How to Get Pretty Young Girls | Learn Chinese Now

Hello everyone, we meet again, I am Hao Yibo. If you were at home surfing the Internet at the weekend, you may have seen this book: "How to conquer pretty young girls."


This book was published 24-years ago in Mainland China, teaching guys how to pursue the girl they like. I'm very curious, are the methods of pursuing girls from 24-years ago still effective? Since this book became popular (online) so quickly, I read the whole thing through carefully.


The first chapter is entitled: "Summoning up courage and defeating fear." It seems very reasonable. Since when I see a girl I like, I'm also very shy,, I'm going to try out some of the methods in the book for getting close to girls.


Ben: It is too cold to wait for the bus here, I'll give you a ride home.


Girl: No need. I have someone coming to pick me up.


Ben: Sorry, would you mind checking if my tie is on correctly?


GIrl: You don't have a tie!

Ben: What's a "ling dai?" (tie).


Ben: Are you a clothing model, are you a clothing model.


Ben: Are you...


Girl: Sorry, hello, baby.


These really are several sentences that I learned from that book, perhaps I'm just unlucky. But this publishing house is really interesting, they also published a book called: "How to conquer handsome young guys." In the book it says: "When you discover a guy that you like, you can smile at him, he might not notice the subtlety of what is going on, but he will very quickly react, taking the initiative to talk to you. This way, you will have succeeded!"

Is it really like this? If a pretty girl smiles at me, it means that they are interested in me?


Ben: Hello.


Girl: Oh...hello


Ben: Are you also catching the No. 23 bus?


Girl: Um, yes.


Ben: I am too!


Ben: Are you a clothing model?


Girl: No!


Ben: It is too cold to wait for the bus here, let me give you a ride home.


I still didn't succeed, I think I will stick to my methods pursuing women that I learned in the west.

But actually, I think, things between men and women aren't quite like how it is written in the book, someone conquering someone else. I don't know how big the difference is between these words in English and Chinese, but the two characters "Zheng Fu" give the impression of an attack. I feel that no matter whether it is a man or a woman, they should mutually respect each other.


What is crucial is that guys are sincere to girls. Don't think that because I'm a Laowai I am really unrestrained. I don't go in for that fast love. I really like this phrase that I studied before: "I hold your hand, and we grow old together." From youth to old age, holding hands together. You could say I am a bit old fashioned, but I feel this is a kind of firm promise between two people.


So, my friends, although we can try all kinds of methods to pursue women, sometimes all of that doesn't equal just being a sincere, nice guy. Like Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice. That's all for today. Guys, I wish you good luck!
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