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Compliments are always more precious than gold and silver, and criticism is more ruthless than a knife. Therefore, compliments are a necessary element in life to encourage everyone to make progress. For women, compliments also have a very positive effect, which can change a person completely to surprise. Two Japanese MCs named Masuko and Iosimura have released a combined program on their own TV channel. The content of the program is very simple. This group of MCs will meet four ordinary women on the street and do an experiment with them to change themselves for 50 days. Among the women, there are single mothers, single mothers who take care of their children, or housewives who live alone, or single girls who live in seclusion and do not want to go out because of their appearance. Many people misunderstand that MCs will help these women transform from a duckling into a swan thanks to aesthetic technology or greed. But in reality, this program helps them find themselves deep in their hearts. The first participant is Kiyoka, a college student they met at the subway station. Kiyoka is 21 years old this year, studying to study painting at university. This is a girl who does not like to interact with the outside world. She likes to stay at home because she is not confident in her appearance. Every time she goes out, she wears a mask and does not dare to talk to her son. Compliments can change someone's life. To be honest, although Kiyoka's appearance is not outstanding, she also has fair skin and a gentle face. Kiyoka said that she got used to wearing a mask on the street. Wherever she goes, she takes the initiative to cover her face because she feels that she is not a beautiful girl. There was a time when Kiyoka was drunk with her classmates, her nose hair was exposed, so it made her less confident. All boys respect the appearance of girls, so I don't want to show my face, Kiyoka said. Even when filming the show, she was not ready to take off her mask. In the face of this situation, the program has arranged a class for her. Within 50 days, Kiyoka was taught by an Italian handsome teacher. Every day, the teacher will give Kiyoka great compliments as well as encourage her progress. You wrote very well, your brown eyes are very beautiful, red glasses with black hair look very good. Just like that, the teacher praises Kiyoka every day when she comes to class. In the face of the enthusiasm and compliments of the Italian teacher, Kiyoka still refuses to take off her mask. But at first, she had the intention to tidy up her messy room. From then on, she began to look in the mirror and take care of herself. On the 28th, at a party at the teacher's house, Kiyoka finally took off her mask. On the 40th, she wore a new white dress and a fresh smile that made the teacher happy. On the 50th, everything happened very naturally. The result today seems to have met the encouragement of the teacher and her classmates. Kiyoka began to know where her advantage was. She became more confident. Every time she went to school, she changed her glasses, wore more fashionable clothes and had long black hair, not as curly as usual. Another woman who participated in the show as an employee in a large business was Kiyoka. Kiyoka is not confident about her appearance. Since middle school, Kiyoka rarely bought clothes and jewelry, although jewelry is something she really likes. Her life is simple but also full of obstacles. When she started participating in the show, the team decided to buy a beautiful set of jewelry for Kiyoka including a diamond necklace from a famous brand, worth about 3.5 million yen, more than 750 million VND. However, Kiyoka herself did not feel the real value of this set of jewelry. She still wore a black high-neck shirt, worked alone and ate alone in the company's restaurant. Until one day, Kiyoka was curious and went to the jewelry store to ask for a price, then realized that she had underestimated the value of this gift. Like a shoe polish, Kiyoka began to change by looking for other sets of clothes to match the jewelry she was wearing. This change seemed small, but it changed her life. E.U. said that when she was eating in the company or going to an exhibition on the weekend, E.U. met a colleague and they took the initiative to praise the jewelry on her very beautifully and also said that the clothes she was wearing were very suitable. On the 50th day, E.U. changed significantly in appearance and mental state. She was no longer arrogant like the first days, but instead was an optimistic, full of energy. The appearance of Kiyoka and E.U. was really a turning point after participating in the show. In these 50 days, their change was not just about clothes or jewelry, but also about the courage in their hearts. They gradually realized where their problems were and found a way to solve them voluntarily. External factors such as the arrogance of classmates, the lack of interest in colleagues is also the reason why they lack confidence and underestimate themselves. But more importantly, they are insensitive, admit that they are not beautiful, and cannot compare with others. This will gradually be a deeper hole for them. In the case of Kiyoka and E.U., the compliments of the Italian teacher and the set of jewelry saved them from the life of the dark days, inadvertently becoming an opportunity for them to take advantage and start to shine. Although the language can not be seen, can not be touched, but it itself has great energy. There is a strange experiment that has proven that, causing parents to be shocked. The strange experiment about two plants. Language can kill people, do you believe it? At least, it can kill a bunch of flowers. Moreover, let the whole world witness and see how powerful the language is. IKEA, the famous interior company of Sweden, conducted an experiment at a school in the United Arab Emirates, UAE. This experiment did not attract much attention at first, but its results shook the world. After watching this experiment, I was particularly surprised because it reflects a way to harm potentials in modern society. Let's take a look at this strange experiment, how the words of humans ultimately have great energy. At a school in the United Arab Emirates, IKEA has brought two green plants. It is said that both plants are placed in a cage, taken care of in the same way with the same amount of water, light and sunlight. They called the students, students of this school, to sweep, scold, criticize a plant, while praising it, showing love for the other plant. People were encouraged to talk to the two plants for 30 days. They found a lot of students, first recorded the words of the students and then sent and sent these words back to the plant. These swear words are violence with words that are very familiar to us. For example, you are a useless, useless thing, you are not fresh at all, you look like you are about to die, you are not loved by anyone, there is no use for anything. The two plants are the same, but they hear two completely different languages ​​every day. The plant is loved, the more it is, the more it hears words like this. I really like your outfit, I am very happy when I see you, you are really beautiful, the world changes because of you, you are great. On the one hand, it is the violation of violence with words, on the other hand, it is praise and encouragement. Just like that, this experiment lasted for 30 days. And the result after 30 days, the life of the two plants is clearly different. It can be said to be surprising, but it is also a reasonable compromise. The left side of the plant was destroyed and became a pig, while the right side of the plant had to be loved and developed. This is enough to see how terrible the power of language is. Even children also realize the truth that if plants can be affected, humans will surely be the same. And, even the impact can be even greater. Parents should learn how to speak lovingly. The ancients used to say, a kind word, a warm word, a cold word, a six-month cold word. Languages ​​have a strong vibration, especially when we speak angrily or indignantly, negative vibrations will arise, and the consequences will be very difficult to ignore. The ancestors also used to say, give people words, precious as a buffalo, harm people with words, more than a sword. Words are like small bullets, invisible in life. Although we usually can't see from language, but they have become a room full of energy, house, environment and our whole heart. It shows that language is alive and capable of destruction. Many parents will pass their negative feelings to their children and make them slaves and victims of emotions. Many couples also turn negative feelings into words to attack each other, and over time, the whole family relationship falls into chaos. Therefore, all we need to do now is to change our way of thinking and life by changing the language. Instead of saying negative, monotonous, negative energy, why don't we say beautiful loving words to attract positive energy? The English poet Milton has a famous saying in Paradise Lost, Paradise Lost, that the heart is in its right place, only in one thought, heaven becomes hell, and hell becomes heaven. Don't underestimate a little thought, any motivation can change the whole world. So, to make your children more and more kind and excellent, parents should learn how to say loving words. Parents want to encourage, sympathize and accompany their children, be patient and start with language.