ripped sometimes a lot of times can mean
you could be obsessed right or insecure
and like different like but being
healthy okay being fit and healthy
practicing it continuously yeah it's
something that you and I've seen people
try and be successful trainers that
don't have that they don't have enough
passion about health and fitness to even
take care of thems and it's always like
man how do you think you're going to be
really great at this profession if you
don't even have enough of it to do it
for yourself you really think you're
going to to your point transfer that
energy over to a person across from you
so Step One is passionate about health
and fitness and then to me step two is
passionate about helping others y oh you
listen you they have you have to have
both okay cuz you might be that person
that Fitness changed your life you might
be that person where you love health and
fitness you love learning about
nutrition you love learning about
exercise you're like oh my God I I could
read about this and learn about this all
the time I love working out this is
great but if you're not passionate about
people forget it because you're working
with people too you have to also Sim you
also at the same time have to be
passionate about people because people
are not robots that you can plug in a
formula with a workout people have
problems they lose motivation some of
them talk a lot some of them talk very
little they come in with their own
problems they don't want to do what you
say they often don't do you need to
relate you have to relate with all kinds
of different people people who vote
differently from you people who pray
differently from you they look different
they they they they a lot of things are
different about them and they're hiring
you to help them if you're not
passionate about people forget it you're
this this will absolutely suck but if
you have a passion for fitness health
and people now this job is a great time
and it really does require all three of
those and I have lots of examples of
trainers that I hired uh in my early
years uh because they were passionate
about Fitness I thought that would make
them a good trainer and it was really
obvious and like I have a few that come
to mind right away and I remember these
conversations of saying like Johnny if I
could just get you to care about your
people the way you prepare your
Tupperware the way you show up for your
workout like I had trainers that like
were just in the most amazing shape
reading the latest science and art I
mean they were just but they were all
they cared about was themselves well
they were people they didn't passion
about people yes they were they were
they were they were and I thought oh man
this could to be a great trainer cuz
he's so knowledgeable so experienced he
stays fit year round like oh man he's
going to be great but no he wasn't as
passionate about helping people and I
would make the case that a person that
is can can get away with being less
passionate about the health and fitness
for them if they're more passionate
about people because so much of the job
is people
so much of it is being a chameleon to be
able to be with someone who votes
different than you somebody who has
different beliefs than you who you don't
agree with on anything and then you
still have to be able to find a way to
connect to them that's a skill to be
able to be with that person every day
and then they they like it and enjoy it
and want to learn from you only happens
if you really like so let's word let's
switch the word passionate with like do
you like people do you really like
people because passionate about people
does not mean I'm passionate about every
about getting everybody fit that's true
that should be there as well but that's
fitness and health what I mean is do I
like people so much that I'm curious I
want to hear about this person's day and
what they do and I'm curious on what
gets them to tick what gets this person
motivated why' that person make that
decision why is this so challenging how
can I figure out this problem oh I'm
really I can't wait to hear about this
person even though I don't like them you
know how many clients I had I didn't
like but I enjoyed there's a very big
difference the difficult ones were the
ones you learn the most from you grow
the most
that's right that that's such an
important Point like again of course
we're we're playing the the hindsight
thing right looking back and telling
stories and examples of of our career I
have a very clear example if you've been
listening to the podcast for a really
long time you've probably heard me tell
this story before but I had a client
that was with me for like eight years
and uh she was torturous we we were we
we on the opposite ends politically
socially uh spiritually I mean we were
just we couldn't be more opposite she
was mean as [ __ ] she was just the
hardest client to train and I remember
at the time the girl that I was dating
was just like why do you put up with
this abuse you're the boss you can take
any client you want yet you choose to
show up to this you have some weird
obsession with her I'm like no not at
all like that it's my it's like my
passion for people and wanting to solve
every situation and figure it out like I
care so much about this person people
yes I want to like what is it I wanted
to unlock that in everybody I believe
that I could connect and I could and I
could make a relationship with anybody
and I and I took all those on a
challenge and and the better I got at
that the easier it became and then when
I would have one like that it was like a
whole new problem for me to solve and I
like that you have to like that and
that's so that's such an important point
that does that is that something that
scares you or makes you go oh I would
never want to do that or you're like
yeah I'm like that like I actually I
like I like trying to solve and figure
out people like that and I'm okay with
people having different views and
opinions than mine and I I believe I can
connect with all people like that like
you got to be excited kind of you do I I
mean I had so many clients think I have
one I'm thinking about right now he was
a surgeon and he was just an [ __ ] out
the gates he was just a jerk and just
very short with me and kind of talked
down to me like I was dumb yeah but you
know I train ended up training the guy
for years and within a few months uh he
opened up and uh I me he was a brilliant
brilliant man and I would ask him
questions and I remember there's one
moment in particular where we had a
conversation um around uh around St and
how they might affect certain nutrients
in the body and I remember I made a
comment that you know well you know you
probably want to supplement with
something called CoQ10 and he said what
is that some like fancy you know Silly
supplement herb that none of them work I
didn't say anything I laughed ha you
know whatever and he came back to me the
next day and he goes I looked it up
you're right and then after that he kind
of opened up a little but but it was a
challenge and I enjoyed it I didn't take
it personal like you come and be a jerk
right and I'm like my job is to help him
yeah become healthier and so now of
course I wouldn't if someone was
directly mean to me or really piece
that's just a totally different story
but that he was just not somebody I
would hang around with in everyday life
but I enjoyed people so much I love
learning from them and working with them
and seeing the challenge and it was
incredible and it's so satisfying to see
those especially those relationships
turn into something else later on when
when when they see the value of fitness
and what it's doing for you just find
those opportunities to present it
differently too like I can communicate
to this person and break through you
know like I you know listening to you
guys I mean I've had plenty of examples
that I had this lady that like literally
had had diagnosed like aspirers and she
came to me like I fired my last five
trainers like I have not had one
successful uh experience with Fitness
and that was how she like presented
herself to me and like I'm like oh my
god well I'm your guy you know and then
I got excited and then it was scary you
know at the same time he was like oh my
God this is going to be really
challenging but man it she ended up
sending me the most referrals out any
other client I've had right that those
are always so rewarding you know you you
bring up such a good point too Justin
about uh I was just having this
conversation with another trainer who uh
you know wants to start a podcast been a
fan of the show for a really long time
and I'm like you know probably the
biggest misconception about this show is
the idea like oh it's just these three
guys and they just meshed well and they
had this this great timing of the
everything of the podcast and I agree I
think all that stuff helped and mattered
right but really what it came down to
was the 10 years before in the trenches
and having a passion for people learning
stuff because to your point Justin yeah
it's funny because I could tell a story
that you guys experienced almost every
time and and and just like what you hear
on the podcast is we've tried to
communicate the same thing a hundred
different times to 100 different types
of people and know that like I could say
it this way and this subset of people
will receive it and actually apply it
and then it'll turn off these subset of
people but then I can say it again
another way and then these people will
receive it and understand and like that
those reps and and enjoying those reps
and the and those challenges of oh this
is difficult and trying to figure it out
like that exercise that we all did for
10 years before we all got together was
so Paramount to the success of the
conversation on here with have our three
personalities but put us at 22 years old
it doesn't work it's because of all
those years of doing that stuff like
that has added to that part of the
conversation and you got that has to
excite you that challenge that struggle
people have to Fascinate You they have
to completely Fascinate you and you be
excited about just being around and
different people uh radically different
people um it's got to be something you
look forward to because you're going to
be doing it all day long you're going to
be working with as a trainer if you're
if you get busy let's just say for you
know you're blessed something happens
you go to a gym they like oh we're gonna
give you we're going to give you all
your clients here you go now you're
showing up to work and you're working
with seven or eight uh individuals on a
Monday through Friday or five days a
week basis right eight people a day
that's full-time you know what that
means no break no I can't just fool
around go on social I'm with somebody
con when you're training somebody you
don't you can't go on your phone and
mess around you can't look at social
media you can't call your friend you're
with someone the entire time so if you
don't love people and you don't and you
don't love just generally people because
you're going to get people who are very
different from one another that will
become hell and this is why the turnover
rate can be so high because I think
people get into it they don't have that
passion and then it very quickly becomes
old and exhausting but if you have a
passion for it it's like I thirsted for
just meeting these people and learning
from them and asking them questions and
and and tackling all those challenges um
you know which brings us to the next
point which is and this is very
important the both parts of this are
very important you have to you care so
much that you own people's successes uh
you own people's successes you feel like
you own their successes you also feel
like you own their failures if they win
or lose you're like oh gosh I I you know
we did this together we did this
together and if they fail oh what did I
do wrong however this simultaneously has
to occur without you taking it personal
when they do fail in the sense that you
can't get crushed because I've seen
trainers either get crushed by when
their clients don't follow along don't
do what they say don't listen to their
advice and I've also seen trainers take
it personal to the point where they sit
down with their clients and they blast
them out you don't do what I've say
you're not serious you need to come in
here you need to and then they get rid
of the client and they're proud and I I
I hate to say that I've done this a few
times it was a huge mistake because I
didn't help anybody so you have to be
able to own and feel like you're a part
of the successes but also the failures
but then also like you got to be okay
when they fail because here's a
unfortunate statistic as successful as
trainers are you're going to fail more
often than you succeed oh yeah
more like baseball it is this is one of
my favorite points you made because it's
also reminds me of one of my favorite
quotes um and that's like I think that
being a good personal trainer um one of
the attributes of of being a good
personal trainer or coach is being a
good leader and the first rule in
leadership is everything is your fault
yep and so when you wrote that point
down I'm like that's 100% like you have
and you have to embody that that if your
client fails it's my fault if they if
they didn't show up and they were
inconsistent it's my fault like I didn't
find a way to motivate this person or I
didn't start them at the right place I
didn't meet them where they were
currently at I overcommitted them some
like no matter what no matter what they
say or what happened it's never their
fault it's if I'm the leader of this
group of this pair right the two of us
in this in this journey I'm the leader
it's always my fault and you have to
take that ownership and be okay with
that and embrace that and again lean
into it like it I like that I had that
attitude of like you know don't let it
break you yeah no you don't bre it's
just part of it it's part of the game
we're going to fail I know that again
it's like baseball we're going to we're
we're batting 300 we're doing really
really good which is three out of 10
people I get three out of 10 people the
results that that we signed up for
that's just part of it that's I'm I'm
doing really well so I understand that
but then always having that attitude of
if if and when they do fail what could I
have done better to have got them to
succeed just data now it's things that
you can improve upon uh with your next
client or the same client that moving
forward uh but yeah taking that
ownerships that's a real important piece
uh because you know obviously they're
looking at you to kind of steer this
meanwhile you have this like vision and
and this expectation that they're going
to come through and follow through but
realistically this is where it hits you
in the face okay I guess actually what I
should be doing is focusing here and
kind of scaling back a bit and now this
is the adjustment in this is going to be
more successful therefore we're going to
implement this plan so that's how I'm
handling that now as opposed to being
like you're you're not doing this it's
your fault like I'm not like placing
that all on my client yeah huge
misconception uh that you know that that
new trainers have or people who get into
fitness uh as a passion have is that the
way you're going to become successful is
by just telling the person what to do
and they hired me they're serious so now
if they follow the steps they're going
to be great I'll tell you right now uh I
can count on one hand over the 20 years
I trained people the clients that dit
did everything I told them it just
doesn't work that way and I mean it's
stuck right it's very rare Doug remember
him because it was like maybe three or
four Doug was one of those Doug was one
of the clients that did and he loved it
and he did it and obviously now he works
in the fitness industry but most the
time most your clients are going to do a
little bit of what you're say and mostly
not and you got to work through that
yeah because it's a long game and you
still have to own it but you also still
have to be okay with with it because
otherwise it's going to again it's going
to suck either you're going to get
really aggressive with your clients
because you're like taking it you're
taking the ownership to the point where
you're like oh my God I can't fail again
and so then you Hammer them which is not
a good idea or you just don't care about
their successes or their failures in
which case well you can't do this then
yeah you know lastly uh if you're
listening to this and you're hyped and
you're like this resonates I'm ready to
rip your heart out now I'm about I bet
save some lives 90% of you are right now
going to get turned off okay which is
this uh a big like most of what you do
as a personal trainer most of what you
do is sales and what I mean by that is
your ability to convince people to do
things either hire you that's sales
that's what everybody initially thought
right yes that is sales getting people
to hire you and and and buy your your
your products and your training but also
I'm getting people to make changes in
their life fundamental changes that
ladies and gentlemen is sales and so if
if you think you're going to get into
the fitness industry become a personal
trainer you're passionate about Fitness
you're passionate about people and then
you go work at a gym and your manager
says you got to go sell training you got
to sell this and you're like I don't
want to do this it's not a sales job
sorry it's a sales job personal TR the
most successful trainers in the world
will tell you this that you have to have
very effective communication skills and
you need to know that Sal is a big part
of this it it's not big part it's all of
it it's so much so much all sales that
even the parts that you're thinking
right now aren't sales are sales to the
point you just made right there like
even the the program design and the
exercise mechanics you have to sell your
clients on performing the exercises
every single work and consistently doing
it you have to sell them on showing up
to the appointment you have to sell them
on changing behaviors around their diet
you have to sell them on the idea and
behaviors around what they do with
exercise what they do with their
relationships I mean everything that you
do is sales and even the things that you
think are not sales the fact that you
have to convince another person to do
those things makes it sales that's all
that is and so you have to embrace that
or you have to be excited about that if
you're going to be successful it and
that's how I always knew if a trainer
was going to be like fail right out the
gates is if they just I just hate sales
or I just want to help people I don't
want anything to do with it's like oh
you're going to have a hell of a time
then because this whole job is sales no
matter how you draw this up if you
believe that all sales is is effective
communication that is every bit of your
job is effectively communicating all
this information that you've learned
over either your experience or what
you've read in books or what you gone to
school for look if it was just about
helping people and not sales then a
trainer would just be somebody with
answers it would be a Google they would
show up and oh how do I eat right here
you go how do I exercise here you go
how's the right technique here you go
and you'd be a successful trainer that's
not going to make you a successful
trainer that's not going to make you a
successful trainer at all you have to be
able to uh communicate in such a such
effective ways that over time cuz it's a
long game I'm going to tell you this
right now the short game is getting you
to buy training from me that's the short
sales game okay and there's skills
involved with that too but the long
sales game is how do I get Mrs Johnson
who has is eats a 90% processed food
diet hasn't exercised since she was in
eth grade um how do I get her to do this
consistently for the rest of her life
and change her diet I'm going to have to
sell her on this and it's going to take
me a year of selling her to do some of
these things but before she adopts them
as behaviors not just for a couple weeks
or a few months but forever that's sales
so yeah this is this is why apps have
failed this is why AI is failing yeah
they have all the answers they have the
the out everything's lined up for you
perfectly and guess what people don't
show up yeah they need to be constantly
sold that this is the right thing to do
that I have you your best interest in
mind that we're going to take you
through this journey together they need
accountability there was a there was a
time when a lot of us predicted what the
largest most successful Fitness chain in
the world was going to go down and that
was when um mastov sold and new
leadership came in and one of the first
things they wanted to do was change the
sales part of getting a gym membership
into like the Home Depot style of
checking out or you just choose and pick
and so much of what goes into getting a
gym membership showing up to the gym
going to your personal trainer like so
much of that is is sales and your
ability to motivate and and communicate
to people this new way of living and
lifestyle change and you know when you
talk about a new way of living you are
changing and modifying people's
behaviors that is a not only is it a
sale sales job it's a a tricky one a
difficult one it's not like I think I
think going and selling cars would be a
million times easier very
straightforward yeah here's a car here's
what it does here's the going features
awesome yeah yeah you're getting a great
deal yeah we have to we have to
communicate an idea a vision a dream for
somebody that they and that they give
you money for and you can't present it
right back to them that you have to go
okay great you paid me now you got to
show up and do more work if you actually
really want that thing that I told you
all about that we're going to go get
crazy essentially it's you're you're
trying to take somebody and transform
them into a better healthier version of
themselves which requires significant uh
Behavior changes and is very challenging
and so you got to love sales if you want
to be uh effective uh as a personal
trainer look we have a 3-day course a
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