Tuổi 60 Đừng Vội Chia Đất Cho Con Khi Chưa Biết Điều Này - TLCS

Hello everyone, welcome to Triet Ly Quoc Song Ladies and gentlemen, the story of parents loving their children more than the other children is not uncommon in the past. But when it comes out, many people will deny it right away. There is no such thing. I love every child the same way. In fact, the way parents behave or the way they divide property is not fair and has a profound impact on the relationship between brothers and sisters in the family. Let's listen to the following stories. The first story, the son-in-law should be given more priority. My mother always thought that when she got old, she would depend on her son-in-law and should always be kind to him and his grandchildren. While she was busy taking care of her son-in-law, daughter-in-law and grandchildren, she only considered her son-in-law as a guest. Her grandchildren, she also did not pay much attention, only occasionally came to visit her. Many times I had to tell my mother not to distinguish between her grandchildren, son-in-law, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, son-in-law. But she said that I was still young, I had never grown up, so I could not understand everything. Fortunately, my husband is a talkative and understanding person, so even though his mother-in-law treated him coldly, he still loved and cared for her. A year ago, my mother and I had a family meeting to split the property. My father passed away a long time ago, but with a hard-working, easy-going personality, she was also able to accumulate a large property. It was a mansion, a few acres of land in the countryside, with two savings accounts. The price of the land was rising, her land had a beautiful location, so it was very valuable. My wife always tried to work, she did not think it would be based on her property. But with that property, I thought my mother would give my wife a piece of land, or at least a savings account. But, surprisingly, she gave it all to my brother. She said she only trusted her son, her daughter-in-law, not her son-in-law. Besides, my brother is the head of the family, he will be responsible for taking care of my mother-in-law when she gets old, and taking care of her ancestors. So, just a year later, my brother sold all the land, and raised money to open a restaurant. But because he did not have a business strategy, he quickly lost money, and even owed a lot of debt. Recently, my mother called my husband's wife to take her to the hospital. My husband still refused to take my mother to the hospital, and even paid for all the medical bills and medicines. When I got home, my mother fell asleep and asked me to let her stay at my house. I looked at my husband in amazement, but he nodded and said nothing. Now that my husband has taken care of my mother, but thinking about the past, I am still not happy, and I feel more and more sorry for my husband and son. The second story. My father only inherited the property to my sister. I was born in a poor family with two sisters, my childhood was very difficult. The poor family, my father was very sick, so after finishing college, I left the opportunity to work in Hanoi to return to my hometown to take care of my parents. After that, I applied for a job in a very good agency in my hometown. But I quickly had to quit my job to go out to do business. I hoped to have enough money to take my father to the hospital. Going out with 500,000 VND in my pocket, no motorbike, no house, I was lucky to have a pretty good job, even though it was very difficult. The first money I earned, I saved to treat my father's illness. Then I got married. As a person that my parents and family did not agree, I had to organize my own wedding, without any invitation from my parents and sisters. Then I left the money to rent a house, clean the house for my small family. My mother only appeared to get a lump of money. After setting up the family, I went to live separately, but I was still lazy to take my father to treat his illness. I spent 5 years in all the big and small hospitals, until I couldn't get rid of my weakness. It was still dark until 2015, the job was difficult, the business failed, I left a debt of nearly 2 billion VND on my shoulder. But I still tried to take care of my parents. But what made me sad and miserable was that no matter how hard I tried to take care of my parents, they still loved my daughter. Maybe because I'm a straightforward person, I only care about my actions, but I'm not good at eating or speaking, I always disagree with my father. My son is a good son, but he always shows pity for me. He said I was mentally unstable, and often scolded me, making me very afraid of him. On the other hand, he loves me very much. Whatever I do, I am the best, the most obedient, the smartest, the best student. I gave my parents a few hundred million VND a year, not as much as the bucket of fish sauce my sister sent me. My daughter, my son-in-law, whatever I bought for them, they showed it all over the village. And my husband's contributions were never recognized by them. My mother can take the burden of taking care of him so that she doesn't have to take care of her grandchild, but she is willing to go 200 kilometers to bring eggs and meat for her daughter. Last year, my father passed away suddenly. I was almost the only one to worry about his funeral. A few months later, my mother announced his death. What made me saddest was all the property he left for his daughter. I have nothing. I am sad not because I was not awarded a degree, but because since I left school to work, I have always been self-reliant, never taken anything from my parents. I just try to make sure that my parents have a happy life when they get old. I don't need a degree because the money I make is my own value. I am sad because my father has shown that he does not have me in his heart. Although I am the only son, I will take care of my grandfather's funeral. I am not a gambler, nor do I have any bad luck. I have almost 2 billion VND in debt. My wife and I are trying to pay it all off. We don't have a house yet, while my sister is quite rich. The will he wrote four years before he passed away. During that time, if there was any difficulty or anything, he would call me. No matter where I go, the hospital only calls me. My money is still in the bank for my grandparents every month. My job is short of money. If I want to borrow my grandparents' red book to borrow money from the bank, they will never lend it to me. For a long time, I kept thinking why I was treated like that. Ladies and gentlemen, at Cornell University, a research by scientists conducted with 671 children and 274 mothers from 60 to 74. The result was that about 70% of mothers could easily choose a child they felt closest to. At the same time, about 15% of interviewees shared that they felt discriminated by their own mothers. In our country, there is no specific study on this, but on social media forums, it is not difficult to find stories shared by children about being treated unfairly by their parents. In fact, children are often very sensitive, especially when their parents are old, often lacking in wisdom, or sometimes they like someone else. It could also be because of the family. If there is one child who is more talented than the others, parents tend to pay more attention and love more. There are also many parents who give more love to their children and even more trust to their children. In our society, unfairness originates from the preconceived notion that the eldest son has to shoulder more responsibilities for his family, such as cleaning, getting married, and taking care of the elders. The eldest son has to give the property to the eldest son, while the youngest daughter has to take care of the eldest son. Parents are not equal in terms of property or in the way they treat their children. If they are not too big, the love of the family and the love of the children can still develop normally. But if the difference in taste becomes obvious and the children feel it, the story is different, and it can even cause conflict. Children are prone to conflict and it is difficult for them to find common ground in the family, and it is difficult for them to get along with each other. Therefore, there are many painful stories that have happened and the root cause is the unfairness of the parents, such as the children in the family who are divided from each other, such as the following story. The two brothers, Tran Nguyen T and Tran Nguyen M, led each other to the court. In front of the court, both of them declared that they were divided because of a matter related to the shared property. The British accused the children of taking the property in exchange for their own pocket money. It was just a dispute between the two brothers. The British accused the children of taking the property in exchange for their own pocket money. It was just a dispute between the two brothers. The British accused the children of taking the property in exchange for their own pocket money. It was just a dispute between the two brothers. The British accused the children of taking the property in exchange for their own pocket money. The British accused the children of taking the property in exchange for their own pocket money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The house was bigger and more beautiful for the brothers. The mother spent money to renovate the house for her youngest son and the eldest son to take care of himself. The British accused the children of taking the property in exchange for their own pocket money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money. The two brothers lived together in a house with money.