Trẻ Không Lo Xa Già Sẽ Khổ - Chia Tài Sản Cho Con Bài Học Cay Đắng Dành Cho Tuổi Già

Welcome to the Golden Thread. Ladies and gentlemen, There is a saying, If you are smart, you will die. But no one can predict the future. There are many practical lessons that have been proven that a lot of money and wrong calculations are not necessarily safe. Not necessarily not good for your age and the future of your child. Let's listen to the story of sharing the land for the children below to have more perspective for the elderly. Today, I met a woman who was sick and wanted to sell the land to get money for treatment. When I got home, I saw many thoughts and thoughts. She told me that this year, in addition to 70 years old, her husband has been dead for nearly 10 years. Her two sons were born with their skin broken. In the past, the two uncles had a hard time making food. There was food for the children. The two uncles were poor. Their family belonged to many people. The two uncles had money and looked far away. They should save as much as they could to buy the land. In addition to trying, each son had a tent. The uncle had a few pieces of land to make food for the children. Suddenly, the uncle was sick and died early. In the past, every time he bought land to build a house, the two uncles had to try. In addition to a few pieces of land, the uncle did not have money for treatment, nor did he have a salary. The young man worked hard for his son, because he tried to buy land, so the uncle got sick early. The uncle was so sad. After the husband died for a while, the uncle also collapsed and fainted. The chronic diseases made it difficult for the uncle to go back. Afraid of old age, the uncle called the children back to share a few more pieces of land for each child outside the house they were living in. They thought it was reasonable. However, the two sons were more and more unhappy with the attitude. The older son thought that he had to raise his mother-in-law who was sick, but his mother-in-law gave too little. The younger son was angry because his brother was given too much by his mother. The strange thing was that the two sons were rich, so they had no choice but to choose two unethical wives. The two daughters-in-law behind quarreled with each other. The older son's wife took the uncle upstairs to live with his family for the convenience of their lives. Every day, they only gave the uncle the least amount of food. Their relatives came to visit from many places, so the uncle was very sad. The second son was dissatisfied with his mother's unfair share of land, so he left his mother's side to his brother almost without regret. After a few years of fear, the second son was lonely and did not want to die. The uncle listened to his brothers in the house and wanted to go to the nursing home. The trouble was that when the story of selling a piece of land to get money was told, the older son's wife resolutely opposed it. They gave enough reasons even if it was uncle's land. The uncle asked his acquaintance about the land he was keeping. I think it's true that the land is still in the name of the two uncles and it has value at this time. The money sold can feed a family for many years, not to mention the uncle. However, even if it is in the name, the uncle cannot sell if the children do not agree. The law stipulates that they are also the next generation in line with their father's property. After hearing my explanation, however, there is one thing I may not know. That is, even after the uncle died, the war of the uncle with a pile of property from the sweat of his eyes from the illness of his parents will last for a long time before it can end. Simply, the uncle only divided the land for them by mouth, and the paper is still the name of the two uncles. There are also acquaintances who have been living with the uncle since they were 10 years old until they have a house a few meters across the street to make a living. They are old but still try to get up early to pay the debt. It was because a few years ago I owed more to buy a piece of land next to the house for my children. I explained that if two children have a piece of land for the sick to suffer, the uncle will have enough money to buy the land, and the uncle will have money to build a house for his wife. His wife has a house, and his parents take care of it, so they can live well. I was very worried. Oh my God! Why is it so hard? If you are old, what do you get to eat? What if you get sick? You are healthy, how old are you? Everyone lives with a guy. If you love him, he must love you. If you get sick, you have to worry. If you get sick, you have to worry. You can die for your children. Oh! Maybe you are one of the greatest parents in the world. However, I still doubt that you are the greatest. There was a story in the house about a poor woman who had to take her two children to build a new economy in the South-East. After many years of poverty, the biggest property was 2 hectares of forest. She thought that she had grown up, she could eat a lot, so she divided 1 hectare for each of them. She was so stressed that she had a conflict. Finally, she moved to a small house at the corner of the street. She worked day and night to earn a living. She was old, her hands were white, and she had tuberculosis. In the forest, there was a lot of water. A few years ago, the price of land increased. She lived in a small house in the corner of the garden. One time, she came to visit and stood in a house that was smaller than her sister-in-law's house. She was so sad and angry at the same time. In fact, she could not blame her children. They were also children and still poor. Until she got older, she only knew how to look far and keep a part of the land or prepare for old age better. Now she is very healthy. There is no such suffering. There was another case. She was an acquaintance. The house had nearly a dozen children. The land was also large. In general, it was enough for all each child to live in. The house was crowded with all ages, so the parents divided the land for the children. The eldest son-in-law cut the land for you and built a house for you. The youngest son-in-law drove the car and gave you more land so that you could leave the car. The other son-in-law built a big house for you. Then the old age came. The land was expensive and the children were left behind. Some children left without sharing the land or sharing a little. So the conflict broke out. Of course, the parents were also responsible for the land. The civil war for the land in the future was not over yet. Perhaps the parents had already divided the land for the children. The parents had 12 children, 8 boys and 4 girls. The house was only in the neighborhood, but the land was also large. The parents died early and only the mother was left, so it was not expensive. The mother built two houses, 18 rooms, kept the 4 outside for the children to walk and eat in the house. There was also a poor child who took over the mother's room to live. At that time, the mother and sister divided the land for each child, regardless of whether it was a boy or a girl. The other two rooms were given to the eldest so that she could live. The outside was rented for her to use. This part was not in the will of any child. She said that now her mother was only 90 years old, no longer fortunate, but still had a very comfortable life. Only at the age of 50 did she realize that her mother had already given birth to two children instead of building other things. Her husband was so poor that he could not live. The mothers moved to the mother's room for the year and went to work to rent it. Now the children have a family. She went to work and her husband died. The two rooms now have people who are too rich to take, but leave it for someone who has a job near their parents. There are also poor people who still live, there are people who give money but never need money or go home. On the contrary, everyone is close to their parents like before. Not to mention that there are also people in the house who do business. It is very expensive to sell the house to get money to share. However, in the past and in the future, she and her children decided to sell her land to build a place to worship. In the past, there were 6 siblings in the village. They got married and had 2 siblings. In the past, my grandfather bought a piece of land outside the farm to build a room for them when they grew up. One day, he heard that his father was starving and sent his sister to buy food for him. She called him and asked why he sold the land when he didn't have money. He said it was because he wanted to get money from his father. However, I think it is much more than that. Many years later, he was tired and wanted to leave everything to go back to his hometown. However, he tried to stay and live with all the places where he worked. In the past, we had a chicken coop in the village. My father built a chicken coop at the beginning of the house. Every day, the chickens in the coop woke up and went to the yard to look for food. In the morning, we had to clean the yard to prevent the chickens from going to the yard or coming back to look for food. It was really hard. In front of the chicken coop, the yard was always clean. However, no chickens came back to look for food. The best way to get food was to sell the land to the neighbors. My father gave me the land because it was his land and not mine. I tried to keep it and never sold it for any price. I kept the land because it was my father's land and I couldn't give it to my children. But there was space to build a small house for anyone who lived out there in the cold wind. When my father died, the house was right in the yard in the village where everyone lived. to fight for the land of their parents. People say that in this era of moral decline, the land of the Reds has been drawn up by greed. All over the country, from cities to rural areas, from forests to mountains, everywhere, there is a conflict of interest between father and son, brothers and sisters, just because of the division of the land. This is of course true. However, it happens all the time. It's just that today it's easier to know because of the development of mass media. That's why people used to say that if you don't take care of your children, they will suffer. Or that parents raise their children like the sun and the moon. Children raise their parents like the moon. If you kiss them, they die. If you teach them, they die. All you know is how to live. But no one can predict the future. There is a lot of money that is miscalculated. It's not safe. It's not good for the old age and the future of children. However, the laws of life and the nature of human life are the same all over the world and can hardly be changed. Understanding and grasping to live and having the right calculations is the best way to protect the old age and even the future of your children when you intend to divide the property for them.