Bí mật thành công số 1 của người giàu (chưa ai tiết lộ)| Phạm Thành Long

If two people who love each other stay together for so long and still can't solve the relationship, how can we solve the relationship with the staff? How can we learn how to solve the relationship with the customer? If we don't learn how to solve the relationship with our husband or wife, how can we learn how to turn the opponent into a partner? That's why I advise you to learn how to solve the problem at home before we learn how to solve the problem outside. So, does your husband have any problem? I understand it. Understand what? Now we have to ask the question how we should do it. How do we do it? We fall down here. We can't ask how to do it. We always start with the reason. At least, we have to start with the reason. Now, let's get back to the problem. Now, your husband and you are against Let me ask some of the wives here. How many wives have been opposed by their husbands? Why did you bring it up? A hundred percent. In that number, you agreed with me that we keep saying that the husband has to be opposed. That's what we call a real husband. Raise your hand and tell me. Why does the husband have to be opposed? Because when he talks to his wife, what box does he use to talk to her? So, the slightest reaction of the husband is what will he do after talking to her? Huh? After that, if you say something terrible, a big change, what will he say? Stop it. In that number, I see that what you intend to do, your husband says stop it. It's normal, but on the street, there's trash. Raise your hand and tell me. So, what happens is the husband is opposed. And your reaction creates your life. Now, no matter how you deal with this, it creates the life of your wife and husband. So, any husband is fine. But the way we react to those events, when we go home and listen to our husband, it's not good either. If we're opposed, it's not good either. Have you learned the lesson from last time? There's only one way. And what is it? What is it? We have to understand the real point B in the life of a husband and wife. What do you want in this relationship? What do you want in a relationship with your husband? I want equality. You want equality. In reality, do you know what the tragedy will be if both of you are equal? No. You don't know? Equality. People call you Linga, but you have to have Johnny. And now, you're round like this. Equality. Your husband is also equal. He's just like you. He's also round like this. That's why he's like this. So, what happens if both husband and wife are round like this? What happens? They can't support each other. So, if we're next to the round one, the other one has to be the long one. So, if you're round, there will be a space for the long one to fit in. It will fill the gap. If you're long, it's normal. If you're round, it's not. That's why men often say yes more than no. So, what happens if a man says yes but we don't know how to accept it? Do you remember the house? When the water runs out of the house, where does it go? It runs into the lake. So, if the husband says yes but we don't accept it, what does he have to do? He has to bring it in. And a tragedy happens. And in this situation, they have to turn each other into pieces. If we're missing, we have to make up for it from our husband to make the picture more perfect. How many of you know that we need to become a wife to make our husband become a husband? If we live the life of a husband, what will our husband become? And if we live like a husband, and our husband lives like a husband, what will happen? What will happen to the two pentacles together? They push each other out. Now, you choose. You choose to be a husband. Who am I? In this relationship, do you want to be a husband or a wife? Until now, I've always been a wife. And my husband... Now you want to be a husband, right? It's like this, sir. Until now, I've always been a mother-in-law. And I really want to have a job to confirm myself. What do you need? On the contrary, I really want to play a good role, a role of a wife, a mother. Okay, I know. What do you need? You just said your two needs. What are your two needs? Say it quickly. Number one, what is your biggest need right now? The desire for fame. Number two, what is your biggest need right now? To be loved. What do you do with these two needs? What? The conflict between you two. Do you understand this rule? There can't be a good wife and a famous role out there. Choose. Do you want to be famous or a wife? Who am I? I'm a famous person. Or do I want to be a wife? Choose. Choose and I'll show you the way. Do you want to be a wife or a famous person? I want to be both. This is a common mistake in our life. And I'm sure that 99.2% of you sitting in this audience have fallen into this situation. So we have to learn how to plan our life to not fall into these mental traps. If you know that you have a conflict, you have to make it a balance between these two things. So I can't help you in this show. My only advice right now, number one, in this case, you have already written it, I just remind you for those of you who haven't learned the show, you really have it. Number one, let it be. Let it be. When I find myself in time of trouble. Let it be. I love him because he is him. The reason is very simple. When we try to adjust him to another person, according to instinct, reflection and need, he will definitely return to his original form. So when we force him to change in such a way, we will live with a fake person. It's no different than our sisters hitting the powder on the face. So there will be men because of their women. The tragedy is that if we talk to men and then he changes according to his own will, and in reality, all men are very stupid and love unconditionally. So when women say that he has to do this, he has to do that, after a while, in the end, the sweetness will also die. So men will fall apart because of something. They can't get through any obstacles. Obstacles are caused by people. So sooner or later, he will have a nosebleed. And this is a tragedy in life. And when he gets used to a woman nosebleeding his life, then he loses his ability to fight outside. This is a very serious tragedy. I won't go into detail about this. So the first thing, don't make any adjustments. Because when we make adjustments, I often suggest to my sisters to make adjustments for their husbands. But first, we will live with a fake person, not a real man. The second thing, my husband will gradually lose his ability to fight. Absolutely do not destroy your man by making adjustments for him. The reason I don't suggest you to make adjustments for your husband or wife is because we live in two different worlds. The man lives in a star. He is strong. The woman lives in a star, cold and lonely. The need of women is to be protected by their husbands. So husbands, sometimes we just have to do things to get out of this one-wife-one-husband system. We just need to do it in a simple way, to care more about her. A little bit stupid, a little bit fake, but just show that you care. Yesterday I called my wife, where are you? She was on her way to work. She ran straight home and asked, do you have anything to do? No, I just asked where you were. Sometimes, if we care about each other, the wife will not care about us. What do we do? Freedom. Turn around and say do you want freedom? So the way we react to our wives also creates our life, right? So we need to learn how to react to such stubborn wives. Therefore, we need to be equipped with basic weapons to resist the forces in the story, what is it called? The force of hatred. That's right. So wives, please respect your men and give them freedom without controlling them. I know this is difficult. For example, the girl just now, she stood up and she always resisted all men. She resisted all men. In some cases, I am not very sensitive except in this show, I will read out the situation of her family. How did she live in a family to create that girl today? And then she continued to live like that and she will adjust her husband like the way her parents created her father's husband or created her. And because she was created by her parents like that, she also wanted to be a mother to create her husband. And who did she turn her husband into? Her son. And that's a tragedy. So please stop and never control your husband. The second type. The second thing we should not do to destroy our men. The second thing women should remember is to stop criticizing their husbands. Because we understand that the first thing is not to control because men have a need for freedom. They will sit still in a place and do nothing except breathing. That's right. That's so good. I remember the lesson. But we don't understand why men have the ability to work like that. What about women? They constantly have to speak and constantly have to think. That's a very special thing about men. To allow men to breathe. The second thing is to stop criticizing. Because for men reputation is very important. Reputation is very important. Not criticizing, not comparing. Whatever he does, whatever he does, it's because he has done his best in his ability. Don't try anymore. Don't force him anymore. All men love their families, love their wives, love their children, love their girlfriends. While they are not married, even if they are married, they don't love their girlfriends. They love their wives. I'm sure. Except for some rare cases. Because they love their families, they do their best in their ability. So don't force them to do anything else. Let them do it themselves. Don't force them to do it. Men and children are all the same at this point. The third point is to share. Don't block yourself. You have to share. Tell men at least one thing to let them know what's going on. These are three very important things. I'll say it again. So ladies, don't think I'm capable of solving the problem of marriage and family and turning this spiritual program into a love counseling program. For husbands, I'll say it again. There are three things you need to avoid to keep your relationship with your husband. The first thing is to make them feel safe. Even though I have a lot of girlfriends, my wife always feels safe. Why? Because the nature of men is freedom. The nature of women is doubt. All men are doubtful. Let's just say it first. When the reality is less than that, so what? Let them feel safe. Make them feel safe. In reality, in reality, any man can only love one woman. Men's brains are monotonous. Women can love many people at the same time. Men can only love one woman at the same time. Men's brains. They can have a couple to do a lot of things for adults, but they can only love one woman. Men's brains are monotonous. Men's brains are monotonous. But they can only love one woman. Men don't need to love to do things. Women need to love to do things. That's special. That's the nature. Two types have different characteristics. One type is to receive seeds. You have to choose a good seed to receive. The other type is to sow seeds. Sow a good seed and it will grow. That's the nature. It's natural. I can't explain it. I'm a piece of land. I have to choose a seed. The right to choose is my right. That's the nature of the problem. So men can only love one woman. But if we make women safe, they won't go crazy anymore. They will become a tiger, or a cat. And when we make them unsafe, even if it's a cat, it will still become a tiger, or a lion. You have to pay attention to this. A lion only appears next to people who make them worry. That's how we react and create. I have a wife. When we make a tiger, we react to make a cat. We learn how to react to make a tiger and sometimes we make a cat. In the house, she has to be a cat. But on the street, she has to be a tiger to protect herself. My wife is great. She protects me from the invasion of other tigers into the territory. The second thing we have to do is to avoid our absence in the relationship. We have to make her feel that she is always looking at us. We have to make her feel that she is always looking at us. Women want to be independent in this relationship. So we have to make her feel that she is always looking at us. The first thing we have to do is to catch our wife or help her or do something to make her avatar appear on her Facebook page. I told you that when you open your Facebook page, you want to comment, you want to do something, you want to text someone, the first face you see is your face. The second face you see is my face. We have to help her do this. A lot of women don't know how to do this. So we take a selfie and replace her avatar with ours. The second thing is that we have to make her feel that she is always looking at us. A photo of two people on a table is also very important. Sometimes you just need to make a small photo of a couple in a closet is also a great thing. You print it and stick it in the closet and every morning you take it out and replace it with yours. That is also important. Don't ask where you are but make her see herself next to her. The first is to feel safe. The second is to feel recognized. The third is to understand her. Spend your time listening to her story and try to understand how the complex machine works. Spend your time listening to her story and try to understand what she wants to say. So in the relationship of the first girl, you have to play the role of the wife. What does the wife have to do? Each person has their role. So in the relationship of the first girl, you have to play the role of the wife. 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