[TalkTalk]사교육 어디까지 시켜봤니? 사교육 BEST&WORST

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#초등학습 #초등사교육 #초등학원 #초등예체능 #엄마표학습
그 때는 몰랐죠.
이게 좋은 사교육이었는지, 내 아이에게 맞지 않는 사교육이었는지.
초등기간에는 아마도 살면서 가장 다양한 사교육을 경험하게 될텐데요. 부모도 아이도 아직은 뭐가 좋은지 잘 모르는
초등 저학년 시절을 거쳐, 아이를 파악하면서부터 사교육의
기준이 바뀌게 되는 고학년에 이르기까지.
우리는 모두 시행착오의 6년을 보내게 됩니다.
때론 고민하고 걱정에 잠 못 이루고, 때로는 즐겁게 원하는 것들을
배우면서 후회도 하고 보람도 느끼게 되는 것이 바로 사교육인 것 같습니다.
오늘은 초등시절 다양한 사교육을 시켜보고 주변의 친구들로 다양한 경험을 해본 엄마들의 사교육관련 수다입니다.
사실 무엇보다 중요한 것은 '내 아이'를 잘 들여다보고
아이를 중심에 두어야 한다는 것임을 이제는 잘 아는데요
지금 사교육으로 고민하고 계시는 여러분들과
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We went to Daechi-dong last time, the first place for private education.
We went to Daechi-dong and Mok-dong, but I think it's similar in terms of appearance.
When you go inside, it's just the same place, the classroom environment is the same.
But I think the students who go inside are different because of what they learn.
Private education will also be very different for each region and individual.
There will be some private education that we can't even imagine.
And there will be some places where private education does not exist at all.
Private education can be exposed depending on the parents' philosophy or the child's condition,
but there are a lot of talks about cost-effectiveness and interest.
Wouldn't it be good to choose a variety of things according to that?
We just proceeded without thinking, but there were some things that we regretted after we did it.
So what we're talking about now is that we've never experienced it personally.
Oh, it's like this.
First of all, among the private education I did, this was really good. It was the best.
Was there anything like that? Do you remember?
To be honest, I don't know the best, but there's one thing I think I did well,
but I did it for a long time, and I did it for two children, but I actually liked the discussion class.
Discussion, discussion.
The process of reading a book, reading, discussing, and discussing
I've always thought it was good to study when I was doing Jewish education, but I can't do it at home, so it's hard to do it at home.
Reading a book, writing a book, and expressing yourself.
Among the private education I did, I liked it the most, and in fact, the cost-effectiveness was good.
That's what I remember.
I spent a year studying Jewish education, and the best thing I brought from there was that
I used to borrow books and read them every day when I was studying Jewish education.
But that piled up and became a habit.
I bought that part the highest and gave it a score here.
And now that I'm a little older, I'm introducing Cambly a lot.
This is really cost-effective.
And I think it's something that can be consistently exposed.
This is really great if you use it well.
Because you can do everything in English with something else, but there's no way to do it as much as you can do it in Hebrew.
There's no way to do it, but it feels like Hwasang English fills the puzzle at the end.
Then the next one is the opposite.
This was really the worst for me.
Maybe it was the worst for me.
It's not the worst for anyone.
Right. This is a little difficult.
I think I'll get an answer if I ask the kids this question.
I don't think it was the worst for my kids.
Because there were a lot of losses in changing quickly.
Not only the cost, but there was too much energy.
I moved it, went around for a month or two, and moved it.
So among the many things the kids did,
especially in the case of arts and crafts, it wasn't too much of a hassle to move it.
So that's fine, but there are academies where the learning academy moved it in too short a time.
I had no choice but to go through the trial and error, so I was trying to find what was right for the child.
That was hard. I think that was the worst.
I think there were a lot of bad things about copying others.
Among them, I think No. 1 is soccer for me.
If it's a boy in elementary or middle school, it's definitely soccer.
Because most of them like it.
They say they're having so much fun.
I didn't have fun.
There are kids who don't like it.
Hey, I'm doing everything, and you're doing it too.
So I did it, but if it's soccer now, I really don't like it.
No, it's so funny.
From the one who goes to the soccer field and picks up the ball, to the one who draws.
To be honest, boys don't like it either, but they put it here.
As time goes by, I think, oh, I was wrong.
It's not easy to force someone who doesn't like it to do it.
I'd rather think about this as a tip.
At first, I thought I had to do something like this, and it was inline skating.
But inline skating, I learned a few times,
so I went to school to experience ice skating a few times.
At that time, ice skating wasn't just hard, so I tried inline skating a few times.
It's the same context, right?
Yeah, it's the same context, and skiing is the same context.
That's what happened, so I thought, oh, this is okay.
But it could have been okay because the child liked it.
I didn't like it, but I had to do this at school, so I was a little worried.
Because I'm not good at sports.
That's right. Whether it's a boy or a girl, it's a little bit of a bad word.
I think that's it.
I don't think it's a good result to push it in when the child doesn't like it at all.
I think the child should be interested.
Next is a special private education experience that others don't ask for.
Is there such a thing?
For example, I've been through all kinds of things like art.
I'm going to say, haven't you done that?
I've been doing something that the kids haven't done recently.
My daughter said she was going to do a vocal class.
Wow, I didn't expect her to be interested in a celebrity she didn't like when she was a teenager.
So she wanted to go to a vocal academy run by an entertainment agency, so she's going there now.
It's like a brief wind, but it's a little different experience for me, too.
I feel like I'm experiencing people in a field that I've never experienced in my life.
We're active in group activities, too.
And my son is into games these days.
We introduced it at the time, but we applied for Gen.G Academy, but we couldn't get in touch.
I really want to hear about how to send e-sports education related to the game academy.
If we do this in the future, I think it'll be a special private education that no one else does.
It's a very special experience for parents, too.
And it's only possible when a rapport is formed between people.
I've had two private education exchanges with my close mothers while I was raising my child.
A little bit of a hug each other.
But it's not easy.
You have to be in a great shape with him and me to some extent.
My friends learned a lot about computers in the afternoons, but we didn't have time for that.
My son doesn't like to go anywhere, so my mother was an expert in computer science.
So even though she was a working mom, she said she'd do it.
I taught her English.
So we exchanged with each other twice a week on weekends.
I had a precious experience where I finished a few by scratching for a while.
Oh, that's nice.
It's good for elementary school students, but it's not good for high school students.
Because I've been thinking about why I can't do that.
The temperament of the children is different and the progress is different.
I don't think there's much difference in cognitive development when I was young.
Later, the gap grew bigger and bigger.
I think it's really good for children to do that together and train them for a certain period of time.
People around me say, I've done this.
What's wrong with you?
But I think it's different in our generation and your generation.
I think your generation and the younger generation will be really different.
When I was young, I thought it was too much to learn how to jump rope, jump rope, and swim in advance for the next semester at school.
But I heard it's so natural these days.
I don't know, but they talk about jump rope and shooting.
What I think is, I think children can do something they're not good at because they're confident.
Even if you don't pay a lot of money for it, I thought it would be effective to experience it in advance.
These days, private education is very diverse.
But the fact that there's a lot of diversity means there's a lot of choices.
It's weird that every child goes to the same academy.
I thought private education should be a little different from public education.
I think there should be a lot of choices in terms of private education, and we should be able to find what's right for our child.
In that sense, it's good, but it's also trendy.
If someone does something, everyone goes to the same academy.
When something is popular, everyone goes to Taekwondo together.
I can't ignore this.
My son recently said he wanted to learn drums.
But I used to learn guitar.
But when I asked him to play the drums, I wasn't interested at all.
If a friend does it, he does it with his friend.
Most of the things I think I did well in private education,
I think I did the best I could.
You have to make me do it when I have the will to do it.
That's what I did.
There was something like that when we were young, but I don't know if it's still the case.
But English kindergarten and English academy, especially those who go to good English academies,
It's hard to do homework.
So there's a separate teacher who helps you with your homework.
You have to take a course to pass the academy.
And even after you pass the academy, it's hard to look at your homework.
There were a lot of cases where the teacher looked at the homework.
There are a lot of things like that in elementary school.
There's a baby academy, there's a baby teacher.
I don't understand people who play the role of a tutor.
Sometimes it's too hard for my mom to do her homework.
It's because I don't have time.
There were a lot of stories.
So there's a story for each household.
We can't judge what's good or bad.
There are people who are passionate about those things.
And recently, I asked my friend,
Hey, which one of these things have you done the most?
At that time, he didn't tell me this.
But there was a time when he couldn't read by himself for a long time.
At that time, he didn't have a teacher who taught him anything.
He went to the library and found a teacher who read books for him.
But that's the most important thing for him at that time.
Because his mom couldn't do it for him.
So he really couldn't do it.
So he got a teacher.
The teacher didn't teach him anything.
Anyway, he took him with him after school.
He read a book at the library.
The teacher also read a book.
He taught him what he asked for.
He said he did that.
Oh, that's great.
You tried, too.
That's right.
But I'm private education.
So at the point I mentioned earlier,
What my mom can't do for me.
And the fact that my mom is having a hard time.
Actually, when my mom tries to do it for me,
I'm so tired and I can't last long.
So my mom really knows.
If there's something I can't do,
If my child wants it, I'll send it to him.
What you can do well.
When I'm with my child,
I have to do something fun together.
I can do it for a long time.
And then I asked around.
He couldn't write very well.
He took a writing correction course.
There's something like that.
These days, you know.
How good is the book?
There were a lot of textbooks.
There were a lot.
Maybe there wasn't enough textbooks.
Or else, no matter how much you do at home,
I don't follow you.
I think so.
Wouldn't it be?
That's right.
It's very basic.
It's the same with habits.
That's really basic.
Rather, if parents keep doing that,
It's just nagging and trouble.
Rather, I think it's okay to leave it to you.
There's a lot of talk about private education.
There's a lot of hair.
But if you think about the lack of private education,
I'm in public education.
It's a compulsory education.
Rather than educational services,
I think a lot about public education.
Of course, everyone needs to do something.
And private education is optional.
So it's really personal.
And you're responsible for the results.
So you know the kids who get it.
I always think it would be nice if the kids were the center.
So about what I chose,
Actually, I didn't have much gratitude later.
So it was good for you to go around.
Thank you for your mom's money.
It's not gratitude, it's always resentment.
I mean, I paid you for nothing.
Was it hard?
Did you say it wasn't fun because your mom made you do this?
I'm going to hear this later.
Now you can really choose what you want to do.
I think it's only about that.
When the kids can't choose.
That's right.
But even then, I doubted it.
You don't know what you really hate.
That's right.
You're just trying.
You have to try it to know.
That's why I failed.
If you don't want to go, you don't have to force it.
You can't do it later anyway.
I think that's always been the case.
That's right.
