5 BÀI HỌC CHIẾN LƯỢC SỐNG THÔNG MINH CHO NGƯỜI TRẺ

You have to be really persistent with your goals in the future But at the moment, you have to do small tasks to get to that goal really fast Hey guys, welcome back to a new video of this week There are some things that I noticed while I was running, while I was thinking about some career development strategies for young people And I want to share them with you in this video There are 5 lessons, and I hope that with this video, you can find something really useful The first lesson I want to share with you in this video is to focus on the strengths that you have Don't try to focus on your weaknesses There are a lot of people who message me to ask me for advice on something And most of the time, I see that they complain too much about the things that they don't have For example, sometimes there are some people who comment or ask me why I'm so weak and I feel very lack of confidence in that There are some people who feel like their legs are sprained, and they keep complaining about the fact that they don't have normal legs like normal people So that's why they don't dare to run, they don't dare to show their legs like that And when I talk to them, I realize a pink hole effect And it turns out that everyone of us has a part that we feel insecure about ourselves However, when I talk to them and realize their achievements, I see that many of them have strengths that they don't focus on, they develop, and they keep complaining about something that they don't have So this part I want to share with you in this video is that we should focus on the things that we have strengths in that part and focus on developing that part Don't sit there and compare the points that you don't have with the points that others have And comparing yourself with others is something that is not right from the start So if you have time, go talk to other people, go see other people, so you can see that everyone has their own weakness For example, do you see my fingers here? I have a very bad habit, which is that when I'm sad, I bite the blood from my fingers And I know that this is my bad habit, this is my weakness, and I can't fix it forever Even when I was young, even when my dad hit me with these things, my mom would scold me and she would probably hit my fingers with these parts But I don't focus too much on this point, I don't say it to show off or to show that I'm like this, but I try to find the things that I have strengths in and focus on developing them For example, you can see that when I make a YouTube channel about running, or YouTube about reading, or videos about learning English, those are the things I know, those are the parts that I consider my strengths at the moment I don't spend time making videos about other areas that I don't know Similarly, each of us will have a different strength, so the first thing I want to share with you is that we have to find out what our strengths and weaknesses are and then we can spend time to focus on developing our strengths For example, if you are very good at communicating, you should focus on developing those skills, using those skills to build your career If you are good at running, you can focus on practicing and you can have a good result If you are good at learning a foreign language, you should focus on developing that foreign language If you are very good at finance, you should also focus on that Although people who are good at finance are not sure if they are good at communicating, this is what I want to share with you in today's video Each of us has different strengths and weaknesses, so focus on your strengths, don't just focus on your weaknesses and then feel selfish and do nothing The second thing I want to share with you in today's video is that you can save as much money as you can Why do I say this? As you have seen in some of my previous videos, I have shared with you that when you have a good financial backup, you have the freedom to choose anything For example, the first time I learned English, if I had a good financial backup, I would find very high-quality science and I would spend time to learn those parts Or simply, my story right now is about running If I have a good financial source, I can support myself a lot about running shoes, running pants, running knowledge And if you choose a skill that people are willing to pay a lot of money for you, you can focus on it to improve that skill first And when we have a lot of money, we can do anything much faster Some things that when I started to have a good financial source, I supported myself a lot, such as learning to play the guitar I also know how to play the guitar, I just learned English, I can learn more about running Or simply, I can build a YouTube channel more easily with the investment right from the beginning The third way of life that I want to share with you in today's video is that you choose to hang out with good people And usually, I hang out with older people who are 5-10 years older than me so that I can learn from them And especially, these people must have some really good results in their life I say this, it sounds quite selfish, but when you hang out with older people, good people like that, we usually have to have something to bring out to bring back value to them Don't just stare when you hang out with them, try to get something from them People don't like to hang out with people like that and they are too conscious to realize that you hang out with them so that you can get something from them So my advice for you, especially young people, is that you choose to hang out with people who are 5-10 years older than you And when they have time, they experience life like that, they have gone through things that we will continue to go through like that, we will shorten the distance that we reach our destination a lot For example, during the time I want to learn about finance, I can find Thai Pham, a person who has had quite a few years of research on finance He has read quite a few books on finance and he has a lot of experience in it Or when I want to learn how to run, when I want to spend my time running and I can improve quickly, I usually find people who are much better than me and have had a lot of time researching that knowledge for many years Like Mr. Dinh Ninh Malathorner, this is a person that I am trying to learn a lot from him about running So here I want to share with you in this video, when we want to learn a skill, when we want to develop a part related to a field, it is better to find people who are better than you And usually those people are people who have gone before you for 5-10 years, and that's why I rarely meet people my age Because during the time I played in college or after I graduated, I always played with older people And through that, I received very valuable lessons from them But when you come to them, it's best if you remember how to do it so that you can support them in some way Then they will spend time for you And if you come to them and you just try to find a way to get something, they will 100% say no right away There is only one thing I want to note for you in this part, that is when we hear advice from someone, we must always ask ourselves again See if that is our decision or their decision Because only we can understand who we are, what we want, and their era from 5-10 years ago is much different from our current era So how can we adjust, how can we adjust to suit our own life, our own passion This is what I want to note for you in lesson number 3 today Lesson number 4 that I see a lot of young people often get right is that you don't have to worry about the story of finding your passion anymore If at the moment you are living and depending on someone else Every time someone asks me how to find my passion, my answer is that you have to try, you have to try to see if you have a passion or not And if the passion has to go through the story of time And usually people are very passionate about that story For example, many people like to play the guitar, or many people play the piano, or some other knowledge or skills You call it your passion, but usually it's half-hearted passion That is, you like this time, but why don't you like it anymore And most of the time you give a very reasonable reason like There is no one to nurture your passion or you are dependent on too many things Of course, everyone understands that when you pursue a passion, no one does not encounter cases that prevent you from pursuing your passion But if at the moment you can't nurture yourself, you are still dependent on someone else about the story of finance or something related to family love or something Related to other people that you can't pursue, you give such reasons, that's not good at all And one more thing, let's not forget that we can not only pursue our passion, but we can do other things besides that, right? It's not that our life is only 100% time and the story of pursuing your passion You can still spend time doing something else besides pursuing your passion And the last tip number 5 I want to share with you in today's video and I think it's right That is, you should choose to do things that are not urgent but important You can look at the show notes like this, I put it on the screen like this You can see that there are some corners where you have to choose the job you do And usually, we are often pulled out of our goal by things that are not urgent, not important Or things that are urgent but not important Things like that often pull us out of what we are doing on the path to achieve our goals And the fact that we choose to do things that are important but not urgent, it will prepare us for a very long time to achieve our goal in the future And you should never forget that it is urgent for this person, but not urgent for us I will give you a very simple example For example, there is a friend of ours who is too free and he messaged us like Hey, can you be free? Can you go out and talk to me about coffee? But your plan for that day is that you will spend time to train for an exercise Or a morning you spend time in a book And if you break that rule, you can spend time with that friend Although you can enjoy a cup of coffee and chill out very happily But you have lost a period of time to develop your career Usually, I see quite a lot of people make this mistake when they try to take up other people's time Meanwhile, it is their urgency, not yours So we should completely focus on our goal Don't be pulled out of the goal by things that are urgent and important to others, not us So in this video, I have shared with you 5 lessons that I have learned 5 life strategies that I think will be useful to you And if you feel good, you can share this video with someone And you can subscribe to my channel to ensure that you can see the latest videos from me