[Podcast]Khang Hy Đại Đế : dùng tâm pháp dạy con như thế nào ?| Kênh KSTL

Khang Hi Dai De was one of the most important monarchs in the education of the Hau Due dynasty. Thanks to him, many of the princes and nobles of the dynasty are now all masters of martial arts. In order to learn more about how to educate their children, they have all become the treasures of Khang Hi Dai De's country in the future. In Khang Hi Dai De's future, I would like to send you a question. How did Khang Hi Dai De educate his children? Khang Hi Dai De was a hard-working, hard-working, and very respectful person. He was very resourceful. He used his wisdom and insight to govern the country for 61 years. During his reign, he was a great politician. He was a great benefactor to the four seas. He brought prosperity to the country. Khang Hi Dai De was one of the most important monarchs in the education of the Hau Due dynasty. Thanks to him, many of the princes and nobles of the dynasty are now all masters of martial arts. Khang Hi Dai De was self-reliant to educate his children. He opposed his parents' hatred of his children. He liked to drink wine, but not drink it. He did not drink wine from the beginning. Therefore, it is important to educate his children to stop drinking wine. Khang Hee explained that the use of alcohol in self-immolation, worshiping the elders, and entertaining the guests is why drinking alcohol needs to be in moderation and on time. Drinking alcohol will harm the body, disrupt speech, and behavior. This is completely contrary to the current culture of drinking alcohol in modern China, which is worth contemplating. When it comes to food and clothing, Khang Hee clearly pointed out that self-immolation is to always know yourself well, and to take good care of your children. Even though they are precious gems, they only need the right amount of clothing. Even though there are many precious gems in the world, they only eat normal food every day, except when they are awarded with the title of the best seafood, they are not allowed to choose the flavor. It is not difficult to realize that Khang Hee often uses himself as a mirror in the education of his children. He uses words to communicate, and uses himself as a mirror to guide them, and not as a theorist. Khang Hee also told the princes not to speak in a low-pitched tone, because the words that come out of their mouths will immediately cause damage. Low-pitched words coming out of the mouth will cause great damage. In terms of appearance, Khang Hee asked his children to do it. They should stand up and sit, and not fall and slouch. Their eyes are the window to their souls. Slouching frequently will make people feel that their work is not well-organized. Khang Hee, whether it is a big or small thing, also teaches his children to be humble. Whatever they do, they should take good care of themselves. They should not be arrogant. When it rains heavily, or when they are standing under a big tree, whether they are at home or outside, they should be calm and quiet. Reading this passage, we can see in front of our eyes a kind teacher, who is teaching his children. Khang Hee values the study of the princes very much. He personally selects people who are mature and careful, who are well-educated, who are not born with a bad temper, who are well-educated, who are from Manchuria or from Han, who are well-educated, and who are able to teach, to be a teacher for the princes. When Khang Hee opened the reading room, he chose the room in Dong Nam, Cung Cang Thanh, where he works in the afternoon, to personally check the children's study. He believes that if you want your children to be better than you, you have to teach them from an early age. The princes, when the sun is not yet up, have to teach one-sided study until late at night. No matter how hot or cold the weather is, they do not skip any day. The content of the study is very broad. In addition to the classics, they also have to learn calligraphy, music, painting, astronomy, horse riding, archery, shooting, swimming, etc. Khang Hee believes that children have a very good learning ability, so he prioritizes early education. When they are still young, they are sincere, open-minded, and spiritual. When they grow up, their thoughts are scattered, confused, and neglected. He also pointed out that reading a book needs to be logical. Only when it is clear in the mind, can we judge whether it is right or wrong. Reading a book does not have to be full of words, but to clarify the logic inside the book. If the logic is clear, then for the right or wrong, we can naturally make an accurate judgment. This is different from modern education, so the education of many Western countries has left the tradition, becoming more and more simplified, and weakening the ability to think. Today in China, schools have become factories to store knowledge for students, making them become heavy workers, losing the ability to think independently, taking himself as the center of everything, being extreme, losing the ability to make a basic judgment about right or wrong, good or evil. Kang He pointed out the importance of reading ancient and modern poetry, and also teaching his children not to read manipulated novels, fake ones. When they are still young, they are not allowed to read novels. The events in the novels are all fictitious, they have no real place. If you look at it or believe it, it's true, but it's nothing, and then you follow it. This is similar to the situation of children who are addicted to comics, cartoons, and video games in modern society. In terms of skill training, Kang He advises that children must have a strong heart. If a person has the determination, a strong heart, and is patient, not lagging behind, then no skill can fail here. Practice has proven that Kang He's education is very successful. Not only education should be for eminent emperors such as Hong Chin and Kang Long, but it can also last for more than 100 years. His princes and nobles are all artists, scientists, generals, and talented officials. Concentration is important. Being a person is the most important thing. Kang He believes that living in this world, the most important thing is to practice good deeds. The words of the Buddha in the Sutra only teach people to practice good deeds. The teachings of the Buddha also only teach good deeds to guide people. If you are a person, then the most important thing is to try to practice good deeds, and follow the Five Precepts. The Five Precepts include the Lord, the Buddha, the Emperor, the Wife, and the Wife. If you practice good deeds, the Heavens will bless you and give you good fortune. Kang He also advises that there is nothing in this world that cannot be overcome. If you practice good deeds for a while, you will see that there is nothing left. His practice of good deeds is also extraordinary. Kang He can do it on a hot and sunny day in June, but he does not need a fan, nor does he need to take off his hat. Such perseverance in modern society is really hard to see. Kang He teaches the princes to always be true to their own mind. He believes that a small mind that is not suitable for the Heavens is the desire of man. Therefore, we need to be vigilant from the moment the mind is born, the love has not yet begun. We must always get rid of the thoughts of unhappiness. The mind must be in harmony with the Dharma. Only when the mind is in harmony with the eyes, nose, and mouth, can we be at peace. If we give up the desire, the desire, the inner mind will naturally reach a state of peace, real happiness. A human being only has one mind, one thought, the main thought or the sub-thought, which is only different in a moment. If a sub-thought is recognized immediately, then the main thought will not leave the Dharma. The theory of Kang He about the practice of the mind is very similar to the practice of the mind of the nine Dharma, the nine Dharmas. It does not need to make people feel about his unwavering perseverance. In the modern society, many people worship Buddha only to ask for protection, to avoid disasters, to make a fortune, to have a son. Many people do not even want to spend a lot of money to get a place in the temple where there are not many people who are devoted to the Buddha. But the form of worshiping Buddha is a kind of attraction that attracts the relationship of people behind the door. What is the difference? Think a little bit. If there is a murderer who does not commit any crime but does not do it, he brings a lot of wealth to donate to the temple, will the Buddha give him a lot of money? In the process of development, people have gradually forgotten the inside of the Buddha's mirror. In this situation, Khang Hi teaches his children that the mirror of the Buddha is not to worry or be happy, but to nourish the essence of oneself. From childhood to the present, Pham is the successor. The Buddha's merit is always kept in the mirror. Pham is a person with goodwill. The sky is high, the land is fertile. There is good news. People these days, every day, want to do good. If evil is not eliminated, what is the use of the mirror? Respect for the Buddha is only in the heart. Khang Hi always brings absolute sincerity to the Buddha. Not to avoid happiness, but to nourish oneself if evil is in the soul. Even if the mirror of the Buddha what is the use of it? The mirror of the Buddha is not to pray to the Buddha, but to nourish oneself. Only those who have nourished themselves can have such a mirror. Khang Hi is a great teacher in the outside world. He uses extraordinary wisdom and profound understanding of traditional culture to enlighten the future generation. He teaches by the old rules, the principles of the mind, studying carefully to reach the mind. He has a strong body and is a true follower of the Chinese traditional education. He preserves the essence of the teaching method with all his heart, all his mind and all his body. This is the only way for modern people to return to traditional education.