3 Cách Nói Chuyện Già Vẫn Phải Học

Welcome to the Chít Lý Quộc Sống channel. Ladies and gentlemen, After a life full of endless ups and downs, at an old age, people are increasingly aware of the value of self-preservation. Self-preservation here shows the maturity, the wisdom to keep yourself safe and not to be a burden to others. There is an old saying, Thùy thâm tắc lưu hoãn which means that the lower the water level, the slower the flow. No matter how strong the wind is, the bottom of the river is still stable. Similarly, those who speak slowly always think more carefully so that every word they say can show the purity, the reason, the love that makes others respect them. Self-preservation is always connected with wisdom. No matter how strong the wind is, the bottom of the river is still stable. There is a story that once Buddha told six monks from other religions in front of a crowd of people. They were all old people who were all respected and respected. The six monks all had the ability to speak. Their speeches were full of words about the profound truths that they had discovered. Buddha himself only said that he had to be humble and speak in a simple language so that everyone could understand. The final result of Buddha's speech was not a great pain, but it went deep into people's hearts. The other six monks almost couldn't convince anyone. In despair, the other six monks immediately set up an ambush to kill Buddha so that Hakon would be jealous. They secretly invited a nun named Sinka to seduce and seduce Buddha. At that time, Ngai was sleeping in a cave to practice meditation every day. Then Sinka came. This girl was really a master. She was also beautiful and made all the men in the world feel superfluous. Not to mention, Sinka also had the ability to seduce the nuns. This made it difficult for the six monks to escape human desire. Every morning, when the sky was just setting, the people from the city would come to the cave to practice meditation. Every morning, they would see a beautiful woman going the other way to come back. One day, she was asked to come to the cave to sleep with Buddha. About eight months later, in a meditation lecture, the woman named Sinka stood up and said loudly that she was pregnant with Buddha and was abandoned when her birthday was near. All the people were so excited when they heard the news. Not a few eyes looked up at Buddha. However, Ngai was not in a state of panic, but still naturally did not say a word to raise the suspicion. The crowd was overwhelmed with silence. Suddenly, a man heard a loud voice saying, Look, Sinka is hiding a huge wooden pot and the pot fell to the ground. When it was exposed, the woman ran away and everyone looked at her. Buddha was saved without having to use the pot again. Ladies and gentlemen, the story of Buddha shows the value of self-contact, peace of mind in the face of the ups and downs of life. However, Buddha is the highest with a profound self-compassion and a great personality. When you step through the other side of life, you still have the time to open your mind and let go of the words that hurt you and others. In order to become a self-confident person, we need to remember the following things. First, we should not be too hasty in everything we do. In the Ming Dynasty, there was a official named Zhiyu who was the son of Zhang Fu. At that time, there were two feudal lords who were involved in a feud and Zhiyu had to stand up and defend him. They were competing for the land and sometimes they were even kicked out of the palace. Zhiyu, after hearing about the feud, said, this is not too urgent. It's just a piece of land. You can go back and think about it. If anything happens, come back here and we'll deal with it. The two feudal lords were competing for Zhiyu's land. Some even said Zhiyu was a traitor and a traitor who had nothing to do with the feud. Zhiyu heard that but he didn't care and just laughed it off. The next day, the two feudal lords went to the government. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu heard that the two feudal lords were competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. Zhiyu was still competing for Zhiyu's land. 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The artist drew a knot in the shoulder of the liar, that is, all parts of it fell apart into a pile of fallen pieces of wood. Seeing this, the King was shocked and said, Oh, what have I done? Jealous of worthless pieces of wood. I am so stupid. The King rewarded the artist for teaching him a lesson. In fact, in almost all cases, anger will cover up our reasoning, easily leading to wrong decisions. A word that cannot be recovered, it can hurt others or have serious consequences, even make us live in regret for the rest of our lives. So when you are angry, please be silent and reflect before making any speech. Thirdly, a wise man speaks half-heartedly. There are many good sayings. Among them is that a wise man speaks half-heartedly to give the listener half-joy and half-worry. That's right. Although life values ​​truthful people, sometimes they do not bring benefits, but they also cause disasters. There is an old saying, The river is deep, the sea is wide, there is also a limit to it. In this way or another, it can still be determined. But the human heart is difficult to measure, the mouth is narrow, but the stomach can be a knife. Therefore, in responding to the situation, the old man often advised that no matter what is big or small, always be careful with all objects. We can't lie, but we may not need to tell the whole truth because we can't know if the other person is sincere or not. The more difficult things in life are, the more dangerous they are. If you meet a good person, it's not a problem, but with those who are difficult to measure, they may use these points to play a trick on us. Speaking half-heartedly makes the other person unable to see us and even more unable to guess what we are thinking. Especially in the face of serious matters, we have to keep our mouths shut as long as possible. If we say it in advance, we can't get past it. We just need to say enough or keep it a secret until everything is revealed. That's the art of smart communication in life. There was a man who took a Tibetan dog worth a million to go for a walk. When he brought the dog out to show off, he said, If you don't have 400-500 pounds, you can't pull my dog. On the way, he saw an old man waving his head and a dog with almost all its hair sitting next to it. The Tibetan dog turned to the dog and said, The old man seemed to ignore the dog. The old man said, Two dogs fought for less than two minutes. The Tibetan dog was defeated and didn't dare to bark anymore. The old man quickly lost three million pounds, extremely confused and confused. The old man said, Finally, let's listen to the story together. The flowers bloomed. The sky pulled the door down to cover the last rays of the day just past two o'clock. The dark clouds began to fall evenly on the trees in the garden. The light of the storm was hanging in front of the house. The afternoon meal was placed in an open jar. The hands holding the chopsticks The sound of the children crying and the sound of the dogs barking. Mrs. Lich, a few drops on a wet towel, black satin pants, a pair of straight-sleeved shirts put in the yard, a hand rubbed to the wall. Oh, my God, the old man hit my son all over his head here. The boy said, Get out of my hand. She cried for a few hours and then went to the yard. She screamed to him to show him a hand covering the wound Yes, that's right. Mr. Thanh's house brick hit the head of Linh. I can see it clearly. Thanh opened his eyes to find his son, but he couldn't see him. Mr. Khe Khang invited Mrs. Lich to sit down. No, I don't dare. If you teach your son, you will be in trouble. Mr. Thanh was afraid. When he turned around, his father's eyes, a few shadows, walked into the yard as if deliberately not to talk about the villagers. Perhaps they had opened their eyes when they saw the boy stuck behind the bush. He saw Thanh looking at him, so he came close to him. Uncle, because Linh bullied me, Thoan defended me. He called him a bastard, so he beat him. It's my fault. The boy was gone. Thanh returned home to find his son. Thoan stood behind the door, closed his eyes, his hands on his shirt, his toes on the ground, as if he was ready to die waiting for a kiss from Thanh. So when he told his son to wash his face and put his hands on his hair, his back to the boy. That night, Thoan was lying like a cat in his bed. Sometimes he hit himself and cried for an hour. Thanh thought about the day he left the army and went to the countryside to look for his son. The whole village knew him. No one dared to talk to him. Only a few women, who raised their children, looked after Thanh all day long. The women in the village were quiet. Thoan cried for his son and cried for himself and for everyone else. When Thoan was a teenager, he often argued with his friends. Thanh knew the reason so he hugged his son. In the middle of class, Thoan ran home and hugged his son. In the middle of the night, his son's eyes were full of hope. Father, are you my son? Yes, I am. Where is your mother? She is away. You will know when you grow up. Do I look like your mother? Do you have to go to school tomorrow? I will be sad if you don't know me. Yes, I do. He was bright but stubborn. I often saw him staring at himself in front of a broken mirror hanging on the wall in front of the house waving his hair like he was trying to get rid of the mess In the afternoon, he took Thao home with a bowl of rice with boiled chicken and sticky rice. It was also Thoan's day to run away from home. Thoan and Thao searched for Thoan all night. The next morning, Thoan and Thao went to the village. He followed them home without saying a word. Thoan's laughter and Thao's words were echoing in his head. Hey, your father got married. You are going to have a baby. Good for you, Thoan. The next morning, Thoan and Thao were talking to each other. Thoan sat in the middle and Thao hugged him tight. Thoan was afraid that Thoan would run away if Thoan left. Thoan used to sleep in Thoan's bed. Now Thoan slept on Thoan's bed. The neighbors watched Thao whenever she went to work. They wondered what she was hiding from Thoan. In the middle of the summer, Thao was patting Thoan's leg because she was tired. Thao was patting Thoan's leg because she was tired. One night, when Thoan woke up, he noticed that he was on Thao's lap. While Thoan was sleeping, Thoan was sitting on Thoan's lap. Thoan couldn't move now. He was lying on the floor. Thoan helped Thoan to clean up and cooked some hot pot for him. Thoan cooked some hot pot for him. but he didn't call her auntie. He avoided talking to Thao. If he did, he would say, Dad's medicine is ready. What do you want to drink? Let's have dinner. Thao kept her face gloomy like that. One auntie, two children. She didn't even call her mother. Thanh now only urinates and coughs. He said he shouldn't even breathe. What kind of drink is it? Is it bitter or sweet? Whenever he gets up, he ends up writing something in a bouquet of flowers. Thoan was working in the field. The teacher called him right away. A group of people were standing around where Thanh was lying. He hugged his father tightly. He opened his eyes and looked at his son. His eyes were wet. He put his hand on Thoan's hair. But only to the middle of his leg. Thoan's hand was bent. Then he fell down. Thoan waved at his father. He curled up on his brother's chest. He kissed his brother's face. He seemed to understand what had happened to his father. That year, Thoan was ten years old. Thao was fat and thin after Thanh's death. Thoan came to school at night. He followed Thao everywhere. He was afraid of the cold and dusty feeling in the house every night. He stayed up all night. He was half-asleep, half-awake, touching Thao's body so that Thoan could hug him in her arms. At night, Thoan lay still as if he was drunk. But he could see the sharp thorns falling through his mouth. Thoan knew that Thao was crying. He wanted to cry too. But instead of shedding tears, he bit his own lips. He bit his lips many times. His lips turned purple, and when he opened his mouth, his lips were all purple. Then Thoan had a fever. He had a fever for a whole week. His body was as hot as a coal. He was lying on the floor with a thin sheet of cloth on his forehead. In the middle of the fog, Thoan seemed to immerse himself in a stream. His hands were gentle and gentle all over his body. He tried to look up, but he saw his father standing nearby. He looked down, feeling anxious and worried. But he couldn't escape. His father's face was the same as Thao's. He had a fever. His eyes were tired from looking around. He saw Thao lying down next to the bed, with her head on one arm and her other arm on his chest. Her lips were all purple. The gold on her forehead was the words of the neighbors on the day of the funeral. They were of different ages. This man must have died of anger like this if not for Thao's family. The next day, Thoan went to school. This whole month, after receiving Thoan's college scholarship, Thao took care of this and that on Thoan's behalf. For years, Thao did everything for Thoan. Thoan didn't argue with Thao anymore, but she didn't show any kindness to Thoan. Deep down, Thoan still couldn't open his heart to his father's words. On Thoan's behalf, Thoan accepted everything, and Thoan and Thao were at peace. That was enough for Thoan. That night, Thoan took out Thanh's backpack. He wanted to bring the backpack that the whole squad had taken to school. He put his hand in the backpack. Thoan took it out and wrapped it with a bouquet of flowers. On the 5th of May, there was a difficult song in the classroom. Thoan didn't come to save the girl. He had to hide and follow his mother. He had to fight to save Thoan. On the 5th of May, Thoan asked himself why he didn't look like him in his skin color or his hair. When he grew up, he realized that a father's love wasn't in his skin color or his hair, but in his heart. There were beats that Thoan listened to every night. On the 5th of May, Thoan got sick. The doctor said it was lung cancer. But medical knowledge told him that it was just his immune system. If Thoan got sick, he would die. On the 5th of May, Thoan agreed to stay with him. Thoan couldn't have children. He told Thoan about his illness and Thoan agreed. On the 5th of May, Thoan told Thoan that he couldn't live anymore. Thoan thanked him. Thoan told Thoan that he would try to raise Thoan instead of Thoan. Thoan told him that Thoan was stubborn but very affectionate. Thoan opened the door and saw Thoan. The first time Thoan came home, Thoan cried loudly. Thoan cried like a little boy who had just been admitted to school and became an 18-year-old student. Thoan was shocked when he saw a hand holding Thoan from behind. Thoan felt a warmth on Thoan's shoulder. Thoan turned to Thoan and hugged Thoan when Thoan had just passed away. Thoan's hands were shaking. The sun was shining on the bamboo trees. A young boy came to greet Thoan. Thoan put his shirt back on and smiled at Thoan. He was full of love. There was a noise outside Thoan's house. He put his backpack on his shoulder and went out the door. He turned around and looked at Thoan. I'm leaving, mom. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you again.