2021 路要自己一步步走，只有自己撐過去，才能看見最美的彩虹 You can only see the most beautiful rainbow【愛學習 】

Years ago I have seen such a post on Zhihu Graduated from postgraduate, girlfriend who has been in love for 3 years Broke up with me for various reasons After half a year, I arrived in a completely unfamiliar city Just after the internship period, the monthly salary is 1500 yuan It was New Year's Day in 2015 The day before, my mother had just had an operation I caught the train home It's been past 4 o'clock in the morning when I arrived at the hospital Stayed in the hospital for two days and rushed to the unit Worked for a week Suddenly received a call from my father, saying that grandpa is gone I go home to help take care of grandpa's funeral I received a call from the doctor again That my mother's condition has worsened Uremia is in the third stage, and it's almost unsustainable The next month I spent time with my mother on dialysis in the hospital Mother asked why my girlfriend didn't come I vaguely said she is busy The company is in a hurry, the leader calls me Say you don't go back to work and get out I am holding my phone in the stairwell When I keep saying sorry I suddenly couldn't hold my tears This is my 2015 Life is like a sweater without the thread Start from the first stitch Developed into an unmanageable mess, isolated and helpless In the comment area, many people are saying warm words Comfort him, don’t hold on, and talk to friends There are also speculations about his current situation Worried that he won't be able to carry it But he seemed to have disappeared, and he didn’t reply. After a few months, the post was finally updated Boys use a faint tone After writing this helpless story follow-up Thank you all, I'm back, I'm fine The day before the Spring Festival, my mother left I thought i would collapse but i didn't I also expected Someone can pull me up like a puddle of mud But no one can rely on me I just quit my job Go home to pack mother's things I put those clothes Neatly folded and placed next to the bed Open the curtains and the sun shines in The plants grown by my mother are still so bright green I suddenly realized that life doesn't seem so bad I started to work out, sweating makes me sober I also fell in love with cooking, food gives me peace of mind I read every day, and the text calms me I suddenly found out that those who had accumulated a lot I want to pour other people's bitterness I can’t say it for a long time, so I don’t have to say it again. Now I have come to a new company Plan to start a new life I don't fear anything anymore It seems to have gone through some test The only thing left in the future is to pack lightly This boy's story Healed me for a long time Bitterness and frustration are the norm in life As Lu Yu said in her "Encounter" No matter who it is, we have all been Or are experiencing the darkest moments of their lives That's a long, swarthy Cold, desperate tunnel But the adult world Fighting alone and alone is the norm A photo once seen on Weibo Sudden heavy rain The crowds on the street make birds and beasts scattered The hawker at the fruit stand has nowhere to escape Can only curl up under the trolley I survived this heavy rain alone There is a heart-warming sentence in the comment section People reach a certain age I have to be the eaves I can't find another place to hide from the rain Everyone hopes to be loved all his life and be carefully collected by others Some people confide in injuries, and others rely on them when they suffer. Someone puts on the shoulder when tired But the more you experience, the more you discover There is no complete empathy in this world Everyone has to be in their own world Winter alone The harder you are, the more you have to survive on your own The adult world is a sea of ​​bitterness You and I are in it, and both sorrows and joys need to go Everyone’s life is destined to go Even if you want to catch a leaf Hold it and you can hold up all the weight But when autumn arrives, the leaves will leave the branches You only end up with nothing You won't know until then All the mud in life, you have to go on your own Wade over and you will live as a mountain Ni Ping years ago Standing on the stage, dazzling At that time, she hosted the CCTV Spring Festival Gala for 13 consecutive years There are actors and writers Wait for various titles and awards to make a halo Become the premier CCTV sister National goddess But fate loves to make cruel jokes No matter how bright the life is, it must be mixed with endless bitterness In 1999, 40-year-old Ni Ping gave birth to her son Huzi The tiger was just born 2 months old Was diagnosed with congenital eye disease If not treated in time It may be blind for life, even life-threatening Ni Ping is old all night At the hardest time in her life The husband Wang Wenlan, who originally wanted to rely on, was overwhelmed by the pressure Chose to escape and divorced Ni Ping Netizens can't accept the sudden drop in goddess's face Tucao she is like an aunt, with bloated body and loose skin Ni Ping herself has fallen into the unimaginable In anxiety and stress, learned to smoke Insomnia all night long This is the cruelest truth in life Standing in the abyss and looking up Only to find that I was so lonely Fortunately, grandma opened her with a word If you don’t fall, you can pass everything I fell, no one can support you Ni Ping wakes up, since no one can rely on Then join the army alone She no longer shed tears Quit his job as a CCTV host Say goodbye to all the flowers Going to the United States to seek medical advice for his son Medical bills quickly emptied the home Ni Ping in order to make money Often fly back and forth at home and abroad Only take cheap economy class Make money and fly back to treat the child You can even kneel on your knees Take photos of the director who is speaking Finally, when Huzi was 10 years old The doctor told her that the treatment was very good Can not be used for review in a short time Ni Ping’s hard days finally got out of her head She seems to be so powerful that no one can defeat her now Also full of expectations for the future Last year, Ni Ping’s agent posted a set Photos that Ni Ping has not repaired The body and condition are amazingly good On her 59th birthday, she also posted a Weibo Say: I always have to go forward To make a movie, to paint, to write a book At any time, pull you up from the abyss Must be you When you survive all the suffering alone When I look back, those tears that have already been swallowed All turned into armor Those injuries, although not a good thing But it gives you more power to face the impermanence of the world A blogger once did a solicitation on Weibo How did you spend the lowest time? Below, there are too many moving answers Someone who took the exam had repeated defeats and repeated defeats Fighting for the strength of not admitting defeat Smash to the end Some people have failed the postgraduate entrance examinations, but also suffered great misfortune The most helpless Forcing myself to read, study, and start again Some people have suffered the death of their father and their mother is seriously ill At the age of 20, all the support that has been carried I just told myself in my heart everything will be fine Some people almost died because of illness I also thought about it, but he didn’t believe in fate. Saved myself and wanted to save others Now a doctor Did you discover it? Those hardest days in life Actually no one is standing behind you You survived alone Wrote everything afterwards Remember a line in "My First Half of Life" You have to walk step by step, and you have to stutter yourself. Cramping and peeling the skin can be reborn There is no shortcut Not all suffering can be understood by others You have only self-enlightenment Instead of lying on the spot cursing the injustice of life Not everyone is tired, but someone can accompany you You can only learn to bear everything by yourself Instead of placing hope on others The harder you are, the more you have to rely on yourself I can only step on the thorns in front of me You can truly reconcile with life Calm in the face of strong winds and waves Like Haruki Murakami As written in "Kafka by the Sea" After the storm is over You won't remember how you survived You're not even sure that the storm is really over But one thing is certain When you passed through the storm You are no longer the same person