Sigmund Freud's Life lessons you should know before you Get Old!

One day, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful. Be entirely honest with oneself. Most people do not want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility. And most people are frightened of responsibility. We are never so defenseless against suffering, as when we love, the more perfect the person is on the inside. In the small matters, trust the mind. In the large ones, the heart. We choose not to rant. Exists in our subconscious. Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength. Unexpressed emotions will never die, come forth later in other ways. Is a frozen fear. The first indication of stupidity is a complete lack of shame. Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by fools. One discovers the entire truth when one does not have what one wants. One must want what one wants. Thought is action in rehearsal. Friendship is an art in distance, while love is intimacy, only a substitute for the beloved man himself. Limitation in the possibility of enjoyment raises the value. Lips are silent, his fingertips speak. Betrayal oozes from him through every pore. Happiness is a child's dream fulfilled. Every normal person is really only partly normal. A woman should soften but not weaken him. All family life, the most damaged person, a father's death, will are insincere in the sexual matters. Do not openly display their sexuality, but rather hide it by put a coat zoned from a matter called lie, as if it were bad weather in the world of sexual relation. Never so defenseless, as when we never so helplessly unhappy, lose the object of love or his love. Expressed. We are never so defenseless against suffering, as when we love. Is destructive. Don't be tempted. Religion is a universal compulsive neuroses. Is half the success in solving it. How bold one gets when one is sure of being loved. The voice of the intellect is quiet, but it never tires of repeating, and listeners are found. Only the complete absence of sex can be considered a sexual deviation. Everything else is a matter of taste. In the small matters, trust the mind. Trust the heart. A man is sometimes more generous when he has little money, than when he perhaps to keep from thinking he has none at all. The scope of one's personality is defined. We seek more to take suffering away from ourselves than to gain pleasure. Nothing costs so much in life as illness. And ignoring an illness. We are so made that we can only derive intense enjoyment from a contrast, and only very little from a state of things. And far more immoral than they can we choose each other in our subconscious. The secret of the human soul lies in the psychic drama. Masturbation, morphine are only its substitutes. A joke makes it possible to satisfy a lustful or hostile instinct, despite an obstacle in its path. The first human who hurled an insult instead of a stone was the founder of civilization. It floats with one-seventh of its bulk above water. Do not stop looking for strength and confidence outside, but you should look inside yourself. They have always been there. The energetic and successful man is the one who succeeds in transforming the fantasies of desire into reality. A man should not strive to eliminate his complexes, but to get into accord with them or live for each other as they did before. They live with each other for someone third, and dangerous rivals soon appear for the husband, the household, and the nursery. We enter the world with loneliness and loneliness. All adaptation is partial death, the disappearance of a particle of individuality. Perfect exists only between the addict and the addict. Love and work. Work. That's all there is. We fall ill. All people are born bisexual, later choose their sexual orientation depending on their life circumstances. Time spent with cancer wasted. Maturity is the ability to postpone gratification. Adults don't understand children because we don't understand our own childhood anymore. There is no need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection. History is just new people making old mistakes. Who lacks sex speaks about sex. Hungry talks about food. A person who has no money about money. And our oligarchs and bankers talk about morality. Civilized society is perpetually menaced with disintegration through this primary hostility of men towards one another. The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well. Just as no one can be so no one can be forced into unbelief. Avoid women who have gotten a psychological experience teaches us that the world is not a nursery.