Muốn thành công phải biết cài đặt niềm tin - Phạm Thành Long

Hello everyone, today I'm going to share with you how to build up your confidence to be successful. My name is Pham Thanh Long and today I have everything I need in my life because I've learned a lesson on how to build up your confidence, your positive confidence to support your success, and get rid of your negative confidence, get rid of your confidence to block your success. And what you can see today is what I have in my office. And I want to share with you that the things in our life that are temporarily called beliefs, I don't want to talk about religious beliefs. You may have a religion or you may not belong to any religion, this is not important. But my belief is not like a belief in religion. I can also talk about success, but not the success you are thinking about. Success can be wealth or money, it can also be a great team, it can also be a great family, it can also be your career or your fame. Everything you want and achieve in this life is called success, according to your beliefs. So there is no exact definition of success. I just want to share with you how we can build up our positive beliefs, the beliefs that I call support beliefs, help you achieve success in your life. And today I want to share with you 5 steps to have a positive belief. First, you have to be clear about what you want. Most people can't achieve anything in life because they don't know what they need to achieve. A lot of people ask me, throughout my classes, among thousands of students, I often ask the question, What do you want? And I get the answer, I want to be rich. Dear, being rich is never a goal because we don't see it reaching a clear standard. If you want to achieve a goal, you have to satisfy the smart S.C. rule, which is specificity. M stands for measurement, A stands for achievement, R stands for practicality, and T stands for time. So instead of saying, I want to be rich, you can say, I want to have 15 million VND by the end of this month. That's an example of specificity in measurement. 15 million VND, 15 million is a very specific number, VND is the unit of measurement. And if you are able to achieve it, because you have an income of 10 million VND last month, then you can achieve 15 million VND this month. And R, 15 million VND, is a very practical number. And T, time, is the end of this month. So instead of saying, I want to be rich, you can say, I want to have 15 million VND by the end of this month. That's a specific goal. The second thing, you have to answer a very important question, which is why do you want this goal? In a very famous book by Simon Snakes, it starts with the question why. To achieve something, we have to have a reason to achieve it. So starting with the question why, means that you have to start everything, every phenomenon, everything you want, with the question why. So why do you want this? After you have set the goal, you have to have the question, why do I want this? And the more reasons you have, the easier you can achieve this. For example, why do you need 15 million VND by the end of this month? If I have 15 million VND by the end of this month, I will let my mom go there, I will buy this and that for me and myself. I can help someone in my life, etc. The more reasons you have, the easier it is for you to achieve your goal. The third thing, you have to write down, what are the things you need to do to achieve this goal. We see that, just believing that we can achieve it is not enough, but we still have specific plans to achieve this belief. Write it down. Note that you have to write it down by hand, write it down on paper, not on the computer, not in your head. I know all of you, who are watching this video, are very smart, because you have a device that can connect to the Internet. And I guess that you are the one holding the phone to watch this video, right? And so, a person who has the Internet, knows English, and has a phone, and can use Wi-Fi like this, obviously you are a smart person. But we still have to write down everything, because if we don't write down everything, everything will be forgotten, forgotten in life. So write down the goals, and the actions that you need to do to achieve that goal. And don't forget to write down why you need to achieve these goals. The fourth thing, which is very important, is that you need to focus all your energy, focus all your mind every day to achieve this goal, to do, to implement all these plans, to achieve the goal, until it reaches the goal. And, in a book of a friend, and also a very famous person, whose name is Tim Ferriss, he said that you will not change your goal until you achieve it. And every day, you should spend at least 3 hours for your goal. And, and this is one of the most important things. You have to focus your mind, focus your energy, and focus your time for a goal until it reaches the goal. That is the fourth thing, which is to focus. And when you reach your goal, we move to the fifth step, which is to find new goals, and continue to conquer them. And new goals need to be higher than the goals you already have. Do you remember in this video? In this video, we talk about forgetfulness in victory. Do you remember this video? If you haven't seen it, please click on the top to watch this video. And in this video above, I talked about forgetfulness in victory. So the fifth step is when you have achieved an achievement, please celebrate your achievement and continue to raise this standard so that you can move forward continuously. Every time we achieve an achievement, we will strengthen our faith. So what is faith? Faith is what we believe is right. And in our life, there are many things we believe are right. But in reality, after a while, after an experience, it is no longer right. This is completely normal. Because faith comes from our life experiences. Faith comes from people around us. Faith comes from our lessons. Faith comes from books. Faith comes from the stories we hear. Faith comes from people around us we often meet. Because these beliefs have created our lives. And we know that every person has that belief. By changing the belief system, you will create a new life. If you believe that you can be rich, you believe that you can be healthy, you believe that you can be happy, then you have the ability to achieve these things. But if you believe that your life is poor, your life is just living like that, then you will always live such a poor life. You believe that your life is always unhappy, then you will find all the reasons, find all the bases to prove that you are unhappy. And by doing that, you will always feel that your life is unhappy. So my friend, today is the best time. If you are still watching this video, I would like to congratulate you. Because at this time, many people have watched this video but they gave up and didn't watch this video anymore. They didn't know the 5 steps to achieve success. But they may also know how to install faith in their minds. And now, I want you to write down right now stop this video. I will stop you. Please click on stop this video. Find a pen and a piece of paper. I tell you, please listen to me. Right now, stop this video. Find a pen and a piece of paper. Then, come back here and click on stop this video. Very good. You are one of the few people who have a pen and a piece of paper in their hands. Now, I want you to do this exercise with me right now. To do this exercise, after I finish this part, stop this video and start doing this exercise. That is, write down 5 things you are most proud of about yourself. Stop the video and start. Very good. And now, in your hands is a Bible. I hope this Bible will be with you for the rest of your life. 5 things you are most proud of about yourself are in your hands. Now, look at this list one more time. Most of the time, in the life of the poor, the unfortunate, the miserable, they only see the things they don't have. They never look at the list of the things they have like this. Today, you have seen 5 wonderful things about yourself. And bring these 5 wonderful things into your life. Whenever you face something difficult, whenever you face something that hinders your life, remember these 5 wonderful things. These 5 wonderful things are the things that strengthen your faith so that you can overcome the difficulties. Remember that our life is a chain of difficulties. The difficulties that were created for us to make us stronger, to strengthen us, to train us to make us stronger. For the losers, the difficulties were created to force them to stop. Therefore, how you face the difficulties is up to you. You can train yourself to overcome the difficulties or you can also let the difficulties stop you. It's your choice. If today you decide that you have to have a new life, please comment below. What do you want in this life? Please comment below. What do you commit to this life? Please comment below. For example, I want to have 15 million VND per month. I commit to do everything in this life to achieve this fame, to achieve this money in this life. Please comment below. When you start to achieve these beliefs, these achievements, your faith will be strengthened. It will be easier for you to realize that you are a wonderful person. Whenever you feel that something is difficult, something is negative, something is stopping you from reaching your goal, please pick 5 good things about yourself today to read it, to praise it. And remember that you are the best person in this life. You can achieve everything you want as long as you believe that you are capable of doing it and keep going on your path. I know that on your path, there will be a lot of small talk, a lot of dogs barking, a lot of things that are negative about you. Me too. To achieve my achievements today, I have been a lot of people such as people who stop me, people who say that I can't do it, I can't do it. Even my parents have said those things to me. But I believe in myself, I believe that I can do it and my results will confirm what I say is right. So I try every day to improve myself, train myself, practice myself to be able to do better. Every time I fail in my life, I understand that those are the things that happen to me. I have to learn it and understand that that method is not effective. Change the method but never change the goal. Pham Thanh Long wishes you always achieve everything you want and congratulations for watching this video. This is the most wonderful thing. You are one of the few people who gave up even when watching this video. Remember that challenges are for successful people and difficulties are for losers. Pham Thanh Long wishes you always achieve and congratulations this video. Goodbye.