Những Cạm Bẫy Khi Du Học | Podcast

If you don't go to study abroad, you still don't think that the visa is a problem in finding a job. So today is episode 2, and today's episode is called the student's pink life. And I want to ask you, why did you name this show the student's pink life? Because I don't know why, when I followed you, you were the first student I followed, I don't know why. I don't know much about studying abroad, but you were the first student I followed. And I felt so sorry for you, so miserable. Studying abroad, and all that, feeling miserable, not having money, missing home, being lonely, etc. In general, I could feel it in your eyes. Oh, ok, ok. After that, on TikTok, I had a follow of a very pretty girl. Yes. And that girl also went to study abroad in Melbourne. Are you in Melbourne? I'm in Sydney. Yes. In general, that girl is in Melbourne. And that girl brought Australia to TikTok, like a dreamy city, and everyone liked it. And the first time I watched TikTok, watched a video of a person, I felt like, ah, I also want to study abroad. So I felt that it was also pink. After that, I asked you why some people found it very beautiful, and why for you it wasn't very beautiful. So I think that somewhere, studying abroad, people studying abroad will still find it pink. But I think at some age, it won't be pink anymore. So it will be pink, because pink will fly away very quickly. I don't think it's about age. Because I went to study abroad when I was about 21 or 22 years old. So it's not too old to say that I didn't enjoy studying abroad. And I even know that there are some friends who are in high school, they went abroad to study. So I was a student, I was the vice president of Vietnamese students. So I met a lot of friends, a lot of situations. So life is not that pink. Even special, especially those who are in high school and go abroad to study. Usually, when they go abroad, I don't know how it is in other countries, but in Australia, they will have to go to a class to be called a guardian. That is, go to a house to live. Yes, that is, there will be a guardian, that is, a guardian for them. The story of life is that when they get into that house, I have never heard any story. But when they get into a house, like, oh, the family is very happy. Maybe it's somewhere out there, but I've never heard of anyone like that. It's not that it's too bad. But I think it's because I care about making money, I care more about my career than I enjoy life. At that time, so it leads to the fact that I feel that life is darker than I thought. It looks expensive. Yes, that's right. Can you tell everyone a sentence, but not say that you are an Australian student, but say a sentence to let people know if you are an Australian student? I guess it could be, how are you going, mate? Or do you want to go get a Marcus? A very special word, maybe in the UK there is a word for it, but in Australia they have a word called mate. It's kind of like... Bạn Yeah, it's bạn. It's like, hey, hello mate, hello bạn. It's like that. But in the past, I wasn't used to using that word. I often used the word, I said it like you, hello you, hello you. Or the word Marcus, maybe it's an Australian slang word. That word Marcus means McDonald's. Do you want to go to McDonald's? Do you want to go to Marcus? Oh, that's great. That's Australian culture, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's only for Australians. I think those words are only for Australians. They use the word Marcus. OK, so the part where you say hello mate, when you say hello, do you just say hello to a Vietnamese friend? Or do you also say hello to an international friend? Yeah, international friends too. Hello mate, hello mate. People will hear it as hello mate. I mean, people will hear it as, hello, that person is saying hello to me. OK, OK. OK, now let's talk about studying abroad. It's more serious than a class. Let me tell you, first of all, listen carefully, this question is a bit long. OK. The reason, the time, and the period of time you studied abroad. Can you tell everyone the number? The reason, I studied abroad for about 6 years. I went to about, after I studied at the Phuket School of Economics, I studied at the ISB, which is the International School of Economics. After I studied for about 2 years, about 2 years, I decided to study abroad. The reason I went to study abroad was because I was bad at English. In the past, students were told to focus on math and science. Yeah. Right? Math and science were the main subjects. And for a very long time, I believed, that was my belief, that if I was good at math and science, I would make a lot of money. If I was good at these subjects, 3, 4, 9, if I was good at these subjects, I would definitely be good at school, I would make a lot of money. Like that. In the past, there was a guy sitting next to me, his name was Gia Huy, his name was Gia Huy. When I was in high school, I was good at math and science, he was good at English. I let him copy my math and science. He let me copy his English. Because I thought English wasn't important. I thought math and science weren't important. Right? I always got good grades in class, he always got bad grades, not too good. In the end, I studied math and science, I got into a good school, he studied English, he got a scholarship to study abroad. At that time, I thought, there's something wrong here. Why did I study math and science, I studied better, I studied more professionally, but why did I fail? I felt like I wasn't as successful as him. Right? Again, when I was in high school, it happened again. The guys who were good at English, they kept getting scholarships to study abroad. I kept focusing on math and science, and I lost opportunities. For example, when I was in high school, they told me that my school had scholarships, and those who were good at math and science couldn't apply. Because they were lacking. Right? So, at some point, I had to think again. There's something wrong here. It seems like my faith in studying math and science, I focused on studying math and science, it didn't help me make a lot of money. Something's wrong. Right? And at that time, I had to accept the fact that my faith was wrong. It seemed like studying English was much more important than studying math and science. So, at that time, I started to... At that time, I had faith. And I focused on studying English, but the way I studied English from when I was in grade 1, 2, or 3 until now, I've never been as good as him. I went to school, then I went to school more, I studied, I... I did everything they told me to do, but I was still not good at English. So, I realized that one of the... I think the only way to be good at English is to put myself in an environment where I have to speak English all the time. That's because... I took an exam at FPT University. This is something few of you know. I got a 50% scholarship from FPT University. When was that? Because when I was in grade 3, I hadn't even taken the college entrance exam. FPT University had a preliminary exam. For those who had registered, they took the IQ exam, the literature exam, the fun fact is, that year, FPT University, their literature exam, what do you call it? The details of women. I got 20 out of 20 points in that exam. And that's how I got the energy to go in to interview, to get the scholarship from FPT University. I got a 50% scholarship. At that time, I... I hadn't even taken the college entrance exam, I knew I was in FPT University. When I took the exam, I got the scholarship. I didn't tell my parents. When I got the scholarship, I didn't tell my parents. I got a 50% scholarship. I decided to go to FPT University. Because FPT University teaches English. The problem is, FPT University, they said their education is in foreign countries, and they teach English and so on. At that time, I believed that the only way for me to improve my English, I had to get into an environment where they teach English. So, I told my mom, no, I can't do economics now, I forgot about economics. I want to get into this school. At that time, my belief was so strong that I would rather go to FPT University, where they teach English. It would be better for me to go to an economy school where they teach Vietnamese, even though the university is more valuable. That was my belief at that time. Then, my parents were like, son, don't, son. FPT University is not good, son. You go to economics, and then you come out. At that time, I was so frustrated. I couldn't go to school anymore. Then my parents told me, no, no, no. It seems that in any school of economics, there is an English program of ISP and so on. So, now you go to economics, and then your parents will pay for you in English. So, okay, okay. Now I try to go to economics. I decided to take the exam, and then I got into economics. I just decided to go to that ISP because the sea teaches English. At that time, I don't know if it still exists. There is a regular program, a high-quality program, a program called ISP. That program, ISP, is a program that now teaches completely in English. It teaches in English. If it teaches in English, then I go in. Again, it still doesn't help me get quite good at English. Why is that? Because that institute teaches in English, but why doesn't it help you get quite good at English? Because they teach in English, but I don't know if it's still there at the moment. But not all teachers are foreigners. Some subjects will be teachers of Vietnamese. Some subjects are too difficult. They can't find a foreign teacher to teach in English. Another problem is that all students are Vietnamese. And not all students are Vietnamese. They are also good at English. So, again, the problem is that even though I go to a program, a school that teaches in English, but the environment is not the environment for me to speak English. For example, I'm bad at English. You're bad at English. The two of us talk to each other in English. It's stupid. Okay. Oh, okay. Boro and Ben. What's wrong with you? You remind me of a meme on the Internet. It's like, the two of us decided to communicate in English to improve our English. The whole day, the two of us were silent. I'm also angry at that. I'm not saying that it's because of the school. But I'm quite sure, I think that most of the other schools are the same. It's not like you hear people say, oh, this school is not good. If you think of an international training program, SPU is still a good school. Again, because it's a part of the economy school. Its brand is still a big brand. But basically, because everyone speaks Vietnamese there. It doesn't put me in an environment that forces me to speak English. So I decided to study abroad. I said, only when I study abroad do I have an environment that forces me to learn English. The first year, I was a bit shocked because when I just came to a foreign country, I didn't hang out with Vietnamese people. I said, this is my last chance. I've already been abroad. And I'm still in an environment where if there are Vietnamese people in there, and it leads me to the situation where I start speaking Vietnamese more than English, there's no other chance for me to practice English. So right from the start, I didn't stay at home with Vietnamese people. I chose an international house. Then I didn't join the Vietnamese club. Right from the start, I avoided it. I didn't want to. So I improved my English. And it was only in 6 months, 1 year that I felt my English improved. Yeah. Now, let's go back. I feel that the reason is because I'm not good at English. If I want to be good at English and study abroad, I feel that for me, it's very important. It's really, really important. But it's not like my parents will understand my feelings. So the distance when I went home, I told my parents that I wanted to study abroad. When you went to Australia, how did your parents react? And the financial problem of your family. I think when my parents told me that they had enough money for me to study abroad, I was shocked. Your parents had enough? They had enough money for me to study abroad. I was shocked. I was shocked too. You told everyone that your family was a working family. Yeah. When I said that, because I didn't think that my family had enough money. I didn't know that my family had enough money for me to study abroad. The fact that I joined an international club and went to ASP, I already paid a lot of money. For me, at that time, I was like, What the f**k? This is a lot of money. So I didn't think that my family had enough money for me to study abroad. So the period when I said that I wanted to study abroad, I don't know if it's a compliment. It's so dramatic. But it feels like there's nothing left in Vietnam that makes me happy. Go watch movies, go hang out. I think there must be a change in my mind. I want to go abroad. So the first thing I did was I found a way to study abroad at a low price. It led to me finding out that I would go to Europe. Specifically, I went to study in Spain. They introduced that studying in Spain costs tens of millions. If you study Spanish, or you study this and that, after you go abroad, or you look for scholarships, for example, in Hong Kong, there is no such thing. But I couldn't afford it. The simplest thing is to go to Europe. The tuition fee in Europe is usually very cheap. At that time, they advertised that studying in Spain costs 90 million a year. I thought, 90 million a year, okay, I can afford it. Then the girls in Spain looked pretty too. Spain, pretty, pretty. Barcelona, Real Madrid. After that, I decided to study abroad in Europe. After that, I didn't say anything to my family. When I got home, I told my mom, Mom, have you decided to study abroad? Have you decided to study abroad in Spain? My family at that time started to be worried, like, oh, my son, why are you studying abroad in Spain? What country is it? Then, suddenly, what's with the hand? Why do you have to go to the US? Why don't you go to Australia? Why do you want to go to Spain? Then my mom said, because now I want to study abroad. Spain is the cheapest. My family at that time started to be worried. My family at that time said, no, you go to Australia to study abroad. Blah, blah, blah. Now, my mom will pay for me. I have scholarships and that. I felt that I forced my family then my family pushed me back to the main road. Like the FBT case, I tried to study abroad, then my mom pushed me to study economics. Then I decided to study abroad. Then my mom pushed me to go to Australia. At that time, there were many choices, but in the end, I decided to choose Australia. Earlier, I said that I chose to study abroad because of English. Actually, I chose to study abroad because of English. And maybe it's the environment that I experienced abroad. Speaking of the training program, I don't know about you, but before I went to study abroad, I knew that the training program abroad was the same as the one in Vietnam. I don't think that the training program abroad is better than the one in Vietnam. I don't buy it. And I decided to study abroad specifically because of English and the environment, not because of the training program. Okay. You're so lucky. You decided to study abroad because your family didn't have enough money, so you had to borrow money. No. But luckily, your family had enough money. And this is my point of view. Because I also have a family. My cousin went to study abroad in Japan. But I don't know how to ask the correct question. But I'll tell you the story, and you'll understand it. My cousin went to study abroad in Japan. My family is from Bac Giang. Bac Giang has two types. Bac Giang city and Bac Giang rural. But my family is not from the rural area, but from the mountain. It's very difficult. I don't know why the time when I went to study abroad in Japan, it came to my family's area. So they moved out. And so did my cousin. There are two very important issues for me. First, my cousin's family didn't have enough money. They had to borrow a lot of money to let her study abroad. Second, she went there not to study, to gain knowledge, to learn about the culture. But she went there to earn money, to earn a lot of money. But there was something more painful. The pandemic happened. She was so afraid to go back. She couldn't earn a lot of money. She couldn't pay the debt. She didn't have to worry about studying. So she didn't have the knowledge to study. I don't know what your point of view is. I think there are a lot of cases like that. Really a lot. I don't know what your point of view is about those cases. First, Second, If you have been following me for a very long time, maybe you have a video about how to earn money to study abroad. How to earn money to study abroad. And I told you why when you make a short video on TikTok, it was very viral, very controversial. There were a lot of arguments and so on. At that time, I still received a lot of comments. I went in and watched it myself. I realized those people came from a special area in Vietnam. Right. Like, I know... Very specific. I think the study center can find the inside of those areas. Yes. They know that living in a big city is very difficult to sell the fact that you are going abroad. You... You are doing that only in rural areas, areas where people are very poor, people are having a hard time. That market, you know, going to work under the pretext of studying abroad is all in some areas that are very typical in the North. I think it's a part of the culture. Because if that area has a lot of people going, the fact that you go abroad to work there will become a norm. That's normal. And people will accept that. For example, if in the city, if someone tells you, I have decided, I will go to Korea to study abroad to work, then naturally, it won't be this culture. It will be something else. Right, okay. Again, about why you should spend money to go to work, I think everyone has their own situation. We don't know. I have very close friends who are like that, but they don't go to the army, they walk. They still spend money to study abroad. And when they study abroad, they don't go to the army to make money. Everyone has their own situation. We can't say if it's right or wrong. Because if you say that spending money to study abroad is wrong, spending money to study abroad to go to work is wrong, then if there are people whose situation is at the end, and they feel that's their only way, and then there are people who go abroad and do that, and then they succeed. But again, is there a high rate of success? I think no. There is another problem in the story why I'm really against the idea that people spend money that way to go. Because when people go abroad, what they do is they work, work, work. But it's not that they work as high as I go to work. I have experience. People only work by hand. The problem with working by hand is that the experience is not valuable. Let's say you get that visa to study abroad for 3 years. During those 3 years, you go to work, go to work, go to work. You keep making money, making money, making money. What do you make money for? You pay a debt. First, you pay a debt. Then, after 3 years, there are people who say I make money, I make money. Again, you don't study. So that university, even if you graduate from that university, that university doesn't have enough value for you to find a job. And the experience that people go to work is that people work. People go to work, that experience is not for you to find a job that is right for your profession. And that experience is easy to be replaced. You don't have to do anything that is too good for your profession. For example, 3 years of experience in selling goods is not something valuable. Right? So, people make money, they pay the debt. Then, they stop that job. That's why a lot of people don't dare to go back to Vietnam. Because they know when they go back to Vietnam, they can't make money. What kind of job can make money? And this is not only related to the job. Actually, if you go back to Vietnam, your income will drop immediately. Right? But at least, for those jobs that are a little bit more flexible, they have this and that. In life, maybe people say, I can go abroad later. Or they do some jobs, they go home, they sacrifice their salary, it goes down. But their service is maybe higher. That's the trend. And for those who are more working, for example, when you go back, what do you do? You still work. But in Vietnam, it's even lower. That's why people are afraid that when they get into that situation, they will do everything so that they can stay. To preserve their income. Right. They don't have any other choice. Because I know 100% when I go back to Vietnam, my income will drop immediately. And I don't have any other way to make money. I don't know if I should advise you or not. I don't know if I should advise you or not. Because my sister is very sad. Because in my family, my family is a rural family. I went to university for a while and was lucky to get close to people like you. So I realized that knowledge and learning are more important than money at the moment. Because my sister's family is not poor. They have a lot of land. They just don't have any money. But I don't know why it led to that situation. That's just one part. It was during when I was in school. One day, I texted you and you told me that you had studied and learned about knowledge. You texted me and told me that you would decide to go back to Vietnam and find a big company with a salary of 15 million. Oh my God. I didn't know what that environment had done to your mindset that made you stop working in a company with such a salary. It's really bad. Honestly, when people fall into an environment where they are talked about a lot. I'm not saying that everything is the same. But the big percentage is that people only think about working, making money day after day. Even a person who has a strong mindset like you, your fighting spirit is very strong. When you fell into that sushi place, that sushi restaurant, people said you were so strong that when you came back to Vietnam, you ran around District 7, District 4 to find a place to open a sushi restaurant. While before when you went to study abroad, you thought you would never step into the F&B market because it was so hard. You knew it was hard. You knew you didn't have the talent. But people knew you were so strong that when you came back to Vietnam, you ran around and said my life is probably sushi now. Now I will try to open a small shop in Australia. I will open a small shop and take away sushi. I swear when I ran the new street in District 4, I ran and saw that sushi shop like this. I swear I remember now when I run that street I still see that shop I still remember that thought. Your environment is important, right? Yeah, it pushes me it pushes people down to the point that people start to accept that I am a normal person that life like this is enough for me. So when you go into a working environment like that the people around are like going to work is ok then go home then go for a drink your income is high so that's it. So in your opinion there is no way to advise friends to study abroad to make money right? You have to let them experience it and feel it right? There is no way, right? I don't think it's advice I mean at the moment I don't advise anyone anything because I don't know even if it's true to me I don't know 100% if it's true to others I can feel it let's say for the most part everyone I tell them do your own research right and almost in my opinion my personal understanding is 99.9% of people but I don't know if the other person fell into the other 0.1% or not so now at the moment I don't advise anyone but I can let people see the the future of people that is the future of the future what will happen how instead of advising people I let people see the scenarios scenarios are the cases the cases that can happen so the best way to convince people is to show them those cases or tell them stories like this that's why those areas they they can convince a large number of people to go a lot because when they get there they tell do you know that kid in that neighborhood oh my god right they tell a story they tell a story but they tell successful stories they don't tell unsuccessful stories so the way to let that person see a future more accurately is to tell the cases like this and then when people look at that they make their own decisions that's also the question I want to ask in the first year when you first came to Australia as I said I haven't heard any good memes please give me a good one It's so good so I don't know you were too young 10 years you were only 10 years old 6, 7 years generally I was in my early 20's 30 so I don't know now that you've come back to prepare for the future what will you do and prepare for so that your life is less boring I think if I could come back the first thing is I will to improve my English At that time, I didn't know how to improve my English So I thought I had to go there to improve my English But actually, even if you're in Vietnam there's still a way for you to improve your English It's not as good as when you're over there but it's enough for you to use Because there are things that if I step on the plane, I know I'm going to die because I can't hear For example, when I study IELTS here people say I'm going to die I can hear but when I step on the plane two Australian guys sit next to me and talk I'm going to die I can't hear anything I really can't hear anything But at that time I knew communication skills were my strength So if I were in Vietnam if I were to choose again I would focus on improving my English Because when we hang out the things we talk about are more comfortable more familiar It's like I don't have to force myself If I don't have to force myself it's easier to hear If it's easier to hear, it's easier to speak Secondly, I will try to build an online business Because now it's not the same as it used to be You have to Building an online business is very easy It's not difficult I will build it first Then I will adjust the business to match the environment If not I will have to start over Especially if you work in the retail industry It's not bad but there's a risk that the environment will beat you and you'll think it's enough I'm a bit sad There's something you mentioned It's a small thing I and many others haven't studied abroad but we know that visa is very important Can you use a story or a way to explain how important a visa is Because you said that going to work affects your visa so does studying There are countries that don't have it I will talk about the visa The problem is If you haven't studied abroad even before studying you think about studying you still don't think about the visa because we live in Vietnam We are Vietnamese We don't worry about the visa Right But when you go abroad there's a problem It's a problem when you go to work There are industries that are very difficult I don't recommend people to study Let's say, the marketing industry If you want to study it's okay If you decide to study abroad I'm not saying it's impossible for you to find a job because I know there are people who study marketing and they find jobs They look for ways to stay There are people who find good jobs Anyway, there are some examples But the truth is if you study the industry because marketing is not easy to get a visa it's like finding a job is much harder For example, in Australia you study for 3 years I give you 3 more years to stay and work So there are industries like that? No Basically, any industry is okay Let's say, I remember I was 2 years old Now I'm 3 years older I'm not sure After I finish studying, they give me a 3-year visa to stay and work in Australia The visa is shortened Now I go to work I tell them my visa is 2 years They'll look at me and ask You can only work here for 2 years What are you going to do after that? There's no other way Except for industries like engineering or IT They'll know there's a way for them to apply so they can extend their visa and become permanent residents so they can stay and work for a long time For industries like marketing if they know they can't apply That's a problem Why do I have to choose you when your visa is only 2 years and I don't choose a local or international but they already have a permanent residence They can stay here for a long time They can be committed to the company for a long time Right? So that visa is an important issue I have to say not every company knows about that visa I have a friend who works at a big company It's an international company not a company She went to Australia She applied Everything When she got to the last round she asked about the visa They said they didn't have it Sorry It was the last round I had to beat all the local and international people I beat them all That's when she said I don't know about this Because at the last round when they prepared the application they asked me about the visa They didn't care about the visa Some companies from the beginning said only permanent residence What is permanent residence? Permanent residence means you can stay in Australia for a long time Citizen means you are an Australian citizen For example if you get a visa for 2-3 years Temporary residence means temporary When I looked it up on the website it clearly said permanent residence or citizen only That's hard Those are the companies The companies that write like that are usually the founders or the executives They are international They know about the visa Those companies that are too local They don't think about the visa It's like my sister She joined that company It's not permanent residence or citizen That's why she applied She applied until the last round The human resource guy said Sorry, I can't do it Bye bye I know a bit about studying in Australia I worked with you I know one of the ways to become a permanent resident is to get married to an Australian I don't know if I've read about it but I don't know if it's popular in the UK or in Australia They get married to an Australian and stay there for a long time I think it's popular but not If it's popular it's not that popular If it's not popular it's not right But that's their choice It's illegal Really? Of course But what if they love each other? If they love each other there's no problem If it's fake marriage there's a problem You pay money and they send you a document to prove that you love each other to apply for a PAPR It's possible Why is it possible? Of course, there's a price There's a price It's not that obvious but you can guess how much It's not like you can't find a job there I'll say that Do you ever think about becoming a permanent resident in Australia? No But I don't think I'll follow the path that people usually take Right from the beginning I really hate having to go to work having to follow this and that to become a permanent resident I believe I can achieve that without following the path that people usually take It's just a matter of time That's a lot It's just a matter of time Let's get back to the topic Can you recommend 3 jobs for people like me to study there to become a permanent resident and stay longer than normal? 2 jobs that I think are easy for you to apply for First, it's easy to find a job there to stay Engineering and IT I'm not sure about IT because people change a lot but IT is fine For those who want to apply for business the only option is accounting Although accounting is extremely high I have a theory This is my conspiracy theory I think you have a lot of conspiracy theories This is how people assess you to see if you can become a permanent resident of that country They'll give you a score If you get enough points For example, if you study in a university you'll get 40 points If you do a test you'll get 10 points If you have English, you'll get 10 points If you get 60 points, you can apply For example, engineering, you'll get 60-70 points But accounting pushes you up to 90-100 points It's extremely high You don't get these points by taking a test You have to take a test in this field You have to have 2-3 years of experience to get those 5 points to get those 100 points I don't know how much it is now but it's extremely high It's almost as if people stay in Australia based on accounting but they never leave that field What's the conspiracy theory here? The conspiracy theory here is that Australia doesn't need accounting They leave that field to lure businessmen into their country If you take accounting away from the ability to stay other businessmen won't have a chance to work for a long time They'll start looking for other countries But if they have that accounting they'll look at it and say, okay, I can do it especially in China and Asia I'm very good at numbers Okay, accounting, easy Everyone invests money here That's great When did you realize that conspiracy theory? That's great I didn't realize it That's what I think Because accounting is the highest level It's almost impossible I don't say it's impossible but it's very hard compared to other fields For example, engineering or IT If you go to school for 1-2 years you'll be in the VR field But accounting is people do this and that then they couple together 5 points One last question I've been following you for 2 years but I thought you did online you did online business I don't know because I see people go to school they miss their parents but when they get home they keep saying why do we spend money on studying and you do online You only do online at home with your phone Do your family say anything? I just got home and I moved out a few weeks later Did you face that problem or did you just ignore it? I ignored it I knew it 100% I've been abroad for so long I have my own freedom When I came back to Vietnam my parents said I knew it would happen so I moved out I knew if I stayed at home my parents would ask what I did and I didn't want that to happen because they would ask why I did this but I knew my family was like that my parents knew my personality they didn't care so they didn't ask I was like why do I do online That's it I want to tell students I want to tell students that the pain you're feeling is temporary you have to bear it and keep moving in the direction you want but when you accept the present your life will stop because life, especially abroad will push you to that point but when you accept the present you have to be persistent and keep moving Thank you Thank you everyone