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10 bad habits of losers The number 5, 6 and 10 are the most eye-catching. Success is boundless, there is no formula, each of us can go to success by different paths. But most losers have something in common. Bad habits prevent them from going far in their career path. Below are 10 of the most popular habits. If you see yourself as one of the things below, please use them as a signal to do the opposite. 1. Always distracted Grig Nkakel, a time management consultant in the book The Ultimate Principles, said that he happened to meet an old classmate who was looking for a job advice. While talking, this man looked down at his phone and started texting. Nkakel said, 10 seconds passed, then 20 seconds. I just stood there as he continued to text in a weird way. After a few minutes, he stopped texting and left. I always think of this story when there are too many things that make me distracted like a way to remind myself to focus on the time when I and everyone else are together. If the old classmate Nkakel had reminded himself like that, he could have created a connection or received some advice in the job. 2. Talking Words like I will do a marathon, I will start a company. Do you know what would be better than posting on social media? That is to do it. Derek Seaver argued that publicizing your plans can be more effective than promoting them. People will often welcome just a clap for your intentions and in an anti-objective way that clap can be broken without letting your will carry out the plans you have outlined. Seaver explains when you tell someone your goal and they admit it, psychologists have discovered that this phenomenon is called social reality. The mind is very easily fooled into the feeling that it has done everything. Because you have felt that satisfaction, you are less motivated to work hard to achieve your goal. You share your joy, that's not wrong. But keep it a secret until you achieve something, don't just tell about your own intentions. 3. Spending time for the wrong person People around you can make you better and become the worst version of yourself. For example, you have a goal how to live a better life, right? Play with people will encourage you to make changes in your life and vice versa if you want to completely fail in that goal. If so, play with people never give up their bad habits and then everyone will be bad energy for each other. 4. Always focus on negative things Like a friend of mine, he showed me many years ago when he told me about his pain. You can focus on positivity and not pretend that life is easy. You can have a realistic scene without listing the bad things in everything you see. We all know that those who complain about everything find it very difficult for them to be positive in a problem and it is also very difficult for them to change their life. There is a bad day, it's okay. Sometimes everyone becomes arrogant. But if you always hate everything, you will have a bad life just like that. 5. Habit of delaying When I was still in school, I asked a teacher to extend the deadline for a lesson. He replied I was completely happy when I extended the deadline for another week. The only thing I want to ask you is your thesis will be better if you write it in a week. We all know the answer will be no. And finally, we all have to work hard to finish the thesis on time. Remember that delay everything when you will do better Do it right now or after that time you have to do better. 6. Allow yourself to be delayed We all have moments that we want to cancel the plan. Sometimes we will feel a bad force is stopping us and then allow yourself to be delayed from giving up experiencing something new. But new experiences are what makes life more beautiful. When you allow yourself to be delayed, you will not live a life full of yourself. This is not fair to your friends, family, partners and even yourself a little bit. Remember that delay is your future destroyer. If you want to succeed, you must get rid of this bad habit. 7. Your goal is too vague Your goal is too vague Most people set goals that are too vague. You may think I want to get back Vogue or actually if there is more money in my savings account. This sounds great but unless you set your goal more specific, if not very possible, you will not be able to achieve them. Specific goals are very useful because you will know exactly where you want to go from there, it will be easier to imagine yourself doing it better. And finally, catch your hand in action. Instead of saying I want to get back Vogue, try saying I will exercise 3 days a week and stop drinking soda. Just like that, your goal has changed from something vague that you want to do to something specific 8. Compare yourself to others In everyday life, when you have a habit of comparing yourself to others, it is not entirely a bad thing. Because of such comparison, you may realize that you are still inferior or weaker than others in any field, then you will try to learn and become as excellent as them. But that will be a point that needs to be changed if you intend to compare material and possessible qualities. This will make you jealous and competitive when you always try to compare with them but cannot achieve. Everyone has a competitive spirit in people, however, if that competitive spirit is only normal, it will become an incentive to help you try. And if you live all day in a feeling of jealousy, hatred of others, you will be very tired and unable to progress. 9. Live without purpose and plan Every day, have you ever asked yourself what you have done what you have not done and what you need to do yet? If the answer is not yet, then you are really a loser. In modern life, you need to have plans, strategies to achieve, so that you can determine what your goal is. People often lose their direction every time they succeed in achieving a specific goal or not achieving a specific goal. For example, making more money, going to fancy restaurants, traveling to many countries, all of these are not enough to make you have enough energy to do them every day. Imagine, every time you set a goal, it is every time you climb a mountain. How beautiful will the scene be when we look down? Then you start climbing the mountain little by little, day by day, walking step by step to reach the top gradually. Have you seen anyone climb to the top of the mountain in just 2-3 hours or in one night? 10. Blame others for your own mistakes You don't change this, that because you have no relationship. You can't advance in your work because you don't go behind the door. You get a low score because you are a religious teacher. People often have a tendency to blame others like that and think like me, I was wrong, the problem has been solved, while in fact it is not. Only when you know how to look and see where you are wrong, know how to take responsibility for what you have done can you succeed. When you can't change, the cause of suffering is that many people continue to blame others or situations of all kinds. This can also help us reduce a little pressure. But think about it, when you blame others, do you really feel better? When you can't blame anyone else, what will happen? The way to help us get out of those circles is to look at yourself instead of pointing at others. When you encounter any difficulty, look at yourself. I hope that each of us will always try to improve, develop ourselves, gradually get rid of bad habits, negative thoughts to be able to approach the goals that we have set. The content of today's book is also over here. Thank you for your attention and for taking the time to watch. 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