Ngừng ĐÚNG hay SAI mà hãy bắt đầu HẠNH PHÚC THÀNH CÔNG ngay hôm nay | Phạm Thành Long

You are old enough to accept the difference. Then, happiness comes to you. Unhappiness in every family only happens when I am right, you are wrong, I am right, you are wrong. And when we no longer observe the differences, we will be happy. If you want to be rich, you have to change the way you work. You can be right or you can be rich. I didn't understand anything. And I went back to work harder. And then I came back to my teacher. He said, you can be right or you can be rich. I didn't understand anything. I went back to work harder for 16 hours a day. And I was still poor and I didn't have a single dollar. Until he asked, Long, how much money did you have in your account for the past 10 years? I said, I have 3,000 dollars. Actually, I didn't have 3,000 dollars in my account after 10 years as a business owner with 16 hours a day. You can be right or you can be rich. He said, if you keep doing the old way and hope for a new result, you are just a madman. If you keep being right, how can you change yourself to do the new way? If you are right, you keep being there, you can't move forward. Another teacher taught me another secret. What brings you here can't bring you there. If you used to be at point A and today you are at point B, it's because you changed yourself at point A to move up to point B. But if you keep being right at point B, the way to bring you to point B will keep you at point B and won't help you move up to point B. I can be right to bring me to point B, but I can't keep being right to bring me to point B. I have to learn how to change myself to move up to point B. Until one day, another teacher taught me, you can be right or you can be happy. You can be right or you can be happy. He told me that there is a key word that destroys the lives of billions of people on this earth. It is misunderstanding. One person says, but the other person doesn't understand. He said, starting from not understanding each other, leads to a second key word, disconnected. From misunderstanding to disconnected, it loses the relationship. It destroys the relationship of two people with each other. It destroys the relationship of two groups of people with each other. It destroys the relationship of two communities with each other. It destroys the relationship of two countries with each other. It destroys the relationship of two regions with each other. In a family, it is a war. In a country, it is a war. In a group of countries, it is a world war. It is terror. It is death. Just starting with misunderstanding, not understanding each other, leads to disconnected. In the end, the game ends with war and death. In a family, it is a divorce between the wife and the husband, as well as the children. In a country, it is a war. It is a division of the country. You have seen it in North Korea. It is a war between Vietnam, the North and the South. Misunderstanding in the past. It is a war between North Korea and South Korea. How many years have passed? Our country has suffered too much. Since the founding of the country, and the process of maintaining the country, our country is still poor and backward. Because of the war, everything has been destroyed. We don't have any cultural heritage that is worthy of it. We have more history than Europe. But we don't have any old building that is worthy of Europe. We have a much longer history than the United States. But we don't have Russia, and we don't have any ancestors like them. Our war is not as terrible as the war in North Korea. It is not as terrible as the war in Japan. But we don't have any country that can develop like North Korea. We don't have any country that can develop like India or China. You will say that they are more populous. But look at Japan and see what they have after the war. The population is lower, the resources are less, the country is almost devastated. But now they have done everything again. Because they know how to understand each other. Because they know how to connect with each other. Today, until now, I have been coming to you by judgment. There is no problem at all, because he is our real person. But if we keep judging like that, can we connect? There is only one thing that can bring us closer together, and that is love. You can be right, or you can be happy. I didn't understand this until one day, I learned that happiness only comes in our life, not because we are smart, not because we are talented, not because we are rich. Happiness only comes when we are big enough to accept the differences of those around us. Yesterday, when I came here, I told you not to judge me, not to see what I say here as right or wrong, because it is not necessary. We grew up in different families, different parents, different teachers, different life lessons. We have different life experiences. We have different beliefs, different ideals, different gender, different ages, different cultures, even different religions, different beliefs. There is no reason for us to force others to think like us. War is when we find the difference between two people sitting next to each other. When two people get married, we enter a family, but we never see it as a family. We want to respect the other person, just like all the countries in the world want to respect each other. We want our husband or wife to behave just like us. And that is when misunderstanding begins. Misunderstanding is when we want to respect the other person. That is when we start to find the difference between us and the other person. We find out if our wife or husband is different from us, and then we force them to behave just like us. That is the beginning of war. Instead of trying to find the difference to assimilate it, let's find out what we have in common. What do you or she have better than me, and I need it for my life. Just like that, you will immediately become happy. The second thing is to complete yourself. Remember that you cannot change the world, but the only thing you can do is to change yourself. Only when you change yourself, can you change the world. But it is not the world that changes. When you change yourself, the world remains the same. But the way you feel the world is different. We live in the same environment today. But why do we look at our characters in different ways? Because each person is wearing a pair of glasses. One person is wearing a pair of blue glasses, and the other is wearing a pair of pink glasses. We look at the world through our glasses. When you smile below, I understand that you are looking for the difference. You look at the natural things that you have learned in the past. But when you are looking for the difference, you are making a connection or creating a loss of connection. Loss of connection. Are you making a connection? Loss of connection. That's why we lose each other right here, in this place. Why are the good people lonely? Because we are better than others. That's what we know. But we suddenly think that because we are better in this field, we are also better in other fields. God is very fair. If you give yourself this ability over others, God will take away what is different from you. Each of us here is a pair of glasses. I need you here because I have a lack of something. If I were alone today, could I make this class great? No. This class is great because of you. This class is great because there is a 17-year-old boy here. This class is great because there is a 70-year-old man over there. This class is great because we are on the left, on the right, and on the bottom. There is no right or wrong. But if you can accept the person on the other side, that is happiness. You are old enough to accept the difference. Then happiness will come to you. Disappointment in each family only happens when I am right and you are wrong, I am right and you are wrong. And when we no longer observe the differences, we will be happy. Remember that everyone has their own path, and we do not have the right to change it. We do not have the ability to change it. Unless he or she wants it. If you want her to change, you have to change yourself. You have to be bigger to be able to embrace everything in this life. Our story starts with a picture. It is easy to judge others, but it is impossible to make others better. It is easy to look down on others, but it is impossible to make them better. So let everything be as it is. Speaking words that we know, let it be, let it be. Many of you will be smart enough that if someone throws garbage at you, you will avoid it, then raise your hand and say sorry. Raise your hand if you understand that if someone throws poop at you, you have to avoid it, then raise your hand and say sorry. Do not care if their hands are dirty or not, but only care about the fact that you have to avoid it. So if someone brings you something bad, will you take it in your heart? And if you don't, how many of you have had someone scold you and you took it in your heart and you were sad for days? Very few. So if something bothers you, let it go. Let it go. Let it be. Let everything be as it is. Let it go. If you don't want anything, let it go. But the real happiness comes when we have someone in this life to share our joys and happiness. So everyone in this life should remember that everyone in this life is meant to love us. They always meet and love us here. Our parents, our children, our wives, our friends, even the people sitting next to you. How many of you are sitting here hoping that the person next to you will have a better life? Then raise your hand and say yes. Wave your hand high five and say I want you to be better.