【許乃樺老師/符咒/和合術】感情和合術：挽回感情的秘訣

Hello everyone, I'm Xu Weilin. We all have feelings. Especially in this relationship, we mostly show the love between men and women, the kinship between family members, and the friendship between friends. These three kinds of feelings, actually, the most important thing is a heart. Especially in our relationship, we can interact with each other later on, and it may evolve into kinship. In the end, it may be the other half of us, just like friends. So in the relationship, in the end, it will contain three kinds of feelings. And the most important thing is the heart. No matter if you want to pursue the other person, or want to get back to the other person, the most important thing is to show the heart of selfless dedication, instead of the so-called ulterior motive. The so-called ulterior motive is that we always quarrel with the other half. I had a good friend before. When he came to serve me, he told me that he spent a lot of money He spent a lot of time. So what I want to say is that when you hear this, you will feel that he is calculating something. It feels like as long as I pay, I will ask for a return. The real feeling is these feelings of selflessness, that is, we don't pay much attention to it. What is this real love, this real feeling? Selfless dedication. You will devote yourself to the person you love. You will give all the best things to the person you love. Especially when you are pursuing the other person, I found a lot of good friends who may stop at a certain stage. The so-called stop at a certain stage is I want to pursue, but I am afraid of losing. I want to pursue, but I am worried that I will get a bad return. This thing goes back to what we just said. Are you calculating other people's intentions? Have you really done selfless dedication? Are you always calculating that if I send a message to the other person today, the other person must reply to me. Or if I send a message to the other person today, the other person must please me. I think these are all unnecessary attitudes. Because it is very likely that you are over-intentional. So we just mentioned that the real love, the real intention is the so-called selfless dedication. This reminds me of when I was pursuing my wife, my wife only had one sentence. I want to go to Hehuanshan for a walk and see the snow. At that time, I was riding my wild wolf, the 125. At that time, the wild wolf, the 125, was not purely for show off, but because it was cheaper. So I was riding my wild wolf, the 125, and my wife, who was not married yet, to go to Hehuanshan. Have I been to Hehuanshan? No, I haven't. I looked at the map and thought about how to get there. I asked people everywhere. That's how I got there. My wife said she wanted to eat something. She was my girlfriend at that time. Before I became her girlfriend, I immediately rode my bike and took her there. I calculated that I was pursuing you enthusiastically, so if you didn't stay with me until the end, I would break up with her. No, I wouldn't. Because you are making a selfless contribution. You really want her to be happy. You are really trying hard to treat this relationship. You are not calculating that I will treat you seriously first, so you must stay with me. In the end, it must be the best. So what? So what? I don't think that's possible. Looking back, many people are pursuing feelings. They are afraid to take the next step. Then they will become a zombie. How do you know if you can get that sweet fruit? I will tell you a story. You may know it better. In the past, in the forest, we all know what the king of the forest is. It's a lion. Then his teammate, his enemy, is a tiger. Both animals are fierce. But one day, the lion walked into the forest and saw a deer on the ground. The deer may have just left. The lion may want to go and eat the deer. But coincidentally, he saw a tiger in front of him. The tiger also walked over and saw the deer. The two beasts looked at each other. Everyone stopped there and didn't move. In the end, they all left. A few days later, the two beasts walked to the front again and took a look. The deer was not eaten by the tiger or the lion. It was eaten by the bird in the sky. Then the tiger asked the lion, did you eat the deer? No. I saw you want to eat it, but I didn't dare to move. The lion said, I saw the tiger coming, but I didn't dare to move. So he gave the deer the delicious food he wanted. I'm telling you this story to tell you whether you are the tiger or the lion. If we don't dare to move what we like, if we don't dare to move, it's possible that you give it to someone else. So today, what is the most important thing Sincerity. As long as you have sincerity, I believe that no matter how hard the relationship is, there is always a chance and you can easily move the other person. This is the real love, even the secret to save love. That's all for today. Thank you.