THÍCH GÌ LÀM NẤY, ĐỪNG CHẦN CHỪ

Hello! Welcome back to my YouTube channel, Doan Quy Lam. Today, I'm going to share with you a tip on how to do the things that I love the most. A tip on how to live honestly, like myself. Without being interfered with by other people's opinions. Or being interfered with by my own mind. These are the things that I draw from my life and from the people I observe. For example, now is the epidemic season, the season of social distancing. Most people are worried about how their lives will continue. When will the epidemic end? This question is different. In the past, when we were still in the war, people often asked each other, when will the peace be restored? When will the war end? Now we are living in a situation where we will ask the question, when will the epidemic end? The answer to this question is very vague and difficult to determine. When will the epidemic end? We will have to face many other obstacles. Such as testing, quarantine, social distancing, and so on. Our economy, our lives, our education, our relationships, our eating habits. In such a situation, many people will remember their desire. That is to change the living environment, to change the working environment. Of course, many people do not think about it. They are still in the familiar environment. But many people have thought about changing their lives, changing their living environment. A very beautiful and attractive idea is to have a small house on the plateau, a green garden, a simple life. Many people will love it. There are not many people who have done it. And those who have done it have the same personality as the Quy Lam group. The Quy Lam group's motto is to do before analyzing, to do before doubting. As the Quy Lam group said before, when we travel to beautiful and cool waterfalls, we usually want to take a bath. And if we don't take a bath, we will have some kind of connection in our hearts. But when we take a bath, we feel very comfortable. But in order to achieve that feeling, we have to overcome the feeling of coldness, the feeling of fear, the feeling of fear of a deep lake. If we stand on the shore and analyze for a long time, there will be obstacles and obstacles, and we will return to the shore. We don't take a bath, but we decide to go down first. We take off our clothes and go down to get used to the water environment. We soak our hands and feet in the water, then put them on our body to get used to the water. Then we take a deep breath and jump into the bath. Then we will succeed in taking a bath. But if we let our mind wander, it will say, Oh, what is the danger of taking a bath? Oh, what is the coldness of taking a bath? Oh, is it safer to go to the shore? It will wander and we will not be able to do what we like. Here, it is the same as taking an example, not an imposition. For example, we leave the city in the forest to change jobs and change the living environment. As I have told you several times, I decided to sell my house and buy land in Da Lat. Right in the morning, from 8 am to 11 pm, I finished this job. It was like a hot dough, not calculated, but I did it and it was a success. Many other people do the same. They can share more details with us, but they don't calculate much. I sold my house in Saigon, then moved to Da Lat. I started to look for land. Some people even sold their house and rented a new one. They were a bit slow, but finally they had a place to live in Da Lat or Lam Dong. Now they are living in a very comfortable and safe environment with that new living environment. It is not only about jumping into the lake or moving from the city to the forest. There are many other things in life. We can make a decision and take action before we think too much. If we think too much, we will be affected by many things in our life. And we will not be able to do what we want. There is an example that both men and women should follow. It is about love. When it comes to love, many young people fall in love with each other. But many times, we don't dare to say it. We have to go through the most difficult moment to say, I love you. There are many moments like that. We will remember and see this. If we are brave enough to say it and get the result, we will be successful. If we think too much about the result, we will be worried. Will they respond to us? Or maybe they want to hug that girl, but we are afraid. We don't know if she will slap us or not. Maybe she really wants that. She really wants us to say that we love her. Later, many people will meet their ex-girlfriend and be confused. Why didn't he tell me that he loved me? He was so stupid. I was waiting for his kiss. Why didn't he do that? Many times, we are afraid. We are worried about the result. It prevents us from acting. In many other things, we just get involved and act. Although we may have many prejudices, many hindrances, from other people, from society, and from our own thoughts. So the key here is to act first, regardless of the result. When we start to love something, we act. When we start a plan, we do it. Instead of sitting and analyzing the result, analyzing the advantages and disadvantages, we will not do it. That's why many people leave this opportunity for another opportunity. They can't do what they love. One more example. The Lunar New Year is a time when people are stressed with the pandemic. Many people don't have the courage to go on a long journey from Da Lat to the Northwest. During the Lunar New Year, many caravans and motorcyclists planned to go on a trip like us. But in the end, they didn't do it because they were afraid. But we chose to go on the road, carry our luggage on the car, and go. We had a very beautiful journey. Everyone in the group loved it. It was a beautiful memory of all the members of the group. There was no hesitation. Even though we didn't know what was going to happen, whether we would be quarantined, tested, or quarantined, we just went. Actually, everything was fine. We didn't know how dangerous the roads in the Northwest were, how difficult it was to find, how difficult it was to go. We just went. Wherever we went, it opened up new experiences. It was very good. In the past, we couldn't go back to the way we were. But it brought us new experiences. We learned to choose what was good and what was not good. For example, in the past, we have failed many times in love. Because we didn't dare to open up. Or in the past, we had too many projects that we couldn't realize. Because we were too worried about the result. Now we will think about it. In the past, we have done many times without thinking. We acted regardless of the result. And it was great. There is a story that I have told you. It is from a book of an Australian nurse. She took care of people who needed to be killed. She took care of people who were dying on the battlefield. She wrote a book from the interview of people who were about to die. When people were about to die, she realized that everyone regretted what they didn't dare to do in their life. When people were about to die, they regretted what they had thought and liked. But they didn't dare to do it. No one regrets what they have done. It is a great motivation for us. When people are about to die, they have an experience to look back at their life. To see what is good and what is bad in their life. We can learn from such knowledge. We humans often regret what we didn't dare to do in our life. We never regret what we have done. Even if what we have done is wrong and failed. But we are happy with what we have done. We are satisfied with our will, determination, and honesty. With our true feelings. What I always tell my friends and my younger brothers and sisters is that when we are inspired by something, when something comes to our mind, when something comes to our heart, that is the right thing to do. It is an inspiration from our heart. It is the right thing to do. It is what our soul desires the most. It is what we want to experience the most. Then we will do it. We will do it quickly. We will do it quickly to the point where our mind, our society, and others can't stop us. They can't stop us. We can't stop ourselves. A cat is a simple thing. But it certainly brings us a lot of interesting experiences and success in life. Goodbye and thank you.