M1 - Thách thức của Số 1

Okay, number one. Number one, the independent individual. Number ones are here to learn to become self-aware. So they can have life experiences that make them, that force them to have to take a look at themselves. Because sometimes they think their problems are because of everybody else, not them. Number ones are here to learn how to get along better with other people. So they can sometimes feel like they don't fit in. They can feel different and like a black sheep. They want to feel like they belong, but they also want to be more important than everybody too. So they are learning how to be in balance with that. They are learning how to get along better with other people and be more caring and considerate of other people. But they are also learning how to stand on their own two feet and be different. They are also learning not to be so controlling and domineering and aggressive. They also have to learn how to do it, but not always be aggressive. If you can teach a number one about the law of attraction and how the universe works, then when they have more faith that everything will work out, they don't have to try so hard to make everything work out. Number one needs to learn to relax and have trust that their needs will be taken care of because they feel that they have to go out there and make it all happen. And that's why they are so controlling and domineering. They feel that they have to make everything happen for themselves. They can also be quite impatient and intolerant. When they understand that the universe can take care of everything, they learn to not be so impatient. Because with the law of attraction, we attract or we manifest what we think. The power of a number one's thoughts are very strong. Number ones are very strong minded and very much always thinking in their mind. That is why it's very important to teach a one that their thoughts are alive. Number ones and number eights can manifest things with the law of attraction more powerful than any of the other numbers. Number one is a very creative with the mind number. But when they are negative, they can manifest or create negative things in their life very easily and very quickly too. So when you teach your number one clients about the law of attraction and they understand this, it can really help them to help fix their problems based on what they think in their mind. So when you teach your number one clients about the law of attraction and they understand this, it can really help them to help fix their problems based on what they think in their mind. Number one is also here to learn how to be happy with being different from everybody else. Because when they are happy and accept that they are different, that is where they can be very successful. And when they are happy and accept that they are different, that is where they can be very successful. It is their uniqueness and their originality that is their point of power. When they understand this about themselves and embrace their individuality, that is where they can start to be successful in their business, especially if they work for themselves or they are in a position of authority or leadership. And when they understand this about themselves and embrace their individuality, that is where they can start to be successful in their business, especially if they work for themselves or they are in a position of authority or leadership. But some ones might be unhappy when they are not in charge. And some ones need to learn how to be okay and feel okay when they have no control. Does anybody have any questions they would like to ask about number one? While people are typing, I will talk a bit more if you like. Yes? Yes, yes, yes. Okay. There is a question. Good question. This can be life path number, destiny number, soul number, mostly those three but also sometimes birthday number. Birthday, alright. Yes, as long as there is a one in those positions. Obviously, it is stronger in the life path and the destiny. Those are the two obvious. Then soul number, then birthday. Yes. Okay. She is talking about numbers and there are three main positions, which are life path number, destiny number, and soul number. The strongest one is, if there are points like Michelle said, it is in the life path number and destiny number. In addition, it can be in another number, which is birthday number. Okay, everyone? Sometimes this can also happen if somebody is a Leo astrology or Aries astrology, is very like one. Yes, okay. There is one more question. Yes. Number one is usually stubborn. Yes, so how can we make them listen to our advice? Good question. This is one of the reasons why number one can be quite difficult to work with. It is your choice as a life coach to say, I am willing to work with you but if you are not going to listen to my advice, then I don't want to work with you anymore or go away and come back another time when you are ready to listen because that is one's lesson as well, you see. Because this is one of the lessons one is learning. They are learning how to not be stubborn and how to get along better with other people. Because this is one of the lessons one is learning. They are learning how to not be stubborn and how to get along better with other people. And they are learning how to listen to people's opinions and be more cooperative. And when you explain this to them, then it will be easier for you to get your point across that this is one of their problems that they are born to work on and if they don't work on it, things aren't going to change. And it's up to them to do the work or if they don't, then you can't help them unless they are willing to do the work that they have to do. When you're dealing with a one, it's all in how you explain things to them. To get them to understand. Because they think they know what's best and they know everything. You will find sometimes they will listen but sometimes it might take time. So sometimes you have to be patient like a mother to a child. Or if you find they are too difficult, you can tell them to go away and you will deal with them another time when they are ready to listen. Or if you find they are too smart, you can tell them to talk to each other another time. How have you dealt with number one? Oh, very much. My son is very difficult and he is a number one and he's a 19-1 which is even the most stubborn of all. The best way that I have had to deal with him is to understand because I am an 11 and a 28-1 birthday number so I have lots of ones too and I'm an Aries. I have had to learn that I have to let him learn the hard way because he does not want to listen to any advice. Because just like a difficult client, there are times as a life coach or a parent where you have to let people go out into the world and do what they have to do thinking they know everything but you know it's wrong. There are times as a life coach or a parent where you have to let people go out into the world thinking they know everything but you know it's wrong. Until they have some bad experiences and then they come back humble ready to learn to take help. I can think of a very difficult one client that I had No, I can. I can tell you about a very difficult one client that I have. Because number ones respect power so they do actually when you are strong and you are assertive yourself when you are dealing with them as a professional they respect you more. No, respect. So I will present myself as more assertive and more professional and more strong because then they respect me and listen a bit more. But I am also very honest and very direct and I tell them straight you may not listen sometimes and you must listen to what I am telling you if you want me to be able to help you. You must listen to what I am saying. And that worked with this lady she is a bank manager in a bank so she runs a bank very successful, very powerful but I told her straight up I was very direct and then she actually listened and she respected me and then she listened. I don't know if she went it took a while but it did work in the end. You just need to make sure that you really know what you are talking about and you must be very accurate in what you say and when the ones so used to being the boss and bossing everyone around when they see you as the boss of what you are doing and if you are good at what you do they respect you and they listen more. It is also important to be honest and tell them, number one sometimes does not listen to other people and this is what you need to learn in your life and that will eventually get through. Some people you won't be able to help but if they are there to have a coaching session they will eventually get through. With the number one they usually don't listen to anyone but when they are there and they ask to be your customer at least they will be more open to listen to what you teach and share. You said that your son is a 19-1 and the most stubborn person. Why 19-1 is the most stubborn? Good question. 19-1 is a karmic debt number. The karmic debt for 19-1 is learning to listen to others opinions and not be so domineering and difficult. His 19-1 is in his destiny number his name adds up to 19-1 that's where the 19-1 comes from. 28-1 can be the easiest one to deal with because of the number 2 in the 28. Number 2 is a cooperative number but number 1 is difficult. 28-1 can be the easiest to deal with sometimes. It depends on the other numbers in the chart with the 28-1.