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Ladies and gentlemen, the life through your mouth is the life that you are and will experience. Speaking of good and beautiful words, life also develops in such a good direction. That is the best way to be enlightened. The smart people are those who understand that happiness comes from the words of the Buddha. Because the mouth is like a money jar, the mouth of the Buddha, happiness comes by itself. Words like flowers, the whole life of the Buddha. So if you want to have a rich life, a happy family, the mouth must have good luck first. But to do that, you need to avoid 8 things right here. 1. Don't talk about appearance. People still say that it's hard to know a person's face. So don't ever judge others by their appearance or appearance. Also, don't bring up other people's clothes to discuss or conclude about other people's personality. Our common mistake in this life is that we are often fooled by the appearance in the first moments of meeting. The appearance can only impress for a while. It cannot show the true nature of a person. So understand a beautiful face does not guarantee that their soul is beautiful or ugly. A person with an ugly appearance is not a monk. Being beautiful does not mean that they are gentle and harmless. If everything is so obvious, then we don't need to be strong and stubborn in making decisions because everything is too easy. In life, many people build a very perfect shell for themselves, thinking that they are gods. But the gold in the shell will come out one day. When everything goes wrong, it makes people very confused. So when you look at a person, you must look at their heart. A good or bad person should not rush to judge by their appearance. Clothes cannot make a castle. So always start looking at the nature of the problem, the nature of a person, and should stop when we start to want to comment on someone. She is like this, she is like that. Don't think and say things like that. 2. Don't blame your parents. No one in this world is perfect, no one is perfect. Our parents gave birth to us, they gave their all to protect and love us, to raise us up. For a rich family, that is easy. But for a poor parent, that is hard. Not easy at all. To take care of you a full meal, a warm shirt, they had to work very hard. Their love is shared by giving you all the best they have. Don't say things that hurt your parents. Don't blame them that if their parents are richer, their parents are poorer, what should their parents be like? If one day their parents get old, they won't be able to do business as fast as they used to. As a parent, please understand, your parents are the future of you. Therefore, no matter what, live with them. Don't blame them slowly, don't blame them when they are sick. As a child, don't blame yourself for being busy with work and don't have time to take care of your parents. Do you remember every time you were sick, no matter what you were doing, they were ready to give up everything. No matter how big the storm was, they still hurriedly took us to the hospital. They were ready to stay up all night just to observe and check if you had a fever or not. So, as a child, when our parents were sick, what did we do for our parents? In everyday life, there are a lot of news about children who leave their parents when they are sick and in love. Learn how to thank your parents. Embrace them and say sincerely thank you parents for giving birth to you, thank you parents for taking care of you, thank you parents for raising you. There are a lot of things in life. Among thousands of things, filial piety is always the first. Therefore, even if your parents can't forgive you, how can they forgive the world? Third, don't speak frankly. Whether you have money in your pocket or not, how much property to save, you shouldn't let others know. Remember that the rest of the money in your pocket must always be a secret. Many people think that showing off money and property will prove that they are rich. But no, showing off too much money doesn't make others respect you more. Rich people don't need to show off, just look at the status and recognize it. Meanwhile, people who don't have money and show off that they are rich actually don't have the appearance of a high class. People who have money and ability don't like to show off anymore. They just focus on doing their job, being humble, because they know that ability will tell everything. Besides, people who have no ability want to show off their ability through extroversion and flattery. Fourth, don't talk about land, farm, garden. In this life, there are people that you will never know that they are super rich. Because their house is no different from yours. Their clothes are the same as yours. Even their motorbike is cheap. Therefore, don't ever talk about property to judge a person. And don't take a big house, a big land as a goal to fight all your life. To build a big house to show off to the world regardless of the financial conditions of the family, you just have to work every day and run around to pay off the debt of the big house. This is not a life to enjoy, but a life to make you suffer. Don't forget that after a tiring day at work, you want to go back to a cozy, familiar, comfortable place is the first condition. Not a spacious place that you always feel uncomfortable. There are people who work hard to earn a lot of money. They don't even care about a rainy day. They just want to have money to build a big house, enjoy the beauty of life. They used to think that the money they saved is the most valuable asset in the world. They have spent too much of their health just to get money. But they don't understand that health is the most valuable asset of a person's life. If you don't have health, no matter how much money you have, how many houses, everything is meaningless. Until you have to fight every second to live, you realize that your health is really priceless. 5. Don't talk about love. Many people are like a book. They like to share all the details of their lives with their friends. If they have a date with their husband or lover, their friends around them will immediately assume that they don't share any details. However, sharing too much information about love with friends is not a good idea. Because in a conversation with friends, it is very possible that your relationship will be used as a topic of conversation to see how far it has gone. Sharing too much about love also creates comparisons and irreplaceable reasons. If your love story is too wonderful, your happiness can make people who are less fortunate in love feel jealous and envy you more. On the contrary, your friends may think that your love story is not as good as theirs and put doubts about their love in their hearts. Try to keep your personal love story and don't share too much with others. Whether it's a happy or sad moment, sharing too much information about a personal love relationship is not a wonderful thing. Especially when the love of marriage is firm, we often feel very lonely and empty. We will look for a shoulder and a piece of advice from an outsider. Or rather, we will look for an ally to support us. However, please believe me, your love story of your marriage is the most unique relationship in life. And its problems are the same. There is no common ground and no one can help you more accurately than yourself. When you feel confused, don't rush to make a decision when you are not calm enough and think carefully. Don't rush to post a message of love on the Internet. You can still talk and cry if you want to find comfort with your friends. But at best, don't share too much, too much details and ask for advice on what to do. Because this often brings more trouble and less help for you. Sixth, don't change the script. The script here is a story that is not important, not the beginning, not the end. It's a story that goes up and down. Or to put it another way, it's a gift story. My grandfather used to say that a piece of rice is the beginning of a story. When the story begins, the exchange between the person and the person is formed. It will create a close friendship between the person and the person, and the connection will be closer. But if you borrow a gift story, meet that person, meet that question, eight stories above and below the ground, curious and infringing on other people's privacy, so the care will become bad and strange. As a human being, you need to know how to respect others. Don't let your mind go to things that have nothing to do with you, of others. Don't always try to show that you love Vietnam. The ancients also taught that the words of Thị Phi stop where the mind is. Don't boast or boast about your work. Don't say harsh words. Don't talk about making gifts. Things that don't belong to you, things that are just rumors, if you hear them, let them stop at you. Intelligent people always know how to actively distribute information that they have heard and consider the words said. And they always know that making a gift story is a very bad habit that needs to be avoided. Seventh, don't be a waste of money. In this life, never ask others questions like how much you earn, how your income is, what brand you wear, which brand you go to. People nowadays tend to show off their materialistic, money-rich life to prove only one thing, that they are more important than others, better at making money than others. If you have the means, you are fine. But there are still those who like to show off to sell their house, sell their company to get some dopamine from strangers. There are individuals who sell their house, leave money and bank accounts to show off those numbers in front of the world. At this time, money is everything to them. But the future is the loss of money, the depreciation of the numbers in the account, deception. Then their children will be homeless. Using money and materialistic concepts to evaluate a person is a social psychological expression of a person that cannot be denied. It is multidimensional and will exist as a standard, a measure, a way of looking at people. But it is not a long-lasting value. So don't ever bring up poverty to discuss or measure to evaluate other people. The value of a person lies in two aspects. What value do I see? And does the community think that person has value or not? And finally, the eighth. Do not say the wind is near. People living in this world must live in clarity. Do not talk quickly, talk nonsense. If you don't know, don't talk. Be sure not to talk nonsense. Talking about the wind is hidden. It creates unbearable risks. There is often a saying that the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional. The words of the wind when it comes to the ears of others, they will doubt your character. No one wants to be close to those who talk nonsense. Because the words they say are all true and difficult, the credibility is low. Speak clearly, speak clearly, speak with eyes and ears, then the listener will feel you are trustworthy. Ladies and gentlemen, sometimes people think everything is too complicated and forget all the simple principles, but it is extremely useful in this life. Sometimes people think they know everything. But in fact, there are still too many small things that have been accidentally forgotten. Life is like a cup of tea, full or empty, hot or cold, hot or cold, also has its own taste. Humans are the same, no one is like anyone else. Everyone has an ideal, their own way of life. Some people have a very rich dream, some people just want to live a peaceful life, some people just need a relaxed mind. But in this life full of problems, it is very difficult for humans to maintain a carefree, thoughtless, unbothered state. People always run after the obvious things and forget the real values of human life. And the two little stories that I will tell you later will explain some of the seemingly simple things in this life. The first story. A girl came to a monk and asked like this. Monk, I want to give up a few things but I can't. I'm so tired. The monk gave the girl a cup of water and told her to hold it. The monk kept pouring hot water into the cup. The water spilled all over her hand and she was paralyzed. She let go of the cup. At this moment, the monk said to himself, It hurts. I will let go. The girl asked like this. The problem is why do I have to wait until I'm seriously injured before I let go? The second story. A boy came to a monk and asked like this. Monk, I want to give up a few things but I'm so tired. The girl asked like this. The monk gave him a cup of water and told him to hold it. The monk poured hot water into the cup. The boy was so hot but he didn't want to let go and kept moving his hand until it was cold and then he drank it. He felt very good. At this moment, the monk said to himself, It hurts. I will let go. The problem is why do I have to let go when it hurts while I can make it look better? This is a lesson from the above two stories. It's a complicated life. Only we know when so we should take it up and put it down. Actually, life is sometimes much simpler than we think. The only thing is that we often turn it into a bubble and then have to keep looking for the answer for a simple life in the days to come. And if possible, go into a room and sit down and think ten steps down. And when you get out, you will feel how life is easier to bear. 1. Degree Human beings in this world do not need to be too clear about anything. Because if the water is too clear, there is no fish. And if the volume is too high, there is no one to play with. When you fight with your family, your love will be broken. When you fight with your lover, your love will be broken. When you fight with your friends, your love will be broken. When you fight, that is the demand of reason. But losing is love and hurting is still yourself. Black is still black, white is still white. Time will prove everything. Let go of the stubbornness of yourself. Be a good person. If you don't worry about anything, you will win the whole life. Add a little joy, a little gentleness, and life will be full of light and sunshine. 2. Wealth People know enough, even if they sleep on the ground, they still feel like they are in heaven. People don't know enough, even if they are in the middle of heaven, they still feel like they are in the middle of hell. In this life, the wealth is the most important thing. If you only wish to be in the material world, even if you have a lot of money, you still feel that it is not enough. That is the poverty in the wealth. On the other hand, a poor material life does not affect a generous and generous soul, but still lives freely and selflessly. That is the real wealth in the poverty. 3. Measure To create a favorable condition for others is to create happiness for yourself in the future. If you are kind and generous, if you allow people to take one step, they will take one step for you. People are like sugar. The more you measure, the more sugar you get. The more you measure, the more sugar you get. If you don't calculate with the military, they will give you nothing. If you don't measure with others, they will not be kind to you. Generosity seems to be giving to others, but it is actually opening a path for yourself. 4. Give up Some things today are considered big, but tomorrow are just small things. What happens this year, no matter how big it is, in the next year, it will just be a legend or a story. We are just people who have stories. When you face difficulties in life or in work, tell yourself that today will pass, tomorrow will come, a new day will come. 5. Reduce loneliness Simple mind, life will become lonely, then happiness will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will become. Wherever you go, you will find that happiness will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. The more free the mind, the more free life will come. 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