Cha mẹ chia đất, anh em cạn tình máu mủ - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

Dear brothers and sisters, we have a saying, be wise in dealing with strangers, fight with one's mother, but not fight with each other. I would like to advise us that as brothers in a family, even if we have problems, let's sit down and solve them together, but don't cause a mix that affects the brotherhood of brotherhood and harmony in the family. However, in reality, this blood-sweat-and-tears relationship is broken just because of the division of property, or the division of responsibility to take care of parents. There are losses of feelings from conflicts, which both sides have put their ego too high. There are also conflicts, just because of misunderstanding, greed, and stubbornness, no one is willing to open their heart to each other. Let's listen to the following stories so that each of us can reflect and draw a life lesson for ourselves. The first story is the blood-sweat-and-tears relationship because of the land. The second brother has a long, boring life, not having anything to leave for his children is also painful, but having something is more painful. After many years of struggling, he finally managed to buy a small piece of land. His three children, two boys and one girl, are all talented and filial children. But because of the poor situation, he said he was not worried about letting his children study as much as others. And now that the land is close to heaven, there is a little land left for the children to remember and also to make up for them. Thinking about when I was gone, I was afraid that the children would fight and lose their brotherhood. But now, he has divided the land for each of them so that they can have a little food to eat. Thinking about the past, the two of them discussed whether the two boys would have to raise their wives, and later on, they would have to build a road and pray to their ancestors, so they should divide the land for the boys a little more than for the girls. It sounds simple, but it is very complicated. Hai's daughter was very upset when she saw her brother being divided for the land more than her. I also know how much property is the right of parents, but I think before getting married, during the time of living with the family, I also contributed, made a lot of money for my parents to buy that piece of land. My brother and I did not lose anything. I think I was treated unfairly. I did not object to it, but I was very angry. Every day, I was so angry that I could not stand it. The conflict was so intense when the brothers and sisters kept arguing, and then they fought. Hai's older brother was injured, and he stabbed his younger sister in court for the crime of kissing another person. His hands were cut off, his intestines were cut off, and he was stabbed again. Many people were heartbroken when they saw the story of his brother refusing to accept his sister's alimony, but he definitely asked his sister to go to jail. The trial ended with a 1-year prison sentence for Hai's daughter. Hai came home with a heavy heart. If he had hesitated to divide his unequal land and cause the children to suffer, he would not have been able to do so. Now his daughter had to go to jail. The brothers were angry and did not look at each other. Part of the fault was that he hesitated. The more he thought about it, the more his heart seemed to be torn apart. The chicken and the mother fought with each other for so many years of love and care. Ladies and gentlemen, there is a saying that when you die, no one can take your body with you. However, people still fight for every inch of land, every piece of land, every house, so that the brothers' love can last forever. When material gains are valued, people will calculate when greed will make people different. The higher the greed, the lower the morality. The lower the morality, the more vicious people become. When everything becomes too late, the price to pay becomes too high. The gain is only part of the material, and the loss is too big that it cannot be measured. Once they had quarreled, they stepped out of the courtroom and the brotherhood was gone. Those quarrels may last until the next life, when the children do not look at each other. A drop of peach blood is more than a drop of water. The blood is soft, the brothers are like a piece of cloth. These moral lessons are so profound and profound. Today, those lessons are still left in life. The images of hatred, pain, and conflict are still there. Even the skin and hands are close to each other just because of a piece of land. The above story is also a reminder that parents still have the habit of sharing for their children. Love for children may not be equal due to the personality and the way of life. How to share so that children do not have to suffer is not easy at all. The second story is that the brothers quarreled and split up to raise their mother. Mrs. Lanh is over 80 years old this year. A few years ago, she suffered from a nervous disorder that was so bad that she was paralyzed from a normal person. After that, she could hardly walk because she was paralyzed. She had to sit in one place. She loved her mother. Mr. Lanh, her son, took her to Hanoi to take care of her. But when she went to the hospital, there was no change in her treatment. She looked at her mother sitting in a corner of the house even though she loved her so much. Mr. Lanh only knew how to take care of his mother. But in the city for a while, Mrs. Lanh wanted to go home. She loved her mother and also understood that the elderly often wanted to return to their hometown, so Mr. Lanh was eager to take her to his second brother's house. After a few months of work, he returned to his hometown to visit his mother. After lunch, his brother asked his family who would take care of his mother. Mr. Lanh said, why did you decide so long ago and now you want to change? His brother answered, I told you that I had to hire someone to take care of my mother but now I can't find anyone so I hire my husband. But now I have a lot of farm work and I can't do anything to take care of my mother. I can't take care of her anymore so I suggest that from now on you have to take care of each family for 6 months. His father shouted, you have received a lot of love so you have to go but you don't have any opinion. I ask you, who will take care of her? What are you going to do? Are you going to starve to death? Although Mr. Lanh is an older brother, he is too gentle so he can't say anything to his brothers. Just because of everything that his two brothers quarreled and made the family chaotic. Mr. Lanh has red eyes and only knows how to yell, you are too much mother is a mother but because of that they quarreled? Then he couldn't say anything. At the corner of the bed, Mrs. Lanh sat on her feet her hands on her knees trembling. Mr. Lanh stood up and said to everyone you are over 80 years old but you treat your mother like that so what? I will take you away. He said and decided to pack up and take you to the city. Today, the children are divided and full of responsibility to take care of their parents is no longer a rare thing. Even parents become a ball pushed by their children. A few days later, the children are separated just because of conflicts in taking care of their parents. This all comes from selfishness always comparing the flesh only for the benefit of themselves and look down on filial piety, love. Dear friends, due to the tragic conflicts of the brothers in the family the parents are a very good bridge for the children to change the conflicts and themselves should also take the initiative to sympathize with their siblings. And here are 4 things you should do if there are conflicts with siblings in the family. First, look at the mistake as an adult. No one wants to admit that they are wrong but in life we should not just look at the individual but observe from the picture because if the siblings you are conflicting with are gone, the last thing you remember about them is hatred. Clearly, you will not be happy if a relationship ends that way. So find your siblings to resolve the conflict before you have the chance to do that again. Second, talk sincerely. In every problem, you two are always close to each other. Learn to listen to others. Don't steal your siblings' words because they also need to be reconciled. And then you also have time to show what you want in this relationship. Third, let the third person help. If the negotiation does not go smoothly, you are not comfortable with the things that your brother or sister give out. Of course, you have to be completely objective, listen to all opinions and find a solution to resolve the conflict. Fourth, accept changes to reconcile. It is not necessary to hug each other to forget everything like nothing ever happened. However, you should give each other trust, talk to each other, participate in family activities so that all the tensions in the brother-sister relationship can be resolved peacefully if everyone always tries for it. Because the conflict is affecting your own family. And certainly, the most sincere people will be the most painful when they see their children conflict and lose unity. Although the same love for the brothers and sisters is always in everyone's heart, it is not necessary to hug each other. Dear friends, every tree, every flower, every house, every scene, every family can have conflicts because the members have different thoughts and feelings. And it is not always possible to resolve the conflicts between brothers and sisters. The important thing is that when conflicts arise, everyone has the right to have fun. And when the brothers and sisters have conflicts in the distribution of property, or taking care of parents, remember that money, material things, are only external objects. After all, only love is eternal. At the end of today's video, I invite you to listen to the story of the ticket of love. At the station of a big city, a 30-year-old woman is sweating to put on her delicate bag of luggage. On her face, a low-wage hard-working woman is crying. She is looking hopelessly around the station to find something, but then she is disappointed. She looks very pitiful. On the station, everyone is in a hurry. Anyone passing by that woman is looking at her with disgust and sympathy, but no one is willing to help her. Especially, those who dress elegantly pass by her very quickly. As if they think if they go slowly, that woman will definitely pull them back to beg for something. She is standing near the crowd waiting for the train, but as if waiting for her to finish her sentence, everyone is shaking their heads and hurriedly going somewhere else. Not in vain, she follows the windows of the train carriages and jumps up at the train carriages that have not yet departed. Every time she goes to the train carriages, she also has a face like she wants to beg for help. The people sitting on the train are very uncomfortable with this woman. There are people who shake their hands and shake their tails. There are people who just saw the light at the head of the train carriages and hurriedly took a newspaper to cover their faces and sleep. On the face of that woman it is clear that she is disappointed and bored. She is not a greedy person, but why is everyone behaving like that? The woman thinks so. She goes through the train but no one wants to listen to her expression of her situation. At that moment, she sees a handsome man sitting reading a newspaper. The man is reading the newspaper very carefully and as if he does not notice everything around him. Gently going towards the man, the woman says, I'm sorry, can you help me? The man puts down the newspaper and looks around for a while like a rural woman. I'm sorry, are you asking me? The woman nods. Please help me. I go to the city to find my wife but I can't find her. I have no money left. I want to go home, but I don't know how. Can you buy me a ticket so I can go home? After hearing the poor woman the young man looks very sad as if he wants to help but does not want to help the poor woman. After a moment of silence, the man puts his hand in his pocket. It is very difficult to make a lot of money to give to a woman. Please take it. I only have this much left. I don't know if it's enough. I just bought a ticket to go home so I don't have much left. I go to this city to find a job hoping to find another job. But when I go to the city with a medium-sized wallet in my hand I can't find anything to do. Please take it. The woman holds the man's coins. It's very difficult. I can only speak two languages. Thank you. As I turned to the end of the corridor I heard the voice of the young man calling me. He hurriedly went to me and said So, will you come with me or take my ticket? What about you? The woman asked. The money you just gave me I can buy enough tickets to the third station starting from this station. So your house is not far away. You can walk. Just take the ticket I'm a boy. A woman like you can't walk home at night. I wish you a happy life. Please give me enough money. I wish you a happy life. He said. No time for the woman's reaction. The man hurriedly took the money in the woman's hand and gave it to her. Then he left the train and went to the ticket counter. Very quickly the young man got on the train. The woman approached the man and asked Why did you do that? Don't you regret it? The man nodded. No, sister. In the eyes of the woman a bright smile shone. The woman held the man's hand and said Young man Come with me for a while. The woman pulled the man out of the train took a taxi opened the car door and turned to look at the man. You are wrong. Today you are officially my employee. It turned out this woman was the daughter of a famous toy manufacturer. To find a reliable assistant she had to disguise herself and stand in the train station for three days. She said You think I'm stupid when I have to suffer like that but actually it's really worth it. When I stood in the station for three days I realized finding a really good person in this miserable life is very difficult. Maybe that young man is not as knowledgeable as college graduates or higher but the most precious thing and the most precious thing is that he has a heart. Only when you have a heart in life can you have a heart in work. That's what my company needs. Ladies and gentlemen Can you see a ticket to get a bright career? Maybe many people think this is just a coincidence but actually in that coincidence there is its weakness. Many people have been on the train but only that young man has received such unexpected happiness. It's not a coincidence that he has such a good opportunity but the important thing is that he knows how to share his heart with people around him. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you again.