Qua Tuổi 50, Tránh Xa Điều Này Để Không Bị Tổn Hao Phúc Khí - Đông Tây Kim Cổ

At the age of 50, get your anger back so that you won't be humiliated and humiliated. The great philosopher Aristotle once said, Anyone will be angry, this is not difficult. But if you want to be angry at the right person, at the right time, at the right place and in the right way, it can be said to be extremely difficult. At the age of 50, you need to learn some non-angry methods. When you are angry, change your position of thinking, understand the other person, force yourself to calm down for 3 minutes, count from 1 to 100, transfer your attention. Normally, you should read a lot, increase your wisdom, respond to life, make people more convenient, learn how to use, be protected. At the age of 50, the remaining 5 months of life, enjoy the results of struggling half your life, be happy, live well every day, don't live in vain. Right now, I would like to invite you to experience 5 ways to be able to control your anger effectively so that you don't have to regret after the age of 50. 1. Anger is a kind of feeling that is both beneficial and harmful. The hero saves the beauty because the rose is still blooming. That is the power of love. In the middle of the road, I see the unhappiness of my husband. That is the symbol of justice. Anger crushes the heart. It is a disease. Violence is a devil. It is a sin. The ancient Greek philosopher Pythagoras said that anger starts with anger and ends with regret. A smart person can control his anger. A stupid person is controlled by his anger. A young person who is a little hot-tempered, works a little bit, can understand because he has not experienced love. People at the age of 50 have lived more than half their lives but still do not clearly see the truth of love. Not being able to control your emotions only makes people laugh at you. Therefore, in the next half of your life, let's take back your anger as a calm, energetic person. 2. Not being angry is a prison. If you always have unstable moods, it's because you haven't had enough rest. You are always bothered by the events of the past and the present. It's easy to take on a lot of things, but it's very difficult to let them go. There was a general who had a lot of experience. He was tired of fighting, so he decided to leave the prison. The general found an angel and said, Please accept me as your disciple. The angel said, You have a family, a wife and children, you have too many worries. Please wait a little longer. A few years later, the general said, I have arranged a family, I don't have to worry anymore. The angel laughed and didn't answer. The next morning, the general was sitting quietly in the hall. The angel asked, Don't you worry that your wife will marry someone else? The general was angry and said, I didn't expect the angel to still have the will, as if I had seen the wrong person. The angel sighed, Just one sentence has made you angry, so how can you practice? Many times we live for this general, determined to do something, thinking that we can really do it. In fact, we only have the will, the will to do it to the end is still not enough. At the age of 50, the child is already mature, we need to let go, but we can't let go, we still blame the child, want to control the child like this, make the whole house feel miserable, even tired. At work, we are also exhausted, so we need to slowly get out of our comfort zone. However, many people still love power, still hope to be in a high position, still never stop fighting with people. Over the age of 50, the greatest self-awakening is to let go, fight, know how to let go. Instead of fighting for everything, it's better to really back down. 3. Not angry is a blessing There is a saying that, instead of being angry, the best thing is to try. In Tibet, there is a story like this. There was a man named Ai Ba. Every time he was angry, he ran around his house 3 times. Until he was no longer angry, he tried to work again. He still kept this habit for decades. Because he was very hardworking, his house is now very luxurious and large. The yard is also very wide. Until Ai Ba was very old, but when he was angry, he would still run around the house 3 times, then sit down at the porch to rest. Someone asked him, he always ran around his house 3 times. Why? Ai Ba said, When I was young, I just ran and thought, my house is small like this, not trying to work, but still angry, the result is very stupid. When I got home, I just ran and thought, my house is big like this, but still angry, the result is very unworthy. When you reach the age of 50, if you look back at the time you have experienced, you will find that overcame the hard work, but still angry, is the bottomless greed, which is contrary to your original will to work. If not for a half-life after a peaceful and happy life, what do you have to work for? Weapons are like the spring wind, only when you wake up to let the wind blow gently on your skin, can you feel it. Weapons are like the sun, when you open your heart, only when you receive it, can you feel the warmth of your heart. Weapons are not more possessive than others, but every day, you overcome yourself from yesterday. If you think clearly, weapons will stop your illness. 4. Not angry is wisdom. A person who does not know how to control his emotions, will eventually be controlled by emotions. During the war, General Ly Mu of Chiang Kai-shek was attacked. He ordered his soldiers to hide in the palace, guard strictly, do not go out to fight. Many people laughed at Ly Mu as a coward. These rumors spread to the King of Chiang Kai-shek. The King of Chiang Kai-shek was very angry, and rebuked General Ly Mu. After that, General Ly Mu was attacked again. The new commander-in-chief ordered the whole army to go out to fight. As a result, the army of Chiang Kai-shek was defeated. The King of Chiang Kai-shek had to use Ly Mu. When a person is angry, making any decision is also a mistake. Because when angry, he loses his mind, does not think about the consequences, and does not consider the factors on the screen. People say, life is like a chess game. Think of a country, go to a country, that is a talentless person. Think of three countries, go to a country, that is a normal person. Think of ten countries, go to a country, that is a wise person. When a person reaches a certain age, he will experience a lot of love. He will grasp the development rules of a lot of love. If you can fully use these experiences, then you are a wise person. At the age of 50, anger has no effect. So, turn your anger into wisdom, then you will be useful. 5. If you are not angry, you will be healthy. In the Western Han Dynasty, there was a great god, Chu Afu, who was the commander-in-chief. One day, Han Kangde invited him to a party. She did not give him chopsticks. Chu Afu was very angry, said a few words to Han Kangde, and left the party. Then, his son bought 500 sets of sandals, which were misused, as a crime. He was angry with the investigator. Later, Chu Afu was sentenced, humiliated. He was angry, for 5 days, did not eat or drink anything, and committed suicide. When a person is angry, he does not eat well, does not sleep well, does not walk well, does not look well, does not breathe well,