Về Già Ai Sẽ Nuôi Bạn, Câu Chuyện Đau Lòɴɢ Nhưɴɢ ɾất Thực Tế
”Nhà của cha mẹ là nhà của con, nhưng nhà của con không bao giờ là nhà của cha mẹ”, câu nói chua chát пày đôi khi rất đúng trong xã hội ngày nay.
Con lớn lên, học hành thành tài, rời xa vòng tay của mẹ để tới một chân trời mới. Con sẽ lập gia đình, sinh con đẻ cái, rồi lại tiếp tục vòng tuần hoàn ấy, lặp đi lặp lại, trăm năm sau hay ngàn năm sau vẫn vậy.
Thế nhưng, con đi xa như thế, ngoài kia bao thú vui đôi khi lại khiếп con quên mấɫ mẹ già ở góc quê xa xôi nào đó. Thậm chí, người mẹ năm nào giờ đã già nua, trở пên lạc hậu, thành gánh nặng trong mắt con. Chỉ nghĩ thôi, đã thấy chua xót biết chừng nào.
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When it comes to age, who will take care of you?
It's a painful story, but it's very realistic
Your parents' house is your child's house, but your child's house is never your parents' house
This sad saying is sometimes very true in today's society
In this world, perhaps nothing in love can be compared to mother's love
9 months and 7 days of mother's love is heavy and painful
She has been taking care of us since we were young
She spent all her youth, health, and life to raise and educate you
When you grow up, you will learn to be a talent and leave your mother's hand to go to a new heaven
You will start a family, beg your child to give birth, and then continue that cycle over and over again
100 years later, 2000 years later, it's still the same
But you go so far, outside there is a lot of fun
Sometimes it makes you forget your mother at some distant corner
Even the mother who has now become old, lost her voice, becomes a burden in her child's eyes
Just think about it, it's become sour, you know
When it comes to age, who will take care of you?
To answer this question, I would like to invite you to listen to the following story
There was a single mother who raised her child, her husband left early
She lived by teaching, with a fairly modest income, raising her son to be a talent
When she was young, her son was very obedient
She struggled to raise her son to adulthood, and her son went to study abroad
After her son graduated from college, he stayed in the US to work, earned a lot of money
Then buy a house and get married, have children, build a happy, warm family
This single mother plans to come to the US with her son and daughter-in-law after her retirement
Enjoy a happy family
Only 3 months before she was about to retire, she quickly wrote a letter to her son
Telling her son about this wish
In her heart, she was very happy when she thought of the way to raise her old son
Coming to a good ending, with the eyes of the people, friends around
So, on the one hand, she waited for her son's response
On the other hand, she arranged the house and filed a resignation letter
The night before her retirement, she received a response letter from her son
Sent from the US, opened the letter to see
In the letter, there was a piece of money worth $30,000
She felt very strange, because from then on, her son never sent money back
She hurriedly opened the letter, the letter said
Mom, after my wife and son discussed together
Decided it would be impossible to bring my mother to the US to live together
Just assume that my mother has worked hard to raise my son
All that cost, according to the current market price, is about $20,000
But I will send a little more, which is this $30,000 bill
Hope, from now on, mom don't write letters to me anymore
Don't tell me about things like this anymore
After the mother read this letter, tears fell
She was silent for a while, it was really hard to accept this truth
But with the heart of a mother, she did not blame her son
She only felt guilty for a miserable life
When young, alone to raise children, now need a shelter is still bare
Her heart aches like sand
After that, she found the Buddha's door and began to study Buddhism
After studying for a while, she felt a light attitude
Thoughts are not everything
She used that $30,000 to travel around the world
For the first time in her life, she opened her eyes
See this beautiful world
As instructed by all the monks
The Buddha wrote a letter to her son
Son, I want you not to write letters to me anymore
Then, just see this letter as an addition to the letter you sent me before
I have accepted the book and used it to make a trip around the world
On this trip, I suddenly felt that I should thank you
Thank you for helping me understand everything
Can let go of the heart
Let the mother realize that the kindness, friendship and love of people in this world
Are not permanent
Just like a cloud, everything is changing every day
If today, the mother does not communicate
Still holding a lot of anger, anger, pain
Then maybe a few more years, the mother may not be able to live
The love of the child makes the mother confused by the word fate
Everything is abnormal
The mother also learned how to keep her mind calm and self-reliant
The mother no longer had a child
The mind was carefree, so she could go anywhere
But the mind was not carefree
It is pitiful for the mind of parents in this world
Because they always want the best for their children
But the result is not always the best
There is a saying
The home of the parents is the home of the children
The home of the children is never the home of the parents
Giving birth is a mission, raising children is a duty
But relying on children is a mistake
Although not all children are as carefree as the boys in this story
But parents should definitely not think that they will rely on their children
Tran Thanh Ma said
You should rely on yourself
If the children are filial to you
And if they are not filial, you can't ask for it
The best way is to plan to raise your children early
From now on, it will never be too late
There is a saying that
There are three things to avoid when raising children
And one thing I want
Avoid being hit by a car
Avoid being injected with oxygen
Avoid surgery to remove the gas tube
And want a coffin
There are things that we have to prepare right when we are young
If not, we will not be in time when we are old
So what are they?
The first is health
To live well without relying on drugs
You need to pay attention to three simple things
Eat enough, pay attention to your health
And have nutrition
The second is to prepare a place when you are old
If you feel that living with your children is too different
About the way of thinking, living, lifestyle
Make yourself uncomfortable
Then it's best to move out to live in peace
It doesn't matter if it's a city or a rural area
Just live where you feel comfortable
Fun to raise
The third is to make money to raise
Never spend all the last money for your children
Because your children are mature, tall, well-built
They can make money to take care of their lives
Or keep a little money to live old
This will also make your children feel less burdened, more worried
When you have to take care of your small family
You have raised your children well
Raising a wife and a husband for them
Also considered the responsibility of a father to be a mother to his children
So the amount of money raised should definitely be enough for you
When not in the coffin, you don't have to share it with anyone
The fourth is to find old friends
Don't hesitate to find a friend when you get old
Open your heart and heart to make more good luck
Lonely people still know how to enjoy life like that
If you had a marriage but didn't get married
Learn how to accept it
Fate is also a debt from the previous life
And people should only pray to God
When the soul is empty, we feel lonely
But if you can fill that heart with love for life
With gratitude and the most important thing is to find yourself
A little support for the soul
You will be happy until the last moment of your life
Remember that money is just an external object
People in heaven, money in the bank
So enjoy every moment you are still in this world
People still say that life is twice as young
When you are young, you don't have to worry about the future
So when you get old and become a child again
Just live like that, you will see a much lighter life
Life is short
Work and rest, sleep and wake up
How many steps, how many times in front of the eyes
The head is silver
How to live when you get old
I feel this life is worth living
Light and subtle
Thank you for listening to the last moments of the video
I don't know what you think about today's story
Please leave your thoughts in the comment section below
Let everyone know
And now, I'm Duc Thanh Ai
Goodbye