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Do you know how much it costs to get a wife in Hebei? It's almost New Year's Eve, and there are a lot of people getting married. I can see a bunch of wedding teams on the street in a couple of days. It's really festive. How much does it cost to get a wife in Hebei? This is a topic that has been discussed a lot recently. Today, I will use myself as an example to tell you about this topic. I am a native of Hebei. I married into the neighboring village. My husband and I are only four miles apart. We met through a relative. Our two families are pretty much the same. We all rely on farming. We are all ordinary farmers. My husband has two brothers. He doesn't have a daughter. He is the second oldest. My family has four sisters. I am the eldest. He is one year older than me. When we were on a blind date, we weren't that old. I remember I was 20 years old and he was 21 years old. I don't want to make fun of you. At that time, I had no idea about love or marriage. I didn't even think about the issue of dowry or family. I mainly saw my husband as a strong man with a lot of strength. I thought that if we lived in the countryside, he would be able to do farm work. At that time, I didn't like him very much and I didn't find him annoying. Later, my mother told me that she and her neighbors thought that my husband didn't look good. Because I didn't say anything, they didn't say anything either. Later, through contact, I felt that he was kind and honest. He was also very responsible. He was also good to me. So we got engaged. Because it was a blind date, the betrothal gifts were basically according to a local custom. At that time, our engagement was 3,600 yuan. My husband and I got married less than two years after we got engaged. During these two years, we both worked in the field. I worked in a factory in Tianjin. He drove a taxi in Beijing. At that time, we basically contacted by phone. It took more than an hour to call. At that time, he only earned four or five hundred yuan a month. Most of them may have paid the phone bill. We only met each other once when we both went back to our hometown during the Spring Festival. At that time, the date was to go shopping in the city. I remember at that time, he bought me a pair of pants for 88 yuan. In turn, I bought him a pair of 99 yuan. At that time, I felt that I didn't come for your money. I don't want to touch you. Do you think I'm a little stupid? When we got married, my mother-in-law built the house a few years ago. It's even more unlikely to have a car. The betrothal gifts were also taken from my mother-in-law's house. My mother-in-law said at that time that we went to my mother-in-law's house in a hurry to live. Even if we don't have it now, as long as you two work hard and are not afraid of suffering, the day will definitely be better than the day. Your mother-in-law has two sons. The eldest son is still in school. The pressure is already big. Besides, what you like is his person, not his money. Let them give it to you. When we got married, the betrothal gifts my mother-in-law gave us were 8,800 yuan. At that time, the betrothal gifts were 11,000 yuan. It's called ten thousand miles to pick one. There are also 13,140 yuan. It's a lifetime. Anyway, at that time, 8,800 yuan was not much. People also asked for three catties. Family cinema was popular at that time. I think those things are useless in life. So I didn't want it. Until now, I don't even have a jewelry. By this year, we have been married for 20 years. One son and one daughter, two children. Usually, my husband drives a big car outside. I work at home and live with two children. This year, I watched other people making short videos and said that I could make money. So two months ago, I also joined this industry. For more than two months, I also had some small achievements. I also brought dozens of nannies like me to study with me. Although I can't compare with those big anchors, for the nannies of my two children, this income really made my life a lot easier. Until now, I have a house and a car. My two children are healthy and well-behaved. So I think how good life is may not have much to do with my two children. It is said that a couple's heart is as strong as gold. As long as two people think in one place and work hard in one place, life will definitely get better and better. For an ordinary rural family like my husband, my mother-in-law has two sons and I have to support my eldest son to go to college. If I have to buy a house and a car, and I have to add a lot of money, every daughter-in-law will ask him for 200,000 to 300,000 yuan. Even if I sell them, I can't afford it. I think marriage is not a business. As long as two people have a good relationship and work hard together, they will definitely have a good life. There is really no need to embarrass the two elders for the betrothal gifts. I remember not long after I got married, a friend of mine told me, he said, you have been married for so long, and you still live with your mother-in-law. Don't you feel inconvenient? You don't even have your own home. Are you a little stupid? Your husband and two brothers spent all the money on your eldest son's school. Before you get married, if you don't ask for more, you won't get anything in the future. When do you need to ask for money if you have a big deal? Or if one day you can't go on and want to divorce, you won't get anything at that time. At that time, you can't even find a grave. I also know that my friend is good for me. But I told him, I said I married my husband. I am loyal to him. He is willing to do it. As long as we two live a good life together, we will definitely have a good life. I don't want to think about it every day. It's so tiring to live. Besides, no one should get married just to get divorced. Since I chose him, no matter what happens in the future, I will be strong to stand with him and face it together. I believe that marriage is not happy. It may have a certain relationship with the betrothal gifts, but it will never be all. More importantly, will you two work hard together for a better life? Do you think I'm right, family?