Kinh Nghiệm Tập Bỏ Bỉm Cho Bé Chỉ Trong 3 Ngày (Phần 1)__ My Thuan Family

Hello everyone, I'm Thuan Trong. Welcome back to my channel. Today's video is about a topic that you guys have asked me a lot. It is when to give birth and how to give birth. My baby has already given birth quite a long time ago. However, at that time, I was pregnant with Henry. Then I gave birth to Henry, took care of Henry, everything was going well, so I forgot about this topic. But today, I won't let you guys wait any longer. In this video, I will share with you the detailed methods that I have applied to give birth to my baby. And this method, in just 3 days, my baby has given birth and can call me when he wants to go to the bathroom and go to the right place. I was really surprised with this method. If you are also looking for a way to give birth to your baby, please continue to follow my video. The secret that helped me give birth to my baby successfully is that I applied the method in this book. Because the baby's butt also needs to be breathed. This is a foreign book and is based on Vietnamese. The author is Ms. Brandy Brooks, an American. She is an expert in training children to exercise and guide children to go to the right place. There are very strange jobs abroad, right? And this book is the culmination of her experience after training thousands of children to exercise and go to the right place. In this book, she wrote in great detail and detail step by step. At first, when I read the title outside, I saw that it was written that the method helped the children to exercise only after 3 days. I didn't believe it because I thought it would take a lot of time to give birth to the baby. Because I heard from mothers that it would take a whole month. It's very difficult. So I didn't believe it. But when I finished reading the book and practiced like in the guide book, it was true that by the third day, Binoc was getting used to giving birth. Binoc knows how to call his mother to go to the bathroom and go to the right place. And there was no accident from then until now. So it's really a very good method of giving birth. However, it is a pity that this book is now out of print, so many mothers ask me, but I can't find it. But don't worry, in this video, I will summarize the knowledge in this book along with my experiences of applying it to Binoc so that everyone can watch my video and apply it. Before continuing to share about this method of giving birth, I also notice that there are many different methods of giving birth. It depends on the experience and the opinion of each family. There is no right or wrong method that is suitable for us or not. If you find a suitable method, you can apply it. In this video, I shared Ms. Brandy's method of giving birth and I successfully applied it to Binoc. For Ms. Brandy's method, there are two points to note. First, do not practice early birth, but choose the right time to give birth to the baby according to her natural development. Second, practice giving birth on the pool, in the bathroom, not in the pool. I find it very convenient because when the baby is done giving birth, we just need to flush the water, no need to clean the pool. And later, there is no need to move from the period of giving birth to the pool. When going out, going to the grandparents' house, traveling, it's all very convenient because you don't have to bring a pool with you. According to Ms. Brandy's experience, the golden period to practice giving birth to the baby is from 2.5 to 3 years old. Because at this age, the baby can control the light as well as his body better. And the baby can also understand consciously the process of giving birth to the right place. Of course, there are also some babies who can give birth before this age. So when do we know that the baby is ready to give birth? That's when the baby has 3 of the following 5 signs. The first sign is that the baby tells you that he wants to be replaced when he just went into the pool. The baby is uncomfortable when the pool is wet and does not like to be busy. This is a great sign and the baby will practice very quickly. The second sign is that the baby can keep the pool dry for up to 2 hours at a time or at least 1 hour at a time. If the baby still urinates regularly, this means that his urinary tract is not developed enough to stop urinating when the baby needs to urinate. The third sign is that the baby has 1 or 2 heavy walks in 3 days and they are not too difficult. That is, the baby is not having diarrhea or is not having diarrhea, nor is he having any difficulty in going to the bathroom. Then we can practice. The fourth sign is that the baby can understand and follow the simple instructions of the adult. Such as going to the bathroom, pulling down the pants, stepping on the chair or sitting on the bridge. Then the baby can follow the instructions. And the fifth sign is that the baby shows interest in the bathroom. The baby can ask questions when he sees his mother going to the bathroom. The baby notices when he sees his parents going to the bathroom and also wants to see if the baby wants to catch his parents going to the bathroom. If the baby has 3 of the 5 signs I just told you, it means that the baby is ready to practice swimming and go to the bathroom in the right place. Choosing the right time is very important and a big decision for our success. Therefore, mothers do not need to be impatient or hurry because this is a very big change for the baby. So mothers should observe the baby's natural development to choose the right time. If the mothers follow this method, each baby is ready at different times. Some babies are 21 months old, some babies are 24 months old, some babies are 30-36 months old, which is completely normal. But if we don't let the baby practice swimming for too long, it will be more difficult for the baby because the baby is already used to swimming. My baby was 27 months old when he started swimming. At that time, I noticed that my baby had 4 of the 5 signs I just told you. The first thing is to prepare the baby's mind for the mother or the person who will practice swimming for the baby. I think that when you want to practice a new habit for your baby, you need to find out the information carefully and be determined to do it, then the possibility of success is high. Therefore, the preparation of the mother is very important. The second thing is that the mother should prepare her mind that the first days when the baby just left the beach, there will be accidents, the baby will go out of the pool many times. And the mother should prepare her mind that this is completely normal, any baby who has just practiced swimming in the sea is the same. Therefore, when the baby goes out of the pool many times, the mother should not scold the baby, do not make the baby afraid, affect the baby's mind. And the mother should not feel too stressed because the baby will be affected by that stress and imagine it coming to the bathroom. Enjoy this time, we are helping the baby practice a new habit, achieve a new milestone in your adult journey. And imagine that when you succeed, both the mother and the baby will be very happy. Please note that if there are more people to help take care of the baby, such as three children or grandparents in the house to practice swimming for the baby, then you can share this for the three children and grandparents as well as the method that you will apply so that you can ask for the support of everyone in the family. For example, when I was practicing for Pinocchio, I was pregnant with Henry and I couldn't carry Pinocchio many times in the toilet, so I guided three Pinocchio and my grandmother, and the whole family worked together very successfully. And one more thing, don't be lazy in the first few days and don't rush to implement the plan for at least 10 days. When we have determined the right time, be determined and stick to the instructions the baby does. In the book, Ms. Brandy also wrote that if you follow the steps but the plan is not really effective after 10 days, there must be a specific reason, for example, the baby is not ready to practice swimming and sit on the pool at that time, or the mother made a mistake in one step. When I practiced reading books and practicing the application for Pinocchio, it was really like what was written in the book, on the third day, Pinocchio started to know how to call his mother and go to the toilet in the right place. On the fourth day, Pinocchio completely knew how to call his mother to let the baby go to the toilet on the pool, and there was no accident after the fourth day. The plan is very successful, everyone! Next is to prepare the baby's mind and introduce the pool. When the mother plans to practice swimming for the baby, she should save at least a week or a few weeks in advance to prepare the baby's mind. Because everyone imagines that on a beautiful day, the mother doesn't let the baby swim anymore, and then the mother forces the baby to go to the toilet to go to the bathroom, the baby will not understand what is happening, surely the baby will scream, cry, and then object, from there it will be very difficult for us to practice for the baby. Therefore, preparing the baby's mind first will make it easier for the baby to cooperate, from there, our success rate will be faster. So how do we prepare the baby's mind? There are two things to do, the first is to attract the baby's attention to the pool, we will help the baby realize that wearing a pool is really annoying, and I need to replace a new pool, I will feel much more comfortable and cleaner. When replacing a pool for the baby, everyone can say, oh, my pool is wet, let me replace it with a cleaner pool. Or everyone can say, oh, my pool is dirty, my pool is dirty, let me replace it with a new pool, I will feel more comfortable and cleaner. Just now, my pool was wet, it was very uncomfortable, right? Now I have a new pool, my pool is dry, it is cleaner and more comfortable, it is really comfortable when I am clean and comfortable. In this way, it will help the baby feel that wearing a dirty pool is very uncomfortable, when the baby knows, the baby will start to give signs to the mother to replace a new pool. And the second thing is that we need the baby to go back to the pool and go to the toilet. As I shared at the beginning of the video, Brandy's method is to practice for the baby to leave the pool and go to the pool directly without sitting in the pool. Therefore, in this psychological preparation step, we will help the baby to go back to the pool. And the most effective way is to take the baby to the toilet, then guide the baby to say to the baby, oh, Peanut, this is the toilet, this is the toilet, and this is the pool, baby. When I want to pee, I will pee on this pool. Everyone will use any word that is easy for the baby to call, but at that time, Peanut often said, go to the toilet, so I also use the word go to the toilet. This is where the mother pees, Peanut. Then when Peanut knows that the pool is for adults to go to the toilet, I will let Peanut see that the mother is sitting on the pool to go to the toilet. Of course, the choice of time is a little cautious, not to let the baby see all that action. But at least the baby can see what the mother is sitting on there to do. That is the simplest and easiest way to help a 2-year-old, 3-year-old child understand what to do on the pool. I also say to Peanut, Peanut, mom is peeing on the pool, Peanut. Peanut will pee on the pool every day. Now Peanut is big, Peanut is ready to pee on the pool. During this period of getting used to it, everyone should repeat several times to emphasize that I will pee on the pool every day like mom. And also during this period of getting used to it, everyone can change the place to change the baby to the toilet. Put the baby in the toilet instead of the pool to help the baby feel more familiar with the bathroom. So later when we train the baby to go to the toilet, the baby will be easier to cooperate. The third part is to prepare the necessary items. The first is a pool table for the baby. Instead of buying a pool table, we will buy a pool table for the baby like this. This is called a small pool table or a pool table for the baby. This is used to put on the pool table to make the baby sit comfortably and easily. There are many different types and shapes. Until now, Peanut is 4 years old, I have bought about 4-5 types. Sometimes I go to my grandmother's house to buy one, then I go to my grandmother's house to buy one, then I buy a few to change for Peanut. Finally, the one that I am most satisfied with is the Munchkin that I bought in the beginning. Put on the pool table, very comfortable. Peanut sits up, I see that there is not much movement. There is a cradle for the baby to hold when the baby goes to the toilet. This cradle can be hung up, it is very neat. The white color looks clean too. I will put the link in the description for you. The second is to choose a reward. We will give the baby a small reward after each time the baby knows how to call the mother to go to the toilet and go to the toilet in the right place on the pool table successfully. Then you will receive a small reward to encourage you, help you get excited to continue to do it next time. Because this is a reward that you will receive right after you do it. So the reward will need to be small so that we can give the baby many times a day. Some rewards, for example, a small piece of dried grapes, a small piece of cake that the baby likes, or a sticker, or a M&M chocolate ball. Depending on the preferences of each child, the mothers choose the right reward and ensure that the mothers feel comfortable when giving the baby. It means that the baby can eat it many times a day, it's okay. At that time, I chose dried grapes because Penis really likes to eat dried grapes and small pieces of dried grapes like this, a box of dried grapes I bought in the supermarket and a sticker. That is, after each time Penis calls the mother to go to the toilet and successfully go to the toilet on the pool table, Penis will receive a piece of dried grapes, eat it right away and will be given a sticker to stick on a board. I printed that board for Penis and stuck it on the door of Penis's room so that Penis can see it. Penis really likes this activity. Third, it's a ladder for the baby. Ladders for the baby are the steps that help the baby climb the bridge easier and are usually made of plastic. When I first practiced for Penis, I saw that Penis was still too small. I haven't found a ladder for Penis's legs yet, so at that time, I decided to use a ladder for Penis. Later, I bought a plastic ladder for Penis with two handles like this. Penis uses it to brush his teeth, wash his face and go to the toilet. I really like this ladder, but unfortunately, the shop is out of stock now, so everyone can find similar ladders. Fourth, it's pants for the baby. Prepare soft, thin and cool pants for the baby because the first few days when you just gave birth, the baby's legs were very cold and there was a chance that Penis would have an accident and wet his pants. So, prepare about 5-6 pants for the baby so that the baby can clean up quickly and change his diaper. Fifth, it's a mattress. At that time, Penis had a mattress that I bought when Penis was still small. The mattress does not absorb water, so when I practice for Penis, I let Penis sit on the mattress to clean up very easily and quickly. I also let Penis sleep on that mattress so that if there is an accident while sleeping, it is easier to clean up than letting Penis lie on the mattress. That mattress, the next time Henry lied on it, it was old and broken, so I tore it because I bought it 3-4 years ago. I will put the link in the description if you need to buy that mattress. The video is quite long here. If there is too much information, it will be difficult for everyone to follow so I decided to divide this topic into 2 videos. Today I will end part 1 here. See you in part 2 so that everyone can easily watch it again. Thank you everyone for spending time watching my video. If this topic is useful, don't forget to like and share it as well as leave a comment to encourage me. Don't forget to like, subscribe to the channel and click the bell next to it to receive notifications when I have new videos and connect with me on Facebook and Instagram. See you in the next video. Bye bye.