Khủng Hoảng Tuổi Lên 3 Là Gì_ 3 Cách Giúp Trẻ Giảm Tránh _Ăn Vạ_ (Phần 1)__ My Thuan Family

2-year-old baby eats yogurt because he is not allowed to eat yogurt, 3-year-old baby eats yogurt because he is allowed to eat yogurt, but yogurt is not allowed to be added to yogurt. Hello everyone, I'm Thuan. Welcome back to my channel. In the previous video, we learned about the second childhood crisis. In this video, we will continue to talk about the third childhood crisis. The third childhood crisis is actually an upgraded version, a higher and more complex level of the second childhood crisis. 3 years old, now our baby is a little older and knows more. As many mothers have shared, when you are 3 years old, you are like another child. I myself felt the same way when I was 3 years old last year. When I was a baby, I was a very gentle, gentle, good, cute, adorable, and adorable baby. When I was in the second childhood crisis, I ate yogurt and cried a lot, but my two mothers also got through it quite well. When it comes to the third childhood crisis, Phoenix showed more self-determination, cried, screamed, always wanted everything to be done as he wanted. He ate a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot more than the second childhood crisis. At that time, last year, Phoenix had a pandemic at home. It was also the time when I gave birth to Henry, both in a baby and in the face of a third childhood crisis. It was a very stressful period for me, but thanks to that period, I was able to draw quite a lot of experience to be able to share with everyone in today's video. From the age of 3 to point out the period from about 3 years old to over 4 years old, the baby has clear psychological manifestations in his actions. At this stage, the babies become more clingy, curious about everything around them. However, besides that, the baby also becomes disobedient, likes to fight, often screams, cries, eats, often disobeys adults or asks questions, and has out-of-control behaviors of parents. When he was 3 years old, his awareness was one level higher than when he was 2 years old. Now he can speak more, so he can speak clearly about his opinions and thoughts. He has realized that he is an independent individual. He really likes to do everything as he wants and continues to challenge the limits at a higher level. When he was 2 years old, he still couldn't speak much. At 3 years old, he spoke continuously, continuously all day without stopping. I remember being told at that time that I couldn't be silent for more than 2 minutes. And some 3-year-old kids still like to sing. When he was 2 years old, he could learn to speak only. At 3 years old, he often asked why, why, 10,000 questions why every day, and 0 was still his favorite answer. At 2 years old, he only had one weapon, which was to cry with a variety of sounds. At 3 years old, this weapon has been upgraded to eating, which is singing, jumping, clenching your hands and feet, beating, biting, punching harder. At 2 years old, I just need to hit my direction a little bit and it's done. At 3 years old, I was often hit in the direction, and in the end, I had to surrender or obey my child. At 2 years old, he still let me do what he couldn't do. But at 3 years old, he wanted to do everything by himself and only did what he wanted. At 2 years old, he was still excited to eat the dishes I cooked when he was hungry. At 3 years old, he only ate 3 spoons and was full. At 2 years old, he was very excited when he chose his own clothes to wear. At 3 years old, he would say, I don't like to wear clothes, why do I have to wear clothes? At 2 years old, my mom would usually take about 30 minutes to persuade a baby to take a shower, and after 10 minutes, there was a clean baby. At 3 years old, my mom and I spent about an hour in the shower, but the result was that the baby was still full of soap from top to bottom, my mom was wet, and the shower was full of water. At 2 years old, he ate junk food because he was not allowed to eat his favorite yogurt, and at 3 years old, he ate junk food because he was allowed to eat his favorite yogurt, but the yogurt was not allowed to be added to the yogurt. In the video, I shared with you 6 ways to overcome the 2-year-old crisis and reduce the baby's junk food. Now we will continue to apply those methods, plus the following methods. The first thing is to stay calm in all situations. I read in a document, there is a sentence in English, written as calmness always wins. This sentence means that calmness always wins. In fact, do you notice that in situations where I eat junk food, the calmer people are, the easier it is for me to deal with my junk food, and I seem to cooperate faster, right? In the 3-year-old crisis, my junk food will be stronger than the 2-year-old crisis, and this is like a competition between me and my parents, the louder my parents scream, the bigger I cry, and everything will get worse. On the contrary, if you stay calm and keep a normal tone of voice to talk to your children, the children will gradually lower their voices and endure it. However, I understand that staying calm in the face of all my junk food is not an easy thing. And many mothers also share with me that they feel hot-tempered, when they see me cry, they just want to scold me to let me be silent, or let me do what I want to do. I am also a normal mother like everyone else, and at that time, when Penis was screaming, crying, being hot-tempered, not listening, sometimes I felt very angry, very angry with my son's hot-temperedness, and sometimes I scolded my son. And that was the time when I just gave birth to Henry, I took care of both children, very tired, really very stressed. And I realized that calmness needs to be practiced with everyone, we need time to practice, to keep calm in all my junk food situations. The details and how I practiced to stay calm, I will share more specifically in the next video. Here I want to say that the first thing when you see a junk food is that everyone take a breath, let me take a breath, keep calm, to be the master of yourself, so that I don't scream, I don't scold my son, I don't be afraid of bullying and hitting my son. When I scream and eat junk food, I really don't want to make it difficult for my parents, but here I am facing a problem and I need an adult to guide me, I need an adult to help me overcome these difficult feelings, I need an adult to guide me to have more suitable behaviors. Because of that, we need to calm down to see the cause of what I eat junk food, and then accept and guide me. This is an opportunity for us to help you improve your emotional intelligence. Last year, I also had a video about EQ emotional intelligence, you can watch that video again. The second experience I often use with Penis is to remind me to say what I want. Compared to 2 years old, 3 years old, I have a very good language ability, I can express my wishes. So when I see my son start to eat junk food or I scream, something I don't agree with, I don't like, I will talk to him in a very normal voice, that is, remind me to say what I want. For example, in my situation, like changing Penis' clothes, at that time, maybe Penis likes to wear a black shirt, but I take a normal shirt and pants. When I take it out, Penis will scream, No, I don't wear this, I don't wear this, I don't like it. At that time, I will say, Penis, what do you want to wear, tell me, do you like to wear a black shirt? Penis said, that's right. So I said, tell me, Mom, I want to wear a black shirt, say it, say it like me. Then Penis will repeat, Mom, I want to wear a black shirt. Then I will say, that's right, if you say so, I will take a black shirt for you. Is this shirt for me? In any situation where Penis screams, I will remind you and guide you to say that sentence. For example, the second situation is drinking milk. At home, Penis drinks 2 types of milk. Every time he goes to school in the afternoon, he will drink another type. And on holidays, at home, on Saturday and Sunday, he will drink another type. But that day, Dad didn't know, and Dad went to get Penis, the type Penis drinks at school. Then Penis screamed, Penis said, No, I don't drink this, I don't like to drink. Then I will say, Penis, I like to drink that milk. Read the name of the milk. I like to drink that milk, so I tell Dad, Dad, get me that milk. Read the name of that milk, everyone. Then Dad knows and gets it for me. Say it again, say it to Dad. Then Penis will say it again with a soft voice, and Dad gets it for Penis. Or another situation is when Penis eats rice and doesn't want to eat rice anymore. But Dad keeps getting food for Penis, so Penis screams out loud. No, I don't eat anymore, I don't eat anymore. Then I say, Penis, I don't want to eat anymore. Then you say, Mom, I'm full, I'll let you get out of the chair. Say it again. Then Penis will say, Mom, I'm full. Then I will say, OK, you can stop eating and you can get out of the chair. Then I will tell you that, just say it gently like that, I understand, Dad will respect your opinion. So a few times like that, I mention it very often, and a few times like that, Penis feels that when I say it like that, it's very effective. Mom and Dad agree with what I say. And from there, Penis will start to apply it gradually. Of course, you still need to be small, so it will take a lot of patience from us to remind you. And over time, you can change. You can't remember it once or twice, you have to mention it dozens or hundreds of times until you get used to telling me what you want. My third experience is to prepare a prevention plan. Here, there will definitely be a few cases that will be repeated over and over again and Penis will eat with the same cause. When we know that situation, if it happens like that, Penis will eat, then we will find a way to prevent that situation, reduce Penis' eating. For example, in my case, when Penis is playing with me, it's very fun, but suddenly I want to take a shower or I want to do something else, Penis will cry, scream, shout, not let me go. And I don't want to play with anyone else, I just want to play with my mom. To prevent this situation, before starting to play with Penis, I will tell Penis first. I say, Penis, tonight I will play with my children for about 30 minutes, then I need to take a shower. Or, Penis, tonight I will play with my mom for about 30 minutes, then I need to work a little bit, so I will play with my dad. At that time, Penis is still in a happy, excited state to play with me, so I will agree. And of course, I don't say it once, I remember it, everyone. And when I'm playing in the middle of the game, I will repeat that to Penis. I say, Penis, in 15 minutes, I need to take a shower, or in 15 minutes, I need to go to work a little bit, so I will continue to play with my dad. Penis is still playing with me, so it's okay, it's still fun. And when I'm almost ready, I say, Penis, let's play with dad now, so dad and mom and Penis can play with each other a little bit. Then we play together, dad starts to get excited, Penis's excitement continues. At that time, mom just finished playing, mom said, Penis, now I will continue to play with dad, mom will take a shower a little bit, then 15 minutes later, mom will come back. Or, Penis, now mom needs to go to work for about 30 minutes, then later, mom will come back to play with me. So I remind first, in, and prepare later, then I show Penis that I will come back to play with you later, to avoid that mom is playing, then mom stops, mom does something else, then I will be scolded. When Penis is informed first, reminded that mom told him first, then Penis will cooperate more, and will not be scolded. Or, of course, when mom leaves, it will be a little bit of a mess, but it doesn't affect dad, I can play with dad already, and mom told me first, prepare my mind first, so I don't have to be scolded every time. Another example of Penis, for example, Penis doesn't like to eat pumpkin soup, although since he was young, he has eaten a lot of pumpkins, he really likes to eat pumpkins, but when he was 3 years old, he didn't like to eat pumpkin soup, every time he cooked pumpkin soup at home, Penis would scream and cry, saying he didn't want to eat this soup. To reduce the situation of having a mess in the meal, when the whole family eats pumpkin soup, I will cook a little more vegetable soup for Penis. I see that it only takes about 5-10 minutes to cook a little vegetable soup for Penis, so I will make another method to keep the room for Penis. When cleaning up, Penis doesn't like to eat pumpkin soup, so Penis still has a second option, which is to eat vegetable soup. This will also help the child to be happy and not have a mess in the meal. The topic of the 3-year-old crisis is a bit long, so I will divide it into 2 videos. See you in the next video part 2, I will share 5 more experiences to overcome the 3-year-old crisis. See you again next Thursday. Thank you everyone for taking the time to watch my video. Don't forget to like and subscribe to the channel. Click the bell next to it to receive notifications when I have a new video. And please connect with me on Facebook and Instagram. Goodbye everyone, bye bye.