5 cấm kỵ với người thân trong nhà - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

Ladies and gentlemen, life is a never-ending race. But luckily, on that journey, we are not alone. Dad's steady shoulder, mom's warm hands, the harmony of life partners, the two tight hugs of children, the momentary sharing of brothers and sisters, will help us realize the value of each other in this life. As a matter of fact, family members are the most important people in each person's life. I once read a saying that being gentle and courteous to others is very likely to be just a trick in the face of adversity. A good attitude towards the people you love is the real personality of each person. Love and respect your family members. You absolutely must avoid the following five things. First, do not show off in front of your loved ones. Your loved ones are always happy to see your achievements. They always want the best to come to you. So when you buy a new car, buy a new decoration, buy a new house, you can totally inform your loved ones so they can share the joy with you. But that doesn't mean you should show off and pretend to be better than others. Because who knows, you are accidentally hurting your own loved ones. The following is a true story. I have two younger brothers. My younger brother is only one year younger than me. My parents are farmers, so they have to work very hard to raise my two younger brothers. I just got married. I studied social work, so I didn't have many opportunities to work. Since then, I have been working for a government agency. My wife is also an editor, so it's hard to go to her house. My husband and I have a 6-year-old daughter, but we still have to move. Meanwhile, my younger brother is very good at making money. After many changes, my younger brother has become the head of a famous company. Last year, my younger brother married a girl from a rich family. He received financial support from his wife. That year, my younger brother bought a beautiful house and a car. My younger brother also sent money to help my parents fix their house. Thanks to him, my parents were able to earn a living with the villagers. During family reunions, the whole family often gave my younger brother compliments and criticized me for not having the will to advance, so life just kept going on forever. My younger brother also often bragged about his old car, and then said, teach your brother how to make money. After the Tet holiday, my family and my younger brother left. My mother packed two bags of gifts, a big bag for my younger brother and a small bag for me. I said, if my parents leave it, they won't give it to their children. As soon as I said, my younger brother said, take the big bag. There is nothing missing in the street. I refused, but my father immediately said, it is true that the poor party is still kind, or not giving it to parents, so you are afraid? Hearing my father say that, I felt my throat was bitter, as if the sad Tet holiday was still in my mind forever. Dear friends, money is not scary, but what is scary is the attitude of a person when faced with obstacles. Money and power can sometimes take people too far, forget who they are, forget how different they are. But no matter how many obstacles, they are still just external objects. Those who really resist never need to use external objects to give credit to the inside, because they are aware enough to understand that money is just a tool to make themselves better. So with outsiders, you don't need to show off your wealth to be recognized. Don't show off your wealth to your family, to your close ones, because after all, a close relationship is the most precious thing in this life. Second, don't interfere in your own personal affairs. No matter what the relationship is, close to where, good to where, everyone has a corner in their heart that they don't want anyone to touch. That corner is like a wall. Only when others open the gate can you step in. So respect each other, give each other a certain space. That's the way to have a close relationship. But sometimes, interfering in other people's lives is acceptable, especially if the purpose is to help that person or prevent them from doing something wrong. No matter what your purpose is and how close that person is to you, you still have to ask for their permission before interfering. Before giving your opinion or advice, ask the other person if everything is okay if you express your thoughts. This will convey a clear message to the other person that you always respect their privacy and you just want to give them a friendly reminder because you really care and want the best for them. In the end, we are all main characters in our lives, but we are just spectators in other people's lives. Don't worry about conflict, don't be cold, be positive. Everyone will live their own life, don't interfere in other people's lives. Respect other people's choices, give them space to grow up, give them freedom to choose, even if they are your close ones. With your close ones, the best thing you can do is to listen to them and find a way to solve the problem that they are facing. Third, don't be angry with your close ones with negative feelings. Life is not easy, everyone has to face ups and downs, going on the wrong path, going to the wrong job, having a bad job. So, don't be angry, but don't ever bring all those negative feelings home. Step through the door and try to keep yourself in the best mood because your close ones are not responsible for your problems. However, don't be angry because your close ones are not responsible for your problems. Don't be angry because your close ones are not responsible for your problems. Don't be angry because your close ones are not responsible for your problems. 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The professor wanted to erase the name of a person that is not important in life. Finally, there were only four names on the board. Father, mother, husband and child. The class was very quiet. The students looked at the professor and felt that this was no longer a game. The professor said, Write down one more name. The girl stopped and gave a difficult choice. She put the chalk on the board and wrote down the name of her parents. Let's erase another name. The professor's voice spoke again. The girl was terrified. She dropped the chalk, shuddered, slow, and firmly erased the name of her son. Immediately after that, she cried bitterly. The professor waited for her to calm down and asked, The closest people to you should be your parents and children. Because parents are the ones who raise you. Children are yours. And the husband can replace you. Why is the husband the most difficult person to leave? The whole class was waiting for the answer. The girl spoke calmly. Time passed. Parents will leave you. Children will definitely leave you when they grow up. The only person who will accompany you to the end of your life is your husband. Who is the most important person in your life? It's really hard to answer this question. The answer of the girl in the story was hers. And the more she crossed each name, the more painful she was. Don't try to find the most important person to you. Emotions can't be measured. And everything is relative. Relatives, friends, and life are all important. We can't live without them. Love and cherish the people around you more. Treat your relatives in the most cheerful and warm way possible. Look at your father's smile, your mother's smile, your brothers and sisters' affection, your friends' sharing. You will feel more love and warmth in your heart. At the end of today's video, I invite you to listen to the following story. I was born in a remote village. Day by day, my parents had to work on a dry field to feed me and my sisters. One day, I stole 15 dong from my father's pocket to buy a handkerchief that all the girls in the village had. My father found out. He took a bamboo stick and hung it on the fence. He asked my sisters who took the stick. Out of fear, I didn't dare to confess. My father was angry I held my father's hand and said, Dear father, I'm sorry. I couldn't explain what I had used that stick for. My father was so angry that he thought my sister had played with the stick until he couldn't breathe. That night, my mother and I looked at you and I burst into tears. You said, Dear sister, don't cry. My father will scold you. That year, you were 8 and I was 11. When my sister was transferred to a middle school, I was transferred to a university. Unable to fulfill my dream of being admitted to a university, I had to face the fear of tuition. My parents didn't have enough money for my sisters to go to school together. My sister decided to drop out. But my parents and I both disagreed. I said, You need to go to school to find a way out of this poor situation. You're the one who shouldn't go to university. But my sister left with some old clothes and some salt in a small bag. You sneaked into my bed and left a small piece of paper on my pillow with a text message. Dear sister, it's not easy to get into university. I will find a job to send you money. I burst into tears. I couldn't speak. That year, you were 17 and I was 20. With the money my father got from you, I finished my 3rd year of university. One day, I was studying in my room when a friend came in and said, I ran out and saw you with your dirty clothes. I asked you, why didn't you tell your friend that you were her brother? You laughed. You were afraid that your brother would find out. I was speechless. Tears rolled down my face. You smiled. Your eyes sparkled. You put your hand in your pocket and took out a hair clip and said, I saw all the girls wearing it on their hair so I bought it for you. I couldn't contain my emotion and hugged you. That year, I was 23 and I took my boyfriend to my parents' house. Everything in the house was clean and tidy. Even the broken window was put back together. My mom said that while cleaning and replacing the window frame, you were stabbed by a needle. I ran to you and saw the scar on your hand. I felt like there were a lot of scars on your hand. You smiled and said, I don't want my brother to complain about us being poor. That year, you were 23 and I was 26. After starting a family, I moved back to the city to live with my husband. A few years later, my husband became the director of a business. We wanted to hire you but you refused When I was 30, I started a family with a girl in the village. When I was 40, my perfect marriage was broken because of another woman. You took care of my children and raised me from the roots of life. One day, we both grew old and had gray hair. That day, we had to walk for more than 2 hours to get to school. One day, you lost your shoes. My father was afraid of beating you. My mother didn't have money to buy new shoes. I gave you my shoes. Every day, after 4 hours, my feet were swollen and bleeding You promised to take care of me and treat me well. My tears flowed because of happiness. That year, my brother turned 5. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you again.