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The higher the level of consciousness, the less things you see. The author of the book Go to the Boundary of Life wrote When a bad person looks in the mirror, he will never see himself as bad but only see the beauty that others do not see. The world you see is actually a reflection of your heart. The higher the level of consciousness, the more objective the object is. On the contrary, the lower the level of consciousness, the more subjective the object is. The level of consciousness of a person determines the boundary of their own life. 1. People who do not like everything are people with limited consciousness. Trang Tzu said, In life, everyone likes people like you, hates people like you. In the past, there was a painter named Trang Ga, a Vietnamese person who drew a lot of memorable works, which everyone praised. He opened an art school to teach people and also to find apprentices. Among a large number of students, Trang Ga was the most talented, hard-working, creative, so he was much faster than his peers. That's why Trang Ga was very pleased with Trang Ga. One day, Trang Ga called Trang Ga and said, I am very proud of the progress you have made. Now is the time for you to do the last test when I admit that you are really a talented painter. I want you to draw a picture that everyone must see beautiful, everyone must praise. Go to work at night and bring a wonderful picture to me. Trang Ga looked at it and said, Bring this picture to the main square so that everyone can admire it. Write under the picture that the artist will be very grateful if anyone can point out any mistakes in the picture and put a mark in that mistake. Trang Ga did as he said, put the picture in the main square with a message suggesting that everyone point out mistakes. After two days, Trang Ga told Trang Ga to take the picture back. Trang Ga was very disappointed when his picture was full of marks, but Trang Ga expressed his calmness and advised Trang Ga not to be disappointed, try again. Trang Ga drew another masterpiece, but Trang Ga said, change the message under the picture. Trang Ga said, put the paint and pen next to the picture in the square and ask everyone to find the mistakes in the picture and fix them with the tools to draw them. Two days later, when he took the picture back, he was very happy when he saw that the picture was not fixed at all and confidently brought it to Trang Ga. Trang Ga finished watching and said, I have succeeded today because if it's just about art, it's not enough, but I also have to know that people always judge randomly as soon as they have the first chance, even though they don't know anything about it. If I always let the whole world judge me, I will always be disappointed. People like to judge others without thinking about responsibility or seriousness. People put the marks on my first picture because they have no responsibility, but they don't need to think about it. But when I ask them to fix the mistakes, no one does it anymore because they are afraid of revealing the knowledge of things they may not have, so they decide to avoid it. Trang Ga continued, the things that you have to struggle to do should not be easily influenced by other people's judgment. Please judge yourself and of course never judge others too easily. When a person is not satisfied with too many people and too many things, it often means that they lack awareness. Always like to criticize others as useless to highlight the superiority of oneself, it is actually a sign of lack of confidence. The most critical thing in human behavior is to take your own measure to measure the life of others, put other people's lives on your own scale. Everyone talks about others, the eight-pointed lamp can shine on others but cannot shine on oneself. It is not convenient to judge others as the greatest kindness of a person. 2. The higher the person is, the more he knows how to respect the difference. In an interview, a businessman shared his story as follows, When I was young, I really didn't like people who believed in fate and feng shui, thinking that these people were just deceiving themselves and others. Therefore, when I saw people watching feng shui and praying to Buddha, I felt very resentful. And of course, none of the friends he made were related to these things. But when I started my business, I gradually understood what those people did. The bigger the business, the greater the risk of acceptance, faith in feng shui or the gods is also a way for them to relieve pressure. In their view, the Buddha can solve all problems and get rid of all problems. Although he didn't follow, he gradually understood and accepted that people around him respected their faith and differences. It is difficult to find two leaves on the same tree among thousands of people. It is also difficult to find two people who have the same thoughts and feelings. In this world, everyone has a world view, and everyone has different values. Respecting each other's views is a prerequisite for human behavior. Therefore, the biggest mistake in personal communication is to respect other people's differences. People of the same level know how to treat others equally, look kindly at other people's differences, think of others more, and naturally respect each other. Life is an unceasing process and the process does not stop. When you give respect, what you receive will also be respect. The higher you are, the more you know how to respect differences. 3. The best way to get rid of prejudice is to raise your self-awareness. There is a funny story. There was a young man who was afraid of chickens and kept seeing chickens running. He asked why, and the man replied that the chicken thought he was a chicken, so it had to run right away, otherwise it would die. The family took him to a mental hospital for treatment. Every day, in addition to taking medicine, he had to learn the saying I'm not a chicken, so I'm not afraid of chickens. After 3 months of treatment, the doctor did a test. Are you a chicken? I'm not a chicken. Are you still afraid of chickens? I'm not a chicken, so I'm not afraid of chickens. Seeing that there was no abnormal symptom, the doctor took him to the hospital. Just got to the hospital gate, saw a chicken, he was still afraid of the sea, running, selling live, selling dead. Seeing that, everyone rushed in and asked, Are you a chicken? He replied, That's right, but for the past 3 months, only I have been taught, so only I know that I am not a chicken, but the chicken did not learn anything, it still thought I was a chicken. This funny story, what lesson do we learn about prejudice? Sometimes, we also have the opportunity to meet friends in high school. In the past, who studied well, now still respected, who studied poorly, still continued to be looked down upon. Dozens of years apart, people have changed a lot, but the prejudice about minorities remains intact. Live long, you will have a lot of experience. In general, experience is good, but it also forms countless prejudices in us, making us unable to see the new. We will not believe that the sky can be black again, because we are used to seeing the sky in white, until we see a black sky with our own eyes. Most problems in life are based on prejudice, and prejudice is based on ignorance. Raising awareness, is actually changing life. A person with a high level of awareness, rarely brings his subjective feelings when looking at the problem, so he can have a more realistic view. To reduce the harm of prejudice, we must be aware of our own experiences, at the same time, we must realize the continuous movement of the object, anything can be good or bad. Or as the old saying goes, three days without meeting, you will meet someone else. The level of your awareness in which level, the state of your life in that level. Those who are full of prejudice in their hearts, can never see the nature of things, their thoughts are rigid, and their perspective is narrow. Like a book, it will go through the wall of the mind. Our mind, contains a lot of wrong and ineffective mental models, causing a distorted awareness. Only when we break those mental models, we can become a better version. The awareness of a person, is the needle only in the way he works and determines the direction of life. When you get out of your own limit, focus on improving yourself, and have a certain depth of thought, that's when you're standing on top of the needle of your own life tower. Conclusion When you open up and understand, the way you look at others will naturally disappear. When you treat people with sincerity and selflessness, the way you rebel against others will naturally disappear. When in front of you is a large sky, prejudice will disappear. I hope you will live with a kind heart, and be an independent, free, happy person.