Về già phải nhớ cất kỹ 3 tài sản này - Góc Nhìn Việt

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, I once read a equation called the equation of intimacy, like this. Suppose your parents are now 60 years old, their remaining life span is 20 years. You don't live with your parents, then every year, the average number of days you meet them is 6 days. The number of living times is almost 11 hours. So the remaining time you can be with your parents is about 1320 hours. Let's go back to 55 days. These 55 days are what we often call a lot of time. There are holidays. When people come back, they want to tell their parents how much they love them. When they return to the city, they want to tell them how much they love them. They all think that communicating with their parents is really not easy. I even know that some of my friends still argue a lot with their parents. Obviously, at first, they come back because they are happy, they want their parents to be happy. Unexpectedly, it makes their parents more upset, and they feel more uncomfortable. Then I discovered one truth. When we grow up, our relationship with our parents also becomes distant. Because when parents are in their 70s, 80s, it is also the time for children to enter puberty. Then the age gap gets bigger, many problems arise in life. How can you have time to be with your parents every day? Old parents have also experienced this period, so they are very understanding. Therefore, I will not complain, but I am willing to endure loneliness alone to get the happiness of my children. They hide their own fears, like hiding a treasure of their children, which is full of worries and worries. So please understand what happens next for your parents. When the father of the child returns home, all parents hide it very carefully. The first thing is that they are afraid that their children will have a cold, but they can't help anything. When we were young, we always thought that our parents were omnipotent heroes, superheroes. The house does not have rice, the blanket in winter is too thin, the school is about to close, we want to travel. As long as the child wants, the parents will do everything to satisfy the child's needs. However, when the parents get old, there are really not many ways to help you like when you were young. They can only tell you, worry for you, frequently ask about your situation. When children live badly, go through difficult days in life. The most painful and worried person is no one else but the parents. Sometimes they laugh at you, make it difficult for you. Although there are only strange parents who love their children unconditionally, see their children fall, hurt and fail, but can't help. That's what parents always hide very carefully. The second fear is that they are afraid to bother their children. Even if they are sick, they don't dare to speak. If one day you receive a message from your parents that you are sick, then it must be serious. If they are mildly ill, they will definitely not bother or ask for help and will not tell you where. When parents get old and weak, every time they suffer from a really bad disease, they will encourage their children to stay up all night and endure a little bit. They always believe that they will recover quickly. The strange thing is that they don't want to bother their children again. This is a serious illness of most parents. The patience and patience of parents is very superior. Because they don't want to bother their children, maybe they will take care of each other. Until one day, one in two people goes one step ahead. At an old age, parents always think about their children. Sometimes they are afraid not to bother their children. They are afraid to make their children feel lonely. Their love for their children is unconditional. It can't be reciprocated. The third fear is that they are afraid to see their children's uncomfortable face. So they are always careful when talking. After growing up, the exchange between us and our parents is getting less and less. Our parents don't understand our new world. And we are not patient enough to understand our parents' sad, happy, angry past. We always say that we are busy. Our parents don't dare to bother us. We are getting stronger and stronger. Our parents are getting weaker and weaker. Gradually, our parents become the most understanding children. They don't bother their children. They become the most gentle parents for us. When you realize, ah, your parents, every time they talk, they pay attention to your face. It shows that they are really old. When parents get old, their ability to communicate is no longer as fluent as before. They become confused and even don't know what they are talking about. When your children scold you, your parents will be very sad and cry when you leave. When parents get old, they are like children. All your sadness and happiness become their sadness and happiness. When parents get old, they are like children. They are also afraid to see your face. When you smile, they smile. And if you keep your face tense, they will feel uncomfortable. Parents are the first people you have to be tolerant and love. No matter how they are, if they are a little slow, if they are a little rude, please be patient, respectful and respectful. If another person comes to parents and can no longer be tolerant, that person will not be able to be tolerant to anyone. When we were young, we always listened to our parents. But then we didn't know since when our parents were the ones who followed what we said. The reason for this is that they are afraid of losing our trust. So they turn to their own children. Parents use love and patience to raise us up. With the hope that one day we can use the same love and patience to treat them when they get old. Don't let your carelessness become an obstacle that makes your parents more and more shy in front of you. The gap between parents and children is very easy to overcome. But for parents, it requires an unimaginable strength. Parents have given us a life. They have given us the youth to raise us up. If one day you really understand what parents are afraid of, you will understand their sacrifices. Perhaps life is a strange cycle. From the weakness of adolescence, to the strong self-satisfaction after growing up, to the loneliness of old age. Everyone of us will have to grow old. And the present of parents is our own future. In this life, no one was born to owe anyone and no one was born to be a parent. So when parents raise us up, we should accompany them to grow old. If we call the sacrifices of our parents the law of cause and effect, the age is the law of addition, then health is the minus and the minus. People will have the saying, If you still have parents, you should spend more time for them and do the things below for the sake of life. 1. Go home to eat. The meals at home are the time to return to the family. It is when parents, brothers and sisters gather at the table after school and work. It is the time when I feel everything can be relieved when I eat delicious food, learn the taste cooked by my mother, hear the stories of my children from the members, and share with each other. The society is more busy, life is more urgent. Everyone has his own job, his own time. Some people may find it difficult to meet each other at home, then the rare meals are enough for people. Maybe it's more precious than gold. So try to go home to eat so that you can sit next to your parents and give them this and that. It's not just a meal, it's a very simple thing. But when there is a fire in the house, or when you are bored with the food on the street, you realize how precious it is. Going home to eat is also the familiar call of parents that makes many people remember the childhood with family meals. Even when the children grow up, the elderly still have the habit of waiting for the new members to have a meal. So no matter how busy you are, don't forget to go home early to eat with your parents. In the end, the elderly often tell their children to study hard, fight for their careers, take care of their families, and not worry about anything for their parents. In fact, every adult wants to wait for their children every day to take each familiar step home. 2. Say thank you and sorry. But the more intimate and intimate the relationship is, the easier it is for us to miss the meaning of it. It's like saying thank you and sorry to our parents. All parents are full of love and compassion. No one accepts their children because of trivial things. However, don't waste yourself in that kind of love. When you receive help, you should say thank you. And if you make a mistake, you should know how to say sorry. Many people think like this, but it's definitely not true. Because this is a way to show how much you respect your parents. 3. Take the initiative to love. Many people think that rich children have their parents to support their family. Money can build a big house, buy luxury clothes, and expensive food. But for the elderly, they don't care about money. For example, a box of crispy croutons is given by a child with a love note on it. The person who helps you is not as warm as your warm hands. There are many ways to show love and compassion. In addition to calling the police, you can also send a message asking for a visit every day ending with the message I love you, mom and dad after each conversation. 4. Cultivate the spirit of the elderly. In the eyes of the beautiful, we are always small and need to be protected. But we can't sit still and receive that beautiful love forever. Take the initiative to express your love to your parents. Remember to call home before your parents visit if you live far away. Try to be with your parents more. Help with the work for the family no matter big or small. The achievements you have achieved are easy to hear. But not everyone can do it. 4. Talk to your parents more. The distance between people is getting farther and farther. Even the blood of the elderly is not excluded. It's not just a generational gap but also a hole in caring, caring, loving each other. So, as children, we often talk to our parents more. There are people who can comfortably talk to their friends even strangers. But at home, it's like that. The reason is that we don't know what to say. The family is all different. But living in a house that can't be opened and always closed is there a family atmosphere? We can talk to our parents Is it too much? 5. Don't love on social media. Social media is a tool to express feelings and gratitude. But don't rely entirely on it. Because parents can't read those lines. Don't wait until the end to remember the person who gave you life. Because the most heartless is when you get along with your family. Love directly and love your parents from the smallest things every day. Because all the sweet words will become more valuable because of the truth. Parents only have one and time still flies. Don't let it be too late to worry about what we should do today. And finally, be patient and listen. At the end of this life, the elderly tend to live with memories and memories. We tend to listen to stories over and over again. In the old days, parents were also patient to answer hundreds of stupid questions. The elderly tend to be mentally unstable, emotional, sad, worried. To understand this, children should encourage, care, encourage, share so that parents don't go away. Going away is a journey. Our children have to do it with their parents. Let's encourage parents to learn new things and make progress in their daily lives. Let parents understand that going away is normal and a happy thought because there is a child by their side. Ladies and gentlemen, everyone will go away from this generation to the next. Parents go away is the shape of your future. You are the child of your parents Living a hard life, worried about a piece of bread, parents are willing to sacrifice to change the future of their children. Parents are willing to let their children go. Even if you are scattered like a wing in the sky, they will always be behind to follow your steps. Parents are still by your side and the happiest of this life. If parents go away, there is no machine to wait for them. Then one day, you will not be able to hear your parents calling you to eat, nor receive your parents' call. That day will come, you will become a lonely, lonely, unimaginable child. Then you will understand how it feels. I want to make this clip to hope you will be like this. No matter how busy you are, let your parents know and don't miss them. Thank you for listening to my sharing today. I wish you a lot of peace and happiness.