你为什么和回避型依恋谈不好恋爱?——Why can't you have a good relationship with an avoidant attachment type?

你为什么和回避型依恋谈不好恋爱?
和回避型依恋谈恋爱好像总是在受委屈，但其中一部分的负面感受并非来自事实，而是我们主观感受进行了加工，不知不觉陷入“受害者心态”。在这种心态中，大家很难进行有效的沟通，关系也就容易急转直下。
Why can't you have a good relationship with an avoidant attachment type?
It seems like when dating someone with an avoidant attachment style, you are always feeling mistreated. But some of the negative feelings don't actually come from the facts of the situation, rather they come from how we subjectively process the experiences. Without realizing it, we can fall into a "victim mentality." In this mindset, it becomes very difficult to communicate effectively, and the relationship can easily spiral downward.
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